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Feeling Down After A Punt

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Sorry if this is sounding a bit like a rant. I have just had this punt that is leaving me feeling very bad. I had booked an appointment which I had been looking forward to all day, but when I got there I felt this incredible sense of unease that I haven't felt since I first started punting. Try as I might I couldn't settle down, the WG massaged me, gave me oral, but I just felt very uncomfortable. Eventually I cummed while lying face down amd even that lacked pleasure. I never got to have sex, meaning the very thing I come for more than anything I missed out on. It has left me thinking, I must get out of this habit; why do I do this?. I had an experience that I wouldn't want to be paid for, let alone pay for! I'm struggling to work out while I'm feeling like this as I have had good experiences but as far as today is concerned I can only feel negative about punting. I feel like a complete idiot really.

Just thought I would get this off my chest.

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Take a break. If after a suitable interval you want to resume, book one of the escorting megastars with loads of good FRs on here and see how you feel afterwards. If you feel the same, maybe this hobby isn't for you.

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All kinds of things can affect an encounter with a member of the opposite sex, whether paid for or not. Sometimes, the chemistry simply isn't there, and it's not always easy to explain why, Just treat it as a one off, as Kantos Kan said, take a break, and if you try making another booking in the future, you will then get more of an idea as to whether punting is for you or not.

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I probably do need a break. I'm finding this very strange as my confidence as been building up over time but all of a sudden it seems like I'm back to square one.

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I probably do need a break. I'm finding this very strange as my confidence as been building up over time but all of a sudden it seems like I'm back to square one.

I totally agree with Kantos. I took a break and came back raring to go, worked for me. :)

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Sorry if this is sounding a bit like a rant. I have just had this punt that is leaving me feeling very bad. I had booked an appointment which I had been looking forward to all day, but when I got there I felt this incredible sense of unease that I haven't felt since I first started punting. Try as I might I couldn't settle down, the WG massaged me, gave me oral, but I just felt very uncomfortable. Eventually I cummed while lying face down amd even that lacked pleasure. I never got to have sex, meaning the very thing I come for more than anything I missed out on. It has left me thinking, I must get out of this habit; why do I do this?. I had an experience that I wouldn't want to be paid for, let alone pay for! I'm struggling to work out while I'm feeling like this as I have had good experiences but as far as today is concerned I can only feel negative about punting. I feel like a complete idiot really.

Just thought I would get this off my chest.

Can you pinpoint what it was that made you start to feel bad? If it was just a general feeling of unease, then maybe a break is a good idea, but if it was a simple case of lack of chemistry then I am sure your next punt will put things right.

Punting was never am exact science ! We all have bad days and good days. If I have a bad punt, I disappear for ages before I return to work. I find the bad punts hard to cope with in my head because I feel used. Hope this was of some help.

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I felt a tense beforehand, although this is not the first time I have felt this way. But when I was with the WG I felt even more tense. I guess it was down to lack of chemistry. I did think to myself if I should say that I didn't want to continue but I feel awkward saying that and it would probably result in me losing all the money getting nothing in return so I thought I should try to get something out of the situation.

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I think this happens a lot. It's bound to. It does to me, from time to time. And maybe taking a break is the right thing. Maybe not. Maybe you go and get a good one straight away and 'delete' this memory.

I disagree with the suggestions that 'maybe this hobby isn't for you'. That sounds a bit patronising to me, like if it's not then you're not as good as the rest of us in some way. I'm sure it wasn't meant like that, but it sounded a bit odd.

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Its happened to me on two occasions. Basically, the girls are doing it purely for the money, you can tell they dont really want to be doing it, and the chemistry is non existant.

Yet you get some escorts who are absolutely out of this world, worth every penny and a lot more.

Most escorts are just a good time.

Punting is no different to going out on the pull looking for one night stands, punting just makes everything so much easier and has really changed my morals perspectives that paying a woman for her time is no different to a free one night stand, theres just more chance that the escort will be good in bed.

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I think this happens a lot. It's bound to. It does to me, from time to time. And maybe taking a break is the right thing. Maybe not. Maybe you go and get a good one straight away and 'delete' this memory.

I disagree with the suggestions that 'maybe this hobby isn't for you'. That sounds a bit patronising to me, like if it's not then you're not as good as the rest of us in some way. I'm sure it wasn't meant like that, but it sounded a bit odd.

It wasn't meant like that and that wasn't the totality of my advice. Apologies to you and the OP if it came across like that.

Basically though, if something costs a person money and after a period of trying, still makes them miserable, then why recommend that they carry on doing it?

Edited by Kantos Kan

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