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Unreliable Escorts

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Has anyone else found that there seems to be a huge rise in unreliable escorts, either they dont reply to messages which are perfectly polite, or they say they will visit you, then the next day change their minds?

Im definitely going to give punting a break i think, sem to spend all my time try to arrange meetings rather than actually have meetings!!

I found punting alot more fun until this year, but all the best girls seem to have stopped.

Wonder if you guys finding similar issues?

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Had very similar, money ready, time free, nobody responding or taking a booking then cancelling. Like you, seem to spend more time researching and trying to book someone than actually "doing it"! Currently trying to nail down some regulars that are reliable so I can have an easier time of it in future.

Frustrating but that's the hobby, when all the pieces fall into place, it's great!

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Add those to the indecisive clients and I wonder why any of us bother at all!

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What really gets my goat is the one where they have claim to be "Available Today", but then, when you try to get in touch, you have no success.

I mean, seriously, if you have that green light showing on your profile at 3.17AM, can it be that difficult to reply to my text message???? :angry::mad: :mad: :mad:

Time for some rubby dubby.

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What really gets my goat is the one where they have claim to be "Available Today", but then, when you try to get in touch, you have no success.

I mean, seriously, if you have that green light showing on your profile at 3.17AM, can it be that difficult to reply to my text message???? :angry::mad: :mad: :mad:

Time for some rubby dubby.

I'm sure I heard from a WG that they have to pay to turn on the green light.......seems a waste of money if they are not available.....

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I'm sure I heard from a WG that they have to pay to turn on the green light.......seems a waste of money if they are not available.....

5 quid a day to display it on your profile.

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I'm sure I heard from a WG that they have to pay to turn on the green light.......seems a waste of money if they are not available.....

If you book AT in advance it goes on your profile at midnight. I too on the rare occasions I've used it (and I generally don't like for many reasons) I've paid for it the previous day, at midnight it's activated and I've had the odd email at 1am asking to see me right away(despite my exact availability being in the blurb on my profile). Obviously I don't get to read it until I wake at 6,7 or 8am depending on how energetic I'm feeling that day.

Of course having popped the green light up she might then get a few bookings, and hence reason for not being able to accept calls or answer emails - for the reason that she is now busy.

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Add those to the indecisive clients and I wonder why any of us bother at all!

Because when it does go right.......BINGO!!!!!! ^_^

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It can be difficult to balance replying with not encouraging timewasters -- I get so many texts or emails which don't merit a response, either because they're in TXT SPK, rude, or because they're asking "Can I see you at 9pm on Sunday for an outcall to my flat?" (I work until 6pm, weekdays only and I don't take outcalls to private residences ... and you'd know this if you'd bothered to read my website.) Sometimes when you give the enquirer another chance ("No, I don't work till that time, etc. etc. Please read my website") you get another string of silly questions and it's a complete waste of time.

Additionally, if I'm having a very busy day and I'm booked out for the next few days, replying to new enquiries may not be a top-priority, especially if someone's looking for a same-day booking and there's no chance I'm going to be able to see them. Emails almost always get a reply within a day or two, but texts sometimes get forgotten about if they arrive while I'm busy.

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Its all very odd. So many women are finding they are quiet at the moment and would like more business.

So many women also don't respond to men they have deemed as timewasters or idiots or those who send texts in textspeak or asking for services they don't do or for a time they are not free or asking daft questions such as 'Wot do u look like?'

Correlation?

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I think it's a cycle, the genuine women are fed up with all the timewasting wastemen out there and get fed up, but at the same time the genuine men have to go through loads of fake profiles on the other site, bait/switching, and today I sent a girl a message just asking about a roleplay scenario (i did not and never would go into explicit details over email, and it wasn't anything crazy) Just to get a rather rude message back about how she doesn't do roleplay!

Well why is roleplay on your likes list, love?

I feel for both sides, there's so many idiots, male and female, out there.

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When I punt in London I usually phone first as this seems to be the best way of securing a booking.

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Or you could just use reliable agencies

Never had a single cancellation from a girl I've booked via an agency, nor has a girl ever been late or unready for my booking, and I've been using agencies almost exclusively for the last 8 years or so

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Or you could just use reliable agencies

Never had a single cancellation from a girl I've booked via an agency, nor has a girl ever been late or unready for my booking, and I've been using agencies almost exclusively for the last 8 years or so

In London there may be good agencies, in the Midlands only AgencyBella is any good, but the problem with that is they are so busy getting an appointment is hard.

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Just because some of the escorts muck you about dont give up on all of us, and as most have said, the punter has to deal with their time being cute short or the escort not turning up but us wgs have to deal with alot of tw's, emails/texts that lead to nothing, bookings made but not confirming and i can go on but no poont moaning about it as it comes with the job/hobby every job and hobby have a downfall, so instead of letting then get you down and want to stop, take a deep breath, take it with a pinch of salt and find someone that wont decline it at the last min and then you are sorted :)

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Hi There,

Not many girls awnsering the text messages because most of the guys just want to waste their time. I am sorry to hear that some girls are unreliable. :(

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I'm sure I heard from a WG that they have to pay to turn on the green light.......seems a waste of money if they are not available.....

Perhaps they are booked up already, especially if that green light is on regularly on the same night.

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I'm sure I heard from a WG that they have to pay to turn on the green light.......seems a waste of money if they are not available.....

The whole point of paying for it is to make you busier, perhaps its working.x

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How do you know a client is a timewaster from the email? I've sent emails to girls who list what I was after only to get told to fuck off, agree to it with interest and then tell me to fuck off and delete all the emails. Or just delete the email seconds after reading it. Just sending a polite "Sorry I don't think I can offer that" instead of completely ignoring or responding rudely would go a long way.

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I had this trying to set up my next couple of meetings, one finally went smoothly once I spoke to her on the phone and she assured herself (I assume) that I wasn't a time waster etc.

The other rearranged our booking at very short notice a couple of weeks ago and with the new date arranged and approaching fast I sent her a text to confirm we're still on and she's gone silent on me...

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Happened to me recently with a WG who posts on PN. Initial prompt exchange of texts narrowing down a mutually convenient time and given a time to phone to finalise things then dead silence on the texts and an answering machine at the agreed phone time and no phone or text back. My texts were purely factual and polite. Why bother to give any response at the outset if not prepared to follow through and does not take much effort to just give a short reply that no longer available so the punter knows where he stands. Not very good PR

Another bugbear is how to check on an indie's site that the photos are up to date. Can you directly ask her but it is obvious in most cases she will just say they are and if you bluntly ask her in a text or phone call, will it offend her and kill dead the punt. Also what is considered out of date photos - 2 years or less?

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The only time I've been stood up was very recent and arose from a genuine clash of dates. Profuse apologies from the lady, a very quick re-booking and a promise to 'make to up to you at our next meeting' :D Oh, and a discount on the normal rate. Needless to say I'm looking forward to it...

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Another bugbear is how to check on an indie's site that the photos are up to date. Can you directly ask her but it is obvious in most cases she will just say they are and if you bluntly ask her in a text or phone call, will it offend her and kill dead the punt. Also what is considered out of date photos - 2 years or less?

Ah! "Recent Photos"? Do you look for the Exif data? While quite a few editing programs strip all Exif out of an image file on "Save for Web", and "another well known adult site" strips it out of all profile, gallery and private gallery pictures, quite a good number of ladies are careful to leave it in, which allows one to see when each photo was taken, (and often to be amazed at the early hours of the morning at which many are taken).

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In London there may be good agencies, in the Midlands only AgencyBella is any good, but the problem with that is they are so busy getting an appointment is hard.

Right, fair point, guess you have less choice in that neck of the woods then

Seem to be fairly spoilt for choice down here at the moment

In 15 years of punting have never once used the purple pages myself, which probably explains why I've never experienced the massive inconvenience of last minute wg cancellations

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I haven't noticed a rise in the proportion of WGs who are unreliable, but I have certainly noticed a massive increase in the number of ladies available full stop. For example today there are 140 women on the purple site within 3 miles of me. A few years ago, there was typically 1/3rd of this number. It is possible that some of this rise is attributable to the recession and that proportionately, there are more part-time, young mum or other job type escorts who juggle a lot to fit appointments in, hence the rise in cancellations.

What with the increased choice available and (probably) a reduction in clients disposable income, it's no wonder prices are on the wane.

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