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Is It Ok Visit Wg's Offering Bareback When I Prefer Protected?

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Hi,

I have short-listed a WG whom i would like to visit soon. Though this WG meets all my requirement the one worry i have is she is also offering bareback and i am not interested to do a bareback. I am ok with OWO but prefer protected penetration.

My Question is since this WG is offering bareback to others is she going to be a high risk for STD? Do you think i must avoid her? Any general thoughts from experienced punters :-)

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Logically speaking, provided you partake only in protected services yourself, what she gets up to with others should be irrelevant.

However, I suspect most chaps will tell you they prefer to avoid girls who openly offer bareback. Ultimately, the choice is yours but mathematically the chances of the girl carrying an STD is going to be higher than a girl who only offers protected services. The chances of you contracting an STD are of course different.

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You may also find that if your visit to a girl doing BB gets out on these boards (and it could very easily) than other ladies may prefer not to meet you.

I have read on Another Website that a good many escorts will not entertain a guy who has visited an escort offering BB.

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Personally I feel the only way girls may stop this offering BB silliness is if it actually hurts them financially to do so, i.e. 'normal' punters don't book them any longer because they offer BB. Hopefully there's not THAT many morons around to support the growing number of girls offering this service. Yes, I know there is no certainty that another girl may not offer it too...

ETA: And yes, if a client has written a FR about visiting a girl who does BB or mentions one during a booking, the fun ends there, I don't want him near me. First of all because of my health and second because I have zero respect for people like that.

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You may also find that if your visit to a girl doing BB gets out on these boards (and it could very easily) than other ladies may prefer not to meet you.

I have read on Another Website that a good many escorts will not entertain a guy who has visited an escort offering BB.

Good point Paul and yes that applies to me. If I saw evidence that a man had visited a bb woman I would not accept a booking from him.

Unfortunately there will be men who I (and most other ladies) see who have had bb sex with other wg's and come to see us. We can never know

for sure who they are but a clue for me is the few men I have met who have tried their luck and hinted strongly (to the point of naming ladies) about

wg's they have bb'd with. They could have been lying of course but I doubt it.

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few thoughts here

1. do you do BB with non WG girls? I suspect many one night stands are BB so probably a bigger risk there.

2. OWO/RO is a bit risky if the girl has STI. may like to consider this and avoid RO and have covered oral.

3. does she really do BB? Many EE girls tick BB in the likes and I am not convinced they all know what it means. Does she mention it in the text? She may think it means OWO.

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I guess I'd be worried she doesn't take care of herself (getting regular checks at GUM) and so might be host to a number of nasties. Also, if the condom split you'd be snookered :o I really can't understand why a girl would offer BB? I remember I had a one night stand in my teens and the condom burst and I was out of my mind with worry til I got the clear. I just can't understand why someone would regularly offer BB!

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Thanks guys for taking time to reply. Ok agree with your points and i have decided not to visit her :-) wanna play safe :)

having said that she looked cute though ...

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3. does she really do BB? Many EE girls tick BB in the likes and I am not convinced they all know what it means. Does she mention it in the text? She may think it means OWO.

One of many things on the 'likes' list on the purple site that can confuse - in this case, why do they have separate check-boxes for 'bareback', and 'unprotected sex'. There are many others, like why three categories: 'fisting', fisting (giving)' and 'fisting (receiving)', but don't get me started, I'm already veering off-topic, sorry!

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One of many things on the 'likes' list on the purple site that can confuse - in this case, why do they have separate check-boxes for 'bareback', and 'unprotected sex'. There are many others, like why three categories: 'fisting', fisting (giving)' and 'fisting (receiving)', but don't get me started, I'm already veering off-topic, sorry!

i reckon they should dump the 'bareback' and change unprotected sex to unprotected vaginal and/or anal sex. that would be 100% clear.

wonder how many have bareback checked and unprotected not checked or vice versa?

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You can't ever be sure what a person does or doesn't do in their personal life, however seeing a particular box ticked and/or reports stating such activity occured is a way you can avoid some of those who do partake in activities. Of course those who are less than obvious about it may still participate in irresponsible practices, and all of this applies to both service seeker as well as provider. As Smiths so often says (and now I too), you can only be responsible for your own sexual health. No matter what another person says to you, if you wish to stay safe it's down to you at the end of the day.

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I just can't understand why someone would regularly offer BB!

I can't understand why someone would want to fly to the moon. I can't understand why someone would want to listen to rap music. I can't understand why someone would buy a Nissan Micra. I can't understand.....well, it's endless. The world is full of people who are different!!! Why do people jump out of a plane for fucks sake!! :eek: That has just got to be more dangerous than BB!!! :lol:

To the OP....it's your choice at the end of the day, but you have to be prepared for the possible consequences and accept your fate if you get unlucky. It's up to your mind to decide if the risk outweighs the reward or vice versa.

The bottom line is....as cute as she may have looked in a profile, she may or may not disappoint in reality. And the good point in all of this is.....there are PLENTY of cute, beautiful, charming, sweet angels out there offering fun WITHOUT that level of risk ;)

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Hi,

I have short-listed a WG whom i would like to visit soon. Though this WG meets all my requirement the one worry i have is she is also offering bareback and i am not interested to do a bareback. I am ok with OWO but prefer protected penetration.

My Question is since this WG is offering bareback to others is she going to be a high risk for STD? Do you think i must avoid her? Any general thoughts from experienced punters :-)

which girl is it, there is a chance i might have seen her :-)

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Hi,

I have short-listed a WG whom i would like to visit soon. Though this WG meets all my requirement the one worry i have is she is also offering bareback and i am not interested to do a bareback. I am ok with OWO but prefer protected penetration.

My Question is since this WG is offering bareback to others is she going to be a high risk for STD? Do you think i must avoid her? Any general thoughts from experienced punters :-)

Mate, this is a simple question to answer. STERR THE FUCK CLEAR OF THIS DISGUSTING WOMAN!

She clearly has a death wish, men who care about their health will not go BB with strange women, be it an escort or 'civvie', so the men she does see wont give a shit about their safety, and hence she obviously couldnt care less about her safety. As London Pin Up says, what happens if the condom splits, and she is bleeding down there for whatever reason?

For godsake, lose her details, and move on, please!

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What if the condom splits?

What if your breaks fail on your car?

What if some drunk and / or drugged driver should come racing along the road while you're going across a Zebra Crossing?

What if your parachute or bunjee rope should fail if you decide to take part in those activities?

If you stay at home it may catch fire?

If you get a bus or train what if terrorist explodes a bomb on it?

What if a left hand drive truck smashes into you on the motorway sending you spininng all over the road because he didn't see you going past him? This has happened to me, I really did think I might die, I still drive, however I'm now very cautious when going past left hand drive trucks.

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Its amazing that you even had to ask about Bareback, as its not something that any self respecting individual would consider, and as has been said so openly, its not only your own health that could be at risk, but any other escort you see afterwards.

Though its good to see the response on the forum being as one voice in their answer.

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Mate, this is a simple question to answer. STERR THE FUCK CLEAR OF THIS DISGUSTING WOMAN!

She clearly has a death wish, men who care about their health will not go BB with strange women, be it an escort or 'civvie', so the men she does see wont give a shit about their safety, and hence she obviously couldnt care less about her safety. As London Pin Up says, what happens if the condom splits, and she is bleeding down there for whatever reason?

For godsake, lose her details, and move on, please!

I've been having regular unprotected sex with lots and lots of women for over 10 years, mainly civilians but quite a few WGs too. Every 3 months I go to the GUM clinic for a full MOT, touch wood, never had a problem yet. Don't panic Captain Mainwaring, (however I do expect to die at some point, I suppose people who do things like this will live forever.).

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To ask a different question, how can you be sure a girl who doesn't openly offer BB isn't actually doing it, but just doesn't mention it on her profile? This subject has been covered at length and the answer is still, IMHO, it doesn't matter what is or isn't said on a profile. You have to take your own responsibility and protect yourself. As does she, as she has no idea what you get up to when you're not with her.

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I've been having regular unprotected sex with lots and lots of women for over 10 years, mainly civilians but quite a few WGs too. Every 3 months I go to the GUM clinic for a full MOT, touch wood, never had a problem yet. Don't panic Captain Mainwaring, (however I do expect to die at some point, I suppose people who do things like this will live forever.).

I dont really need to reply to this as i am sure you will get plenty of replies to this post!! You haven't had a problem.....YET!! Good for you, but their is always a first time, and while many people are blase about chlamydia and gonnorhea as they feel antibiotics will clear everything up, HIV is incureable as i am sure you are aware!!! While you may aregue smoking causes cancer, drinking causes liver cirosis, these diseases cannot be spread. You get HIV sir, you wont be having unprotected sex anymore....if you have a shred of decency and soul as i am sure the thought of passing it on would horrify you!!!

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To ask a different question, how can you be sure a girl who doesn't openly offer BB isn't actually doing it, but just doesn't mention it on her profile? This subject has been covered at length and the answer is still, IMHO, it doesn't matter what is or isn't said on a profile. You have to take your own responsibility and protect yourself. As does she, as she has no idea what you get up to when you're not with her.

Well, i think you need to look at this with a business hat on. Although girls who only offer protected sex attract the higher quality clients who care about their own well being, clearly there are many reckless men out there who will look for BB, so financially it would probaly be a better earner to offer BB!! So, i dont think their is much to be gained for a WG not to offer BB, other than a much better chance of living to play with her grandchildren!!!!!

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I dont really need to reply to this as i am sure you will get plenty of replies to this post!! You haven't had a problem.....YET!! Good for you, but their is always a first time, and while many people are blase about chlamydia and gonnorhea as they feel antibiotics will clear everything up, HIV is incureable as i am sure you are aware!!! While you may aregue smoking causes cancer, drinking causes liver cirosis, these diseases cannot be spread. You get HIV sir, you wont be having unprotected sex anymore....if you have a shred of decency and soul as i am sure the thought of passing it on would horrify you!!!

I've had unprotected sex with several hundred women, mainly through the swinging scene but also through dating, (always BB) and about 10 plus WGs over the last 10 or so years. I don't smoke these days although evidently passive smoking can cause cancer, as I say I will die at some point, as far as I know so will everyone else on this planet, Nearly 10 years ago a mate of mine had his mid life crisis and bought a powerful motor bike, eventually he crashed it, killed himself and someone in the car he hit, I'd rather shag myself to death.

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I've been having regular unprotected sex with lots and lots of women for over 10 years, mainly civilians but quite a few WGs too. Every 3 months I go to the GUM clinic for a full MOT, touch wood, never had a problem yet. Don't panic Captain Mainwaring, (however I do expect to die at some point, I suppose people who do things like this will live forever.).

What about inbetween those 3 months - say you contract HIV and then pass it onto someone else. Do you not feel you're responsible for infecting other people?

Shame on the women who sleep with you BB.

The risk vs reward on this swings hugely to the risk IMO.

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What about inbetween those 3 months - say you contract HIV and then pass it onto someone else. Do you not feel you're responsible for infecting other people?

Shame on the women who sleep with you BB.

The risk vs reward on this swings hugely to the risk IMO.

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Well, i think you need to look at this with a business hat on. Although girls who only offer protected sex attract the higher quality clients who care about their own well being, clearly there are many reckless men out there who will look for BB, so financially it would probaly be a better earner to offer BB!! So, i dont think their is much to be gained for a WG not to offer BB, other than a much better chance of living to play with her grandchildren!!!!!

Umm

Plenty seem to be at the cheaper end. certainly not charging much of a premium. so i dont think your explanation stands up. I agree -its odd.

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