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Okay, so I'm 23 from Southampton. I got my first girlfriend at the age of 18 and was with her until this summer when we broke up. She was a good girl and to cut the story short against anything but kissing. Some of you might wonder why I stayed with her the last 3 years . . . well the answer is because she was drop dead gorgeous. However that ended and this leaves me here. I'm 23 and I've never done anything more than kiss a girl . . . I've yet to see a woman naked. Now I consider myself a good lad and so I don't really wanna mess with girls feelings and 2. I don't think many girls +18 and up for casual fun are into virgin boys. So I have money to spare. I put aside £1000 this summer, and I'm up for the idea of spending a couple of hours with 3/4 different escorts. Obviously the first meeting is the most important, I'm not really nervous. But I would like some suggestions and advice on what everything thinks is the best way to go about this. So I call a lady up and tell her I want to see her? From then I guess she confirms a time and gives me her address? and once I'm there, we come into her place and I hand her over the cash? I'm guessing that correct. Now what does everything think is better? To do this in a few stages? maybe meet a girl for 30 minutes just to experience oral for the first time and see a woman naked? or to just do everything in one meeting? I thought maybe I should do a 3 hour meeting, to try everything, recover in between a few times, but then if I don't like the girl after 30 minutes, it will be a bad choice. So what would be the ideal time? I've never seen, held a pair of breasts before so, right now I would be happy with a half hour meeting just so I can play with a pair of boobs for the first time. So you see how I'm thinking. Lastly whats the best kind of girl to see for your first time? I'm thinking of 5'5-'5'10 in height, pretty curvy with a pretty big bust. And what sort of experiences does everyone thing I should try experience during my first time? a friend said, forget doggy and just let her be on top and let her do the work and watch her boobs bounce . . . so if people wanna give some feedback, advice and answers to all this, that would be great. Thanks.

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Lastly whats the best kind of girl to see for your first time? I'm thinking of 5'5-'5'10 in height, pretty curvy with a pretty big bust. And what sort of experiences does everyone thing I should try experience during my first time? a friend said, forget doggy and just let her be on top and let her do the work and watch her boobs bounce . . . so if people wanna give some feedback, advice and answers to all this, that would be great. Thanks.

I'd very strongly advise that you look for a lady of 30 or more! You do NOT want a teenager (or an undergrad who is just supplementing her grant as quickly as possible), you want an experienced lady.

I'd suggest that three hours is much too long - perhaps a 90 minute session?

Good luck!

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You were with the same girl from 18 to 23 and you never even got a feel of her boobs? Wtf were you thinking, I know there's a lot more to a relationship but holy shit boy.

Go for whoever you feel attracted to, tell her you'll need her to lead the session and get your end away pal. I agree that you want someone a little bit older. Check their reports, have a chat and don't be tempted by just pictures.

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I had a lovely relationship with a boy who was a virgin when we first met - he was 22. I had been working in parlours for three years at that point and I did not notice that it was his first time, he didn't tell me at the time! He didn't know about my job but I actually liked the fact that pretty much anything I did was amazing to him, so I tried everything I could think of. I've probably ruined the boy for life...

I'm not sure booking an escort is the best start, it's like trying to learn to drive on an Audi RS8 - everything is a bit more powerful and perfected than on a normal car and if you do go back to normal cars, you'd be disappointed and still yearning for your amazing sportscar. An escort is paid to make you feel like a king, to look great and second-guess what you would like her to like.

I would see it as a challenge to turn you into a competent lover but then I am a bit older than you. To not be compared and rated against dozens of others holds a certain appeal for me now, not sure how a younger woman would feel. No neglected milfs in your extended network?

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Where are you based baker 2012?

I'd go for an older and more mature Woman, say 30 plus.

If you don't mind a larger lady, a BBW, since I find that they are more comfortable with themselves and their bodies.

Find a Lady and tell her: if she is happy to oblige and not to see it as a service in losing your virginity, go for her.

You'll probably shoot your load quickly, but being young should recvoer wuickly, so I guess half an hour to an hour should be sufficient.

NNTT on here might like to chip in?

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I had a lovely relationship with a boy who was a virgin when we first met - he was 22. I had been working in parlours for three years at that point and I did not notice that it was his first time, he didn't tell me at the time! He didn't know about my job but I actually liked the fact that pretty much anything I did was amazing to him, so I tried everything I could think of. I've probably ruined the boy for life...

I'm not sure booking an escort is the best start, it's like trying to learn to drive on an Audi RS8 - everything is a bit more powerful and perfected than on a normal car and if you do go back to normal cars, you'd be disappointed and still yearning for your amazing sportscar. An escort is paid to make you feel like a king, to look great and second-guess what you would like her to like.

I would see it as a challenge to turn you into a competent lover but then I am a bit older than you. To not be compared and rated against dozens of others holds a certain appeal for me now, not sure how a younger woman would feel. No neglected milfs in your extended network?

An amazing sportscar?!!! lol, it's overpriced and not quick enough, a Nissan GT-R far better and quicker (i have driven both!)

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Okay, so I'm 23 from Southampton. I got my first girlfriend at the age of 18 and was with her until this summer when we broke up. She was a good girl and to cut the story short against anything but kissing. Some of you might wonder why I stayed with her the last 3 years . . . well the answer is because she was drop dead gorgeous. However that ended and this leaves me here. I'm 23 and I've never done anything more than kiss a girl . . . I've yet to see a woman naked. Now I consider myself a good lad and so I don't really wanna mess with girls feelings and 2. I don't think many girls +18 and up for casual fun are into virgin boys. So I have money to spare. I put aside £1000 this summer, and I'm up for the idea of spending a couple of hours with 3/4 different escorts. Obviously the first meeting is the most important, I'm not really nervous. But I would like some suggestions and advice on what everything thinks is the best way to go about this. So I call a lady up and tell her I want to see her? From then I guess she confirms a time and gives me her address? and once I'm there, we come into her place and I hand her over the cash? I'm guessing that correct. Now what does everything think is better? To do this in a few stages? maybe meet a girl for 30 minutes just to experience oral for the first time and see a woman naked? or to just do everything in one meeting? I thought maybe I should do a 3 hour meeting, to try everything, recover in between a few times, but then if I don't like the girl after 30 minutes, it will be a bad choice. So what would be the ideal time? I've never seen, held a pair of breasts before so, right now I would be happy with a half hour meeting just so I can play with a pair of boobs for the first time. So you see how I'm thinking. Lastly whats the best kind of girl to see for your first time? I'm thinking of 5'5-'5'10 in height, pretty curvy with a pretty big bust. And what sort of experiences does everyone thing I should try experience during my first time? a friend said, forget doggy and just let her be on top and let her do the work and watch her boobs bounce . . . so if people wanna give some feedback, advice and answers to all this, that would be great. Thanks.

Read a girls feedback and make sure she has field reports on the other site, just feedback alone is not enough. Make sure she is a good kisser by ensuring guys specifically mention it as if they do it means she gives a proper GFE. Aim for a girl between 26-30, i find they overall probably the best providers, older than 30 and the ladies tend to be a bit 'jaded' in my experience. Bear in mind as well that you have to probably add on at least 3-4 years on the age a girl is claiming to be hency why i'd say stick to 26-30, which means you are allowing up to 34 in reality

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An amazing sportscar?!!! lol, it's overpriced and not quick enough, a Nissan GT-R far better and quicker (i have driven both!)

I just named one which is not my actual favourite, don't want to give away too much ;) And it was fun enough to go around a racing track with, never drove it in town. Plus, the car model is not the point, it's the idea of starting off with a pro as opposed to a civvie.

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I just named one which is not my actual favourite, don't want to give away too much ;) And it was fun enough to go around a racing track with, never drove it in town. Plus, the car model is not the point, it's the idea of starting off with a pro as opposed to a civvie.

What are you likely to give away? What's wrong you telling us what you drive, hardly likely to identify you!!! I did not enjoy driving it around a track, i felt it did not handle as well as a car that price should and i felt it lacked a bit of top end power that i would haave expected from such a powerful car. The Nissan on the other hand turned my insides into jelly!!

I have not driven either in town either, but they not really built for normal roads, not British pot hole ridden roads anyway.

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I drive a special car, so it will give me away. But we are getting off topic again!

I was just wondering if maybe a party would be something for the young chap? Still leaves the problem of setting unrealistic standards. For the amount he's saved he could probably have a whole parlour looking after him for a few hours, no?

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I drive a special car, so it will give me away. But we are getting off topic again!

I was just wondering if maybe a party would be something for the young chap? Still leaves the problem of setting unrealistic standards. For the amount he's saved he could probably have a whole parlour looking after him for a few hours, no?

Don't encourage him to blow his money in one go!! OP should see one girl at a time, variety over a period of time is more fun.

(off topic again, PM what you drive, i want to know, and i'd like to know what atracted you to it. If you say the colour i am going scream in rage!!!! No way your car nicer than mine, aand i'd caane you at the lights!!! grrrr!) :P

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Our situations are shockingly similar (except my ex wasn't gorgeous, not that I'm bitter! -- she did cheat on me with my best friend so perhaps I should be allowed a little bit of bitterness... -- and I was too shy/mentally all over the place to kiss her or do more even though I easily could have and was encouraged to) and as someone on the other side of the chasm you're about to jump over, let me offer you some hang gliding lessons.

Now, I stammered and stuttered and ummed and ahhed about visiting an escort from about age 19 til 22 (which I am now). I'd say if you want to go for it, and you're sure, go for it. I don't regret it in the slightest. You seem to be sure so I guess I'l share my thoughts about first time punting.

1. Research. I've had four meetings so far, between three different girls, and the only punt I wasn't satisfied with was the one I did no research for (surprise surprise, right?). Use the other site. Use advice from here. Use your common sense too... The two great girls I met (LilyP and miss-inka from the purple site) weren't recommended or mentioned here. It still blows my mind a bit when I see some people discussing the same girls they fear are scammers when the two gems I've found so far go unmentioned. (I booked them before it was cool #hipster). Even though Lily only had 4 positive reports and no field reports, she turned out to be great. Like, make no mistake, if you research well and choose the right girls, they will look amazing, they will have compelling personalities and they will not be mechanical or cold. It's a lot of money, and for your first time a big deal, so get it right as best you can. Rushing into the first brunette with nice breasts isn't the way to go.

2. Talk to them via e-mail first/use an indie. Instead of being as linear as Steven Moffat on LSD holding a copy of Pulp Fiction, I'll explain my escorting experiences to you first. The first girl I met was actually from another city to me, and travelled to meet me for an outcall after a series of e-mails. Oh, she was also early 30's so...

3. Book someone older than you. I'm not talking MILF's here, unless that's your thing, but a girl your own age who might be as new to escorting as you are to sex seems like more of a gamble.

...anyway, this girl knew my situation in full, or as much as she professionally needed to know, when she showed up. I required discretion because my flat at the time (this was two or so months ago) was student halls and I had flatmates around. So, yep, she texted me from outside to get access instead of ringing the buzzer, and she waited for me to give the all clear before she walked through my hall. She knew I was a virgin so she was already prepared to deal with any ensuing awkwardness... but there wasn't that much of that because we'd discussed the meeting so well beforehand that there weren't any unpleasant surprises. It's just so nice to build up some anticipation via a few emails too. I want to move onto #4 already, but I'll finish up here... The only mistake I've made was reacting to a girl who seemed like she'd be perfect for a second meeting cancelling on me by rapidly booking the first attractive blank-where-there-should-be-a-face girl via an agency. I had zero feedback on here, no research, she was my age and reminded me of a girl I hung out with once. It was awkward and everything you'd fear from a first time, even though it came after two shockingly passionate sessions with inka. So be very careful. The new to the scene teen with flirty eyes is definitely appealing, but not until you're more experienced, I'd say.

4. Be a gent. I'm sure you know that, but still. Don't get explicit via e-mails, keep those professional but friendly. When you book, by phone or text or e-mail, whether outcall or incall, dress well, smell nice, have fresh breath and don't be rude or treat the girl with anything but respect. You seem sensible though, so no worries about that.

5. There's no turning back. To get back to Dr Who, time can't be rewritten. Once you've punted, you've... ya know, the Pringles jingle. I used to think it'd be a one time deal and I'd never do it again because the issue was just getting rid of the mysteries of sex. It wasn't. As long as you can afford it (having a spare grand is nice, but be sure this is how you want to spend it over, say, a trip to NYC or something) and you're horny and lonely, it'll be an option. If it goes well the first time, you'll more than likely have an epiphany about how GREAT the experience is. The selection process, the confirmation that it's actually gonna happen, the first text you'll get from her, that moment when your door buzzer goes or your phone vibrates at 5:01 or 4:46. The first time you see her. The kissing if you go in for that (and I can't imagine not doing so). The first time you see her naked. The sex. The conversation. All of it. It IS addictive. I'm currently in flux re: income and can't book (I've decided one girl I was dead set on seeing will tempt me if she is available before retiring soon, and I want to see inka and Lily before Christmas if possible, but that's it) and it's a real drag.

Anyway, that's probably overlong and nothing too revelatory. As for what to do... I'd recommend starting off with kissing then letting it build quite naturally. I did doggie style first time around and really enjoyed it, whereas cowgirl has been the highlight of my subsquent punts (minus the agency girl who I never actually had sex with, be careful of time!). I'd say booking an entire session just to feel a boob puts too much power into it... You can totally do that, but if you're going to pay good money, go as big as you're comfortable with, don't dish it out in small portions. You'll be so happy just to be having sex that the more ambitious insane pornstar stuff will fall to the wayside anyway, so I'd say lose your virginity during the first session then focus in on what you find you enjoy.

And like, good luck. I hope it goes as well for you as it has for me.

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-The pattern you talk about is right in terms or payment, travel and that. Not identical for parlour, agency and indy, but don't worry they help you.

-I don't think you need to see an older girl. See who you like. A 19 yo is really 23 and has had sex 4 times a day for the last few years. Maybe 500 times? A new WG is not likely. I don't mean this in a bad way - just that they are all more experienced than you- don't go older if you don't want. Young girls are nice, older girls are nice.

-If you have never even seen naked girl in RL, perhaps a short time in the Griffin (or the SH equivalent) and a few private lap dance should happen first. Very inexpensive. watch them naked, chat to sexy girls. Later this may seem like a poor value, but chatting to dancers is fun and may give you insight.

-Don't worry about our inconsistent advice or anything. Do something - learn - then do something else.

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Since there's been good advice already, all I say is this:

Natural boobs, not enhanced. Make sure you check. It would be a cardinal sin to evolution if your first experience of a woman's breasts were that of an enhanced woman's! I've nothing against a woman choosing to go the enhanced route, but I just think your first time you should discover what a natural female body is like.

That is all.

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I can relate to you Baker. When i was 17 i was with the most gorgeous girl i've ever been with in real life. There was no way in hell i'd of dumped her. Unfortunately for me she was prudish also. All the while hearing my friends go on about banging this girl and that girl while i wasn't. Very frustrating, both sexually and otherwise. It lasted 6 months, the longest relationship i've ever been in and then she ended it. I was devestated. She was the first genuine love of my life and i really wanted to lose my virginity to her but you can't always get what you want. I then went on to lose my virginity to a girl in Amsterdam on my 18th birthday and i'm nearly 24 now. I've been punting ever since and continue to do so while still trying to conventionally pull when i feel like it. Rejection from civvie girls leads me to working girls.

I advise you to book a half hour or hourly session for your first time. I don't think you should book someone 30+, i feel girls our age are perfectly able to provide you with a very satisfactory service and or fantasy experience. Go with who you fancy and think is genuine. I don't know Southampton but i'll have a look for you and see if i can pm you and possible girls i would think are good. Ultimately it's up to you to decide. Let me run you by step by step:

Call her, don't waste your time emailing and waiting for a response. You do NOT have to divulge any information about you being a virgin etc but it may help the lady to prepare for any awkwardness. A good girl will not judge you, they hear all sorts from all sorts. Phone and ask if you can book for half an hour or an hour on a certain day at a certain time and work it out between the two of you. She'll then either ask you to confirm again on the day (a quick text or call) or she'll send you her addres at this point. I advise as soon as you walk in, give her the money. Envelopes aren't necessary. This establishes you are a genuine punter and not looking to get one over her by 'forgetting' to pay at the end. It also allows the awkwardness to clear and for you to just get on with it. I suggest you take a quick shower for a couple of minutes to make sure you're clean and to make sure she knows you're clean. An extra effort from your side can go along way. Now, this is important. I believe one of the most important aspects of punting is being able to be assertive while being polite. 'Can you suck me please' is much better received then 'suck my dick you slag' etc.

A punt is up to you how you want it to proceed. If she offers you a massage and you don't want one, say no thank you can we start with some kissing, can i kiss your breasts, can we do cowgirl etc. It's up to you, within reason ofcourse. For me, i like to start with some kissing and fondling then i like a blowjob, whether you want owo or covered is your choice but it's also her choice, don't feel as if you need to recieve owo if you're concerned about that. But don't expect a girl who only offer ow to offer owo. Don't be clingy or lovey dovey, once it's over it's over until the next time you pay. Do not start texting these girls as if they're you're actual girlfriend because they'll blacklist you as a timewaster. They need discretion as much as we do. If you want her to dress a certain way, then ask her. If you don't politely ask you won't get. You're paying a lot of money for a one off fantasy for a set period of time. You want it to be good and i want it to be good for you. So, good luck and any other questions i and others will be happy to help you.

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Excellent advice from Bluelunar in my view.

Like a good few others I would add that you should book a lady around 30, tell her your situation and only book for an hour. You will probably pop very fast first time so be prepared for a short lull in proceedings before round 2.

If you enjoy your first punt book another in a week or two but with a different lady.

Then book #3 and '#4 again with different ladies. By then you will know what sort of lady you like, have some experience and confidence.

At this stage go out with your mates on the pull and put your new found knowledge into practice.

Good luck.

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I don't have a problem attracting girls. There are girls who straight up suggest we get into a bed. My ex was my ex, and she was special. I could put my hand on her boobs and ass but not when she was naked. I don't need a strip club, because I've seen naked girls before BUT it's one thing to see and one thing to be with one alone, and enjoy her naked. Basically as I said I just wanna practice a little. So I know what's going on. It's for me, and not for confidence boosting with other girls.

I was thinking a lady 30-35.The booking process, and being polite, I have no problems with them. I think I'm smart about that. It's just the best way to go about it.

I was thinking. If you tell an escort you are a virgin, will she make a great effort for you? I mean if there are any female escorts here reading this, if someone asked you to take their virginity? is that a turn on? something you look forward to more than a normal punt considering that guy will remember you as his first experience for the rest of his life? I'm gonna see 4 girls and tell them all I'm a virgin . . . and I'll see I guess by their reaction and handling of the meeting if they make a bigger effort.

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