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Last night had a booking with a well known agency, that I've used before many times. Booked it last monday so been looking forward to seeing this new girl all week. Confirmed in the morning and was text the hotel room details. All good. Shit, Shower and shave and make my way across London to the meeting. Get to the door and knock.

Normally at this point my pulse raises a little. I hear scrabbling noises from behind the door and it opens with a girl hiding behind the door. Sadly, this didn't happen. Count to 30 and knock again. Still nothing. "hmmm, that's odd" Recheck Text message. Yep, right hotel (not one I'd been to before) yep right room number. Go back out to the lift area and call the Agency. "oh Ok I'll call her on her mobile and she'll let you in" Another 5 mins passes. No door opening, no call back from Agency. Call the agency again. "erm still no girl" I suggest they call the room via the hotel reception. They agree and dutifully I can hear the phone in the room ringing. But again no answer. In fact there's no noise at all from behind the room.

Now at this point I'm actually worried. This is probably one of the more risky professions to do, and I'm worrying that the girl's safety.

Ring the Agency again and they tell me they can't get hold of her via the Hotel or by her mobile!!! They are apologetic of course. But would I like to book someone else? I decline, but say that if they can reach her in the next 5 mins to let me know and I'll return. As I say to the receptionist. Getting stood up happens. I'm actually concerned for the girls welfare.

After an hour on public transport going home I decide to re-phone the agency and ask if they managed to reach her. The receptionist just says "oh we think she checked out early and went home, we can't get hold of her on her mobile - Do I want to book anyone?" I say no and hang up.

In the cold light of day I feel a bit silly for phoning the last time. I don't know her and with hindsight it's probably me getting too involved. I'm hoping the girl is safe and it was just a mix up. But I was surprised by the fact the girl herself hadn't checked in with the Agency to say "I'm going home now" Would other escorts be that casual?

So there you have it. I'm too fluffy for this hobby. TBH I've talked with girls before who have mentioned shitty clients and I do worry for some of the girls. But after this incident where my mind immediately went to a bad place, not just a mix up. I'll have to re-evaluate whether I continue seeing Escorts.

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Last night had a booking with a well known agency, that I've used before many times. Booked it last monday so been looking forward to seeing this new girl all week. Confirmed in the morning and was text the hotel room details. All good. Shit, Shower and shave and make my way across London to the meeting. Get to the door and knock.

Normally at this point my pulse raises a little. I hear scrabbling noises from behind the door and it opens with a girl hiding behind the door. Sadly, this didn't happen. Count to 30 and knock again. Still nothing. "hmmm, that's odd" Recheck Text message. Yep, right hotel (not one I'd been to before) yep right room number. Go back out to the lift area and call the Agency. "oh Ok I'll call her on her mobile and she'll let you in" Another 5 mins passes. No door opening, no call back from Agency. Call the agency again. "erm still no girl" I suggest they call the room via the hotel reception. They agree and dutifully I can hear the phone in the room ringing. But again no answer. In fact there's no noise at all from behind the room.

Now at this point I'm actually worried. This is probably one of the more risky professions to do, and I'm worrying that the girl's safety.

Ring the Agency again and they tell me they can't get hold of her via the Hotel or by her mobile!!! They are apologetic of course. But would I like to book someone else? I decline, but say that if they can reach her in the next 5 mins to let me know and I'll return. As I say to the receptionist. Getting stood up happens. I'm actually concerned for the girls welfare.

After an hour on public transport going home I decide to re-phone the agency and ask if they managed to reach her. The receptionist just says "oh we think she checked out early and went home, we can't get hold of her on her mobile - Do I want to book anyone?" I say no and hang up.

In the cold light of day I feel a bit silly for phoning the last time. I don't know her and with hindsight it's probably me getting too involved. I'm hoping the girl is safe and it was just a mix up. But I was surprised by the fact the girl herself hadn't checked in with the Agency to say "I'm going home now" Would other escorts be that casual?

So there you have it. I'm too fluffy for this hobby. TBH I've talked with girls before who have mentioned shitty clients and I do worry for some of the girls. But after this incident where my mind immediately went to a bad place, not just a mix up. I'll have to re-evaluate whether I continue seeing Escorts.

this is good. they aren't machines. To be honest the agency seem a little uncaring.

I hate it when a girl i see a bit suddenly disappears off the internet. Is she OK, all sorts of daft stuff goes through my head.

in the end you have to walk away -its the nature of the game.

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Can I just say how refreshing, you have been let down and instead of being selfish and thinking how you never got what YOU want, you are actually concerned for others.

The girls need more clients like you not less, so keep going x

PN has far too many whiney posters these days, demanding name and shames if she so much wears the wrong colour panties.

Expect Cov's answer tho.....top bloke

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There is nothing wrong with being a bit fluffy.

You showed concern and that comes with the hobby in most guys and escorts minds.

the trick is to be concerned and yet try to accept that sometimes a escort or guy will just dissapear, there are many reasons why this happens, and its not only the very worsed scenario.

Remember that most people have families and children, and they can become ill, if it happened to you, would you start phoning around to explain whyyou were not available, or just rush to be with them.

Thats great you phoned back to see what the problem was, I just hope the agency thanked you for your concern.

And as Gemma said, people like you should not walk away, your a credit to yourself mate for doing the right thing.

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Nothing wrong with showing human concern, good for you, better than not giving a damn.

I dislike the term fluffy and the implication that a punter is not fully masculine unless they treat WGs as some kind of unfeeling sub-human species that deserves no consideration beyond paying the fee and taking his pleasure.

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if that's being fluffy, long live fluffiness

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Better to show concern, even though it may be unnecessary, than to be an uncaring bastard who just walks away from ladies in need of help.

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Without taking sides - even though I am on the side of the punt/er - after reading this post I saw concern for the 'loss' experienced by BillT.

It is the job of the agency to look out for the ladies.

In all respect with all the parties (ie WG, Agency) concerned it looks as uif BillT lost the most. If this is what a fluffy means for some people whilst punting then it is best they

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Sorry to hear of your troubles BillT, so much so it has made you question whether you should be a punter or not

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Dont worry.

Theres been a LOAD of times when eveytihng was confirmed, for definaite, and then Ive just been left on the doorstep with her turning off her phone and leaving me out in the cold.

And yes, I've thought "hold on. It was supposed to definate and she was supposed to be reliable. I hope she hasnt had a bad punter and shes lying on the floor in a pool of blood clinging to her last breathes of life...."

Ive sent messages asking are you okay.....Ive been tempted to phone for help just in case...even try to crawl up the drain pipe and tap on the window in my early days...

Has luckily turned out to be nothing (tons of excuse from babysitting to her mother taken to hospital or her period "magically" appeared....I.e. she went out on the lash the night before and she cant be bothered..)

I just wish girls would at least send a text or something to say "sorry cant make it".....Is that too much to ask?

I wouldnt feel embarresed for being a fluffy ( I dont think thats quite the definition)

Your just a punter whose concerned for a WGs welfare. Wheres the embaressment in that?

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Everybody has a bit of fluffiness . As I left a punt one evening ,I went out the main door and a big guy pushed in past me saying his key didn't work in the lock and he scooted off up the stairs . It didn't look right to me . It played on my mind sitting on the bus heading back to the clubhouse . My fluffiness got the better of me and I texted her to see if she was ok . She was fine .

guess he burgled a flat on the floor below though :ph34r:

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I see she is a new girl on the books, new to the industry? It's not for everyone maybe a simple case of this is not for me, or she already made the cash she needed for that day, either way she won't be on the agency books for long.

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Dont worry.

Ive sent messages asking are you okay.....Ive been tempted to phone for help just in case...even try to crawl up the drain pipe and tap on the window in my early days...

Has luckily turned out to be nothing (tons of excuse from babysitting to her mother taken to hospital or her period "magically" appeared....I.e. she went out on the lash the night before and she cant be bothered..)

Again thinks Robin Askwith and 'Confessions of A Window Cleaner' with regard to the aforesaid in bold. ;)

But seriously...

The comment does real something valuable viz that much of the concerns is in the imaginings of the punter rather than the lady being in some serious form of danger. Perhaps it is a form of 'defense mechanism' to being let down, whereby it serves two functions:

1. Appeals or is a reflection to the nature of the punter

2. Maintains the chance or possibility of a meeting with the lady concerned

As opposed to behaving in an altruistic manner.

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I suspect you will forget your concern fairly quickly and move on. A thick skin on all sides works best with this "hobby". It is actually quite nice that you post your worries - most of us aren't awful people but if you punt for any length of time then your experience isn't unusual.

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Can I just say how refreshing, you have been let down and instead of being selfish and thinking how you never got what YOU want, you are actually concerned for others.

The girls need more clients like you not less, so keep going x

PN has far too many whiney posters these days, demanding name and shames if she so much wears the wrong colour panties.

Expect Cov's answer tho.....top bloke

'Wears the wrong colour panties'.? You meant 'Wears panties' dint ya sweeatheart!

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Can I just say how refreshing, you have been let down and instead of being selfish and thinking how you never got what YOU want, you are actually concerned for others.

The girls need more clients like you not less, so keep going x

PN has far too many whiney posters these days, demanding name and shames if she so much wears the wrong colour panties.

Expect Cov's answer tho.....top bloke

Concur - If Fluffy means concern for a fellow human's welfare, then I'm happy to have the label

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'Wears the wrong colour panties'.? You meant 'Wears panties' dint ya sweeatheart!

nowt wrong with a girl in panties. then you have the fun of taking them off....

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Top man BILT,i,m definately a fluffy,when my regular lady leaves me i worry like hell untill she texts to say she's home safe.

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Top man BILT,i,m definately a fluffy,when my regular lady leaves me i worry like hell untill she texts to say she's home safe.

Dont panic..dont panic..(sorry about the old Dads army joke) at least I didnt say "they dont like it up em".

I will get my coat.

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I agree it can be a worry to be a bit of a softy (like me!) and then worry more about the girl when she is quite likely more able to cope with life's ups and downs than we may be.

I think a few of us would like closure though, so if you give the agency another ring and see if they will tell you what they eventually found about the situation then us fluffies by association would hopefully have our minds set at rest.

(Wouldn't want to be a male fluffer; think of the bored/impatient looks and stern commandments you'd get trying to keep a female porn star on heat...)

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Last night had a booking with a well known agency, that I've used before many times. Booked it last monday so been looking forward to seeing this new girl all week. Confirmed in the morning and was text the hotel room details. All good. Shit, Shower and shave and make my way across London to the meeting. Get to the door and knock.

Normally at this point my pulse raises a little. I hear scrabbling noises from behind the door and it opens with a girl hiding behind the door. Sadly, this didn't happen. Count to 30 and knock again. Still nothing. "hmmm, that's odd" Recheck Text message. Yep, right hotel (not one I'd been to before) yep right room number. Go back out to the lift area and call the Agency. "oh Ok I'll call her on her mobile and she'll let you in" Another 5 mins passes. No door opening, no call back from Agency. Call the agency again. "erm still no girl" I suggest they call the room via the hotel reception. They agree and dutifully I can hear the phone in the room ringing. But again no answer. In fact there's no noise at all from behind the room.

Now at this point I'm actually worried. This is probably one of the more risky professions to do, and I'm worrying that the girl's safety.

Ring the Agency again and they tell me they can't get hold of her via the Hotel or by her mobile!!! They are apologetic of course. But would I like to book someone else? I decline, but say that if they can reach her in the next 5 mins to let me know and I'll return. As I say to the receptionist. Getting stood up happens. I'm actually concerned for the girls welfare.

After an hour on public transport going home I decide to re-phone the agency and ask if they managed to reach her. The receptionist just says "oh we think she checked out early and went home, we can't get hold of her on her mobile - Do I want to book anyone?" I say no and hang up.

In the cold light of day I feel a bit silly for phoning the last time. I don't know her and with hindsight it's probably me getting too involved. I'm hoping the girl is safe and it was just a mix up. But I was surprised by the fact the girl herself hadn't checked in with the Agency to say "I'm going home now" Would other escorts be that casual?

So there you have it. I'm too fluffy for this hobby. TBH I've talked with girls before who have mentioned shitty clients and I do worry for some of the girls. But after this incident where my mind immediately went to a bad place, not just a mix up. I'll have to re-evaluate whether I continue seeing Escorts.

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