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Extras - The Bane Of My Punting Life

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Yesterday I travelled across London for what I thought would have been a two hour punt at £250. The Indian girl I had been expecting was absent, contradicting what I'd been told when I phoned earlier. However an attractive EE girl entered the bedroom and, after discussing the services I wanted, began to list the extras on a calculator:

£20 watersports;

£20 for domination;

£10 reverse oral

£10 rimming;

£10 foot worship;

£10 for spanking; (this was not covered by domination);

£10 for each toy; so using a combination of whip, tawse, spanker, paddle and flogger would total £50;

£10 for allowing me to wear an Arab strap;

£10 for allowing me to use poppers.

I can understand extra charges applied to services which take time to prepare, like WS, but this was madness. It racked up £150 in extras. Then she told me that these charges apply per hour. That works out at £300 in extras. £550 in total! Thank fuck I hadn’t unpacked the butt plugs and nipple clamps – a tenner per tit probably. I baulked at the price and walked. After leaving I examined myself in the mirror to see if there was any sign of the CUNT tattoo I must have emblazoned on my forehead.

All of which illustrates how trying a new zero feedback profile from the other place can easily turn to shit.

Does anyone else groan when they hear the word extras?

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*Sign of the cross/ thanks god for my own fairly vanilla tastes, etc*

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Yes I hate them too. Surely a lady can just decide to charge £x per hour and include all the stuff she enjoys. Her web site should list this and the stuff she will NOT DO. Then we all know where we stand.

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I baulked at the price and walked.

Good for you. I don't mind the concept of extras, as long as it is clearly advertised what is included in the base price, which extras are on offer and what each extra costs. However, I detest them when they are sprung on you unnanounced like you describe above. And what a list as well :).

If I could ask for one specific change on the purple site, it would be for the likes list to be ordered in terms of what is included in the basic price and then all remaining likes to have a price associated with them. However, I won't hold my breath.

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Hang on, she was charging extra to dominate you? How odd. I see how you could charge extra to wear special clothing (do you have any idea how much a latex/rubber outfit costs? :blink:), for poppers, for you to dominate her or for things that could be quite unpleasant for the provider (how is it that guys who want to be fisted never bother to clean/prepare themselves?!), but as long as you are the one who is being spanked and dominated? Most places I worked at included watersports in any booking that was more than 30 minutes in the price, as was coming on the body (facials are usually extra).

To charge extra for anything that could hurt / requires extra equipment beyond a few standard dildos and a strap-on / is a risk for the WG - fine, as not every punter wants this and it really does drain you a lot more, I've had to end the working day after a three-hour session with a guy who wanted to be treated like a baby, including changing his soiled nappies, it just was a bit much upholding the illusion for that long. If you want BDSM stuff at a more all-inclusive price, then you may be better off going straight to a specialised place as only women who enjoy doing the stuff will work there. Hopefully.

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I always thought idea of extras related to just parlour punts. Idea of an indie or agency punt wanting extras for a two hour punt is unacceptable to me. (With one or two minor exceptions, e.g. I'd accept a minor addition charge for something like water sports that might take some pre-punt prep, and additional laundry work.)

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I don't mind extras as long as they are mentioned in advance.

I have no problems in asking about extras, in advance, and would advise that all customers do the same.

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Hang on, she was charging extra to dominate you? How odd. I see how you could charge extra to wear special clothing (do you have any idea how much a latex/rubber outfit costs? :blink:), for poppers, for you to dominate her or for things that could be quite unpleasant for the provider (how is it that guys who want to be fisted never bother to clean/prepare themselves?!), but as long as you are the one who is being spanked and dominated? Most places I worked at included watersports in any booking that was more than 30 minutes in the price, as was coming on the body (facials are usually extra).

To charge extra for anything that could hurt / requires extra equipment beyond a few standard dildos and a strap-on / is a risk for the WG - fine, as not every punter wants this and it really does drain you a lot more, I've had to end the working day after a three-hour session with a guy who wanted to be treated like a baby, including changing his soiled nappies, it just was a bit much upholding the illusion for that long. If you want BDSM stuff at a more all-inclusive price, then you may be better off going straight to a specialised place as only women who enjoy doing the stuff will work there. Hopefully.

I would expect that most WGs who are in it for the money would charge extra for anything that the punter requested that was to bring him any sort of pleasure or gain. It is simple economics and this happens every day in most market places.

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Hang on, she was charging extra to dominate you? How odd. I see how you could charge extra to wear special clothing (do you have any idea how much a latex/rubber outfit costs? :blink:), for poppers, for you to dominate her or for things that could be quite unpleasant for the provider (how is it that guys who want to be fisted never bother to clean/prepare themselves?!), but as long as you are the one who is being spanked and dominated? Most places I worked at included watersports in any booking that was more than 30 minutes in the price, as was coming on the body (facials are usually extra).

To charge extra for anything that could hurt / requires extra equipment beyond a few standard dildos and a strap-on / is a risk for the WG - fine, as not every punter wants this and it really does drain you a lot more, I've had to end the working day after a three-hour session with a guy who wanted to be treated like a baby, including changing his soiled nappies, it just was a bit much upholding the illusion for that long. If you want BDSM stuff at a more all-inclusive price, then you may be better off going straight to a specialised place as only women who enjoy doing the stuff will work there. Hopefully.

Occasionally I see fully equipped pro-dommes, especially for more hardcore sessions. However, dommes don't usually offer intimacy like RO (although I know of several who relax those rules for favoured clients). WGs are much more flexible, there is a greater choice and usually both intimacy and mild dom can be successfully combined. I prefer punting with WGs for this reason and on this occasion I was only seeking a mild session.

I've encountered extras but this case is a bit more unusual which is why I'm having a general whinge about extras being unfairly applied.

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I do not count these services as extras but rather "inclusions" :)

They are just part of an appointment for me.... I charge the same whether

a simple straightforward easypeasy session or a full blown sticky messy

dom session.

Never having charged for most of the above quoted services I got rather agitated to think

that any wg could rack up her fee by charging extra for some fairly standard acts. I think

it is greed.

I would not charge for wearing an expensive outfit. If I didn't want the expense of purchasing latex or leather then I

simply wouldn't buy it. I choose what I want to offer in my (now vast) collection of clothing and footwear.... dom accoutrements etc

and it is my responsibility to provide it, not my clients.

The only service I sometimes wish I could charge a little extra for is ws. The extra laundry involved is a bit of a chore as I

do not do this service in the bathroom...... and I do not do it naked either!

I can not begin charging for this now though as I only do ws with 2 long established clients on a regular basis and if I suddenly

asked for a higher fee they would not only be shocked but I believe disappointed and that would spoil or even end our meetings.

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I can not begin charging for this now though as I only do ws with 2 long established clients on a regular basis and if I suddenly

asked for a higher fee they would not only be shocked but I believe disappointed and that would spoil or even end our meetings.

Presumably you could charge any new clients for WS and keep on offering the regulars your usual deal.

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£20 watersports;

£20 for domination;

£10 reverse oral

£10 rimming;

£10 foot worship;

£10 for spanking; (this was not covered by domination);

£10 for each toy; so using a combination of whip, tawse, spanker, paddle and flogger would total £50;

£10 for allowing me to wear an Arab strap;

£10 for allowing me to use poppers.

On TOP of £250! On TOP of £250?

What the bloody hell was she meant to be doing for the £250, making you a cup of tea afterwards?

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Presumably you could charge any new clients for WS and keep on offering the regulars your usual deal.

Yes of course Paul and I would consider this. WS is something rarely asked for these days as far as I am

concerned but I will cross that bridge when I come to it (is there a pun in there somewhere? :D )

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I don't think that charging a premium for things like A Levels/WS/CIM/CIF/Swallow is that bad, as they're (mainly) not in the remit of a normal FS. This girl sounds like a chancer (or pimped), what happened to the Indian girl you were meant to see?

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This is indeed the way things go when its hard - they get you in then the extras are added - walk away and post your experiances - yes things are bad around the country but its bad for us guys aswell ! were spending a fair bit of money on a luxuary experiance, Im not buying into the upgrade mentality if your basic service is lacking that I need to upgrade and buy extras then its not for me.... Ill find another provider that values me and the basic transaction thats going on here....

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On TOP of £250! On TOP of £250?

What the bloody hell was she meant to be doing for the £250, making you a cup of tea afterwards?

It would have to be a bloody good cup of tea. Mind you she'd probably charge extra for it + more for milk + more for sugar + more for the use of a teaspoon

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I dont mind extras as long as they are on the internet before i turn up so i can have the right money. But unadvertised extras are a no-no. I think the OP was right to walk.

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On TOP of £250! On TOP of £250?

What the bloody hell was she meant to be doing for the £250, making you a cup of tea afterwards?

I know, I was astounded. An extra £20 or so, I can understand but £300 defies belief.

I don't think that charging a premium for things like A Levels/WS/CIM/CIF/Swallow is that bad, as they're (mainly) not in the remit of a normal FS. This girl sounds like a chancer (or pimped), what happened to the Indian girl you were meant to see?

Yeah I wondered about that too. I can't believe any right-minded individual would assume that I'd be carrying, in cash, more than twice the agreed price. I only had £300: the remainder for cushioning in case of any reasonable WS extras, and usually, a tip.

I was a bit incongruously dressed for the area. She must have assumed that I was affluent, and daft.

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I am surprised she didn't demand a fee for your having dirty thoughts.

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Yesterday I travelled across London for what I thought would have been a two hour punt at £250. The Indian girl I had been expecting was absent, contradicting what I'd been told when I phoned earlier. However an attractive EE girl entered the bedroom and, after discussing the services I wanted, began to list the extras on a calculator:

£20 watersports;

£20 for domination;

£10 reverse oral

£10 rimming;

£10 foot worship;

£10 for spanking; (this was not covered by domination);

£10 for each toy; so using a combination of whip, tawse, spanker, paddle and flogger would total £50;

£10 for allowing me to wear an Arab strap;

£10 for allowing me to use poppers.

I can understand extra charges applied to services which take time to prepare, like WS, but this was madness. It racked up £150 in extras. Then she told me that these charges apply per hour. That works out at £300 in extras. £550 in total! Thank fuck I hadn’t unpacked the butt plugs and nipple clamps – a tenner per tit probably. I baulked at the price and walked. After leaving I examined myself in the mirror to see if there was any sign of the CUNT tattoo I must have emblazoned on my forehead.

All of which illustrates how trying a new zero feedback profile from the other place can easily turn to shit.

Does anyone else groan when they hear the word extras?

Groan? i just move on to the next one and hang up. I dont see girls who charge extras, to my mind if she enjoys something she'll include it. Also, i never book a girl with 0 feedback on that utter waste of time shithole site with purple design. In fact, even women with lots of FB can be a waste of time, hence why i stopped using it long ago!

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Yesterday I travelled across London for what I thought would have been a two hour punt at £250. The Indian girl I had been expecting was absent, contradicting what I'd been told when I phoned earlier. However an attractive EE girl entered the bedroom and, after discussing the services I wanted, began to list the extras on a calculator:

£20 watersports;

£20 for domination;

£10 reverse oral

£10 rimming;

£10 foot worship;

£10 for spanking; (this was not covered by domination);

£10 for each toy; so using a combination of whip, tawse, spanker, paddle and flogger would total £50;

£10 for allowing me to wear an Arab strap;

£10 for allowing me to use poppers.

I can understand extra charges applied to services which take time to prepare, like WS, but this was madness. It racked up £150 in extras. Then she told me that these charges apply per hour. That works out at £300 in extras. £550 in total! Thank fuck I hadn’t unpacked the butt plugs and nipple clamps – a tenner per tit probably. I baulked at the price and walked. After leaving I examined myself in the mirror to see if there was any sign of the CUNT tattoo I must have emblazoned on my forehead.

All of which illustrates how trying a new zero feedback profile from the other place can easily turn to shit.

Does anyone else groan when they hear the word extras?

A lot of ladies will have all the above covered under their usual fee, some will charge a little extra....but the way this ladies going, she might as well have a charge for knocking on the door too...lol

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Expect smiths to come on this thread with the best ever .... the wg who wanted to charge him 10 pounds to take a pee in her loo ! ! :eek:

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I hate the whole money thing with punting, it ruins the illusiion that you are having a wonderful sexual experience that is mutually enjoyed.

It isn't me being mean, I won't haggle over prices, just pay the published or agreed rate, which I prefer to subtly leave the correct amount discreetly on the bedside table, or other suitable place.

As soon as extras are mentioned, it ruins the illusion that it is all for money not pleasure.

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began to list the extras on a calculator.....

£20 watersports;

£20 for domination;

£10 reverse oral

£10 rimming;

£10 foot worship;

£10 for spanking; (this was not covered by domination);

£10 for each toy; so using a combination of whip, tawse, spanker, paddle and flogger would total £50;

£10 for allowing me to wear an Arab strap;

£10 for allowing me to use poppers.

Imagine what it will be like if Ryanair ever open a brothel.....

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I've never seen anyone who charges for extras, by the sound of it you were visiting a parlour, see indies, my experience is they either do something or don't.

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