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Giving Oral To Escort? Yes Or No?

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who here does or doesnt give oral to an escort?is it safe to do so? and when woulndt you

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who here does or doesnt give oral to an escort?is it safe to do so? and when woulndt you

Welcome to the forum iverhardy345. :) If she smells nice i do RO, if not i am off, but thats a very rare occurence thankfully in my experiences. Is it safe, i havent yet caught anything and have been doing it for many years. Anything sexual with another, especially a stranger or virtual stranger holds a risk, as an adult only you can decide on whether that risk is too high or not, so no its not safe as you dont know her but thats punting. :)

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Safe for her or for you?! Like other activities it depends on the health of both of the partners and there's no certainty on that unless both parties had a GUM clinic check 6 weeks ago and have not engaged in sexual activity since. That's never going to happen.

On my first few punts I performed RO as it seemed to be part of the progression of an encounter - kissing/snogging, oral, reverse oral, mish, doggy, come. But once I found my feet I decided that it wasn't doing a great deal for me when there was so much else to enjoy, probably wasn't doing anything for most WGs and was therefore not worth even any small risk to me (or her).

I'm no longer even that concerned if oral on me is covered to be honest. Technique makes up 95% of the experience. A good covered blow job is so much better than a poor uncovered one.

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Safe for her or for you?! Like other activities it depends on the health of both of the partners and there's no certainty on that unless both parties had a GUM clinic check 6 weeks ago and have not engaged in sexual activity since. That's never going to happen.

On my first few punts I performed RO as it seemed to be part of the progression of an encounter - kissing/snogging, oral, reverse oral, mish, doggy, come. But once I found my feet I decided that it wasn't doing a great deal for me when there was so much else to enjoy, probably wasn't doing anything for most WGs and was therefore not worth even any small risk to me (or her).

I'm no longer even that concerned if oral on me is covered to be honest. Technique makes up 95% of the experience. A good covered blow job is so much better than a poor uncovered one.

OWO for me has been a requirement, i have walked out of bookings bc of it for the rare times a wg didnt provide this service. i just need to feel it au natural.

back to the topic:

in any case, i was the master muff muncher, and gave reverse oral and rimming to most of the wg's i have seen and even tonge fucked them. the only time i have not done it was at LMP and gentleman's parties bc i couldnt mentally take the idea of the girl literally just fucking 14 guys and i am tasting her muff without her cleaning up god forbid if i was at the second party which takes the total count to 28 guys including myself. i have also found myself not giving RO when i saw the client before me walking out when i walked in....just the idea of hte guy before me turned me off.......

i remember during my booking with one girl, after she shivered and came, she turned said to me "what the fuck are you a professional" which made me smile although i thought she was faking :-)

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i have face sitting and that includes oral so I would say YES

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All down to smell for me, if i whiff anything down there then no chance. I literally have a smell before my mouth gets to work!! Sucking and licking a nice clean pussy is divine though

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Well I guess like has already been said, and this is a two way thing of course, it's dependant on personal hygiene and cleanliness. Me? Well I love oral, both ways.

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Feel it's necessary to point out that hygiene and disease transmission are largely unrelated. In fact, too much washing will dry the lady out unless she's using an emollient, and this will leave her vulnerable to anything she comes into contact with.

Luckily, cunnilingis is a very low risk activity. It's really not something to be worried about unless you've got open sores in your mouth (and even then, not a huge risk.)

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who here does or doesnt give oral to an escort?is it safe to do so? and when woulndt you

I love giving oral to a girl.

After a little "get to know you", I always start proceeding with RO.

But not only cos I enjoy to give it but also so I can "check her out". If theres a strong smell, or she refuses, then warning signs are flaring.

If theres strange spots, etc... then warning signs are double..

its safer for me at that point rather than seeing something like that after Ive done the deed....

Edited by Overworked

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Good post by over worked above.Pretty much sums it up for me.

I accept that, as Rose points out, good hygiene is not a guarantee of lack of infection; however, if a lady keeps herself fresh and clean down below it's a good bet that she takes care of her overall health, both sexual and otherwise.

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Good post by over worked above.Pretty much sums it up for me.

I accept that, as Rose points out, good hygiene is not a guarantee of lack of infection; however, if a lady keeps herself fresh and clean down below it's a good bet that she takes care of her overall health, both sexual and otherwise.

I really think this is false logic. I've seen girls do all kinds of things in the name of cleanliness which actually made them more vulnerable to infection.

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I really think this is false logic. I've seen girls do all kinds of things in the name of cleanliness which actually made them more vulnerable to infection.

I think Rose is missing my point. Yes I know that too much cleaning can be bad, but my point is that if a lady appears to take her cleanliness seriously, it's pretty certain that she will take her health seriously.

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I think Rose is missing my point. Yes I know that too much cleaning can be bad, but my point is that if a lady appears to take her cleanliness seriously, it's pretty certain that she will take her health seriously.

Is it? I just don't think this adds up. Cleanliness doesn't indicate knowledge of or attention to transmission of sexual diseases. And I'll reiterate that I've known many girls who paid a lot of attention to their cleanliness and knew next to nothing about safe sex. I've seen girls using soaps or washing agents which kill bacteria and therefore are known to cause BV/thrush, making them more vulnerable to infection, or using creams and oils on the area (which may damage condom integrity). I've also witnessed girls putting condoms on badly -- either stretching them or not pinching the air out, or more worryingly, touching the penis and then using the same hand to put the condom on (a very easy way for gonorrhoea and chlamydia to spread.) These girls were certainly very well groomed and washed, but they were putting themselves at risk regularly because cleanliness doesn't mean medical knowledge.

Make your decisions according to what risks you consider acceptable. RO is a much lower risk activity than OWO, and many on here seem to consider that a very acceptable risk. At the end of the day, you're taking responsibility for your own health, which shouldn't involve making assumptions based on whether someone's washed well.

(Additionally, I'm not sure why you're addressing me in the third person when we're having a direct conversation...)

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A few years back I went to a parlour in Cardiff and I asked the WG if I could give her oral. She would not allow me to give oral as she said an agreement was made between WGs not to allow punters to give reverse oral for health reasons. Has anyone else been with a WG who does not allow clients to give reverse oral.

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A few years back I went to a parlour in Cardiff and I asked the WG if I could give her oral. She would not allow me to give oral as she said an agreement was made between WGs not to allow punters to give reverse oral for health reasons. Has anyone else been with a WG who does not allow clients to give reverse oral.

It happened to me once, and it wasn't with a parlour girl (with all due respect for parlour girls) but with a £200 an hour escort. She told me that she doesn't like it. The punt went pretty well otherwise, but for me there is nothing like a good session of RO to really get me going.

In the circumstances, my performance, and my overall enjoyment of the encounter, weren't as good as it could have been had RO been available.

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As regards the argument about hygiene vs. health, yes I agree with Rose that cleanliness doesn't guarantee that a person is free of STD.

But I certainly wouldn't give RO to a girl who doesn't smell right, regardless of how healthy she may be.

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STI's and oral sex, as I am certain many know, has a fundamental problem - it is very rare that people only indulge in oral sex during an encounter, full penetration also takes place. How can anybody determine where the infection came from - penetration or oral ?

As for any research: will you please suck this infected sexual organ, we need to see whether cross contamination will take place. go for it I'd suck the arse of ah dead donkey, anything to help lol

Forgive my eloquence but I hate donkeys :huh:

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STI's and oral sex, as I am certain many know, has a fundamental problem - it is very rare that people only indulge in oral sex during an encounter, full penetration also takes place. How can anybody determine where the infection came from - penetration or oral ?

As for any research: will you please suck this infected sexual organ, we need to see whether cross contamination will take place. go for it I'd suck the arse of ah dead donkey, anything to help lol

Forgive my eloquence but I hate donkeys :huh:

Many people do, however, practice protected vaginal penetration and unprotected oral. I know that it's still possible to contract something from protected sex (especially if cross-contamination procedures are not observed), but it is unlikely.

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I've also witnessed girls putting condoms on badly -- either stretching them or not pinching the air out, or more worryingly, touching the penis and then using the same hand to put the condom on (a very easy way for gonorrhoea and chlamydia to spread.)

Hi Rose

I'm intrigued by what you say here as first time I read it I read it as a hand touching a penis can lead to gonorrhea and chlamydia. Do you mean touching an infected penis can pass onto the lady or the infection can be passed to the guy this way? Hoping the former as I thought a handjob was about a safe an activity as one can indulge in?

Thanks

Nob

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Hi Rose

I'm intrigued by what you say here as first time I read it I read it as a hand touching a penis can lead to gonorrhea and chlamydia. Do you mean touching an infected penis can pass onto the lady or the infection can be passed to the guy this way? Hoping the former as I thought a handjob was about a safe an activity as one can indulge in?

Thanks

Nob

Hi Nob,

No, no, don't go worrying about handjobs! :P

What I'm pontificating about here is the fact that people don't think about where their hands have been. So if a lady is touching the penis (the head really is the offending part, and any pre-seminal fluid), and then uses the same hand to roll down the condom, she may well transfer bacteria to the outside of the condom, which then goes inside her (same applies if any hands touch the penis and then end up inside the lady). Most escorts worth their salt know this, and will operate with one hand for the client's bits and one hand for their own.

Edited by Curious Rose

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Thanks for reply Rose. I shall restrict my worrying to where the next handjob is coming from :)

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I have to confess that giving oral isn't just part of the punt, but is effectively the main event for me. There is nothing, and I mean *nothing*, that I enjoy more. I have a fairly regular lady now who is wonderfully receptive to my ministrations, and we both have a great time :P

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I have to confess that giving oral isn't just part of the punt, but is effectively the main event for me. There is nothing, and I mean *nothing*, that I enjoy more. I have a fairly regular lady now who is wonderfully receptive to my ministrations, and we both have a great time :P

+1 for me - and it's most satisfying when you make her come .... it does happen.

BTW, the only time I ever caught something was from a non-WG, in over 25 years !!!! And I have regular check ups and had Hepatites shots.

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Always. The only time I don't is at LMP for obvious reasons.

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In terms of health and safety I would say definitely it's not safe to give oral to an Escort as men are more likely to be at risk of STD through oral sex rather than women.

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