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do's it turn you on more knowing she's some one's wife

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do's it turn you on more knowing she's some one's wife

Nope.

For some I could see why, but if she is a WG then why is her marriage status of importance?

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not something I'm thinking about during a booking....

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It's a turn on if she tells me but I don't ask WGs about their marital status.

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do's it turn you on more knowing she's some one's wife

I really can't think how this would be more of a turn on - I just don't get it?

I did have one wg tell me that she was married after we finished. Maybe she was, maybe she wasn't, but I assumed it was her way of saying "book me but don't get attached to me".

It never occurred to me that some might find this a turn-on!

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do's it turn you on more knowing she's some one's wife

No, its not in the slightest bit relevant to me in punting.

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I am sure many WGs have partners but their work is their choice so why should it make a difference?

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For me it definitely does it knowing i'm doing another mans wife!

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Saw a girl in Stoke who uses her marital bed, I found that very odd, hubbies shoes in the corner etc

Didn't turn me on at all

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No but if I like someone I see in a parlour, then i might ask them if they are intrested in a longer booking else where, and this can lead to an overnight booking, if the lady is married then I dont ask to see them as I suspect its not going to happen.

As for it being a turn on, no, its neither here not there, but there was one lady i seen in a parlour, and I later found out that the woman who was doing the painting and decorating in the place at the time, was the ladys mother, it made me laugh at the situation, it would have been intrestuing to have the decorator in as well, but not because she was related.

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do's it turn you on more knowing she's some one's wife

Not a problem at all

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not a turn on for me - if anything the opposite, but wouldn't normally expect to find this out anyway

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Surely doesn't matter if you're punting and paying for a service. If on the other hand you met someone in a bar and pulled them and found out they were married then you are doing something taboo and naughty which I could understand may turn some on.

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None of my business really. One of my semi-regs occasionally mentions her husband. I don't pry. It doesn't affect my decision process in booking her though. It certainly does not turn me on, she does a good enough job of that on her own :).

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Usually it never matters much. But over years I have found following catagories of married WGs:

1) Married - Husband doesn't know it : I doubt if these are really telling truth. But few WGs I met claimed to be married and husband did not know it. It was actually a scary thought for me as I have heards or read a few instances of husbands learning of their wifes business and coming in middle of punt and killing the punter!

2) Married - Husband does not know it officially : Recently a girl told me the she was married and her husband knew that she was a sex worker at a parlour but pretended that she was only their for offering plain massage. She told many of her friends too had husbands who let their wifes to work in parlours to sell sex services but never openly acknowledged it.

3) Married - Husband knows it and lets her do it : This is case in most instances , but here there are a catagories of husband who really think that their wife can make a living out of selling sex and other who really don't approve it , but like the money she gets and so let her do it.

4) Married - Husband actually insists her to be a WG - This is a sort of forced WG, where her husband forces her to work as a WG so that he can get money from her to enjoy his life.

5) Married - Husband does not support her or her kids: These are many in pooe countries where husbands have left the wifes to earn and feed her kids. The girl finds selling sex as most profitable business and joins millions of women like her in this trade.

6) Married - Husband is dead : She is now a widow, but with no plans of marrying again she called her married with husband dead. She works as a WG to feed her family.

Now I wonder which of the above catagories can give me a turn ON? Best is not to ask.

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do's it turn you on more knowing she's some one's wife

I'd have to say yes it does.

I dont go around asking WG's if their married but if they volunteer the info to me then so be it!

3) Married - Husband knows it and lets her do it : This is case in most instances , but here there are a catagories of husband who really think that their wife can make a living out of selling sex and other who really don't approve it , but like the money she gets and so let her do it.

I thankfully have only ever encountered category 3 married ladies

(and to the best of my knowledge have never had a hubby hiding in the cupboard watching and jerking his gherkin) ^_^

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It's something I don't wish to know. I don't want to know if she's got kids or anything very personal about her life. If I discovered she had a partner I wouldn't book her again.

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If I discovered she had a partner I wouldn't book her again.

Why? Can you expand on it please?

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I'd get turned on if she enjoyed being a WG as a secret hobby and side income/making out that it was a secret hobby. Would also be turned on if he encouraged it. I'd be totally turned off if there was any sense that she was not there willingly or that he knew and was upset by it.

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I'd get turned on if she enjoyed being a WG as a secret hobby and side income/making out that it was a secret hobby. Would also be turned on if he encouraged it. I'd be totally turned off if there was any sense that she was not there willingly or that he knew and was upset by it.

If I was a client, (ok, imagining myself) and found out that partner/husband encouraged her to do it, that will be a definite massive TURN OFF.

I just would think if she is with that kind of person pimp, then she is just a dim whore, and I would not want to put my treasured cock inside such woman.

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If I was a client, (ok, imagining myself) and found out that partner/husband encouraged her to do it, that will be a definite massive TURN OFF.

I just would think if she is with that kind of person pimp, then she is just a dim whore, and I would not want to put my treasured cock inside such woman.

I don't think of anyone as a dim whore and suggest you don't either. Go look at cuckold porn videos. Some guys get turned on when their partners have sex with other guys. So do you think swingers are dim whores?

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Why? Can you expand on it please?

I'm a firm believer in monogamy and I don't wish to knowingly have sex with somebody else's wife/girlfriend.

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If I was a client, (ok, imagining myself) and found out that partner/husband encouraged her to do it, that will be a definite massive TURN OFF.

I just would think if she is with that kind of person pimp, then she is just a dim whore, and I would not want to put my treasured cock inside such woman.

I wouldn't think of her as a dim whore but would be deeply suspicious of the partner/husband. I would be worried senseless if somebody I was close to was selling sex to the point I couldn't be someone who wanted to do so. I think marriage is an outdated custom but could fully understand open relationships where both parties are aware of the others sexual experiences but save the love for each other.

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It's something I don't wish to know. I don't want to know if she's got kids or anything very personal about her life. If I discovered she had a partner I wouldn't book her again.

Its interesting how the mind can sometimes work with certainities and/or uncertainities (the aforesaid in bold) to create its own rationalisations

and justifications very much akin to the function and role of the superego. ;)

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so you dont think it's a turn on to have it up some blokes wife

i wonder what they talk about when she gets home

i wonder if he can smell the sex on her

i wonder as they lie in bed if he thinks about the men who have give her one today

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