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Post Punt Stress Disorder?

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Hello,

How do you feel after a punt?

If it didnt go well, do you feel --> oh maybe i shouldnt waste money like this? maybe i should give up punting? etc?

if you have a wife/partner/gf --> do you feel guilty?

if you do both of the above --> do you have PPSD?

thanks for your illuminating answers

fidelio

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More so when I had unrealistic expectations.

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Hello,

How do you feel after a punt?

If it didnt go well, do you feel --> oh maybe i shouldnt waste money like this? maybe i should give up punting? etc?

if you have a wife/partner/gf --> do you feel guilty?

if you do both of the above --> do you have PPSD?

thanks for your illuminating answers

fidelio

If a punt goes well i leave walking on air but knackered and in need of fast food. If a punt goes badly i certainly leave thinking what a waste of money but it doesnt put me off because that was one WG, others being unique individuals are different people obviously so i move on to the next WG. Being selfish i dont feel guilty nowadays, i have had an adult lifetime to get used to being a lying cheat punting wise and its second nature to me. I dont know what PPSD is but i dont feel at all stressed if it goes well, i feel the opposite in fact, and i dont feel stressed if it goes badly i feel disappointed or annoyed.

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after a very long bad run with indian wg's I felt like giving up and going back to getting laid the old fasion way. I would walk away feeling low as it would affect my self esteem and feel guilty that I am spending money I could use for better uses like going on holiday or getting new clothes.

My lowest point was when wg said to me "the only way I would ever be with a girl like her is if I paid for it". It really got me for about 3 days until I realised she was a nasty person.

Every so often I see an amazing wg that puts my faith back in what I am doing.

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Hello,

How do you feel after a punt?

If it didnt go well, do you feel --> oh maybe i shouldnt waste money like this? maybe i should give up punting? etc?

if you have a wife/partner/gf --> do you feel guilty?

if you do both of the above --> do you have PPSD?

thanks for your illuminating answers

fidelio

If the girl has helped you to achieve an orgasm how can you feel all that bad after that? You didn't go there to somehow impress her but thought you had failed, did you? You just wanted a nice girl to help you cum, no matter how it was done. Thank God girls exist who'll do something so very personal and wonderful for a man no matter how unattractive she might find him. What would we do without prostitutes?

As for the guilt - when you come out and are on your way home, just say to yourself - "it never happened! There's no trace of the event. It has completely vanished into the past.... it just never happened. I didn't do anything I shouldn't do today...just an ordinary day in town. I only imagined it.... but my imaginings are just fantasies aboiut what I might have done..... but they have no basis in reality..... absolutely nothing happened! So no reason for any guilt...... just..... nothing!"

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Taking a forced sabatical from our hobby due to lack of funds right now, but just watched StrikeBack on Sky1 and there was a slim, hot twenty-something black girl getting shagged and it aroused thoughts of my regular...we don't always have sex when we meet, we kiss, caress and I grope her arse and kiss her pussy. I'm really pissed that I can't just go see her like I would have done a couple of months ago.

I never feel guilt as I'm not attached. I sometimes feel like I've wasted money when it's been a poor appointment. I often feel like a loser who has to resort to visiting escorts because any woman I would find attractive wouldn't want to come near me in civvie life. Right now I feel frustrated that I'm getting none at all!

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I felt like giving up and going back to getting laid the old fasion way.

My lowest point was when wg said to me "the only way I would ever be with a girl like her is if I paid for it". It really got me for about 3 days until I realised she was a nasty person.

Sadly, we live in a very image and wealth orientated society, and many women I come across seem to have an attitude similar to the lady you bring up; perhaps that's why so many kids are being brought up by step-dad these days...woman in early twenties is amazed by mr bad boy, they have kids, then she grows up and he doesn't...eventually she realises that mr bad boy is a loser and she then goes for mr steady and reliable, who despite not being exciting and handsome, will provide.

She then marries mr steady and starts affair with sexy bad boy and/or mr wealthy behind the good guys back.

This is all conjecture of course... :D

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Hello,

How do you feel after a punt?

If it didnt go well, do you feel --> oh maybe i shouldnt waste money like this? maybe i should give up punting? etc?

This.

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If you suffer any negative feedback from a punt, then why do you do it,

Surely the whole point is to get some TLC, find a lady whom you would like to see naked, and do whatever comes natural with.

Yes it can be something of a distraction at times, but it channels all sorts of energy to you, and makes you feel so much better 95% of the time.

The only downside I have experianced is when an overnighter comes to an end.

Less than great punts do happen to all of us, but you learn what went wrong and dont get that again.

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My lowest point was when wg said to me "the only way I would ever be with a girl like her is if I paid for it". It really got me for about 3 days until I realised she was a nasty person.

Some people are truly disgusting human beings. What a wicked, malicious thing to say to someone in that scenario. Comfort yourself by knowing that she may be beautiful on the outside, but has an ugly, twisted soul inside. Think 'Portrait of Dorian Gray', and you wont be far off the mark.

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Hello,

How do you feel after a punt?

If it didnt go well, do you feel --> oh maybe i shouldnt waste money like this? maybe i should give up punting? etc?

if you have a wife/partner/gf --> do you feel guilty?

if you do both of the above --> do you have PPSD?

thanks for your illuminating answers

fidelio

'No' to all of the above

Re bad punts - feel regret that i happened to waste money on a wg when that money couldve been better spent on a punt that wouldve been far more enjoyable

But I certainly dont think of 'throwing the baby out with bathwater'

As for that complete bitch who said youd only be with someone like you if you paid, she is worth neither your time, money nor headspace

Although havent you ever come across a wg or two who on first seeing them its crossed your mind, 'my God, you should be paying me !!', and then walked ?

I know i have on occassion

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If it went badly/ worse than expected, feelings range between disappointment and anger with waste of money in mind. Am married,used to feel terribly guilty, don't now - haven't analysed why not, may be 'cos we don't have sex now and still were when I felt guilty.

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If it didn't go well i'd be pissed off and yes i would think i would've wasted my money. I don't have a g/f, wife etc and wouldn't punt if i did. Luckily for me my punts have been very successful, i've had bad experiences but they didn't put me off continuing. In fact, it made me want to punt even more to redeem the bad time i had.

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As a young single bloke living on his own with a fair amount of disposable income, the only regret's I normally have are that I really should be spending the money looking for something a little more permanent.... A girlfriend / new clothes / self improvement. It seems counter-productive to be spending money on this at a glance, but then I think about how much extra confidence I've gotten as a result of this, and how much fun I've had, then all those doubts creep away.

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I've only had 4 punts so far, and I've found on each one that I've not been able to stay hard enough to penetrate (I'm not exactly sure if it's psychological or physical). After the first punt, I was absolutely gutted, but some of the posts on here have kept me plugging away, and each following punt has seemed less and less disappointing.

On my last punt, the wg was absolutely fantastic. She seemed so into it, to a level I would never have believed, so even though the full sex bit couldn't happen, I still left walking on air :)

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like a lot of you guys I only feel disappointed with a bad punt from a financial point of view if its with a new girl the feeling of why did you waste your cash there when you could be with a regular girl. and if its with a regular girl which is rare but does happen I think why didn't i just go down the pub.

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If I've had a really good time then I can look back on it with a contented smile days, weeks, months later.

If it hasn't gone well because, in my opinion, the lady was crap for some reason then the only thing I feel bad about is my wasted time and money.

If it seemed to be a good session but something didn't seen to be right and I can't put my finger on it then it does prey on my mind. Was it her or was it me? Did I inadvertently say or do something that changed the atmosphere? She may not say anything but you can tell. It happened to me a few weeks ago and, because it's a lady I enjoy being with, I find it difficult to forget.

To mix up the metaphors a bit " wemay be ships that pass in the night but we are still human and we all have feelings ".

I do feel a twinge of guilt but it's obviously not enough to stop me. I don't think I'm alone.

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My lowest point was when wg said to me "the only way I would ever be with a girl like her is if I paid for it". It really got me for about 3 days until I realised she was a nasty person.

Thats awful :( and as many have said here, she's probably not worth the time. But how on earth did that come about? Did she it at an appointment after some kind of miscommunication or disagreement?

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Currently a kind of 'emptiness' irrespective whether the punt is 'good' or 'bad', but obviously felt even more if the punt is bad.

I am sure this will evolve into something else in the future - though I can't say what at this precise moment in time.

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Even after a poor punt I can console myself with the thought that I have had some memorable punts and can always return to the scene of a triumph, if that's what I need to do.

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Even after a poor punt I can console myself with the thought that I have had some memorable punts and can always return to the scene of a triumph, if that's what I need to do.

Very true. I guess every punt lies between the fond memories of past delights and the heady anticipation of future ones.

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Currently a kind of 'emptiness' irrespective whether the punt is 'good' or 'bad', but obviously felt even more if the punt is bad.

I am sure this will evolve into something else in the future - though I can't say what at this precise moment in time.

This is interesting because i have felt this at times this year. I have not punted much this year. i think the emptiness feeling might be one of the reasons why I have gravitated to massage & happy endings as opposed to full on ladies & gentlemen.

its weird but i don't feel empty with the former but i do (sometimes) with the latter.

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Hello,

How do you feel after a punt?

If its gone well, feel like skipping out and down the road like Michael McIntyre, waving at people as I go, "Hello man in van!" "Hello Old Lady!" "Hello man in suit!" "hello Children!" "Ohhh.. Hello officer.."

If it didnt go well, do you feel --> oh maybe i shouldnt waste money like this? maybe i should give up punting? etc?

When its going bad I usually close up and want to leave as quickly as I can without causing a fuss or making things awkward in person but then start fuming as Im driving away. Then it keeps playing on my mind to I explode in a rant or kick next doors cat. Sometimes stopped punting and just got on with life for a while.

if you have a wife/partner/gf --> do you feel guilty?

I dont have a partner but when I started I felt guilty. Now dont feel guilty but would rather I didn't need to pay for companionship.

if you do both of the above --> do you have PPSD?

When Ive had a good punt, im usually on a strange giddy high for the next few days.

When Ive had a bad one, im usually in a depressed strop.

Problem is that obviously I need to keep my true mood secret ("Why you in a good mood?" "Oh I paid for sex with a stunning girl over luchtime! Brilliant! " "Why you in a bad mood?" "Cow swindled me on a punt")

So obviously I try and surpress my mood from people. Not a problem when its been a good punt as Im usually a happy person anyway. Problems when its been bad as obviously I need to not let it show that Im fuming inside and no way to let off steam....

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Very true. I guess every punt lies between the fond memories of past delights and the heady anticipation of future ones.

beautifully put

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If its gone well, feel like skipping out and down the road like Michael McIntyre, waving at people as I go, "Hello man in van!" "Hello Old Lady!" "Hello man in suit!" "hello Children!" "Ohhh.. Hello officer.."

When its going bad I usually close up and want to leave as quickly as I can without causing a fuss or making things awkward in person but then start fuming as Im driving away. Then it keeps playing on my mind to I explode in a rant or kick next doors cat. Sometimes stopped punting and just got on with life for a while.

I dont have a partner but when I started I felt guilty. Now dont feel guilty but would rather I didn't need to pay for companionship.

When Ive had a good punt, im usually on a strange giddy high for the next few days.

When Ive had a bad one, im usually in a depressed strop.

Problem is that obviously I need to keep my true mood secret ("Why you in a good mood?" "Oh I paid for sex with a stunning girl over luchtime! Brilliant! " "Why you in a bad mood?" "Cow swindled me on a punt")

So obviously I try and surpress my mood from people. Not a problem when its been a good punt as Im usually a happy person anyway. Problems when its been bad as obviously I need to not let it show that Im fuming inside and no way to let off steam....

This is so true - I had a week off recently, went to Bournemouth for a few days which was very nice, but on Sunday had a magnificent time with my favorite lady.

Naturally enough, the very best part of my leave I couldn't talk about, having to explain my evident happiness on Monday as having had a good time on the beach!

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