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Purple Sp's With Zero Feedback

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I've only recently looked at the above site in detail. Initially, I was pleasantly surprised at the variety of SP's in the provincial towns around me; but on closer inspection realised that the range with positive, (trustworthy) feedback was much more restricted.

I can see various reasons for giving these "unproven" SP's a chance, eg:

Possibility they take (all?) their bookings by telephone or other contact;

Their "catch 22" situation, ie. no feedback - bookings - still no feedback;

Positive experience without feedback, ie. classifieds, "carding";

Positive experience with girls new to industry, as well as experienced.

However, tbh I wouldn't risk it if Iived in a major city with wider variety of "proven" SP's.

Should I take the chance, what are the odds of running into something really dark, by which I don't mean restricted services, short time, or even different girl; I mean a situation where the person actually advertising is a danger to myself or whatever girl they actually employ.

Are there any clues, positive or negative? I've seen the odd add that is obviously fake; but many, many more which appear perfectly genuine to the untrained eye. Does it matter if they are not a 'Verified Member'? Is a mobile number a good sign? Gut feeling would be better if I'd spoken to a female; but I'm guessing that is not a definitive answer either way.

Grateful for advice on the above.

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Four thoughts in no order:

-The danger other than the danger of a bad punt is very low. Of course real life has some risk. Driving while talking on the phone is probably more dangerous. The danger of ending up with a bad punt or a wasted afternoon is more real.

-The point of PN, though, is to get advice. So every punt will be great. Good to go for those with reviews here or ask for suggestions in your area. Don't "take one for the team" if you dont't feel like it. It is OK to be selfish. But do take one for the team if you want to - and post result.

-Be careful even with those with purple feedback. It is not as reliable as here. Did her hair colour and name change from comment 1 to comment 5? are all 5 new posters?

-If anything at all makes you feel nervous then feel free to drop it. This is 2012 not 1985 - we dont need to relay on cards in phone boxes - we cant punt with lower risk if we choose.

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Us girls new to the business or new to the purple site do have it quite hard, and IME it can be really tricky to get those first few feedbacks :(

I've had guys who don't book through the booking system

I've had guys who don't want to leave feedback even though they've had a great time as it's leaves a trail.

But I finally have (1) feedback :D And I think it's instilled some confidence in punters. It is a catch 22 situation, no feedback = no bookings no bookings = no feedback.

I don't display my number every day, and do prefer to talk via email and take solid bookings through the site, but things don't always work like that, or they book you via email rather than fill out a booking request.

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Should I take the chance, what are the odds of running into something really dark, by which I don't mean restricted services, short time, or even different girl; I mean a situation where the person actually advertising is a danger to myself or whatever girl they actually employ.

Very low, if you're talking about theft/violence.

If you're talking about diseases, that's always a problem. I don't think reviews will help much there. Thinking through particular scenarios ahead of time is a good idea: what will you do if you pick up signs of drug use? I find if I don't think it through up front I'm likely to stay even when it's a bad idea.

Feedback is there to know if she's good at her job and if she's the girl in the photos. But good feedback can be fake, and no feedback usually is no problem in my experience. edited to add: when I say usually no problem, I'll emphasize again: the problems here are all about disappointing punts and wasted time, not anything worse: in ten years of frequent punting I've never encountered any theft or violence.

Are there any clues, positive or negative? I've seen the odd add that is obviously fake; but many, many more which appear perfectly genuine to the untrained eye. Does it matter if they are not a 'Verified Member'? Is a mobile number a good sign? Gut feeling would be better if I'd spoken to a female; but I'm guessing that is not a definitive answer either way.

Again, this is all about whether she's any good and whether she's the girls in the photo. Not about whether you're going to get robbed: you're not.

Mobile number: very good sign because you have to pay for every day it's there, so the profiles that are just there to get money for views of private galleries - of which there are many - rarely have a phone number. Verified Member is a good sign, but I'd certainly not rule out a girl just because it's not there. Same for feedback.

Use tineye / google reverse image search.

There are lots of other signs you'll pick up with experience :)

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See if there is a link on her profile to a private (non-WorkAdult) website or to an active Twitter account. Even if the lady has no feedback, it means she may be active and genuine.

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Us girls new to the business or new to the purple site do have it quite hard, and IME it can be really tricky to get those first few feedbacks :(

I've had guys who don't book through the booking system

I've had guys who don't want to leave feedback even though they've had a great time as it's leaves a trail.

But I finally have (1) feedback :D And I think it's instilled some confidence in punters. It is a catch 22 situation, no feedback = no bookings no bookings = no feedback.

I don't display my number every day, and do prefer to talk via email and take solid bookings through the site, but things don't always work like that, or they book you via email rather than fill out a booking request.

Your like me, im new to this, been doing it for about a month and had a bunch of bookings but they dont make them through the site or do but dont want to be the first to leave feedback, it all makes me giggle really. But banging vinyl just because i girl has no feedback, doesn't mean shes fake or is really bad just means guys haven't booked through the booking system and haven't left feed back. If you think she is still 'fishy' when you get there, then leave, no one is forcing you to go through with it :)

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I've only recently looked at the above site in detail. Initially, I was pleasantly surprised at the variety of SP's in the provincial towns around me; but on closer inspection realised that the range with positive, (trustworthy) feedback was much more restricted.

I can see various reasons for giving these "unproven" SP's a chance, eg:

Possibility they take (all?) their bookings by telephone or other contact;

Their "catch 22" situation, ie. no feedback - bookings - still no feedback;

Positive experience without feedback, ie. classifieds, "carding";

Positive experience with girls new to industry, as well as experienced.

However, tbh I wouldn't risk it if Iived in a major city with wider variety of "proven" SP's.

Should I take the chance, what are the odds of running into something really dark, by which I don't mean restricted services, short time, or even different girl; I mean a situation where the person actually advertising is a danger to myself or whatever girl they actually employ.

Are there any clues, positive or negative? I've seen the odd add that is obviously fake; but many, many more which appear perfectly genuine to the untrained eye. Does it matter if they are not a 'Verified Member'? Is a mobile number a good sign? Gut feeling would be better if I'd spoken to a female; but I'm guessing that is not a definitive answer either way.

Grateful for advice on the above.

Some good advice given already in my view. My advice from using that site for years is never trust the feedback unless you know, respect and/or trust the punter. I view it as bullshit, its too easy to fake and has more holes in it than a string vest. Read Galahads opinion in the Hall of Shame board below. I use the site as its the best location tool there is, but i dont believe a word that is written on a profile, the WG has to impress me enough for me to book her unless i get a personal rec. FRs on here which cant refer to that site directly and forum posts on here by punters with credibility are worth their weight in gold but arent guarantees, always bear that in mind.

I only punt with WGs with displayed phone numbers, no number no business from me, i require an immediate or virtually immediate response as i am a mainly sameday punter who doesnt know till i wake up whether i feel like a punt. I also want to actually talk to the WG to gauge her attitude, ANY sign of coldness and thats it, i go elsewhere. Some WGs ONLY work off the phone so thats why some have no or little feedback in my experiences, some of my best punts were with no or little FB WGs, it doesnt necessarily mean they are bad, they could be gems.

Use this forum to gain information on WGs you fancy, thats a thing the forum can offer. As to personal attacks, you would be unlucky if it happened to you going on my own 29 years of punting, speaking to other punters in person and reading this forum for years, but sadly it does happen at least ocassionally so the best i can do is keep my wits about me.

A couple of tips for you, NEVER equate the price a WG charges with how good she will be, money doesnt define that, her attitude does, a WG with a good attitude will be good at whatever price she charges and a bad WG bad at whatever price she charges. And never think with your dick, thats what bad WGs rely on punters doing. I hope that helps.

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I don't worry too much about feedback on there... as Smiths says, too easily manipulated.

I'll typically look for a profile that's written with some character, and I'll read blog posts as well. Then I'll call the girl to check that she sounds like the sort of person who might have written that profile.

My batting average with this approach has been pretty good - 50% of the girls have been good or excellent, with the rest being ok, and 2 poor. Interestingly one of the 'poor' ones was actually highly recommended on Pnet, but she just wasn't my style of WG at all.

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Us girls new to the business or new to the purple site do have it quite hard, and IME it can be really tricky to get those first few feedbacks :(

I've had guys who don't book through the booking system

I've had guys who don't want to leave feedback even though they've had a great time as it's leaves a trail.

But I finally have (1) feedback :D And I think it's instilled some confidence in punters. It is a catch 22 situation, no feedback = no bookings no bookings = no feedback.

I don't display my number every day, and do prefer to talk via email and take solid bookings through the site, but things don't always work like that, or they book you via email rather than fill out a booking request.

Do you reply promptly to e-mails and politely? Girls with little feedback who come across abrupt and too business like i tend to just ignore, but sometimes a girl with no feedback can seem so charming through her e-mails i want to see her alot more than a girl with lots of feedback.

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Some good advice given already in my view. My advice from using that site for years is never trust the feedback unless you know, respect and/or trust the punter. I view it as bullshit, its too easy to fake and has more holes in it than a string vest. Read Galahads opinion in the Hall of Shame board below. I use the site as its the best location tool there is, but i dont believe a word that is written on a profile, the WG has to impress me enough for me to book her unless i get a personal rec. FRs on here which cant refer to that site directly and forum posts on here by punters with credibility are worth their weight in gold but arent guarantees, always bear that in mind.

I only punt with WGs with displayed phone numbers, no number no business from me, i require an immediate or virtually immediate response as i am a mainly sameday punter who doesnt know till i wake up whether i feel like a punt. I also want to actually talk to the WG to gauge her attitude, ANY sign of coldness and thats it, i go elsewhere. Some WGs ONLY work off the phone so thats why some have no or little feedback in my experiences, some of my best punts were with no or little FB WGs, it doesnt necessarily mean they are bad, they could be gems.

Use this forum to gain information on WGs you fancy, thats a thing the forum can offer. As to personal attacks, you would be unlucky if it happened to you going on my own 29 years of punting, speaking to other punters in person and reading this forum for years, but sadly it does happen at least ocassionally so the best i can do is keep my wits about me.

A couple of tips for you, NEVER equate the price a WG charges with how good she will be, money doesnt define that, her attitude does, a WG with a good attitude will be good at whatever price she charges and a bad WG bad at whatever price she charges. And never think with your dick, thats what bad WGs rely on punters doing. I hope that helps.

+1 to alll that

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i have used the purple site plenty of times. i tend to use my gut feeling based on whether or not the pics are authentic or photoshopped to tell me if the girls is real, then if the pics are verified by the site and lastly, if she responds to emails and lastly how they sound on the phone. i have met plenty of great girls from the site but have also had my share of bad experiences when i had to walk out the door as soon as i arrived.

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I've been on the purple site for over a year and am not verified and don't have a great deal of feedback either. I certainly don't want to be giving my personal details (such as passport etc.) to a company that is highly dubious and has a poor reputation for helping users out if there is a problem. Some say that the site is a necessary evil. It's just another advertising site, there are many other sites out there, so if a girl doesn't have a lot of feedback it may not be because she's new, dodgy, doesn't get much work etc. It might be because she gets a majority of her work from elsewhere. If someone wants to leave me feedback then that is their choice, but I don't push for it.

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Many thanks for all the advice. I have more faith in that site reading this.

Good luck to the new girls starting out. I'm sure you will do very well as, at least, you are approachable and helpful to punters.

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I'd say I'd look for the quality of feedback as much as the quantity.

Generally I do look for feedback, however, I have noticed quite a few escorts very well reported on here but with limited feedback on the other site. I think Dexi gave a good few reasons and I guess to some it just isn't a priority.

I don't think I'd see an escort with zero feedback but I have realised feedback there isn't as important as I first thought and it is worth looking at a range of sites (mainly this one) before making a judgement.

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Do you reply promptly to e-mails and politely? Girls with little feedback who come across abrupt and too business like i tend to just ignore, but sometimes a girl with no feedback can seem so charming through her e-mails i want to see her alot more than a girl with lots of feedback.

Yes. I hope I appear professional, yet still warm. It's a balance isn't it?

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Yes. I hope I appear professional, yet still warm. It's a balance isn't it?

I require both every time.

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Have you tried mentioning a discount on the first or subsequent visit in return for an honest I repeat honest feedback ?

Us girls new to the business or new to the purple site do have it quite hard, and IME it can be really tricky to get those first few feedbacks :(

I've had guys who don't book through the booking system

I've had guys who don't want to leave feedback even though they've had a great time as it's leaves a trail.

But I finally have (1) feedback :D And I think it's instilled some confidence in punters. It is a catch 22 situation, no feedback = no bookings no bookings = no feedback.

I don't display my number every day, and do prefer to talk via email and take solid bookings through the site, but things don't always work like that, or they book you via email rather than fill out a booking request.

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I require both every time.

As do I, but "requiring it" doesn't always mean I get it :).

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As do I, but "requiring it" doesn't always mean I get it :).

Sadly neither have i, in which case i am off nowadays. Most WGs do offer both though i have found in recent years. ;)

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I look for a combination of looks, services & character as I prefer longer bookings these days so I'm pretty picky when looking at profiles on the other site. Zero feedback wouldn't stop me from seeing someone but I'd have to be 110% sure about them.

As people have mentioned the feedback can't be relied upon but it can be extremely helpful. I always check the feedback, see what the gents have said, then check the feedback of the people that have seen her to see if they have visited other escorts I know to be genuine.

How the profile is written I find very important. If it reads like a porno film script that turns me off. I always think they have written what they believe we want to hear. I know what's going to happen when we meet and the services list ( if it's genuine ) lets you know what she enjoys doing so I don't need to read about it in graphic detail.

I look for her character coming across to me through the written word. How your mails are answered is a good gauge if that's your first point of contact. Answering any queries you have and appearing friendly. It's hard to explain but to me genuine profiles with or without feedback do stand out.

Verification doesn't mean anything to me. Profiles I know to be fake have been verified.

Never rely on just that site. Check field reports here, search forums etc... even start a thread if you can't find anything. Someone may have seen her or at the very least it's always good to have other peoples perspective who aren't thinking with their smaller brain :P

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I had a punt today with a young bulgarian lady who only had 4 positive feedbacks over there, but they were so glowing, I was expecting a cross between Marilyn Munroe and Linda Lovelace. Instead, I got mediocrity personified. Nice personality, but didn't put much effort in at all. I didn't book using their mechanism, so won't leave feedback.

It just goes to show that a lot of what you read is hype and imagination.

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Some good advice given already in my view. My advice from using that site for years is never trust the feedback unless you know, respect and/or trust the punter. I view it as bullshit, its too easy to fake and has more holes in it than a string vest. Read Galahads opinion in the Hall of Shame board below. I use the site as its the best location tool there is, but i dont believe a word that is written on a profile, the WG has to impress me enough for me to book her unless i get a personal rec. FRs on here which cant refer to that site directly and forum posts on here by punters with credibility are worth their weight in gold but arent guarantees, always bear that in mind.

I only punt with WGs with displayed phone numbers, no number no business from me, i require an immediate or virtually immediate response as i am a mainly sameday punter who doesnt know till i wake up whether i feel like a punt. I also want to actually talk to the WG to gauge her attitude, ANY sign of coldness and thats it, i go elsewhere. Some WGs ONLY work off the phone so thats why some have no or little feedback in my experiences, some of my best punts were with no or little FB WGs, it doesnt necessarily mean they are bad, they could be gems.

Use this forum to gain information on WGs you fancy, thats a thing the forum can offer. As to personal attacks, you would be unlucky if it happened to you going on my own 29 years of punting, speaking to other punters in person and reading this forum for years, but sadly it does happen at least ocassionally so the best i can do is keep my wits about me.

A couple of tips for you, NEVER equate the price a WG charges with how good she will be, money doesnt define that, her attitude does, a WG with a good attitude will be good at whatever price she charges and a bad WG bad at whatever price she charges. And never think with your dick, thats what bad WGs rely on punters doing. I hope that helps.

I agree with all that.

Feedback is supposed highlight a legit wg. but on that site its been proven that even blatent scammers have positive feedback......so its fallable.

I wouldnt class a girl with 0 feedback as a negative. but yes I am more cautious than normal.

If she ticks the right boxes, doesnt flag any "scammer signs" (no tineye hits, a gallery that doesnt consist of various pics of her just bent over, profile similar to other scammer, sudden clumps of WGs all appearing in the same 0.1 mile of each other with similar profile text, BBackers, etc...) and I want to see her then I'll send a mail about availabilty of something. nothing lost, nothing gained...

If Im satisfied with the reply then I concider booking... otherwise I'll cross her off as a scam......

Ive seen a girl with 0 feedback, she was fantastic and ended up as a regular for a while before she headed to london (and now charging 200+ an hour)

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I have seen girls new to the site and been the first to leave feedback.

If a girl has been on the site a long time with no feedback I avoid.

If a girl 'hides' their feedback I would definately avoid.

If a girl has some feedback, you can see who left it. Then click the client's feedback number and, if it's with several girls in the same area, do it up I say.

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Some good advice given already in my view. My advice from using that site for years is never trust the feedback unless you know, respect and/or trust the punter. I view it as bullshit, its too easy to fake and has more holes in it than a string vest. Read Galahads opinion in the Hall of Shame board below. I use the site as its the best location tool there is, but i dont believe a word that is written on a profile, the WG has to impress me enough for me to book her unless i get a personal rec. FRs on here which cant refer to that site directly and forum posts on here by punters with credibility are worth their weight in gold but arent guarantees, always bear that in mind.

I only punt with WGs with displayed phone numbers, no number no business from me, i require an immediate or virtually immediate response as i am a mainly sameday punter who doesnt know till i wake up whether i feel like a punt. I also want to actually talk to the WG to gauge her attitude, ANY sign of coldness and thats it, i go elsewhere. Some WGs ONLY work off the phone so thats why some have no or little feedback in my experiences, some of my best punts were with no or little FB WGs, it doesnt necessarily mean they are bad, they could be gems.

Use this forum to gain information on WGs you fancy, thats a thing the forum can offer. As to personal attacks, you would be unlucky if it happened to you going on my own 29 years of punting, speaking to other punters in person and reading this forum for years, but sadly it does happen at least ocassionally so the best i can do is keep my wits about me.

A couple of tips for you, NEVER equate the price a WG charges with how good she will be, money doesnt define that, her attitude does, a WG with a good attitude will be good at whatever price she charges and a bad WG bad at whatever price she charges. And never think with your dick, thats what bad WGs rely on punters doing. I hope that helps.

Never think with your dick?..that's what makes us men Smith! :D

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Never think with your dick?..that's what makes us men Smith! :D

Its not a wise thing to do though, think with your brain not your cock and you have a better chance of things working out well in my experiences. ;):D

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