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Pros And Cons Of Overnight Bookings

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Having had several good chuckles at the threads started by barnsleylad on the subject of his overnight adventure(s), I wonder if is reasonable to ask what we do or do not expect from Overnight Bookings in general ?

I'm sure there will be firmly held opinions on both sides of the debate, but it may be nice to get these aired by both Ladies and Gentlemen of this forum.

My own limited experience of such arrangements has been good, although if only seeking the maximum number of orgasms for the least financial outlay, it is my view that they do not give good value for money :( ! Surely, much shorter bookings must always give better value in that regard ??

On the other hand, for a slow starter like me, the reduction of time pressure to get on with things is a bonus and an aid to relaxation. Time for a few cuddles and kisses as a gentle prelude to the main event(s), [ and I hope the plural should be more common in the extended time of the overnight scenario :) ] also suits me personally, although I can understand that others will see this as an un-necessary waste of time and money !

Once again, only my personal ideas with which I'm sure others will dis-agree, but I would never contemplate an overnighter with a Lady I had not seen before for shorter appointments, so I can be sure that there is a reasonable amount of compatibility between us in most respects, and to obviate the chances of being stuck with some-one you find you don't like or get on with much for more hours than you are comfortable with when meeting for the first time.

Do members here expect to be "at it all night", or is it more usual for both parties to expect to get at least some sleep during the booking ? Genuine search for information here :), as I have limited first hand knowledge :( and I'm not just being nosey !

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An overnighter is just the same as a long booking you have a set idea about what is going to happen and you ask if the escort is okay with most of it, you formulate a plan of either going to sleep, yes its normal, or trying to stay awake and battle against the normin doing so, I have done a few of these and usually they tend to end up with both of us getting grumpy.

1. choose an escort you are comfertable with.

2 plan an evening that is what you want, and make sure the escort is okay with the plan.

3. make time to have a meal and to just have some down time to enjoy the situation.

4 dont see it as a 12 hour sex marathon.

5 allow the escort time to spend alone, and to chill out.

6 relax with the escort in something that is going to relax you both, I like sharing a bubble bath for this.

7 breaking wind, snoring, burping, all are body functions we all do, laugh at it and get on with what your doing.

8 dont get drunk.

9 use a premier inn as it doesnt show that you have booked the hotel on your credit card.

10, give feed back for us all to think what a lucky sod you are.

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Having had several good chuckles at the threads started by barnsleylad on the subject of his overnight adventure(s), I wonder if is reasonable to ask what we do or do not expect from Overnight Bookings in general ?

I'm sure there will be firmly held opinions on both sides of the debate, but it may be nice to get these aired by both Ladies and Gentlemen of this forum.

My own limited experience of such arrangements has been good, although if only seeking the maximum number of orgasms for the least financial outlay, it is my view that they do not give good value for money :( ! Surely, much shorter bookings must always give better value in that regard ??

On the other hand, for a slow starter like me, the reduction of time pressure to get on with things is a bonus and an aid to relaxation. Time for a few cuddles and kisses as a gentle prelude to the main event(s), [ and I hope the plural should be more common in the extended time of the overnight scenario :) ] also suits me personally, although I can understand that others will see this as an un-necessary waste of time and money !

Once again, only my personal ideas with which I'm sure others will dis-agree, but I would never contemplate an overnighter with a Lady I had not seen before for shorter appointments, so I can be sure that there is a reasonable amount of compatibility between us in most respects, and to obviate the chances of being stuck with some-one you find you don't like or get on with much for more hours than you are comfortable with when meeting for the first time.

Do members here expect to be "at it all night", or is it more usual for both parties to expect to get at least some sleep during the booking ? Genuine search for information here :), as I have limited first hand knowledge :( and I'm not just being nosey !

Overnighters are of zero interest to me, i prefer over-day punts at parties or a mixture of parties and a 121, much better VFM to ME. Obviously others have their own opinions, i punt for sex not the social side on the clock which an overnighter can also offer like dinner together or whatever.

So for me there arent any pros which is why i dont do them. If i were to do one it would be with a great regular i knew i got on with well though.

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If i were to do one it would be with a great regular i knew i got on with well though.

That Sir is the absolute key, without doubt.

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I have done a few overnighters with escorts that I had never met before, its about the excitment and the thrill of not knowing what can happen.

I also do overnighters with escorts I know well and get a lot from these, I guess its about how you feel on the night.

One thing I always do though, is try to exchange a few e-mails with the escort so that I know a bit about them before hand, and vice versa.

When you realise that both people want a good time and are going to work towards that same end, i dont think you can go very far wrong, course it does help if you and the escort have the experiance of how they work.

In over 30 overnighters, I have only had one where it didnt work, and I blame myself for that.

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I have never bothered with an overnight booking. I would sleep for more than 8 hours, so would be wasting my money and the lady's time.

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Having had several good chuckles at the threads started by barnsleylad on the subject of his overnight adventure(s), I wonder if is reasonable to ask what we do or do not expect from Overnight Bookings in general ?

I'm sure there will be firmly held opinions on both sides of the debate, but it may be nice to get these aired by both Ladies and Gentlemen of this forum.

My own limited experience of such arrangements has been good, although if only seeking the maximum number of orgasms for the least financial outlay, it is my view that they do not give good value for money :( ! Surely, much shorter bookings must always give better value in that regard ??

On the other hand, for a slow starter like me, the reduction of time pressure to get on with things is a bonus and an aid to relaxation. Time for a few cuddles and kisses as a gentle prelude to the main event(s), [ and I hope the plural should be more common in the extended time of the overnight scenario :) ] also suits me personally, although I can understand that others will see this as an un-necessary waste of time and money !

Once again, only my personal ideas with which I'm sure others will dis-agree, but I would never contemplate an overnighter with a Lady I had not seen before for shorter appointments, so I can be sure that there is a reasonable amount of compatibility between us in most respects, and to obviate the chances of being stuck with some-one you find you don't like or get on with much for more hours than you are comfortable with when meeting for the first time.

Do members here expect to be "at it all night", or is it more usual for both parties to expect to get at least some sleep during the booking ? Genuine search for information here :), as I have limited first hand knowledge :( and I'm not just being nosey !

Speaking from my own perspective and as someone who used to do lots of overnighters and now does not do them at all out of choice, but can remember the good bits and the bad bits - here goes...

Decide what YOU want from your overnight appointment and convey that to the lady. Make your own requirements quite clear and say what you want.

If you want to wine and dine her first, please do not change your mind when she gets there. If you intend to eat earlier than you first expected - let her know so she can have something to eat before leaving home. This has happened to me, and I expected to be fed so I starved myself in anticipation of a lovely meal and there was none - the cupboard was bare:) Horrible thing to happen. How can a guy expect a lady to be happy if she is hungry?

One guy discussed restaurants in Harrogate with me, to the point of choosing one, and when I arrived he fed me the custard creams from the tea tray, and he kicked me out before going on to eat his breakfast :) Nice.

Let the lady know how much sleep you think is fair (if any) so she can make up her mind about accepting the appointment. It is a two way thing. If one or none of you are happy then its a waste of everything IMHO.

I personally did not expect to get any sleep because of the amount of money I would make, so anything else is a bonus.

Allow the lady private time for going to the toilet. Don't follow her about like a lovesick puppy - she isn't going anywhere.

Be kind and treat her like a girlfriend, not just a paid for fuck - even if she is.

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I wouldn't do an overnighter because of the problems the following day. The trauma suffered by the lady caused by looking at me when she wakes up. I wouldn't like to wake up next to me. Calling the ambulance to take her to hospital for treatment. Do I go with her or make a run for it. Subsequent problems when I get home. It's not worth the mental anxiety caused to everyone including the lady and myself.

Seriously it seems to be that an overnighter is on average equivelant to what a lot of ladies charge for 6 to 8 hours during the day. I would rather arrive at the home of my favourite lady at about 2, spend a pleasant afternoon, nip out for a meal or send out for a takeaway ( I couldn't expect her to cook ) spend an enjoyable relaxed evening in her company and then drive home in a very happy mood indeed. I might even take a reference book to read. Now what was it called? Something about shades of grey?

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Its a much more intimate experiance, and something that when works right can blow the socks of any few hour bookings.

Its a joy on so many levels, you exeriance a great high leading up to the date as the booking gets closer and closer.

Meeting the lady and walking together to your hotel room is sexy, as you share light hearted converstion.

Settling into the room together with the odd look at each other till you find yourself in cuddle mode.

heading toward the reasturant where you will eat and drink and chat with an eye on the time.

Making out in the room for a few hours as you indulge in every whim you thought of.

Having a break then part two till you both fall gently asleep in each others arms.

Wakening up to find the lady is stil there, and though not wearing any make-up, is still as desirable and exciting as the night beofre, so again you enjoy the pleasure of the flesh.

Finaly the end of the booking, you have denied yourself nothing, but the parting of the ways is so sad.

You have enough material to keep you sexually satisfied for weeks ahead, and though it might be quite costly, what you have experianced is priceless.

Yes in my opinion they are the best kind of booking you can get,

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I've never done an overnight booking, mainly due to the cost, although I can see the point some have made in the past about 'paying the service provider to sleep' being a waste of money.

I've had to severely reduce my hobby for a while due to loss of income, but that looks like it's going to improve reasonably soon. As such I have been thinking about saving up for a fantasy of mine, having an overnight in a plush city centre hotel with two ladies. Will likely be looking at £1,700 - £1,800 with the agencies I have in mind, and due to the cost it may well become a xmas present for myself.

For that amount I could easily enjoy at least six two-girl sessions with girls from the same agencies I'm used to using. But would the thrill of enjoying, falling asleep with, waking up with and enjoying again two hot girls be worth it?

Think it all come down to cost and comparisons.

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The longest session I've ever had was a 3 hour one recently and it was the best time I had. I suffer from a major case having eyes bigger then my belly, and I've always wondered about making an overnight booking, but for a married bloke like me, it's looking like a social minefield.

I dont mean to be crude and I am always without fail, even in punts that I havn't enjoyed, polite and corteous to the lady...

If I am honest with myself (and her) I am only booking her for having fun in the sack, I don't really see the whole point of paying someone for a meal etc

How much sleep is acceptable? as someone mentioned, I'd probably sleep through most of it, and imagine if we got up and she only had like 30mins left etc

Does't it make more sense to have a longer session during the day (maybe a 5/6 hour) and then go home and get some decent sleep. If you really want morning fun, then I am sure you can go see someone first thing no?

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Does't it make more sense to have a longer session during the day (maybe a 5/6 hour) and then go home and get some decent sleep. If you really want morning fun, then I am sure you can go see someone first thing no?

Take your point brother, but as a single guy, and been single for way too long, believe it or not but that falling asleep together would be a big part of the booking...I suppose it's the non-sexual intimacy to compliment the sex to make it a real GFE.

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Take your point brother, but as a single guy, and been single for way too long, believe it or not but that falling asleep together would be a big part of the booking...I suppose it's the non-sexual intimacy to compliment the sex to make it a real GFE.

That and the waking up together is clearly a big turn on, not just sexually but emotionally. Even so I would be unlikely to book an overnight punt due to the expense, and difficulty in getting away for the night.

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Having read many of the comments and thoughts expressed on over-nighters made me stop to re-evaluate my position on going over-time with WGs

However, even when I consider my favourite ladies past or present, I still would not like to spend a whole night with her - no matter how nice she is etc

Off to give this subject a little bit more thought :mellow:

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Jeez. Overnighters are definitely not for me. I toss & turn a lot & the poor girl would never get any kip

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Overnighters are of zero interest to me, i prefer over-day punts at parties or a mixture of parties and a 121, much better VFM to ME. Obviously others have their own opinions, i punt for sex not the social side on the clock which an overnighter can also offer like dinner together or whatever.

So for me there arent any pros which is why i dont do them. If i were to do one it would be with a great regular i knew i got on with well though.

This is also my view. Here I am paying, so I will pay a WG to do the job, not to sleep next to me. I f I am just looking for someone sleeping all night I could just go to the pubs, bars. There are many girls/ladies, cougars eack weekend out there who are sharing similar interest and I do not need to pay apart from the my own bills in the pubs/bars.

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Jeez. Overnighters are definitely not for me. I toss & turn a lot & the poor girl would never get any kip

If i did do an overnighter there would be a lot of tossing and turning but it wouldnt be in my sleep thats for sure. ;)

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I went on a very reasonably priced overnight with a non professional (benefit mum). Arrived late by arrangement, had some drinks, snogged and groped in front of the TV and then to bed. Lots of cuddles and a very relaxed and satisfying shag. If this sounds a bit domestic to you, then that's what I was looking for: ordinary sex in a home environment like I haven't had in decades.

It got a bit too domestic when I woke in the small hours to find two girls aged 2 and 3 next to my side of the bed in the dark.

"Daddy????"

LOL

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All I can say is try it....you may just like it....

There are many others threads were the subject of overnighters has been discussed (you may wish to conduct a search or one of the peeps may just be nice enough to link it here)....for me nothing better then to feel the heat of a lady whislt in the shower, your bodies seperated by the thinest layers of shower gel that soon disappears...and thats just in the morning...

The possibilities are endless....

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Overnights are an option, but just one of the options. It depends on how you feel and what you are looking for at the time, which will vary of course.

Rates for overnghts will usually be much less than a multiple of the hourly/2 hourly rate etc since some sleep is expected.

Just my opinion anyway.

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I used to see a man at some time o clock in the evening in his hotel , and then I would return at silly o clock in the morning. He got to shag me twice and I got to go home and get a good night's sleep. A win -win situation for both of us.

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I used to see a man at some time o clock in the evening in his hotel , and then I would return at silly o clock in the morning. He got to shag me twice and I got to go home and get a good night's sleep. A win -win situation for both of us.

Would it not have been easier to have an hour with him late at night, charge him for staying in your spare room, and then pay him a visit in the morning for an other hour, you would get the hotel fee, and have less traveling to do.

And of course you can charge him again for cooking his breakfast. :D

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