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Anal At Discretion, Depending On Size

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A number of ladies state on their web sites or profiles that they offer anal at discretion depending on size. This got me thinking - when I was getting sex education at school many years ago, I recall being told that regardless of appearances when soft, there was not actually much difference in size between erect cocks.

Now, this could have been a lie to make the small-cocked among us feel better about themselves. Obviously watching porn is not the best way to judge this, as presumably your careers advisor would tell you that your future was elsewhere if you were smaller than average.

So, throwing this out to the ladies - in your experience, does the size of erect cocks vary much between punters?

On the anal side of things, I would have thought that it was just as important (if not more so) that the bloke knows what he is doing and is gentle, regardless if size.

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I am yet to see two the same as each other, the length may be the same as the last one, but they all are quite individual and unique!

Erect cocks do vary in size, length and girth.

Some are straight, some have a kink to them like a banana and some are even bendy ;)

Lucy :)

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Its not only the length that can make the escort shudder at the thought of Anal, but the width of some penis's are greater also, no matter how much lube is used, and how relaxed some are, its just too wide to feel comfertable ( so ive been told.. :eek: )

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So, throwing this out to the ladies - in your experience, does the size of erect cocks vary much between punters?

On the anal side of things, I would have thought that it was just as important (if not more so) that the bloke knows what he is doing and is gentle, regardless if size.

In answer to your first question; yes - hugely.

In answer to your second question...speaking just for me. 'Anal at discretion' isn't about size, but rather if the bloke in question is a bit of a w*nker who isn't likely to treat my derriere with the gentle appreciation it deserves!I've actually had rough anal from a guy with a TP, and it really,really hurt. But I've found now that being on top and being able to control the rate/depth of thrusting helps...but being relaxed with the guy your doing it with helps even more...

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I think at discretion depending on size covers a multitude of feelings and the polite ego boosting get out clause is "oh darling, you are just too big for me".

The reality is that it depends how she is feeling, whether she wants to have anal sex with you, whether she trusts you not to bang her ass senseless for 15 mintues if she gets off on a soft, slow, gentle five minutes of anal etc etc.

Also re size, I understand for most girls it is the girth not the length that is the issue back there!

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and some are even bendy ;)

That's not the reason for my nickname, by the way!

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Also re size, I understand for most girls it is the girth not the length that is the issue back there!

I have been told that the girth is more important than the length in the front as well as the back, and even then, "it's not the size, but what you do with it ", right Ladies ?

At least I hope it is, as I have never been over blessed in the length department :(

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In answer to your first question; yes - hugely.

In answer to your second question...speaking just for me. 'Anal at discretion' isn't about size, but rather if the bloke in question is a bit of a w*nker who isn't likely to treat my derriere with the gentle appreciation it deserves!I've actually had rough anal from a guy with a TP, and it really,really hurt. But I've found now that being on top and being able to control the rate/depth of thrusting helps...but being relaxed with the guy your doing it with helps even more...

Hi SD,

A very good contribution, I am pleased you have found a way that works well for you and I know works for other ladies. In my experience, regardless of size, anal is best enjoyed when both parties are relaxed and comfortable with each other.

Regards,

davidgood

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I have seen tiny mushroom willys grow to stupendous proportions and big soft ones just go hard and not grow at all...I think the term "grower not a show-er" applies to the first instance lol.x

then again I have seen mushrooms remain mushrooms and huge ones double in size :ph34r:

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Ok I don't have to worry about upsetting any prospective clients anymore so I can say it as it is....

Anal can be fantastic if done right. If its not, 'and I have to say 90% of the time it isn't'.. It bloody hurts!!! Even a finger shoved up there can hurt like hell, so its absolutely nothing to do with length or girth. Its down to technique. The best I ever had was very well endowed and wide, but he never ever tried to go there until we were both really turned on and always left me in charge.

Lesson!! If you want A with your lady then alway warn her prior to the booking so that she can prepare, let her take control, use lots of lube (Analeze isn't that good by the way, oil or waterbased lube is better), do not ever just stick a finger up in the misguided notion that it will get her in the mood cause it won't, try just gently touching or stroking around the area on the outside instead (better with lubrication). Better still let her do it you first so that you know what to expect and how pleasurable it can be if done right but painful if done wrong.. Don't try shoving it up with a semi on and watch those bloody nails!!!!

Edited by Holly Maddison

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do not ever just stick a finger up in the misguided notion that it will get her in the mood cause it won't

+1

An un-lubed finger just shoved up there is quite possibly the worst sensation in the world, and makes me think very mean thoughts.

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no way if it's too big it's horrid the most incomfortable thing you can imagine prob imagie it's what giving birth is like (nev done it so sorry if got it wrong ladies who have) down your pooper. The women who do it in porn movies are prob as high as a kite to do it with those gigantic things for ages.

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I think at discretion depending on size covers a multitude of feelings and the polite ego boosting get out clause is "oh darling, you are just too big for me".

The reality is that it depends how she is feeling, whether she wants to have anal sex with you, whether she trusts you not to bang her ass senseless for 15 mintues if she gets off on a soft, slow, gentle five minutes of anal etc etc.

Also re size, I understand for most girls it is the girth not the length that is the issue back there!

In reality with WGs who care everything is at discretion anyway. If a punter has a cheesy cock he can expect for it not to be sucked for example.

With Anal a very small number of WGs on here have posted they can take really big cocks but from many threads and speaking to WGs most needed to see it hard first, seems perfectly logical to me. Not saying at discretion could mean johnny huge cock turns up with his tree trunk. Through parties i have seen some guys with such cocks, i view it as a handicap myself.

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no way if it's too big it's horrid the most incomfortable thing you can imagine prob imagie it's what giving birth is like (nev done it so sorry if got it wrong ladies who have) down your pooper. The women who do it in porn movies are prob as high as a kite to do it with those gigantic things for ages.

Hi Heather,

It can actually be a very pleasurable experience (for both parties)....not a massive fan myself but had some great times.....as stated although we are all different and like different things a good massage and gentle play around is a good starter....personally, I love exploring the female form (inch by inch)....

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So, it was a big fib during sex ed when they said that there is not much difference in cock size when erect. Now I know........

Personally, I rather enjoy having a lady use a toy or strap-on me, so I have some experience of being on the receiving end. I have long thought that any man who wants to give anal to a lady should be required to take it first so that they learn the importance of gentleness, technique and lube :blink:

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So, it was a big fib during sex ed when they said that there is not much difference in cock size when erect. Now I know........

Personally, I rather enjoy having a lady use a toy or strap-on me, so I have some experience of being on the receiving end. I have long thought that any man who wants to give anal to a lady should be required to take it first so that they learn the importance of gentleness, technique and lube :blink:

I have to agree with you. If a guy wants to do anal he should be willing to receive it first so that he understands just what it feels like.

It is only fair after all :P

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no way if it's too big it's horrid the most incomfortable thing you can imagine prob imagie it's what giving birth is like (nev done it so sorry if got it wrong ladies who have) down your pooper. The women who do it in porn movies are prob as high as a kite to do it with those gigantic things for ages.

LOL I like watching porn but confess that I spend a lot of time studying the gurning faces for pain when they are taking large cocks into their botties :) It puts me off if I think they are being hurt

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I have to agree with you. If a guy wants to do anal he should be willing to receive it first so that he understands just what it feels like.

It is only fair after all :P

Mate - whoever told you Life is fair ?!?! :unsure:

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I have to agree with you. If a guy wants to do anal he should be willing to receive it first so that he understands just what it feels like.

It is only fair after all :P

Best post ^_^

I completely agree, anybody who thinks that a woman should enjoy it because it is so wonderful, should mandatorily receive it too because it feels so nice!

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Best post ^_^

I completely agree, anybody who thinks that a woman should enjoy it because it is so wonderful, should mandatorily receive it too because it feels so nice!

In my personal life I can't recall meeting any guy who wanted anal or hinted that he might like to try it.

During my last 8 years as a pro tho..... I have been surprised at how many guys do want it and love it.

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I have seen tiny mushroom willys grow to stupendous proportions and big soft ones just go hard and not grow at all...I think the term "grower not a show-er" applies to the first instance lol.x

then again I have seen mushrooms remain mushrooms and huge ones double in size :ph34r:

I'm quite 'lucky' to be quite well endowed. I've been told that quite a few times, so I think it must be true (not that I've seen many, I mean any, other erect penises to compare), but when flacid I can be really small. Especially after exercise in the cold. So, as I've played football for 20 odd years and showered with the lads after the game, they of course see me flacid after exercise in the cold and often take the mickey at my 'mushroom'. It's quite funny really that my only form of defence would be to get an erection in front of them and 'prove' that they're all wrong, but that's never happened, honest.

My only real experience of A, was with an ex-girlfriend who insisted that she couldn't do it because she'd previously had a prolapsed bowel. She said that I was too big and that there was a chance that her whole bowels would come with me as I withdrew. Clearly, this took the edge of the whole idea of A. But, then one night when we were both quite drunk, she just grabbed me and slotted me in. I wasn't aware, at first that I was in there, but it was one of the most wonderful, close moments of my life. We did it a few times after that - not many, just a few. But it was always a gentle, loving moment, not a fiery sexual exncounter although we had many of those. One thing she said, though, was that she could only do this when she was drunk. Not because she didn't care, but because she only felt her body was relaxed enough to do it, then.

By the way, we're no longer together but when we parted her bowels were in tact.

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By the way, we're no longer together but when we parted her bowels were in tact.

That's good to hear Bob

*please tell me you are smiling*

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Yes relaxation is the key word here.....

those guys who are determined to be done up the jacksy but are too tense... well I couldn't even slot an Argos pen up there......

but someone who is gagging for it and already open in his head and arse....

I think you know the rest....

that was my final comment tonight so it's goodnight from me ;)

Edited by ADELE

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That's good to hear Bob

*please tell me you are smiling*

Always.

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Yes willies vary greatly in size both width and length....some can also be narrower at the base than they are on the head.

As for anal sex,never been a huge fan but if a finger can hurt if inserted wrong then a nob most certainly can so to me if I offered anal at discretion I would be more concerned that the guy was gentle about it rather than his size.

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