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Failed First Overnight

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Rather stupidly I went through with the arranged overnighter & I now wish that I had cancelled, we arranged to meet at hers at 3pm, when I arrived I was greeted by her and her 3 year old granddaughter & she went onto explain that she had been dumped on her for the night by her daughter, but she said we could still do what we had planned because she was going to get a friend to look after her but her friend couldn't get to hers until after 5, so the WG sent me off to the hotel on my own with her overnight bag & she said she would phone me when she was ready to pick her up.

To cut a long story short, I didn't pick her up till about 10.30 & we didn't get back to the hotel till nearly 11, we watched TV for a bit and chatted & she then disappeared into the bathroom for about an hour! When she finally emerged she was wearing some plain stockings, lace knickers & bra that I think she'd had since the 80s.

We then seemed to spend what seemed like all night just kissing, cuddling & exploring each others bodies before her hand finally wandered south & then she did a bit of owo before getting into 69(she did this because she asked before we met if there was anything that i'd never done before). While she was taking care of me I got to work on her, then the condom went on & we did it in various positions before we collapsed into each others arms, I waited all day for it but it was worth it, 110% :D

Then while we was watching TV at about 3.30am she had a phone call from her "friend" saying that her granddaughter wasn't very well, she then asked me if I minded taking her back home to look after granddaughter, to which I said I wasn't very happy about it but I understood & so I ended up all alone in the hotel room, I saw her the next day when I went to drop her stuff off & she said she felt really bad for leaving me & that she would make it up to me the next time I went to see her, I haven't seen her since for business & i'm not doing any more overnighters with a WG & i'm going to find another regular as well.

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Under normal circs I'd say she saw you coming but am I correct in thinking you had 4+ hours of action for £150?

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hindsight is a wonderful thing, I would ave dropped that one at the first hurdle. I had a similar experience in my first overnighter, when the wg got a phone call to sort out an emergency. since I had already undercut her agency price I wasn't bothered.

since then I have often wondered about overnights and are they all they are cracked up to be. I mean your asleep for the best part if it! if this girl was a regular, get yourself a new one. punting is a business like anything else, if you get poor service then go elsewhere.

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Under normal circs I'd say she saw you coming but am I correct in thinking you had 4+ hours of action for £150?

if that was the case then fair enough, if he'd splashed out between 800 -1000, then I'd be spitting feathers!

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Rather stupidly I went through with the arranged overnighter & I now wish that I had cancelled..................... we did it in various positions before we collapsed into each others arms, I waited all day for it but it was worth it, 110%

Are these 2 statements not contradictory ?

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Rather stupidly I went through with the arranged overnighter & I now wish that I had cancelled, we arranged to meet at hers at 3pm, when I arrived I was greeted by her and her 3 year old granddaughter & she went onto explain that she had been dumped on her for the night by her daughter, but she said we could still do what we had planned because she was going to get a friend to look after her but her friend couldn't get to hers until after 5, so the WG sent me off to the hotel on my own with her overnight bag & she said she would phone me when she was ready to pick her up.

To cut a long story short, I didn't pick her up till about 10.30 & we didn't get back to the hotel till nearly 11, we watched TV for a bit and chatted & she then disappeared into the bathroom for about an hour! When she finally emerged she was wearing some plain stockings, lace knickers & bra that I think she'd had since the 80s.

We then seemed to spend what seemed like all night just kissing, cuddling & exploring each others bodies before her hand finally wandered south & then she did a bit of owo before getting into 69(she did this because she asked before we met if there was anything that i'd never done before). While she was taking care of me I got to work on her, then the condom went on & we did it in various positions before we collapsed into each others arms, I waited all day for it but it was worth it, 110% :D

Then while we was watching TV at about 3.30am she had a phone call from her "friend" saying that her granddaughter wasn't very well, she then asked me if I minded taking her back home to look after granddaughter, to which I said I wasn't very happy about it but I understood & so I ended up all alone in the hotel room, I saw her the next day when I went to drop her stuff off & she said she felt really bad for leaving me & that she would make it up to me the next time I went to see her, I haven't seen her since for business & i'm not doing any more overnighters with a WG & i'm going to find another regular as well.

If it was for the £150 you previously posted, that was 5 hours then for the £150 in the end, still a good price. IMO its up to you to move the sex on if thats what you require, i certainly would have.

Anyway, you tried an overnighter and have decided not to do one again so move on, good luck.

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Under normal circs I'd say she saw you coming but am I correct in thinking you had 4+ hours of action for £150?

This is what I'm thinking, how much do you pay her fro a hour?

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i would be considering yourself lucky, not complaining. you got 4-5 hours of her time + a very steamy sex session that you admit yourself was worth the wait. all for £150. that is bloody awesome.

i'm guessing since you were going to pick her up at 3pm, you had intended on spending over 10 hours with her. you do realize that works out at a rate of £15 per hour right? my thinking is she probably cut the night short when she realized £30 per hour was as low as she was willing to go.

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This is what I'm thinking, how much do you pay her fro a hour?

Hummm I was thinking the same, and the answer is .......................??

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I forgot to mention that I paid her £300 instead of the original £150 that she asked for.

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I dont think the price is the issue here, its what was said in the first place to what actually happened.

Considering the escort asked him for the overnight booking in the first place, I would have thought they had discussed times etc, and both be honest enough to say what they wanted.

Yes Barnsley lad seemed happy with the intimacy, but it was not really an overnighter, as it didnt start till 11pm, and ended at 3.30 am.

Overnighters are a differant sort of booking, as it does tend to allow slow intimacy, leading up to a great thrill, and you can explore a lot of ideas in that time, and then in the morning you get the chance to reply a few of the scenario's, or just lie in each others arms and laugh about the thrill you shared.

Its nothing like the one that was described by Barnsley lad, sadly it might have put him off for life the thrill of an overnighter, and sadly spoilt it for a regular booking with his lady friend, hopefully you will talk it over with the lady and see if it can be rescued.

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I forgot to mention that I paid her £300 instead of the original £150 that she asked for.

£300 For 4 and a half hours is still pretty good, plus she's said she'll make it up next time which by the way you've talked about her she will do, however you're still throwing your toys out. In my experience I've had few meets when things haven't worked out and it was down to the lady, they've then said they'd make it up next time, they always have. I know I'm from Lancashire toi me but you're portraying a fairly good stereotype of a Yorkshireman, ie a tight, moaning buggar.

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£300 for an overnight is taking advantage of the lady, I think.

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i would be considering yourself lucky, not complaining. you got 4-5 hours of her time + a very steamy sex session that you admit yourself was worth the wait. all for £150. that is bloody awesome.

i'm guessing since you were going to pick her up at 3pm, you had intended on spending over 10 hours with her. you do realize that works out at a rate of £15 per hour right? my thinking is she probably cut the night short when she realized £30 per hour was as low as she was willing to go.

SHE offered him that rate, at least initially according to his thread about it though, so that was her business, shouldnt agree to something that you dont actually want to do in my view, if thats what is the case here, which i have no idea if it is or not obviously.

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I forgot to mention that I paid her £300 instead of the original £150 that she asked for.

Why?

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£300 for an overnight is taking advantage of the lady, I think.

I disagree with you Rose which is very rare. As an adult this WG offered him this rate, he in fact says he paid her £300 instead of £150 in the end but its her responsibility to offer a rate she is happy with. If he accepts it i dont see that as taking advantage as she has done so freely. :)

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I think that £300 for an overnight is not as uncommon as you might think, some ladies will do it for less if you ask parlour girls, they are quite keen on the idea of £300 cash free, as well as a meal and few bottles of wine.

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... I understood & so I ended up all alone in the hotel room, I saw her the next day when I went to drop her stuff off & she said she felt really bad for leaving me & that she would make it up to me the next time I went to see her, I haven't seen her since for business & i'm not doing any more overnighters with a WG & i'm going to find another regular as well.

I think I understand from this why you feel a bit let down but it does sound as though she did her best in tricky circumstances. The clue is in the name of what we do: punting. It's about taking a chance occasionally and, if it doesn't work out, we move on and put it down to experience.

I agree with Spklors that an overnight allows for a different kind of experience, at least I really hope it does, because I've just booked my first with one of my favourite ladies. I'm pretty sure it will go fine because we hit off so well when we are together. I'm still new enough at this game to be ridiculously excited at the prospect and it's still several weeks away....

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Rather stupidly I went through with the arranged overnighter & I now wish that I had cancelled, we arranged to meet at hers at 3pm, when I arrived I was greeted by her and her 3 year old granddaughter & she went onto explain that she had been dumped on her for the night by her daughter, but she said we could still do what we had planned because she was going to get a friend to look after her but her friend couldn't get to hers until after 5, so the WG sent me off to the hotel on my own with her overnight bag & she said she would phone me when she was ready to pick her up.

To cut a long story short, I didn't pick her up till about 10.30 & we didn't get back to the hotel till nearly 11, we watched TV for a bit and chatted & she then disappeared into the bathroom for about an hour! When she finally emerged she was wearing some plain stockings, lace knickers & bra that I think she'd had since the 80s.

We then seemed to spend what seemed like all night just kissing, cuddling & exploring each others bodies before her hand finally wandered south & then she did a bit of owo before getting into 69(she did this because she asked before we met if there was anything that i'd never done before). While she was taking care of me I got to work on her, then the condom went on & we did it in various positions before we collapsed into each others arms, I waited all day for it but it was worth it, 110% :D

Then while we was watching TV at about 3.30am she had a phone call from her "friend" saying that her granddaughter wasn't very well, she then asked me if I minded taking her back home to look after granddaughter, to which I said I wasn't very happy about it but I understood & so I ended up all alone in the hotel room, I saw her the next day when I went to drop her stuff off & she said she felt really bad for leaving me & that she would make it up to me the next time I went to see her, I haven't seen her since for business & i'm not doing any more overnighters with a WG & i'm going to find another regular as well.

I think from all your posts about this overnight meeting with this lady that it was doomed .....

I am not sure why the lady in question even allowed you to arrive when she had her Grandchild with her to be honest, most would ring or text you to say there was a problem surely?

What also is strange is that she gave you her overnight bag to take away with you, and then you had to drop it off at her house the next day as well.

Not many if any WGs would ask you to do this.

You say .....". While she was taking care of me I got to work on her, then the condom went on & we did it in various positions before we collapsed into each others arms, I waited all day for it but it was worth it, 110% :D "

Maybe best to focus in on that really,

Lucy :)

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Rather stupidly I went through with the arranged overnighter & I now wish that I had cancelled, we arranged to meet at hers at 3pm, when I arrived I was greeted by her and her 3 year old granddaughter & she went onto explain that she had been dumped on her for the night by her daughter, but she said we could still do what we had planned because she was going to get a friend to look after her but her friend couldn't get to hers until after 5, so the WG sent me off to the hotel on my own with her overnight bag & she said she would phone me when she was ready to pick her up.

To cut a long story short, I didn't pick her up till about 10.30 & we didn't get back to the hotel till nearly 11, we watched TV for a bit and chatted & she then disappeared into the bathroom for about an hour! When she finally emerged she was wearing some plain stockings, lace knickers & bra that I think she'd had since the 80s.

We then seemed to spend what seemed like all night just kissing, cuddling & exploring each others bodies before her hand finally wandered south & then she did a bit of owo before getting into 69(she did this because she asked before we met if there was anything that i'd never done before). While she was taking care of me I got to work on her, then the condom went on & we did it in various positions before we collapsed into each others arms, I waited all day for it but it was worth it, 110% :D

Then while we was watching TV at about 3.30am she had a phone call from her "friend" saying that her granddaughter wasn't very well, she then asked me if I minded taking her back home to look after granddaughter, to which I said I wasn't very happy about it but I understood & so I ended up all alone in the hotel room, I saw her the next day when I went to drop her stuff off & she said she felt really bad for leaving me & that she would make it up to me the next time I went to see her, I haven't seen her since for business & i'm not doing any more overnighters with a WG & i'm going to find another regular as well.

The whole thing reads like a farce to me, but if you think you were badly done to, then name and shame the lady. i think you will find they are queueing up around the block for her :) I bet another regular won't be half as cheap.

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I dont think the price is the issue here, its what was said in the first place to what actually happened.

I agree with this 100%

An agreement was made, then broken.

The escort was fine with the agreed fee so all comments about 'you should count yourself lucky' are irrelevant here.

If she hadn't been happy with the fee, she should have been upfront and told him she wasn't happy with the amount.

If grandchild had been dumped on her, she should have contacted the gentleman immediately [this is one of the many reasons why we don't answer withheld numbers. We may need to contact you in case of an emergency].

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I agree with Spklors that an overnight allows for a different kind of experience, at least I really hope it does, because I've just booked my first with one of my favourite ladies. I'm pretty sure it will go fine because we hit off so well when we are together. I'm still new enough at this game to be ridiculously excited at the prospect and it's still several weeks away....

pm is on its way to you.

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? ? ? You have never done 69 before and you're going into a O/N with an escort . Do they always do things back to front up in Barnsley ? Couldn't you have got a bit more sexual experience before venturing into the O/N . I can't see how it could have possibly worked out well for you . Sorry .

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in these days of mobiles meeting a wg and her grandchild seems unprofessional.

it doesnt matter how much she trusts the punter from a security point

of view its a big no no.

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She had my phone number so she could have phoned to re-arrange & I gave her the extra £150 because I know I should have been paying at least £300 & for those that must know her hourly rate is £50 but she knocks £10 off once you've seen her more than twice.

I'm not new to punting but i'm new to punting with indy WGs & i've learnt from my mistakes, I realise now that I should have had a few more meets with her before arranging an overnighter.

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