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why do some girls ask if you have used escort services before.

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why do some girls ask if you have used escorts before or if you regularly use escorts. its usaully on a first visit and although i`m usually pleased with the service i receive i noticed a couple of times the girl will appear to be sussing me out to see if i know the ropes and will try to stall and waste time i`m paying for by nipping to the loo or taking calls checking texts etc or on one occasion although i enjoy a good chat this girl was cunningly trying to stretch the conversation to kill time so i had to prompt and initiate the action.

its no big deal as i left happy anyway its just an observation i made that some girls lead and others follow but some clearly want the money but try to do as little as possible for it.

your thoughts would be enlightening :D

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why do some girls ask if you have used escorts before or if you regularly use escorts.

You shouldn't read anything of a devious nature into that question, she is merely ascertaining what approach to use if and when she refunds part of the fee for any reason, newbies might get very embarrassed, whereas an experienced punter will just accept it as a matter of course.

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why do some girls ask if you have used escorts .... i noticed a couple of times the girl will appear to be sussing me out to see if i know the ropes and will try to stall and waste time i`m paying for by nipping to the loo or taking calls checking texts etc

I think you've answered your own question?

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I imagine they ask to ascertain whether you know what you're doing or not, whether they need to take control because you're nervous etc.

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I imagine they ask to ascertain whether you know what you're doing or not, whether they need to take control because you're nervous etc.

That's why I ask, it's a good idea if the client knows what the 'normal' procedures are, plus a lot of first timers are nervous and you can help put them at their ease.

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why do some girls ask if you have used escorts before or if you regularly use escorts. its usaully on a first visit and although i`m usually pleased with the service i receive i noticed a couple of times the girl will appear to be sussing me out to see if i know the ropes and will try to stall and waste time i`m paying for by nipping to the loo or taking calls checking texts etc or on one occasion although i enjoy a good chat this girl was cunningly trying to stretch the conversation to kill time so i had to prompt and initiate the action.

its no big deal as i left happy anyway its just an observation i made that some girls lead and others follow but some clearly want the money but try to do as little as possible for it.

your thoughts would be enlightening :)

A little bit cynical only thinking it is a way of trying to waste time/rip you off :D

I always ask because it gives me a chance to gauge what sort of approach I need to take with a client. A new client to escorting is often very nervous so you need to be gentler and start off with a bit of talk etc just to make them feel at ease.

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A little bit cynical only thinking it is a way of trying to waste time/rip you off :D

I always ask because it gives me a chance to gauge what sort of approach I need to take with a client. A new client to escorting is often very nervous so you need to be gentler and start off with a bit of talk etc just to make them feel at ease.

Definitely agree. Things "flow" better when both parties are relaxed. If it's someones first time they might need a bit more chatting time but this is in no way a stalling technique, just want them to feel confortable.

I turn my mobile off when I'm with a client as I think this is very rude and interupts, afterall, you are paying for my time and all my attention should be on you. However, I'm not a bionic woman! I do sometimes need to go to the loo and seeing as I'm not into watersports, peeing on the bed/all over you really isn't an option!!!:)

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Yes I think it's true that first timers are bound to be nervous and it's a fair question so the lady can put them at ease. Why always assume it's so they can try and rip you off?

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I've asked this when a guy behaves in a manner not acceptable to most WG's. For example expecting to pay by cheque, wanting extensive text, phone or messenger chat to 'so we can get to know each other'.

It's amazing how many other girls suddenly supposedly accept cheques, take bookings from withhelds or get into lengthy sexy chat on the promise of a booking (and I'm not talking overnights). I don't ask these days, and after all it's non of my business.

Sometimes it becomes obvious during the enquiry that the guy may have only had experience with parlours, and is questioning the difference in the way independents do things. In which case it may then be pertinent to enquire.

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So cynical!

I sometimes ask, if someone appears nervous...

And reassure them that I am just like the woman on the bus, just ordinary, normal, and that they can chill out, just relax and have fun times with me.

WE WANT the boys to have a good time..nervous boys need more mollycoddling sometimes, is all.

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thanks for your replies everyone you`ve put my mind at rest i know i`m a bit cynical sometimes but hey who can blame me with even our so called pillars of society on the fiddle at westminster it pays to bounce a query off a few like minded people now i know the reason i`m fine with it. :D

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i noticed a couple of times the girl will appear to be sussing me out to see if i know the ropes and will try to stall and waste time i`m paying for by nipping to the loo or taking calls checking texts etc or on one occasion although i enjoy a good chat this girl was cunningly trying to stretch the conversation to kill time so i had to prompt and initiate the action.

I have never had this problem - after paying I usually just take girl by hand and sit her on my lap and begin the kissing/touching.

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Like Dolly I sometimes ask if the guy seems a little nervous or unsure what to do. It helps break the ice a bit. Funny cos if a guy tells me its his first time I never know whether to believe them anyway or if they are just saying it hoping for a better time!

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why do some girls ask if you have used escorts before or if you regularly use escorts. its usaully on a first visit and although i`m usually pleased with the service i receive i noticed a couple of times the girl will appear to be sussing me out to see if i know the ropes and will try to stall and waste time i`m paying for by nipping to the loo or taking calls checking texts etc or on one occasion although i enjoy a good chat this girl was cunningly trying to stretch the conversation to kill time so i had to prompt and initiate the action.

its no big deal as i left happy anyway its just an observation i made that some girls lead and others follow but some clearly want the money but try to do as little as possible for it.

your thoughts would be enlightening :D

Surely they are bound to want to suss you out. After all they are being paid to pleasure you so they'll need to observe very closely, how you react and behave so as to able to their job properly. Knowing whether you've done it before is, to my mind, just being professional.

I'd prefer a girl to ask. But then they've never had to with me. Always blurted it out at the start.

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