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Terrible Time-wasting Punters Like Me

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I do my exhaustive research and pick a lady I really have the hots for - beautiful woman, great feedback over a couple of years

email sent 21st August.

Hello R

I wonder whether you would be available for a 2 hour incall on Friday week, ie 31st August?

I am off work that day and am willing to travel some distance to see you (around 80 miles).

Ideally I would like to see you 11am to 1pm or 12noon till 2pm.I

look forward to hearing from you

thanks

"Foxy"

same day reply

Hello Foxy thank you for your message x yes i am available at 11am. regards R xx

next day I emailed thus........

Hi R

Thanks for getting back to me so soon.

I'd like to confirm a 2 hr incall at 11am - I've sent through a booking form.

Really looking forward to meeting you. Please let me know how you want to make full arrangements by phone/text etc

thanks

Foxy

The very next day, i receive a reply.......

Thank you for your booking Foxy....i will send details a little nearer date x

RESULT!!.......ALL GOING TO PLAN. Now I am not one for dozens of emails or text tennis to provide me with a bit of masturbatory fodder, so I took the view that plans were set in place nicely with this well regarded, mature escort with over 100 positive feedback scores

The morning before the meet I popped this off

Hi R

Just checking re: tomorrow as I haven't heard from you to finalise things

thanks

Foxy

The day after the meet was supposed to take place i emailed the following

that's a no then i suppose

The Fox phone number was on booking form........yet I have to date still received no text, no call, ne email, no apology, no excuse.

What a time wasting cunt I must be.......... I expect I can spend the £250 I have burning a hole in my pocket on summat else

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Sorry but the lady was a timewaster. No need to be do sarcastic as it's implying that the guys that SPs call timewasters are indeed all solid guys like you...they are not

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Could it be using a name like " foxy " in your email , she didn't take you seriously ?

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I've been a punter and also had a relationship with WG, one thing I learned is the there are far more TWs amongst so called punters than there are amongst WGs.

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Sorry but the lady was a timewaster. No need to be do sarcastic as it's implying that the guys that SPs call timewasters are indeed all solid guys like you...they are not.

Point : Cambridge one day tour. Fully booked half didn't confirm but by the time I was off the coach was fully booked again. Only 2 showed up ALL day ALL the rest no showed me so I guess I must have been one of those timewaster escorts.

See my point xx

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Did she read the email you sent the morning before the meet, before the meet?

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Oopsy didn't realise my original post had posted lol xx

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Chloe.....sorry for the sarcasm - what can I say?...... I use it as a device not to just rant and moan and be boring, but I appreciate your support of me on this one

World punter....Strangely, I did not use my nom de plum when making the booking!.......obviously I used my real name, HRH Prince of Wales.....oops, there I go again with the sarcasm!

And to everyone, yes yes yes I am sure timewasting wankers outnumber timewasting WGs tenfold..... it doesn't lessen my disappointment though - Frankly, what more could I have done to ensure this booking went smoothly?

I was let down without the courtesy of a text message (and she has logged in daily so i know she isn't in hospital having gone under a bus)

Poor form....very poor form

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I was let down without the courtesy of a text message (and she has logged in daily so i know she isn't in hospital having gone under a bus)

Poor form....very poor form

If you really feel that badly you could always name and shame. However I doubt you would garner much sympathy here.

It happens all the time, on both sides of the game. Just let it go, pick up the phone, or whatever is your search tool, and start your search all over again. Just think that with all the additional anticipation your punt will be so much better.

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We should do 2 polls - what % wgs are timewasters - and what % of punters are timewasters.

I can guess the likely result.

I would say 25% wgs are timewasters. I would guess that 90% of punters are timewasters - few guys that send messages to girls on ** actually follow up and finilise the appointment made - from what some gilrls have said to me. I would think for those of us that turn up - the red carpet ought to be rolled out.

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We should do 2 polls - what % wgs are timewasters - and what % of punters are timewasters.

I can guess the likely result.

I would say 25% wgs are timewasters. I would guess that 90% of punters are timewasters - few guys that send messages to girls on ** actually follow up and finilise the appointment made - from what some gilrls have said to me. I would think for those of us that turn up - the red carpet ought to be rolled out.

Have to disagree, id say its probably about 90% each, most girls on there are total scam merchants. I wonder if it would be better if a punting site charged 20 quid a month to join for both punters and escorts, that way i guess only genuine people would be on?

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Very true Snogman.

I used to pay £20 a month to be in the Northern Angels private forum, there was an escorts and punters forum that we could all use as well as chat facility, and there was hardly any no shows, as one no show would set warning bells ringing.

its okay on a smallish scale, and does have a family feel about it, but as well as the outlay of £20 a month for a six month period, the costs of the escorts were well above the average rates.

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We should do 2 polls - what % wgs are timewasters - and what % of punters are timewasters.

I can guess the likely result.

I would say 25% wgs are timewasters. I would guess that 90% of punters are timewasters - few guys that send messages to girls on ** actually follow up and finilise the appointment made - from what some gilrls have said to me. I would think for those of us that turn up - the red carpet ought to be rolled out.

I wouldnt say that high, unfortunatley the same small percentage are probably serial time wasters, thats only from personal experience though. My cambridge day was an exception albeit a very annoying one.

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I'm a bit surprised at the lack of sympathy Foxy has had on this one. He is obviously a genuine guy, and not a timewaster. He researched extensively, found someone with absolutely hundreds of positive feedbacks over a longish period, contacted her well in advance and had 2 very brief but professional sounding responses accepting the booking in return. He looked forward to it, made all the (probably complicated) arrangements needed to travel, be awol for a few hours etc.

And then at the last minute......nothing. And no punt. From someone who has been logging into her profile daily. I think thats pretty poor form too. Just because clients do it too doesn't make it okay. And I understand all the 'well, these things happen in this game' comments, but I think he was probably very disappointed and racking his brains to think whether there was anything he did wrong, or could have done over and above what he did.

It seems to me he did everything right, very professionally, very organised and has every right to feel massively let down.

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I'm a bit surprised at the lack of sympathy Foxy has had on this one. He is obviously a genuine guy, and not a timewaster. He researched extensively, found someone with absolutely hundreds of positive feedbacks over a longish period, contacted her well in advance and had 2 very brief but professional sounding responses accepting the booking in return. He looked forward to it, made all the (probably complicated) arrangements needed to travel, be awol for a few hours etc.

And then at the last minute......nothing. And no punt. From someone who has been logging into her profile daily. I think thats pretty poor form too. Just because clients do it too doesn't make it okay. And I understand all the 'well, these things happen in this game' comments, but I think he was probably very disappointed and racking his brains to think whether there was anything he did wrong, or could have done over and above what he did.

It seems to me he did everything right, very professionally, very organised and has every right to feel massively let down.

This is one reason why it's a good idea to have a firm confirmation/contact plan in place. Whilst I'm sorry Foxy was let down, I'd say if a definite time on the day hasn't been set to confirm the appointment it leaves either party trying to second guess what is going on, and could lead to disappointment. If you have a confirmation time in place, don't get that confirmation then you can get on with plan B (which is either do something else, or see someone else).

Since learning people can make typos (either accidentally or maliciously) on booking forms, I don't phone a number sent to me unless I've had contact from that person on that number already. If it were me making the booking I'd be asking for phone number and time I can phone to confirm everything. Doesn't excuse her not getting back to you, but I'm sure other chaps here would agree in this flaky world they wouldn't consider a booking to be confirmed unless they'd had this contact.

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This is one reason why it's a good idea to have a firm confirmation/contact plan in place.

. If it were me making the booking I'd be asking for phone number and time I can phone to confirm everything. Doesn't excuse her not getting back to you, but I'm sure other chaps here would agree in this flaky world they wouldn't consider a booking to be confirmed unless they'd had this contact.

Very good advice

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I have to travel to any ladies I visit minimum an hour. I have a couple of visits booked one will take me 2 hours to get there and the other 4 hours. I also plan to visit another lady I like the sound of which will be 3 hours to get there. I would be very annoyed if they fell through at the last minute ( I only visit ladies who do incalls by the way ) and I had made special arrangements and/or had already set off/arrived. I have learned in a very short space of time two things. Always arrange a firm time for the appointment. Always, but always, speak to the lady inmediately before you book (it helps to find out she speaks english) and always speak to her before you set off. Having said which I fully expect to have a problem at sometime. Maybe tomorrow. Next week. Next year. But sometime. That's life. S*** happens !!!

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I do my exhaustive research and pick a lady I really have the hots for - beautiful woman, great feedback over a couple of years

email sent 21st August.

Hello R

I wonder whether you would be available for a 2 hour incall on Friday week, ie 31st August?

I am off work that day and am willing to travel some distance to see you (around 80 miles).

Ideally I would like to see you 11am to 1pm or 12noon till 2pm.I

look forward to hearing from you

thanks

"Foxy"

same day reply

Hello Foxy thank you for your message x yes i am available at 11am. regards R xx

next day I emailed thus........

Hi R

Thanks for getting back to me so soon.

I'd like to confirm a 2 hr incall at 11am - I've sent through a booking form.

Really looking forward to meeting you. Please let me know how you want to make full arrangements by phone/text etc

thanks

Foxy

The very next day, i receive a reply.......

Thank you for your booking Foxy....i will send details a little nearer date x

RESULT!!.......ALL GOING TO PLAN. Now I am not one for dozens of emails or text tennis to provide me with a bit of masturbatory fodder, so I took the view that plans were set in place nicely with this well regarded, mature escort with over 100 positive feedback scores

The morning before the meet I popped this off

Hi R

Just checking re: tomorrow as I haven't heard from you to finalise things

thanks

Foxy

The day after the meet was supposed to take place i emailed the following

that's a no then i suppose

The Fox phone number was on booking form........yet I have to date still received no text, no call, ne email, no apology, no excuse.

What a time wasting cunt I must be.......... I expect I can spend the £250 I have burning a hole in my pocket on summat else

In a word or two Foxy

WHO WAS SHE?

Or do do want others to be F***ED about too?

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what more could I have done to ensure this booking went smoothly?

Sorry to hear what happened. If it was possible; you should've tried to call her, but don't blame yourself, just find another girl.

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I do my exhaustive research and pick a lady I really have the hots for - beautiful woman, great feedback over a couple of years

email sent 21st August.

Hello R

I wonder whether you would be available for a 2 hour incall on Friday week, ie 31st August?

I am off work that day and am willing to travel some distance to see you (around 80 miles).

Ideally I would like to see you 11am to 1pm or 12noon till 2pm.I

look forward to hearing from you

thanks

"Foxy"

same day reply

Hello Foxy thank you for your message x yes i am available at 11am. regards R xx

next day I emailed thus........

Hi R

Thanks for getting back to me so soon.

I'd like to confirm a 2 hr incall at 11am - I've sent through a booking form.

Really looking forward to meeting you. Please let me know how you want to make full arrangements by phone/text etc

thanks

Foxy

The very next day, i receive a reply.......

Thank you for your booking Foxy....i will send details a little nearer date x

RESULT!!.......ALL GOING TO PLAN. Now I am not one for dozens of emails or text tennis to provide me with a bit of masturbatory fodder, so I took the view that plans were set in place nicely with this well regarded, mature escort with over 100 positive feedback scores

The morning before the meet I popped this off

Hi R

Just checking re: tomorrow as I haven't heard from you to finalise things

thanks

Foxy

The day after the meet was supposed to take place i emailed the following

that's a no then i suppose

The Fox phone number was on booking form........yet I have to date still received no text, no call, ne email, no apology, no excuse.

What a time wasting cunt I must be.......... I expect I can spend the £250 I have burning a hole in my pocket on summat else

I cut all the email bollocks as i see it out and just call and make my bookings usually same day, suits me. As it didnt work out just go elsewhere but i would advise getting detail asap as to exact times and where to go, the WG might not give you full address till the day but at least the area. This thread is badly titled in my view as you didnt time waste, it appears the WG did. I would also strongly advise always speaking to a WG on the phone before a punt, for me this is essential.

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Sorry but the lady was a timewaster. No need to be do sarcastic as it's implying that the guys that SPs call timewasters are indeed all solid guys like you...they are not.

Point : Cambridge one day tour. Fully booked half didn't confirm but by the time I was off the coach was fully booked again. Only 2 showed up ALL day ALL the rest no showed me so I guess I must have been one of those timewaster escorts.

See my point xx

This is the real chloe showing her real side of things...Lets cut the crap about apologizing...A stuck up woman who always thinks she is right!

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This is the real chloe showing her real side of things...Lets cut the crap about apologizing...A stuck up woman who always thinks she is right!

and you are one of the twats who phones the mke phone line every bloody day asking for details of the "tanned and toned busty girls" whilst whisperingly having a wank till till I finally got sick of you and told you to look at the website for details lol. That is the real cool guy...not even a punter ^_^

Edited by Chloe MKEscorts

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This is the real chloe showing her real side of things...Lets cut the crap about apologizing...A stuck up woman who always thinks she is right!

ooo or you could be "steve", perpetual pain in the ass due to constantly bugging me to allow a girl to maid watch for 20 quid after which you will persuade her to join in with sexual services for free a you have done many a time till I started to get complaints from girls that they were being pressurised into joining in...which you hadnt paid for. No one else tries to wrangle a two girl in this way, they call, get the price and either agree with it and book or disagree and dont book. Con man I think is the word.

Oh yes, and after the fact you hand the girl a tenner instead of the agreed 20..shame on you

Edited by Chloe MKEscorts

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Some (many) punters make bookings they then don't keep, so many WGs considerably over-commit and piss off those of us punters who are 100% reliable and true to our word. There's no easy answer.

At the risk of incurring the wrath of WGs on the board, I think that a WG who accepts an advance booking has no excuse and it's not a reason for others to reply to OP with the fact that punters are even less reliable. For sure a lady is entitled to ask for reconfirmation at a nearer time to the appointment but if they accept a booking they should also be expected to provide a positive cancellation if they can't keep it. I've even had a girl accept a booking the day before a meeting, accept my reconfirmation on the day two hours before and still be unavailable at the meeting time due to accepting a last minute booking. She apologised and offered to reschedule but what would be the point of rescheduling with someone who pays such scant regard to "scheduling"!

I am sure some (many?) girls accept advance bookings without taking any note of it whatsoever on the grounds that 90%+ won't happen. That won't apply to most responsible WGs active on here, but also the timewasting punter tag won't apply to many or most punters active on here.

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We should do 2 polls - what % wgs are timewasters - and what % of punters are timewasters.

I can guess the likely result.

I would say 25% wgs are timewasters. I would guess that 90% of punters are timewasters - few guys that send messages to girls on ** actually follow up and finilise the appointment made - from what some gilrls have said to me. I would think for those of us that turn up - the red carpet ought to be rolled out.

Waste of time.

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