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So a question to you guys who see ladies on a regular basis, and a question to ladies who have regular clients - just how regualr is regular?

I ask as I saw a girl for the first time last week and was wondering what/if there is an appropriate amount of time to wait before going back to see her?

In my mind anything less than a week is a bit borderline obsessive, what do people think?

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I have a dump most mornings, the size and density varies but the dump itself is regular as clockwork....... ooooh, maybe should have read more than the thread title.....

Ignore all previous, nothing more to see here, move along.... erm

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As it is, if you enjoy seeing the girl and you have the funds to see her then go for it. In my opinion the only time it gets wrongly obsessive is when you keep on going to the detriment of other things, ie. can pay that gas bill another time, I need the money for shaggy shaggy.

Many years ago, when I was wide eyed and new to this wonderful world, I saw the same girl 10 times in 1 day, now THAT could be called borderline obsessive!

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So a question to you guys who see ladies on a regular basis, and a question to ladies who have regular clients - just how regualr is regular?

I ask as I saw a girl for the first time last week and was wondering what/if there is an appropriate amount of time to wait before going back to see her?

In my mind anything less than a week is a bit borderline obsessive, what do people think?

It depends on how you see it yourself in my view. On past threads about this there have been very different ideas of what is a regular, it could be for some a punter who sees the same WG once a year for a few years for instance, or for some a punter who sees a WG half a dozen times in a say two month period. There is no set in stone universally agreed definition.

I dont agree about the borderline obsessive point, i know from punting with WGs in the past who i rated and who then disappeared before i got round to punting with them again that for me its best to lap them up while they are around with no hanging about. So if i met a great WG i would be punting with her a few times in the first week, if she has a problem with it she can always decline my booking.

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1-2 times a week; once a month for a night. Plenty of small chit chat in between. More like friends with pay-for benefits. We actually are friends, she's a great person. No interest in anything else with her, other than helping hr in life a little...Likewise, find anonymous punting less interesting now. Consenting adults, right?

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It's only obsessive if you become obsessive about her.

I often say I'll be more flexible re certain arrangements for 'regular' clients, to me a regular is someone I've seen enough times for me to know they are reliable and discrete. This may only be twice for in 12 months for some, 5 times in the same time for others.

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Well, regular can mean twice a year or once a week- it depends. I have had guys see me 3 times in one week then never again. It doesn't matter, go with what you can afford and when you fancy seeing her. As the others have said if it becomes obsessive or means you are over spending then it's a Bad.Thing.

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Well, regular can mean twice a year or once a week- it depends. I have had guys see me 3 times in one week then never again. It doesn't matter, go with what you can afford and when you fancy seeing her. As the others have said if it becomes obsessive or means you are over spending then it's a Bad.Thing.

Yep the 3 times in a week then never again I'd not class as regular as such unless this was repeated at some future date.

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I have a dump most mornings, the size and density varies but the dump itself is regular as clockwork....... ooooh, maybe should have read more than the thread title.....

Ignore all previous, nothing more to see here, move along.... erm

:unsure:

As it is, if you enjoy seeing the girl and you have the funds to see her then go for it. In my opinion the only time it gets wrongly obsessive is when you keep on going to the detriment of other things, ie. can pay that gas bill another time, I need the money for shaggy shaggy.

Many years ago, when I was wide eyed and new to this wonderful world, I saw the same girl 10 times in 1 day, now THAT could be called borderline obsessive!

Oh my Lord , same girl 10 times in one day ! Did you meet yourself coming back in on your way out ? Who is she ? This girl has to be the top wg ever ....

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I ask as I saw a girl for the first time last week and was wondering what/if there is an appropriate amount of time to wait before going back to see her?

I'd have thought that a careful inspection of your bank statement would give you the best answer.

If this is a parlour girl, then I suspect, the answer is "as soon as you like", whereas an indie might begin to fear that a punter who comes back in less than a week is either going to cross the line, or, worse, is, having cased the joint on his first visit, going to rob her on his second!

To revert to your head-line question, I think that "regular" has a slightly different meaning in this trade than elsewhere. Out there "regular" means, I'd say, every day, other-day, week, couple of weeks, month, three months, etc. Here, I think that you can refer to a lady as "my regular" after you've enjoyed her favours on three occasions?

Otherwise

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I'd have thought that a careful inspection of your bank statement would give you the best answer.

If this is a parlour girl, then I suspect, the answer is "as soon as you like", whereas an indie might begin to fear that a punter who comes back in less than a week is either going to cross the line, or, worse, is, having cased the joint on his first visit, going to rob her on his second!

To revert to your head-line question, I think that "regular" has a slightly different meaning in this trade than elsewhere. Out there "regular" means, I'd say, every day, other-day, week, couple of weeks, month, three months, etc. Here, I think that you can refer to a lady as "my regular" after you've enjoyed her favours on three occasions?

Otherwise

I've had gentlemen revisit within 48 hours, simply because their window of opportunity was only open for a few days. Someone with slightly less than honourably intentions would probably wait until you've forgotten about them.

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Oh my Lord , same girl 10 times in one day ! Did you meet yourself coming back in on your way out ? Who is she ? This girl has to be the top wg ever ....

As I said it was many years ago and I was young horny and foolish as opposed to old horny and foolish. It was a parlour in Manchester and it was literally a case of walking out after a session and asking the maid if it was ok to have another.

In fact I was a bit miffed when someone else came in to see her so I had to wait to have another go!

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I've had gentlemen revisit within 48 hours, ...

Well, yes, Strawberry, with you I can very well understand that you could have that effect on a bloke, but I think that the OP was asking about ordinary WGs?

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So a question to you guys who see ladies on a regular basis, and a question to ladies who have regular clients - just how regualr is regular?

I ask as I saw a girl for the first time last week and was wondering what/if there is an appropriate amount of time to wait before going back to see her?

In my mind anything less than a week is a bit borderline obsessive, what do people think?

I saw my latest regular twice in one week, and again the following. That was months ago; haven't seen her since.

Is she still my regular?

Also, there has been another lass that I saw inbetween the two visits. Does that muck up the regularity?

I wouldn't worry too much about this question, if the lass is happy to see you often and, possibly offer a discount for regulars, thenyou will have no problems!

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Well, yes, Strawberry, with you I can very well understand that you could have that effect on a bloke, but I think that the OP was asking about ordinary WGs?

So Strawberry isn't 'ordinary'?

I don't mean that as a derogatory comment BTW!

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I saw lady 3 times in 6 weeks in June/July. I won't be seeing her again until November partly because of other commitments and partly because I got the impression she did think I was possibly becoming obsessive and I want her to be aware that's not the case. Life is nothing without imagination but you have to be able to distinguish between reality and fantasy.

Would she class me as a regular? I hope so.

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subjective..

I used to say: after 3 times, she counts a "regular".

but now let me state: it is "regular" if you both agree on being each other's regular.

I've got regulars I see less then 5 times in a year, but we have been at that for.. 6 year now. And it is still good, getting better even.

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I have a regular that I see quite a bit, she took a break a while ago and then returned.

Its weird but I dont see her as being an escort now, we have moved on from that, she still charges what she thinks is a fair price, but to her and I its an arangement we have.

So having a regular as such does seem to change a situation, no matter how often or little you see them.

if you get on well and keep up some sort of contact, you are I suppose a "regular".

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I think you can have regular regulars and irregular regulars.

Some may come and visit a couple of times a month (more if you let them ;)) and others may just visit you a few times a year.

I can understand spklors comment about nor seeing his regular lady in his eyes as a escort any more.

I feel like that with some of my regulars in one way, and have special arrangements with them also.

I know its punting and not dating, but it sure can feel like dating at times with certain chaps.

Lucy :)

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I think this subject was discussed not so long ago and my input was and still is... as far as I am concerned anyway...

visit more than once = a repeat client

visit weekly/every few weeks/several times a year = regular client

The few times in a week type of experience is a funny one....

I recall some years back a man came to see me in the afternoon and said he would

be back that night... oh yes I thought ... of course you will.... and he was!

Twice in a week has happened a few times and several times in a couple of months then no more

is also familiar to me.

That is how I see it but who knows how or even if my clients have viewed it as anything significant at all.

I consider a second visit a compliment to me when there are a squillion girls half my age out there.

Many men will prefer the familiarity of a place and lady rather than risk new faces each time. Other men

have had their fix and kick from a new girl and move on through their "to do" list for their next visit.

I just had a 5 year anniversary meeting with one client who sees me the same day and same time

each week..... others have been popping in to my consultation rooms every now and then for 8 years.

I also get my fair share of once only clients and really.... it is all good.

;)

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As long as other parts of your life dont suffer, go as often as you want. I used to practice parlour rotation, cos I didnt want to appear too often. I still think its a wee bit looserish, to visit the same parlour 3 times a week, unless it is well known to all that money is no prob. As the sagacious smith observed, visit while the girl is still working, lots of girls can vanish, either forever, or for a few months or so, so take advantage of them while about. I punt regular and random, if I had more money I would prob do more random.

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So a question to you guys who see ladies on a regular basis, and a question to ladies who have regular clients - just how regualr is regular?

I ask as I saw a girl for the first time last week and was wondering what/if there is an appropriate amount of time to wait before going back to see her?

In my mind anything less than a week is a bit borderline obsessive, what do people think?

How long is a piece of string?

Nothing is out of the ordinary in punting. I have one client who sees me once a year on his birthday. It takes him hours to get here - two trains worth, and then when he arrives he likes a bottle of beer. When he leaves he goes for something to eat and then catches his train. He leaves home at 6am and gets back home at around 6pm.

He's a regular!

What ever pleases you - do it - it's only one life mate :)

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it's subjective. it could be everyday. i doubt she would judge you for going so often. it wouldn't make sense to do so, since you're giving her revenue, and she'd be pleased she services you so well. lol...

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It depends on how you see it yourself in my view. On past threads about this there have been very different ideas of what is a regular, it could be for some a punter who sees the same WG once a year for a few years for instance, or for some a punter who sees a WG half a dozen times in a say two month period. There is no set in stone universally agreed definition.

Thank you smiths

I'd have thought that a careful inspection of your bank statement would give you the best answer.

If this is a parlour girl, then I suspect, the answer is "as soon as you like", whereas an indie might begin to fear that a punter who comes back in less than a week is either going to cross the line, or, worse, is, having cased the joint on his first visit, going to rob her on his second!

To revert to your head-line question, I think that "regular" has a slightly different meaning in this trade than elsewhere. Out there "regular" means, I'd say, every day, other-day, week, couple of weeks, month, three months, etc. Here, I think that you can refer to a lady as "my regular" after you've enjoyed her favours on three occasions?

Otherwise

She's an indie and that's also along the lines of what I was thinking too...don't want to scare the girl!

I saw lady 3 times in 6 weeks in June/July. I won't be seeing her again until November partly because of other commitments and partly because I got the impression she did think I was possibly becoming obsessive and I want her to be aware that's not the case. Life is nothing without imagination but you have to be able to distinguish between reality and fantasy.

Would she class me as a regular? I hope so.

Glad I'm not the only one whose had that thought

I think you can have regular regulars and irregular regulars.

Some may come and visit a couple of times a month (more if you let them ;)) and others may just visit you a few times a year.

I can understand spklors comment about nor seeing his regular lady in his eyes as a escort any more.

I feel like that with some of my regulars in one way, and have special arrangements with them also.

I know its punting and not dating, but it sure can feel like dating at times with certain chaps.

Lucy :)

Hi Lucy, it's nice to know wg's do develop warm feelings for clients, we're all human.

I think this subject was discussed not so long ago and my input was and still is... as far as I am concerned anyway...

visit more than once = a repeat client

visit weekly/every few weeks/several times a year = regular client

The few times in a week type of experience is a funny one....

I recall some years back a man came to see me in the afternoon and said he would

be back that night... oh yes I thought ... of course you will.... and he was!

Twice in a week has happened a few times and several times in a couple of months then no more

is also familiar to me.

That is how I see it but who knows how or even if my clients have viewed it as anything significant at all.

I consider a second visit a compliment to me when there are a squillion girls half my age out there.

Many men will prefer the familiarity of a place and lady rather than risk new faces each time. Other men

have had their fix and kick from a new girl and move on through their "to do" list for their next visit.

I just had a 5 year anniversary meeting with one client who sees me the same day and same time

each week..... others have been popping in to my consultation rooms every now and then for 8 years.

I also get my fair share of once only clients and really.... it is all good.

;)

The 5yr anniversary is kind of sweet, at least there's one person in the world who looks forward to their birthday! Lots of good info in this post, thanks

As long as other parts of your life dont suffer, go as often as you want. I used to practice parlour rotation, cos I didnt want to appear too often. I still think its a wee bit looserish, to visit the same parlour 3 times a week, unless it is well known to all that money is no prob. As the sagacious smith observed, visit while the girl is still working, lots of girls can vanish, either forever, or for a few months or so, so take advantage of them while about. I punt regular and random, if I had more money I would prob do more random.

Cheers to you and smith, I guess you never know when they'll up ang leave, I guess you don't usually get much notice?

Thanks to all the great answers on this thread, nice and lively forum here.

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I see my regular between once every 7-10 days on average. Have had 2 sessions with her on same day and having had some cash burning ahole in my pocket last months, I treated myself to 3 over 2 days.

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Thank you smiths

She's an indie and that's also along the lines of what I was thinking too...don't want to scare the girl!

Glad I'm not the only one whose had that thought

Hi Lucy, it's nice to know wg's do develop warm feelings for clients, we're all human.

The 5yr anniversary is kind of sweet, at least there's one person in the world who looks forward to their birthday! Lots of good info in this post, thanks

Cheers to you and smith, I guess you never know when they'll up ang leave, I guess you don't usually get much notice?

Thanks to all the great answers on this thread, nice and lively forum here.

I have had great regulars who have literally vanished overnight without a word, in my younger days i used to be worried something might of happened to them and what should i do. As i have got older i have found its the way some WGs wish to do things which is of course their business. A new life to go to perhaps and not wanting anyone connected to punting to have any clue about it, i can understand and respect that, it would be nice to be told which some WGs have done but totally up to the WG. Always a shame to lose a regular but good luck to them.

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