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Hi all,

I've done a lot of reading/researching on this forum before deciding to post so I do apologise as you have probably heard it all before.

After much pondering I have decided to lose my virginity to WG. I have kind of whittled down a few possible candidates in my area from the other site - looked at there reviews (also found some of them reviewed on this sites FR page), done reverse image search to check all was legit. Before I go any further I was wondering if I could get some advise on a couple of things:

- First of all, I'm still a bit apprehensive about the use of the purple site after reading many things about it on here. But it seems to be the most used database for searching WG. Should I be looking at other sites more? Of the two on my wish list - one has her own personal website and is also reviewed on here. The other one doesn't appear to be listed anywhere else but has some good reviews and has been mentioned on here by a few fellow posters.

- When making that first phone call to book, should I mention it will be my first time? I looked at similar threads on the forums here and I found a few fellow posters tend to mention it's there first time with a WG but don't mention they are a virgin until the appointment comes around. What's better?

Also (again this is with the phone call to book) I'm 26 but I sound a lot younger and I look very young for my age, which is great I know :) but it has it's down sides. I know it's impossible to verify one's age over the phone, I'm a polite and professional guy, I don't sound immature just young. Will a WG judge me by my voice on the phone and if they don't believe me are they likely to just say no? In which case should I just leave it and move on? It's different if we get to actually meeting because then I can have my driving license ready to prove my age.

And finally, I'm asian and the one WG I have my eye on doesn't really mention if they cater to specific ethnicity. So should I ask this on the phone? It sounds weird (to me anyway as I'm a novice) but would I just say do you see asian clients?

Thanks everyone, hope I haven't bored you too much and you can help fill the dots in. I'd also like to get your opinions on the potential WG I'm thinking of but I want to take these in small steps. Look forward to hearing from you :)

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Ok, its your first time, keep it simple, cut the planning to a minimum, your priority is to lose you virginity not find a girlfriend to take home for Sunday tea so no need to search out your perfect mental image of a provider and to be honest due to nerves you may not even enjoy it that much so don't go spending your punting vouchers like a seasoned punter! depending what area you are from I would search out a local flat/parlour most if not all will do 30 minute services and cost between £40 to £60, get in, do your stuff and leave. Most places I use you don't need to book or phone just turn up, somewhere like Cosmopolitan in Manchester would be ideal, if you enjoy your first punt then do a few more 30 minute services just to learn the ropes, get to different venues and try a varity of shapes and sizes, get out and explore and have fun, dont limit yourself to your ideal lady, just get some punting expirence.

Once your have got your confidence move up to an hour appointments, again try a few Parlours or pick some names from our Punternet ladies or post a request for info on one of our area forums and see what pops up!

Remember, keep it simple!

Good luck!

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Where are you based?

You might get one of the Ladies on here offering to help you out!

Edit: Just read West Midlands. Doh!

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J Kay's advice is sound for a first time punt.Keep it simple and quick. Time for greater satisfaction later

Good Luck mate.

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I'd search this forum for west midlands and birmingham. There have been threads on the area many times before. And i suspect most of the advice still stands.

Also trawl the FR's for west midlands towns. doubt west midlands will come up, so you will probably have to search for birmingham, then walsall, then dudley then..................

As to parlours in the west mids the only one currently operating is Pump. Google pumpclub and you will find it.

Its in central brum about 5 mins walk from the pagoda.

as to the purple site, do give it a go. just remember many of the profiles mnay be dodgy, so go for girls with a good feedback number (more than 10), click the number to see the individual feedbacks and check the blokes doing feedback have a rating too, and that the dates of the feedback span at least a year.

search for girls who have signed in in the last week, and in the interview tab you can limit your results to those who say their first language is english if that metters to you. Use the proximity tab to search by postcode rather than using the country region town filters on the profiles tab.

then read the profiles carefully.

good luck. hope yow gets a bostin one!

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I'd ask snogman1. He always speaks highly of the area :).

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As to parlours in the west mids the only one currently operating is Pump. Google pumpclub and you will find it.

Its in central brum about 5 mins walk from the pagoda

Never been to the Pump...but...I can recommend a few agencies who will look after you:

www.agencybella.co.uk

www.executiveescortsmidlands.co.uk

www.blacklabelescorts.co.uk

Your search may lead you to passionvip. My advice would be to avoid like the plague; check FR's.

Best of luck brother

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I would say from an ex working girls point of view that yes it would be wise to tell the lady in advance that you are new to this and whilst your being Asian would never have bothered me, it does some ladies so best ask about that too.

Hope you have fun.

Holly x

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If you have found some ladies that look good, by all means go for it with them. You don't have to go to a parlour. Your punt - do as you wish. Starting with an Indy is fine.

I terms of your questions, there is nothing wrong with girls on purple - you just cant rely on information there fully. It seems like you understand that - the extra research is all that is needed.

I do agree with Holly, be honest and share race and experience. It may seem weird mentioning you are Asian in today's world - of course any other business could not turn you away. 99% of wg wont either - but 1% might and you dont want to punt with them anyway. As per experience and other preferences - the more she knows about you the better she can prepare.

Looking and sounding young? Lucky you! I cant think it would be a problem - but bringing proof of age cant hurt. A few WG don't want to see men under 30 - like race thing, it seems weird, but a wg doesn't have to have sex with anyone she doesn't want to.

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If you have found some ladies that look good, by all means go for it with them. You don't have to go to a parlour. Your punt - do as you wish. Starting with an Indy is fine.

I terms of your questions, there is nothing wrong with girls on purple - you just cant rely on information there fully. It seems like you understand that - the extra research is all that is needed.

I do agree with Holly, be honest and share race and experience. It may seem weird mentioning you are Asian in today's world - of course any other business could not turn you away. 99% of wg wont either - but 1% might and you dont want to punt with them anyway. As per experience and other preferences - the more she knows about you the better she can prepare.

Looking and sounding young? Lucky you! I cant think it would be a problem - but bringing proof of age cant hurt. A few WG don't want to see men under 30 - like race thing, it seems weird, but a wg doesn't have to have sex with anyone she doesn't want to.

Better to say when 'phoning than being refused when you arrive.

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Where are you based?

You might get one of the Ladies on here offering to help you out!

Edit: Just read West Midlands. Doh!

I'm a virgin!!!!!!!!

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I'd search this forum for west midlands and birmingham. There have been threads on the area many times before. And i suspect most of the advice still stands.

Also trawl the FR's for west midlands towns. doubt west midlands will come up, so you will probably have to search for birmingham, then walsall, then dudley then..................

As to parlours in the west mids the only one currently operating is Pump. Google pumpclub and you will find it.

Its in central brum about 5 mins walk from the pagoda.

as to the purple site, do give it a go. just remember many of the profiles mnay be dodgy, so go for girls with a good feedback number (more than 10), click the number to see the individual feedbacks and check the blokes doing feedback have a rating too, and that the dates of the feedback span at least a year.

search for girls who have signed in in the last week, and in the interview tab you can limit your results to those who say their first language is english if that metters to you. Use the proximity tab to search by postcode rather than using the country region town filters on the profiles tab.

then read the profiles carefully.

good luck. hope yow gets a bostin one!

I have to disagree with you here, agencybella far better than pump imho. I would advise OP to call madison at agencybella and explain everything he has just said, she will look after him by finding a suitable lady, if he is very lucky she may see him herself!!

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I'd ask snogman1. He always speaks highly of the area :).

Hahaha, i was just about to say it not the best area to start punting!! That said agencybella i recommend, and i have just seen kelly hudson is in coventry next 3rd and 4th september 2012. In fact illl put that in block letters!!

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Hi all,

I've done a lot of reading/researching on this forum before deciding to post so I do apologise as you have probably heard it all before.

After much pondering I have decided to lose my virginity to WG. I have kind of whittled down a few possible candidates in my area from the other site - looked at there reviews (also found some of them reviewed on this sites FR page), done reverse image search to check all was legit. Before I go any further I was wondering if I could get some advise on a couple of things:

- First of all, I'm still a bit apprehensive about the use of the purple site after reading many things about it on here. But it seems to be the most used database for searching WG. Should I be looking at other sites more? Of the two on my wish list - one has her own personal website and is also reviewed on here. The other one doesn't appear to be listed anywhere else but has some good reviews and has been mentioned on here by a few fellow posters.

- When making that first phone call to book, should I mention it will be my first time? I looked at similar threads on the forums here and I found a few fellow posters tend to mention it's there first time with a WG but don't mention they are a virgin until the appointment comes around. What's better?

Also (again this is with the phone call to book) I'm 26 but I sound a lot younger and I look very young for my age, which is great I know :) but it has it's down sides. I know it's impossible to verify one's age over the phone, I'm a polite and professional guy, I don't sound immature just young. Will a WG judge me by my voice on the phone and if they don't believe me are they likely to just say no? In which case should I just leave it and move on? It's different if we get to actually meeting because then I can have my driving license ready to prove my age.

And finally, I'm asian and the one WG I have my eye on doesn't really mention if they cater to specific ethnicity. So should I ask this on the phone? It sounds weird (to me anyway as I'm a novice) but would I just say do you see asian clients?

Thanks everyone, hope I haven't bored you too much and you can help fill the dots in. I'd also like to get your opinions on the potential WG I'm thinking of but I want to take these in small steps. Look forward to hearing from you :)

KELLY HUDSON!!!! She is in Coventry on 3rd and 4th September. E-mail her asap, and get booking. PM me, i'll e-mail to vouch for you, i promise she will look after you. Be nice to her though!!! She a very nice person, so dont let me down!!! Please be polite, if you are you will have the time of your life!!

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Thanks for all of your responses so far and thanks for the links for all the local agencies too. I'm kind of looking to just book with an indy at this point. I'm probably being a bit over cautious as usual here but I find it hard to talk to people on the phone sometimes and for me i'd be even more nervous ringing an agency and then requesting to see someone specific. I'm sure there all very nice people though (on the phone I mean)

Also forgot to mention, my preference would be with someone older than me.

Ok, its your first time, keep it simple, cut the planning to a minimum, your priority is to lose you virginity not find a girlfriend to take home for Sunday tea so no need to search out your perfect mental image of a provider and to be honest due to nerves you may not even enjoy it that much so don't go spending your punting vouchers like a seasoned punter!

guess your right it'll probably be a quick affair anyways. I just thought it might be better to book 60mins (even though I know i probably wont last long) simply because I figured, well it be nice to kind of chat to the WG a bit. Either before or after? Have any first timers ever booked more than 30 mins?

I would say from an ex working girls point of view that yes it would be wise to tell the lady in advance that you are new to this and whilst your being Asian would never have bothered me, it does some ladies so best ask about that too.

Hope you have fun.

Holly x

Thanks Holly, I'll defo mention that when I make the call then. I've just read that on a few profiles on the other site, some WG mention in there FAQ they wont see people that are asian. Actually it's mainly been asian WG's who have wrote that. I'll keep this in mind now.

You might get one of the Ladies on here offering to help you out!

Are there any WG in the birmingham/midlands area that post on here?

Before I make a booking, I was wondering if I could maybe PM someone on here to iron out any last minute details/questions. So does anyone fancy being my Mr or Mrs Miyagi? lol

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Yes there are some who post on here. I don't have any names to hand but if you look through the FR's you may find the same names cropping up.

I agree with your choice on an older lady. Also don't worry about booking too long. An hour is plenty seeing as the "dirty deed" will probably take less than 15 mins!

Good luck

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Yes there are some who post on here. I don't have any names to hand but if you look through the FR's you may find the same names cropping up.

I agree with your choice on an older lady. Also don't worry about booking too long. An hour is plenty seeing as the "dirty deed" will probably take less than 15 mins!

Good luck

just cos u book an hour doesnt mean it is an hour of enthusiastic shagging. you may lie and cuddle, or chat, or i like to lie chatting while we cuddle and stroke before we get down and naughty. and I can spend a long long time giving oral cos I love doing that!

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I have to disagree with you here, agencybella far better than pump imho. I would advise OP to call madison at agencybella and explain everything he has just said, she will look after him by finding a suitable lady, if he is very lucky she may see him herself!!

How do you come to that conclusion then? I'm not knocking Agency Bella but they are not an establishment, they operate a 1 girl flat. We have some of the best girls in Bham Juliet, Helen, Lara, Demi, Yasmin their field reports speak for themselves. Have you actually been to our new establishment?

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Hi all,

I've done a lot of reading/researching on this forum before deciding to post so I do apologise as you have probably heard it all before.

After much pondering I have decided to lose my virginity to WG. I have kind of whittled down a few possible candidates in my area from the other site - looked at there reviews (also found some of them reviewed on this sites FR page), done reverse image search to check all was legit. Before I go any further I was wondering if I could get some advise on a couple of things:

- First of all, I'm still a bit apprehensive about the use of the purple site after reading many things about it on here. But it seems to be the most used database for searching WG. Should I be looking at other sites more? Of the two on my wish list - one has her own personal website and is also reviewed on here. The other one doesn't appear to be listed anywhere else but has some good reviews and has been mentioned on here by a few fellow posters.

- When making that first phone call to book, should I mention it will be my first time? I looked at similar threads on the forums here and I found a few fellow posters tend to mention it's there first time with a WG but don't mention they are a virgin until the appointment comes around. What's better?

Also (again this is with the phone call to book) I'm 26 but I sound a lot younger and I look very young for my age, which is great I know :) but it has it's down sides. I know it's impossible to verify one's age over the phone, I'm a polite and professional guy, I don't sound immature just young. Will a WG judge me by my voice on the phone and if they don't believe me are they likely to just say no? In which case should I just leave it and move on? It's different if we get to actually meeting because then I can have my driving license ready to prove my age.

And finally, I'm asian and the one WG I have my eye on doesn't really mention if they cater to specific ethnicity. So should I ask this on the phone? It sounds weird (to me anyway as I'm a novice) but would I just say do you see asian clients?

Thanks everyone, hope I haven't bored you too much and you can help fill the dots in. I'd also like to get your opinions on the potential WG I'm thinking of but I want to take these in small steps. Look forward to hearing from you :)

If you would like to email me or call I think I may have the right lady for you. If not, best of luck, Linzi xx

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Hi all,

I've done a lot of reading/researching on this forum before deciding to post so I do apologise as you have probably heard it all before.

After much pondering I have decided to lose my virginity to WG. I have kind of whittled down a few possible candidates in my area from the other site - looked at there reviews (also found some of them reviewed on this sites FR page), done reverse image search to check all was legit. Before I go any further I was wondering if I could get some advise on a couple of things:

- First of all, I'm still a bit apprehensive about the use of the purple site after reading many things about it on here. But it seems to be the most used database for searching WG. Should I be looking at other sites more? Of the two on my wish list - one has her own personal website and is also reviewed on here. The other one doesn't appear to be listed anywhere else but has some good reviews and has been mentioned on here by a few fellow posters.

- When making that first phone call to book, should I mention it will be my first time? I looked at similar threads on the forums here and I found a few fellow posters tend to mention it's there first time with a WG but don't mention they are a virgin until the appointment comes around. What's better?

Also (again this is with the phone call to book) I'm 26 but I sound a lot younger and I look very young for my age, which is great I know :) but it has it's down sides. I know it's impossible to verify one's age over the phone, I'm a polite and professional guy, I don't sound immature just young. Will a WG judge me by my voice on the phone and if they don't believe me are they likely to just say no? In which case should I just leave it and move on? It's different if we get to actually meeting because then I can have my driving license ready to prove my age.

And finally, I'm asian and the one WG I have my eye on doesn't really mention if they cater to specific ethnicity. So should I ask this on the phone? It sounds weird (to me anyway as I'm a novice) but would I just say do you see asian clients?

Thanks everyone, hope I haven't bored you too much and you can help fill the dots in. I'd also like to get your opinions on the potential WG I'm thinking of but I want to take these in small steps. Look forward to hearing from you :)

Also remember let the lady lead you, she is the professional. I know beforehand you are probably thinking you want to try lots of things but it rarely happens to virgins because they are so nervous. I agree with the others book an hour but let the receptionist know beforehand that way she will ensure the right girl (just in case the girl feels awkward seeing a virgin).

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As to parlours in the west mids the only one currently operating is Pump. Google pumpclub and you will find it.

Its in central brum about 5 mins walk from the pagoda..

I am surprised at this comment. I haven't been to parlours recently but surely Stars, Blue Ice, Aspirations, At Your Service, Ambassadors, Manyana, Erotic Studio, Garden of Eden etc etc can't all have closed down while I wasn't looking?

In the OP's situation I would be inclined to go to somewhere cheap like Aspirations where it is all pretty anonymous and no arrangements are needed in that you just ring the bell and the recep will get the girls to meet you one at a time for a smile, handshake or peck on cheek and you choose and get on with it.

That sounds like a hassle-free first time to me. Independents need at least more arrangement and discussion and I wouldn't go near the purple site till you have built up your confidence and read threads about how to go about that site to have more chance to avoid scams etc.

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I am surprised at this comment...

so am I!

I meant to say the only one currently operating I have been to.

sorry

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I have to disagree with you here, agencybella far better than pump imho. I would advise OP to call Madison at agencybella and explain everything he has just said, she will look after him by finding a suitable lady, if he is very lucky she may see him herself!!

Good advice, and very true!

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How do you come to that conclusion then? I'm not knocking Agency Bella but they are not an establishment, they operate a 1 girl flat. We have some of the best girls in Bham Juliet, Helen, Lara, Demi, Yasmin their field reports speak for themselves. Have you actually been to our new establishment?

First thing i would say is agencybella is more relaxing precisely because there is only one girl at a time working there so i dont have to worry about a raid. I like very passionate sloppy kissing, and all the girls ive seen at agencybella enjoy such kissing.

I have not been to your new establishment, i went to one in a surburban area where it was just back from a row of shops where there was a post office. I wont name the lady i saw, but she was one of the most recommended, and while she was professional, and i got my full time, and it was a good appointment, it wasn't anywhere near the experiences i have had at agency bella, i felt i was with an escort, albeit a professional one who was genuine, but all the ladies at agency bella make it feel like a 'date', even though it isnt but there is no clockwatching, after the appointment, a drink is offered and a chat, and it's just very relaxed atmosphere,

Also, all the girls at agencybellla are british, your establishment seems to have a number of foreign ladies, and while i respect all cultures, my experience of foreign ladies who escort is that their english is qquite limited, and many are a bit abrupt.

I did not mean my comments to be critical of your agency, you clearly work hard to be professional and look after your clients, so i apologise if my comments came across as critical, i just meant to suggest that if i were to recommend an agency to use in Birmingham it would be agencybella.

But, i am not saying you are a bad agency at all, i would urge people to avoid agencyfemmefatale, that is a poorly run agency, and hugely overpriced.

Apologies once again for any offence caused.

Edited by snogman1

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First thing i would say is agencybella is more relaxing precisely because there is only one girl at a time working there so i dont have to worry about a raid. I like very passionate sloppy kissing, and all the girls ive seen at agencybella enjoy such kissing.

I have not been to your new establishment, i went to one in a surburban area where it was just back from a row of shops where there was a post office. I wont name the lady i saw, but she was one of the most recommended, and while she was professional, and i got my full time, and it was a good appointment, it wasn't anywhere near the experiences i have had at agency bella, i felt i was with an escort, albeit a professional one who was genuine, but all the ladies at agency bella make it feel like a 'date', even though it isnt but there is no clockwatching, after the appointment, a drink is offered and a chat, and it's just very relaxed atmosphere,

Also, all the girls at agencybellla are british, your establishment seems to have a number of foreign ladies, and while i respect all cultures, my experience of foreign ladies who escort is that their english is qquite limited, and many are a bit abrupt.

I did not mean my comments to be critical of your agency, you clearly work hard to be professional and look after your clients, so i apologise if my comments came across as critical, i just meant to suggest that if i were to recommend an agency to use in Birmingham it would be agencybella.

But, i am not saying you are a bad agency at all, i would urge people to avoid agencyfemmefatale, that is a poorly run agency, and hugely overpriced.

Apologies once again for any offence caused.

No offence taken Snogman I just thought I would ask the question. Judging from your posts you clearly enjoy the set up of an independent flat and you have your favourites at AgencyBella. That's fine, that's the beauty of this hobby for you boys there is so much choice choice choice. Happy Punting Linzi xx

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