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Flirting?

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Guys, if you flirt on here with the ladies do you often follow it up with a booking, or is it just and only friendly banter?

Ladies, do you find flirting leads to bookings from punters who tell you they post on here?

I am not asking for posters to name names here of course.

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I became aware of one lady on here through her postings, visited her website, made contact and have seen her 3 times.

Another liked the sound of me enough to PM me and I am seeing her for the second time in 40 minutes...

Others I had already met before I saw them posting / messaging me here.

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I became aware of one lady on here through her postings, visited her website, made contact and have seen her 3 times.

Another liked the sound of me enough to PM me and I am seeing her for the second time in 40 minutes...

Others I had already met before I saw them posting / messaging me here.

Thanks. Sounds good, enjoy the punt. ;)

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Good question, Smiths. I've not followed up chats on here with a booking but I think I probably will at some point. I was never sure quite whether some ladies here wished to keep their 'working life' and 'chat life' separate but I have recently been assured (in the chat room) that this is not generally the case. I would certainly be interested to find out whether the ladies in question are as I imagine them; whether they wpuld be as fascinated as to what I am like in the flesh is, of course, an entirely different matter (and probably irrelevant!)

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... I am seeing her for the second time in 40 minutes...

I don't think I could manage twice in 40 minutes ;)

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I dont use chat rooms, have pm'd one or two escorts on here, but have never booked them, tend to only book local escorts and very few of them are from the area where I punt.

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Smiths, you're looking devilishly handsome tonight *flutters eyelashes*

I have seen a few guys from here I have 'met' in the chatroom or who have contacted me via PM.

However, If I engage with someone in here or in chat then it's because I am interested in what they have to say not because I see them as a potential booking. Many of the chaps I correspond with are either miles away or I know I am not their type but I would never dismiss them because I know I'm not going to get a booking from them.

Whilst I am aware a profile on here has gained me bookings it's not why I am here and anyone who has read my rants at some posters will know I am not all about flirting and getting men to book me! In fact I have probably put more than a few off! :)

It's also fairly likely that escorts are natural flirts anyway so it probably just comes naturally to many of us!

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I get the impression that a site like Captain69 which has fewer male and female posters and is London centric has far more encounters generated by regular postings by escorts than here. I maybe wrong but....

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.... If I engage with someone in here or in chat then it's because I am interested in what they have to say not because I see them as a potential booking. Many of the chaps I correspond with are either miles away or I know I am not their type but I would never dismiss them because I know I'm not going to get a booking from them.

Whilst I am aware a profile on here has gained me bookings it's not why I am here and anyone who has read my rants at some posters will know I am not all about flirting and getting men to book me! In fact I have probably put more than a few off! :)

Spot on, Lydia: a good reminder of why the forum exists, I guess - a useful means of ladies and punters exchanging views, knocking a few preconceptions on the head, and an opportunity to have a good old rant when the occasion (and the unwary OP) demands! Flirting is a good by-product, though!

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Smiths, you're looking devilishly handsome tonight *flutters eyelashes*

I have seen a few guys from here I have 'met' in the chatroom or who have contacted me via PM.

However, If I engage with someone in here or in chat then it's because I am interested in what they have to say not because I see them as a potential booking. Many of the chaps I correspond with are either miles away or I know I am not their type but I would never dismiss them because I know I'm not going to get a booking from them.

Whilst I am aware a profile on here has gained me bookings it's not why I am here and anyone who has read my rants at some posters will know I am not all about flirting and getting men to book me! In fact I have probably put more than a few off! :)

It's also fairly likely that escorts are natural flirts anyway so it probably just comes naturally to many of us!

Dont be too sure feisty lydia!!!!!!!

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Hi,

I like to flirt, its fun and exciting. :)))

xxx

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Guys, if you flirt on here with the ladies do you often follow it up with a booking, or is it just and only friendly banter?

Ladies, do you find flirting leads to bookings from punters who tell you they post on here?

I am not asking for posters to name names here of course.

Some of the girls on here are nice, seem genuine, and i have exchanged funny and interesting PM's with. One offended me a bit when she asked me for a deposit to see me, and we are not on speaking terms now, but one girl is brilliant and i am planning a trip to London to see her, her rates are much higher than what i usually pay, but i love her personality so i look forward to seeing her.

Distance is the biggest problem, most girls on here are defnitely worth booking, even the argumentative ones, because they have personalities but none live near me.

But id say its a far better bet booking a girl off here, even if you dont know what she looks like, than booking girls of the purple site and going off the (mainly) fake pics..

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Hi,

I like to flirt, its fun and exciting. :)))

xxx

should change your name to sexynaughtynataly!! xx ;)

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I don't mind a bit of flirting myself , but only with smiths . I have my limits .

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I don't mind a bit of flirting myself , but only with smiths . I have my limits .

And I thought Smiths was being faithful to me! Wait till I have words with him.

But back on topic, yes I have flirted with a particular lady, to the point of booking an anonymous hotel room. Watch the thread for the conclusion as to how to get what you want from Premier Inns without ant trace on your account.

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And I thought Smiths was being faithful to me! Wait till I have words with him.

Right then Paul , meet me outside the school gates tomorrow at 4pm will you :angry: Oops, forgot we are still on school holidays , eerrr ,

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Right then Paul , meet me outside the school gates tomorrow at 4pm will you :angry: Oops, forgot we are still on school holidays , eerrr ,

OK On the supermarket car park, behind the recycling bins. I'll have my best friend with me. She's 6ft 2ins and can handle herself!

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OK On the supermarket car park, behind the recycling bins. I'll have my best friend with me. She's 6ft 2ins and can handle herself!

You're on , my mum is bigger than your mum and your best friend .

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You're on , my mum is bigger than your mum and your best friend .

16.00 it is then. I'll be wearing my black hoodie!

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Guys, if you flirt on here with the ladies do you often follow it up with a booking, or is it just and only friendly banter?

Ladies, do you find flirting leads to bookings from punters who tell you they post on here?

I try to avoid anything remotely like flirting on any sex site forums now, as it looks like touting to the powers that be and they do not like it.

I will banter a bit, but not a lot.

What I class as pure banter though the next will see as shamless touting.

If a bloke starts flirting in the chat room with me I will exit the chat room.

I have met a few who type on here now since I joined, most approach me via the purple site though and not via here.

I usually do my market research still in this world and ask them how they spotted me if not local to me, if off here they will say so.

I do not ask them who they are, some have told me though.

Lucy :)

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I don't think I could manage twice in 40 minutes ;)

Ah, but it was longer than that before I even got my tie off!

No more details to protect the not-so-innocent

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Guys, if you flirt on here with the ladies do you often follow it up with a booking, or is it just and only friendly banter?

Ladies, do you find flirting leads to bookings from punters who tell you they post on here?

I am not asking for posters to name names here of course.

Have posted the odd flattering comment. ;) Just a bit of fun...

But I tend not to see girls of the board as a rule, even those very few I have I didnt know they were on here....I think thats only 3. and 2 arent on here anymore anyway...

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Being bashful :wub: . I do not think I have ever been flirty...Shirty now that is a different matter :P

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Sadly, i'm way too shy to flirt!!! I think :wacko:

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What is flirting? Being nice to people, expressing some interest in them, BEING interested in them, bit of friendly affectionate teasing, that kind of thing? I've always done that, I do it with everyone, from old ladies at the bus stop to intimate friends and family.

I never used to think of it as flirting, just as being friendly. Because there is often no sexual motive.

I have a genuine fascination and interest in other people, and maybe partly because of a health care background, but also as a natural expression of my own personality I tend to focus utterly on people I am interacting with. And that can create an intimacy that goes beyond the confines of the actual setting and relationship.

This is not a bad thing in my view, our society is full of people who are like little island universes, scared to open up, to be genuine about who they are for fear of not being understood, being dismissed. I have had bookings through my presence here. I have seen guys who I have really been DYING to meet because of THEIR presence here.

But am also very aware of what Lucy7 says above. One man's friendly banter and light flirting can be another man's shameless touting. In the same way, in real life, my idea of 'just being friendly' can be interpreted by some as 'she is shamelessly trying it on with my bf/gf/husband/wife'. It's a fine line. The reason I am shameless, is because I am normally not up to ANYTHING! I don't have an agenda, I'm naturally interested in people/am big shameless flirt. (Delete as desired).

It's all about intent. My intent when I chat, post here etc is to interact.

So Smiths......

Yes, it is friendly banter, but sometimes not 'just and only'.

Yes I have had bookings that are as a result of chatting on here.

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