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Hello everyone, been reading some excellent articles on here and have joined to gain some advice on punting as a newbie.

I am in my 40's and have never dated or had any sexual experience-put it this way i am not exactly good-looking if you know what i mean. BUT i always dress presentably, clean shaven and well groomed...just an ugly looking guy. I am based in the North Herts/ South Beds area (nearby towns Luton, Bedford, Stevenage) and was wondering if anyone has experience of this area?

I haven't booked anywhere yet but what i'm after is an agency that has girls where you can book a couple of hours, tell her you are a virgin and i can kiss/stroke her body-something i not only want to do but feel necessary in order to relax and thus perform. Do girls allow this as i am new to it all?

Thanks for any advice.

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Hello everyone, been reading some excellent articles on here and have joined to gain some advice on punting as a newbie.

I am in my 40's and have never dated or had any sexual experience-put it this way i am not exactly good-looking if you know what i mean. BUT i always dress presentably, clean shaven and well groomed...just an ugly looking guy. I am based in the North Herts/ South Beds area (nearby towns Luton, Bedford, Stevenage) and was wondering if anyone has experience of this area?

I haven't booked anywhere yet but what i'm after is an agency that has girls where you can book a couple of hours, tell her you are a virgin and i can kiss/stroke her body-something i not only want to do but feel necessary in order to relax and thus perform. Do girls allow this as i am new to it all?

Thanks for any advice.

A good WG will definitely offer what your after. I mentioned Establishments in Milton Keynes to you on my welcome post but they are Parlours not Agencies.

Hopefully punters with experience of Agencies in your area will post and offer recommendations. Have you also considered Indies or is it only Agencies you are interested in, that will help posters know who to recommend. :)

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Parlour and an agency..what is the difference? There is a place called 'Luton Angels' with photos and prices etc . Is that an agency?

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Parlour and an agency..what is the difference? There is a place called 'Luton Angels' with photos and prices etc . Is that an agency?

The Difference is a Parlour always provides the WGs Incall premises whereas it will often be the WGs own premises you go to through an Agency if an Incall, Incall meaning you go to her. At some Parlours you might bump into other punters which puts some punters off using them. Just checked Luton Angels on Google and its an Agency, never heard of them before so no idea if they are honest or not.

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I dont know the Luton Bedford areas, but im sure that someone will suggest something to you, you could always try putting Luton escorts into your search engine and see what it brings up, go for the ladys with feedback, best of luck and just take it easy mate, im sure someone will be able to help you.

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I would tend to agree with Smiths and suggest a good indie would be the best thing in your situation.

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I am in my 40's and have never dated or had any sexual experience-put it this way i am not exactly good-looking if you know what i mean. BUT i always dress presentably, clean shaven and well groomed...just an ugly looking guy.

The problem is not your looks but in your head.

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There is a search facility here which allows you to look for providers in your area. My advice would be to tell your chosen escort exactly what you have told us. 99% of them will be only too pleased to help you.

Good Luck.

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The problem is not your looks but in your head.

Ok that is very helpful. As you cannot see me would you care to expand on that ?

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There are some extraordinarily ugly men out there who are nevertheless very successful with women. Believe in your abilities and they become real!

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There are some extraordinarily ugly men out there who are nevertheless very successful with women. Believe in your abilities and they become real!

That is the reason i have begun to look into the escort idea-i have never been on a date in the 'conventional' sense. Is booking a 2hr session a good idea? In order to get comfortable in the situation?

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I found this girl, Melanie who is 33, on the internet. It's just a case of plucking up the courage to phone up and book. I'm so used to women calling me ugly and have never even dated, i'm not sure how it will go. I am always clean and presentable but i think nerves will take over. How can i relax?

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I found this girl, Melanie who is 33, on the internet. It's just a case of plucking up the courage to phone up and book. I'm so used to women calling me ugly and have never even dated, i'm not sure how it will go. I am always clean and presentable but i think nerves will take over. How can i relax?

Reat assured that if she is professional, your looks will in no way affect her service (and I bet she finds you nowhere near as bad looking as you make out). Just be yourself, don't try and make up a fake personality. Best way to relax is to get some practice in. Don't expect too much of yourself on a first visit. You will be nervous, but until you have tried it you won't know it's for you.

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Nerves are normal on the first punt, many guys back out. The important thing is breaking your duck in terms of making the arrangements and seeing the woman. Most are non judgemental and will do their best to help. I advise you to tell the girl you are very inexperienced.

I couldnt even get an erection on my first punt, boy have I cum a long way since then.

Two recs; Catherine in Bletchley and Ellen in Leighton Buzzard are the more mature types that would be very understanding. Both have review on here and websites, I wouldn't pick someone at random!!

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One more piece of advice. Although you are rightly nervous, don't be tempted to take a little "Dutch Courage" on the way. Many escorts can refuse to meet anyone who they feel might be "under the influence of the demon drink".

Best to turn up on time, clean and tidy and sober.

Have a drink to celebrate afterwards

Good luck.

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Hello everyone, been reading some excellent articles on here and have joined to gain some advice on punting as a newbie.

I am in my 40's and have never dated or had any sexual experience-put it this way i am not exactly good-looking if you know what i mean. BUT i always dress presentably, clean shaven and well groomed...just an ugly looking guy. I am based in the North Herts/ South Beds area (nearby towns Luton, Bedford, Stevenage) and was wondering if anyone has experience of this area?

I haven't booked anywhere yet but what i'm after is an agency that has girls where you can book a couple of hours, tell her you are a virgin and i can kiss/stroke her body-something i not only want to do but feel necessary in order to relax and thus perform. Do girls allow this as i am new to it all?

Thanks for any advice.

Welcome to the forum.

What sort of agency are you looking for? Incall or outcall?

Have you had a search in the FRs for your town or area? Have you had a search in Adultw0rk.com for your area?

Although I live in MK I havent visited anyone in your area. But have you thought of booking a hotel and doing an outcall? Its how I started. I know Decadent Divas in MK has some of the MK parlour girls doing outcalls and theres TONS of outcall (or incall) agency girls in London. Plan something for a weekend or take a day off work and start having a look at agencies that have FRs and see what girls catch your eye.

Ive usually done a 3 hour incall in London with some of the agency girls there. (I aint travelling all that way for a quick 1 hr)

Anyone takes your fancy you can always ask on here.

Enjoy the researching :)

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. I'm so used to women calling me ugly and have never even dated, i'm not sure how it will go. I am always clean and presentable but i think nerves will take over. How can i relax?

Please don't take this the wrong way but instead of spending money on a WG go get some counselling and take steps to build your self esteem and confidence - especially when it comes to the female of the species. It could be the best money you've ever spent. Paying for sex will not solve your problems.

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I would say it's really important to let her know (or the agency) any specific things that are important to you. You mention that you like to take things slowly and kiss and cuddle first (just like me!). If you pass this on, then a good agency or a good WG will make sure your experience is to your requirements, or at least tell you to try a different lady who will be suited to you.

I've had some terrible punts where I either didn't mention my preferences for gentleness and buildup, or a bad agency didn't pass them on, and so I just couldn't get into it with the girls who just want to throw the clothes off and get the condom on you. Some people like that of course, and one great thing about punting is you have a chance to find out what you do and don't like. The results might surprise you! But definitely the first few times stick to the style that you feel comfortable with. Then if you have a regular girl you like and feel comfortable with, you can suggest trying some different things.

While it might not be the only way of tackling self esteem issues, I have found that a lovely intimate time with a gorgeous and understanding lady is one element of it. You have a chance to discover and learn about yourself with no pressure, and it can really boost your confidence. I've definitely found that since I started punting.

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I have tried contacting this place in Luton via Email but received no reply.

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I have tried contacting this place in Luton via Email but received no reply.

How long have you waited and do they have a phone number you could try?

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Actually there is a phone number, perhaps better to try that??

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Actually there is a phone number, perhaps better to try that??

Yes give them a call. You could always dial 141or what ever the right number is before you dial to prevent them seeing your number if you are that concerned.

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Hello everyone, been reading some excellent articles on here and have joined to gain some advice on punting as a newbie.

I am in my 40's and have never dated or had any sexual experience-put it this way i am not exactly good-looking if you know what i mean. BUT i always dress presentably, clean shaven and well groomed...just an ugly looking guy. I am based in the North Herts/ South Beds area (nearby towns Luton, Bedford, Stevenage) and was wondering if anyone has experience of this area?

I haven't booked anywhere yet but what i'm after is an agency that has girls where you can book a couple of hours, tell her you are a virgin and i can kiss/stroke her body-something i not only want to do but feel necessary in order to relax and thus perform. Do girls allow this as i am new to it all?

Thanks for any advice.

Firstly mate, i doubt you are ugly, you are probably hard on yourself, and secondly, according to EVERY woman on this site, looks is not the deal breaker when getting into bed with a man, either as an escort or in 'civvie' street.

May i suggest before losing your virginity by paying to do so, you go out this week-end keeping in mind what i have said and chat to some girls, maybe have a dance with them, as long as you dont grope them or stare at their tits, if you smile and look happy, you will find lots of women will enjoy the attention and you will get a couple of telephone numbers and be able to arrange some dates.

Punting is great with the right girl, but it is expensiive, so maybe with a bit more confidence you can save yourself alot of money.

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Yes give them a call. You could always dial 141or what ever the right number is before you dial to prevent them seeing your number if you are that concerned.

A lot of independent girls block calls from withheld numbers. I don't know about parlours.

Just use a cheap mobile that's not your main mobile - that way there's really not much to worry about.

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Firstly mate, i doubt you are ugly, you are probably hard on yourself, and secondly, according to EVERY woman on this site, looks is not the deal breaker when getting into bed with a man, either as an escort or in 'civvie' street.

May i suggest before losing your virginity by paying to do so, you go out this week-end keeping in mind what i have said and chat to some girls, maybe have a dance with them, as long as you dont grope them or stare at their tits, if you smile and look happy, you will find lots of women will enjoy the attention and you will get a couple of telephone numbers and be able to arrange some dates.

Punting is great with the right girl, but it is expensiive, so maybe with a bit more confidence you can save yourself alot of money.

I've tried all that in the past mate, no success, just derision. I'm 44 now.

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