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So I've seen the same girl 3 times now in the past month or so and today, mid shag she says I can take the condom off if I want (because I look clean!). Obviously I won't be going back but I can't name and shame because she knows a bit more about me than I should have given away. I don't need any advice, I'm just pissed off that I'd found a reasonably local girl who seemed to tick the boxes but then said something stupid like that lol. Why would someone who clearly states on her profile all the usual "no because I'm careful about my health and so should you be" do that?

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Oh my god what an idiot :(

Where do these stupid girls come from? What did you say?

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Mr Floppy said it all :( Struggle with that at the best of times lol

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So you "looked" clean.

Baffled I am.

:huh:

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So you "looked" clean.

Baffled I am.

:huh:

He'd obviously had a shower.

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So I've seen the same girl 3 times now in the past month or so and today, mid shag she says I can take the condom off if I want (because I look clean!). Obviously I won't be going back but I can't name and shame because she knows a bit more about me than I should have given away. I don't need any advice, I'm just pissed off that I'd found a reasonably local girl who seemed to tick the boxes but then said something stupid like that lol. Why would someone who clearly states on her profile all the usual "no because I'm careful about my health and so should you be" do that?

Happened to me on a few ocassions unfortunately, the line trotted out was "because i like you i want you to fuck me BB" or similar. Complete fucking idiots, an immediate passion killer and left asap. Maybe some think its more likely the punter will keep returning if he knows BB will be on offer. Maybe some do this because they know from previously offering it that it gets more return punters than when they didnt offer it, why they would initially offer it the first time though i dont know. Whatever its stupidity beyond belief and made me feel sick.

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So you "looked" clean.

Baffled I am.

:huh:

Isn't that how it works in your local clinic? A couple of prods and pokes, a quick sniff then a slap on the arse and sent on your way?

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Addit - quick Q:

This girl English or other nationality?

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Addit - quick Q:

This girl English or other nationality?

English.

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He'd obviously had a shower.

And used some sweet smelling soap!

This girl should be named.How did the OP give away too much info?

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Maybe an over-reaction by some? You were offered a service you understandably declined. So long as you continue to practice safe sex you are in virtually no danger. I expect the owo argument to surface but that's a minimal risk many of us take.

If you don't want to see her again, fine. I'm not into this 'naming and shaming'; we're all adults and are responsible for our own actions only.

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Maybe an over-reaction by some? You were offered a service you understandably declined. So long as you continue to practice safe sex you are in virtually no danger. I expect the owo argument to surface but that's a minimal risk many of us take.

If you don't want to see her again, fine. I'm not into this 'naming and shaming'; we're all adults and are responsible for our own actions only.

I dont agree. In good faith i punt with WGs who dont advertise they offer BB, i dont wish to meet such idiots and filthy individuals as i view them, i dont want them anywhere near me sexually. Fortunately its been a very rare occurence and not happened for a long time.

As to naming and shaming thats up to the OP obviously, this is a place to share such information if a punter so wishes. If i had experienced it since i joined here i would certainly be informing people by posting on here.

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I dont agree. In good faith i punt with WGs who dont advertise they offer BB, i dont wish to meet such idiots and filthy individuals as i view them, i dont want them anywhere near me sexually. Fortunately its been a very rare occurence and not happened for a long time.

As to naming and shaming thats up to the OP obviously, this is a place to share such information if a punter so wishes. If i had experienced it since i joined here i would certainly be informing people by posting on here.

You're entitled to your opinion, of course. My point is that condoms are worn to prevent std's. The only danger the OP, or any of us for that matter, would be in, is if we did indulge in unprotected sex. Thousands end up having sex with strangers every weekend with no idea who or what they were doing the previous weekend. Wear the condom and be safe.

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Maybe an over-reaction by some? You were offered a service you understandably declined. So long as you continue to practice safe sex you are in virtually no danger. I expect the owo argument to surface but that's a minimal risk many of us take.

If it was up front from the beginning and I went in there with eyes wide open then this would be fine. I don't even particularly care that some offer this service and others actively seek it. Other people can do whatever they like. The fact is that 10 mins before I had my tongue all up in there and knowing what I know now, it makes me feel like shit.

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You're entitled to your opinion, of course. My point is that condoms are worn to prevent std's. The only danger the OP, or any of us for that matter, would be in, is if we did indulge in unprotected sex. Thousands end up having sex with strangers every weekend with no idea who or what they were doing the previous weekend. Wear the condom and be safe.

And to stop her getting pregnant.

Prevention of STDs is one reason, but I also dont want to knock her up and have her turning up in 9 months time with a mini-overworked in her arms....with a child support agent behind her demanding money for every month till they grow up.

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And to stop her getting pregnant.

Prevention of STDs is one reason, but I also dont want to knock her up and have her turning up in 9 months time with a mini-overworked in her arms....with a child support agent behind her demanding money for every month till they grow up.

Spot on, and with some devious WGs this could be the plan for all i know for definite. :eek::)

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You're entitled to your opinion, of course. My point is that condoms are worn to prevent std's. The only danger the OP, or any of us for that matter, would be in, is if we did indulge in unprotected sex. Thousands end up having sex with strangers every weekend with no idea who or what they were doing the previous weekend. Wear the condom and be safe.

Condoms can break is one point, so if the WG had a STI due to her BBing i might catch it and dont wish to take that risk, a risk i wasnt told about till after i had shagged them with a condom, fortunately as far as i know none of the condoms did break and whatever my GUM tests came back negative.

The if you wear a condom what difference does it make if the WG offers BB point is one i read on here quite a bit. It makes all the difference in the world to me because i dont wish to meet such idiots. For me its about having no respect for these dirty people and i do all i can to not meet them.

If a WG offers BB at least have the decency of advertising you do, not advertising you dont but offer it out of the blue.

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And used some sweet smelling soap!

This girl should be named.How did the OP give away too much info?

It depends on how well you get on with the lady. I've had WGs give me information about themselves and wondered why. Most WGs I've met know only the bare facts about me and vice versa. One lady knows a lot about me and I know a lot about her but there is an implied trust that neither of us would never do anything about it. Certainly on my part and she hasn't said or done anything that makes me think she would. Things can slip out sometimes before you've realised !!!

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If it was up front from the beginning and I went in there with eyes wide open then this would be fine. I don't even particularly care that some offer this service and others actively seek it. Other people can do whatever they like. The fact is that 10 mins before I had my tongue all up in there and knowing what I know now, it makes me feel like shit.

Yes, I can sympathise brother. But my point is that std's are prevented by barrier method contraception.

And to stop her getting pregnant.

Prevention of STDs is one reason, but I also dont want to knock her up and have her turning up in 9 months time with a mini-overworked in her arms....with a child support agent behind her demanding money for every month till they grow up.

I was assuming we'd take the pregnancy prevention as read; and I would assume - maybe incorrectly - that the majority of escorts use other forms of contraception and condoms.

Spot on, and with some devious WGs this could be the plan for all i know for definite. :eek::)

Escort wants to get pregnant by client she barely knows? I can't see that...

Condoms can break is one point, so if the WG had a STI due to her BBing i might catch it and dont wish to take that risk, a risk i wasnt told about till after i had shagged them with a condom, fortunately as far as i know none of the condoms did break and whatever my GUM tests came back negative.

The if you wear a condom what difference does it make if the WG offers BB point is one i read on here quite a bit. It makes all the difference in the world to me because i dont wish to meet such idiots. For me its about having no respect for these dirty people and i do all i can to not meet them.

If a WG offers BB at least have the decency of advertising you do, not advertising you dont but offer it out of the blue.

Fair enough. I see your point. However, so long as I take precautions, I can't say I've ever been worried.

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But my point is that std's are prevented by barrier method contraception.

Thanks for the heads up. My point is that I don't want to put my knob somewhere that is riddled with disease regardless of how it is bagged up.

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Yes, I can sympathise brother. But my point is that std's are prevented by barrier method contraception.

I was assuming we'd take the pregnancy prevention as read; and I would assume - maybe incorrectly - that the majority of escorts use other forms of contraception and condoms.

Escort wants to get pregnant by client she barely knows? I can't see that...

Fair enough. I see your point. However, so long as I take precautions, I can't say I've ever been worried.

I take nothing as read myself, i have no idea if a WG is really on the pill for example, telling me she is isnt proof as i have no way of knowing if what she is telling me is true or not for definite. Who knows what some WGs might do, i imagine not many would be so devious to wish to get pregnant by a punter but i wouldnt shoot my spunk inside them without a condom on risking it.

Its like when WGs say they go to the GUM, its not provable to me so they might or might not but i disregard what i am told and do what i know is a definite, looking after my own sexual health and taking the risks for the rewards on offer. In this scenario i cant assess the risk because i dont about it until i am actually with them, they offered BB but didnt advertise they did, if they had i would of avoided them.

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Thanks for the heads up. My point is that I don't want to put my knob somewhere that is riddled with disease regardless of how it is bagged up.

I'm real sorry you're pissed fella and I certainly am not justifying irresponsible actions; was just trying to put your understandable fears at rest. Be well.

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I take nothing as read myself, i have no idea if a WG is really on the pill for example, telling me she is isnt proof as i have no way of knowing if what she is telling me is true or not for definite. Who knows what some WGs might do, i imagine not many would be so devious to wish to get pregnant by a punter but i wouldnt shoot my spunk inside them without a condom on risking it.

Its like when WGs say they go to the GUM, its not provable to me so they might or might not but i disregard what i am told and do what i know is a definite, looking after my own sexual health and taking the risks for the rewards on offer. In this scenario i cant assess the risk because i dont about it until i am actually with them, they offered BB but didnt advertise they did, if they had i would of avoided them.

Take your point but one can never be sure what an escort is up to in her private life, no matter what she does or doesn't advertise or disclose. All we can do is take our own precautions to protect ourselves.

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Its not only punters that can be disappointed by the whole bareback issue. Sometimes a client will ask halfway through a session: "can I just put it in once without the jonny?", and i'm like: "dude, you've just ruined the moment..."

We all know how you feel... Best thing is to make sure you do your homework properly first, read previous fr's and use punternet for advice on seeing someone first.

Xx

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