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First Timer So Need Advice

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Hi,

I am a first timer and need some advice.

I have following questions:

  1. I am planning to use Escort service for the first time. Should i book for only couple of hours or should i use 4 hours or should i book overnight? I was thinking 4 hours as it might take some time for me to become comfortable?
  2. When i book for 4 hours does it mean a dinner date or normal 4 hours? I would like to book for 4 hours say during the night from 21:00 PM to 01:00 AM
  3. I was looking for WG from **s website. Is it fine to start here or should i choose a escort agency as it is my first time?
  4. I read in some articles that WG dont prefer to take money directly instead they prefer for us to keep it on the table or on the bed. Is it true? is it incorrect to handover the envelope with cash directly to the WG? Apologies for my ignorance.
  5. Should i mention it to the WG its my first time? Is it ok to do so or does it make me vulnerable?
  6. Any other suggestions or things i should be aware of?

Thanks in advance.

Cheers

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1) I'd say a couple of hours at most. Four hours is a long time if you don't 'click' with the girl. As for overnights, even worse - I don't accept bookings for those unless I have met the client previously for this same reason.

2) IF you book four hours, it means what YOU want it to mean. If you'd like to take the lady for dinner, then tell her you'd like a four hour booking including dinner. If not, then a plain four hour booking is fine too.

3) There is no reason why shouldn't book an escort from ** but DO YOUR RESEARCH. Check her feedback, cross referenced to see if she has reviews here or on other sites, and ask if anyone has any knowledge of her. ** is a mixed bag, some scams, some very bad, some very good, some fair-to-middling. Choose with care and you should be fine.

4) Most ladies will want you to hand them the fee immediately. She may or may not want to check it.

5) That's up to you. It shouldn't make you vulnerable if you have chosen carefully as per point 3.

6) .... oooh, I'll let someone else take that one.

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Claire's advice is very sound.

Be up front about your lack of experience. An older (35+) lady might be more understanding than an early 20's one.

Book an English lady; less possibility of language problems.

Hand over the cash in an envelope with her name on it. This looks as though you mean it more personally. Don't be offended if she counts it in front of you. That is for both your benefit.

Enjoy yourself and good luck.

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Thanks Claire. Appreciate your response.

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Claire's advice is very sound.

Be up front about your lack of experience. An older (35+) lady might be more understanding than an early 20's one.

Book an English lady; less possibility of language problems.

Hand over the cash in an envelope with her name on it. This looks as though you mean it more personally. Don't be offended if she counts it in front of you. That is for both your benefit.

Enjoy yourself and good luck.

Thanks Paul. Again apologies for my ignorance but i read somewhere that handing over cash directly to WG is ill-legal? I am not very sure but the article says that when you handover money directly it is ill-legal and it is generally a practice to keep the money on the table or on the bed and WG will take it on her own.

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That's balls. Complete and total hogwash.

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That's balls. Complete and total hogwash.

Thanks Again Claire. :D

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Thanks Paul. Again apologies for my ignorance but i read somewhere that handing over cash directly to WG is ill-legal? I am not very sure but the article says that when you handover money directly it is ill-legal and it is generally a practice to keep the money on the table or on the bed and WG will take it on her own.

That is complete rubbish you will find as punting isnt an illegal activity in the first place unless its on-street, or with coerced women. My advice is read the Legalities board on here.

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Claire's advice is very sound.

Be up front about your lack of experience. An older (35+) lady might be more understanding than an early 20's one.

Book an English lady; less possibility of language problems.

Hand over the cash in an envelope with her name on it. This looks as though you mean it more personally. Don't be offended if she counts it in front of you. That is for both your benefit.

Enjoy yourself and good luck.

My apologies if there seems to be a hint of racism here. I should have written "Book an English speaking lady". I have had wonderful punts with Scottish, Welsh and New Zealand ladies.

As for handing over the cash, the others guys and Claire are totally right.

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My apologies if there seems to be a hint of racism here. I should have written "Book an English speaking lady". I have had wonderful punts with Scottish, Welsh and New Zealand ladies.

As for handing over the cash, the others guys and Claire are totally right.

As i have with EE WGs who spoke good English. Good advice given by you and Claire which if followed by the OP should help him in my view. :)

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Thanks everyone. Could you guide me where i can find recommended WG's? Any recommended WG's who takes good care of first timers :-)

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I am a first timer and need some advice.

Welcome to the boards B4M.

Imho, 4 hours is an incredibly long (and expensive) time to spend with an escort for your first time. Ok, I am sure you are worried about relaxing, but it could turn out to be very stressful for both of you if you don't get on. Don't confuse punting with dating and feel that you have to woo the lady. She'll be perfectly happy with an hour or two of sex, as long as you go home content. Unless you feel you will have erectile problems due to nerves, I'd suggest a shorter booking, more as a toe in the water. If you and the lady click, you can always rebook for a longer session.

Me, my first time I was terrified, but the girl (20 years my junior and gorgeous) just got stuck in with french kissing and oral sex and before I knew it, 60 mins had past and I was leaving on wobbly knees having cum twice and feeling drained but elated. If I'd booked any longer I am not sure I could have taken advantage lol.

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Thanks Paul. Again apologies for my ignorance but i read somewhere that handing over cash directly to WG is ill-legal? I am not very sure but the article says that when you handover money directly it is ill-legal and it is generally a practice to keep the money on the table or on the bed and WG will take it on her own.

I well remember from punting back in parlours in the 70's that some girls used to tell me to ask for "extras". If they offered first this was "wrong".

Strange

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1. I'd be tempted to go for less time than that if it was my first time, 4 hours is a long time to spend with someone if you don't click. If you're nervous there could be some long embarrassing silences. My first punt was 30 mins with a gorgeous Czech Uni student, I was nervous so not a lot was said, but after exploring her amazing smooth body for a few minutes, she soon got on with the naughty stuff, oral and 3 positions and was so sexy I was all undone about 25 mins after entering the room, I managed to find a few things to say in the last 5 mins, but I would have struggled to fill any more time. Now with a bit more age and experience I could take it slower and fill an hour or more and have the confidence to go for a second session. As it was, that first time I was quite glad to get away after the deed was done and just reflect on the amazing things she did to me.

2. 4 hours is a long time, I'd be tempted to go for an hour max on the first meeting, long enough to see if you like it, save the cash for next time when you might be a lot more relaxed.

3. There's good and not so good on @W, same with agencies. Look for plenty of feedback, but preferably a reliable recommendation from a fellow punter here. Start a new thread asking for recommendations with your preferred location/requirements/price range/looks/age etc

4. Give the money as agreed in £ cash within the first few minutes of meeting, an envelope on the side is a nice touch, but she will probably need to check it.

5. My first girl knew I wasn't experienced, she was very kind, maybe even a little nervous herself. Maybe better to just say you're a bit nervous than to actually say it's your first time ever.

6. Relax, enjoy yourself and have fun! There are lots of amazing girls out there who will blow your mind!

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All good advise above, just contact your chosen lady and discuss with her, she won't bite (unless you ask nicely)...btw goodluck and hope it goes well...

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Thanks Paul. Again apologies for my ignorance but i read somewhere that handing over cash directly to WG is ill-legal? I am not very sure but the article says that when you handover money directly it is ill-legal and it is generally a practice to keep the money on the table or on the bed and WG will take it on her own.

Putting the money on the side rather than handing to the girl is an American thing. It is irrelevant over here where prostitution per se is not illegal but due to the cultural dominance of the US some girls do think that is the way things should be done.

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And remember, that the hobby can be expensive and repetative, so think long and hard about if you want to get so involved, as honestly, if you take the first step and get a good result, then you might be searching like the rest of us for the rest of your life.

But its so enjoyable.... ;)

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Agree with the above. Really an hour is fine for first time. For some of us fine for every time.

Hard to say lowest risk for first time. I'd think a good agency. There are threads on the requests forums. Indy are probably better in the end, but hard to explain how to have the instinct to know the great from the "oops".

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