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Have Any Of You Lost Your Mojo?

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Have any of you lost your Mojo?

I think Ive lost mine I dont feel like I used to with woman some times Im limp most of the time I cant cum I find it hard to get hard. any one else feel like this? is it all down hill from here? im only 32. is my sex life over?

I feel like too much punting masturbation and porn has made me lose my mojo what a shame.

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Did it happen suddenly?

what about your sex drive ? Do you want to have sex or is it just a physical problem in terms of maintaining erection.

If you find that you have a low sex drive then I would take a break and leave it for a while, lay off the porn and do lots of physical exercise.

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Did it happen suddenly?

what about your sex drive ? Do you want to have sex or is it just a physical problem in terms of maintaining erection.

If you find that you have a low sex drive then I would take a break and leave it for a while, lay off the porn and do lots of physical exercise.

yeah I still want to have sex but when I try I cant finish the job and im not as hard as I used to be find it difficult in cow girl or doggy not hard enough to do it properly.

Saw the most beautiful girl in the world this afternoon and had them problems wanted to have sex but it didn’t feel as good as it was when I was younger.

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If you're on any medication this could affect your sex drive. You should make an appointment to see your doctor and discuss your problems with sex.

Maybe you're not really wanting sex any more with a girl who has no real interest in you and who you have to pay to get her company. Maybe it's even putting you off. Maybe you really want a girl who actually wants you, for a change! Entirely different! Maybe you're really looking for love rather than just sex.

Anyway, it could do no harm to see your doctor as a first step.

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I agree with Alwayshoping, and no way at the age of 32 should your sexual urges be failing you . We know that sex is mostly in the mind , so maybe you have some stress from work that is getting the better of you . What about a short holiday , that always helps .

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If you're on any medication this could affect your sex drive. You should make an appointment to see your doctor and discuss your problems with sex.

Maybe you're not really wanting sex any more with a girl who has no real interest in you and who you have to pay to get her company. Maybe it's even putting you off. Maybe you really want a girl who actually wants you, for a change! Entirely different! Maybe you're really looking for love rather than just sex.

Anyway, it could do no harm to see your doctor as a first step.

This. Its something that prays on my mind occasionaly, luckily without any physical symptoms though.

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I am no medic but would suggest a complete break from all things sexual, a holiday from work and finding a new hobby. Then in 6 months time your Mojo will reappear and you will want to thank me. I will send you my bank details by PM. :D

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I am no medic but would suggest a complete break from all things sexual, a holiday from work and finding a new hobby. Then in 6 months time your Mojo will reappear and you will want to thank me. I will send you my bank details by PM. :D

but will it take six months? thats far too long.

I hope the mojo reappears.

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If I lose my mojo, I take a break. I don't get like that these days because I do this part-time. When I did it full time I used to get burned out, and the only cure is a break. After your time out, don't do it so often. Make your punts a well planned treat so you have something to look forward to and then something to think about for ages afterwards. Be the master of your own mind man!

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I feel like too much punting masturbation and porn has made me lose my mojo what a shame.

Definitely try giving up watching porn if you are an avid watcher.

I had noticed that I didn't seem to be able to get as big/hard as I used to and I saw a post (I'm sure it was on here but I can't remember who mentioned it), that suggested having a look at this website: http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ and also to have a watch of this video:

(apologies, not sure how to stop it coming out embedded in my post?!)- it was quite an eye-opener, a lot of what the guy in the video was presenting rang true with me.

I don't know what your porn habits are like, but I would watch it all the time. Built up a huge collection on my PC, as well as looking at lots on streaming sites. But it was getting to the point where I had to get a load of different clips up and move between them, always looking for something new. Same with the 'genres' of porn, I'd need to go for something different to keep the excitement going - eg. going through a period watching clips of milfs, or asians, redheads etc.

Subtle things didn't really arouse me anymore, I stopped having sexy dreams and a lot of the time I guess I was just masturbating for the sake of it, rather than because I was horny. After reading/hearing that info about how porn can affect your brain and not getting/staying hard enough to really have lengthy, satisfying sex with an escort, I decided to stop watching porn completely 6 months ago.

It had a noticeable effect on me, I could get as big and hard as I used to, I started having sexy dreams regularly again, went back to waking up every morning with an erection and I got turned on more easily. I guess the time it takes to see results will differ from person to person, but I noticed it quite quickly and I certainly think its worth giving a go if you watch porn regularly. There is also the next, more extreme step, of giving up masturbation as well. There is a lot of talk about 'rebooting' your brain, to get it back to the state before it was completely desensitized to porn. I haven't given that a go yet, but there are plenty of forums where guys discuss the positive effects - just search google for 'no fap'.

Just giving up the porn has helped me a lot - I'm not a very regular punter, but I thought years of masturbating, combined with not getting as hard as I used to, meant I would really struggle to reach orgasm through penetration. I always came with the ladies using a combination of their mouth but also mainly their hand. But in my last punt a few weeks ago, I actually came while I was enjoying some brilliant cowgirl, which was great! :D I'm still not quite all the way there yet, but the progress has been clear to see for me. I might give up masturbating for a while and see if that helps even more, but it will be very tricky - I don't think I've ever even gone for a week without doing it before!

Of course, I could be just reading into things far too much in this instance (and as per usual, I've managed to write a huge essay of a post!). For you, there could be other reasons behind it, stress etc. that others have mentioned. But I do think this could be quite a big problem for guys who watch a lot of porn and hopefully it helps some people who happen to read the post.

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Definitely try giving up watching porn if you are an avid watcher.

I had noticed that I didn't seem to be able to get as big/hard as I used to and I saw a post (I'm sure it was on here but I can't remember who mentioned it), that suggested having a look at this website: http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ and also to have a watch of this video:

(apologies, not sure how to stop it coming out embedded in my post?!)- it was quite an eye-opener, a lot of what the guy in the video was presenting rang true with me.

I don't know what your porn habits are like, but I would watch it all the time. Built up a huge collection on my PC, as well as looking at lots on streaming sites. But it was getting to the point where I had to get a load of different clips up and move between them, always looking for something new. Same with the 'genres' of porn, I'd need to go for something different to keep the excitement going - eg. going through a period watching clips of milfs, or asians, redheads etc.

Subtle things didn't really arouse me anymore, I stopped having sexy dreams and a lot of the time I guess I was just masturbating for the sake of it, rather than because I was horny. After reading/hearing that info about how porn can affect your brain and not getting/staying hard enough to really have lengthy, satisfying sex with an escort, I decided to stop watching porn completely 6 months ago.

It had a noticeable effect on me, I could get as big and hard as I used to, I started having sexy dreams regularly again, went back to waking up every morning with an erection and I got turned on more easily. I guess the time it takes to see results will differ from person to person, but I noticed it quite quickly and I certainly think its worth giving a go if you watch porn regularly. There is also the next, more extreme step, of giving up masturbation as well. There is a lot of talk about 'rebooting' your brain, to get it back to the state before it was completely desensitized to porn. I haven't given that a go yet, but there are plenty of forums where guys discuss the positive effects - just search google for 'no fap'.

Just giving up the porn has helped me a lot - I'm not a very regular punter, but I thought years of masturbating, combined with not getting as hard as I used to, meant I would really struggle to reach orgasm through penetration. I always came with the ladies using a combination of their mouth but also mainly their hand. But in my last punt a few weeks ago, I actually came while I was enjoying some brilliant cowgirl, which was great! :D I'm still not quite all the way there yet, but the progress has been clear to see for me. I might give up masturbating for a while and see if that helps even more, but it will be very tricky - I don't think I've ever even gone for a week without doing it before!

Of course, I could be just reading into things far too much in this instance (and as per usual, I've managed to write a huge essay of a post!). For you, there could be other reasons behind it, stress etc. that others have mentioned. But I do think this could be quite a big problem for guys who watch a lot of porn and hopefully it helps some people who happen to read the post.

So... all things in moderation then?

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wow thank you nemesis for your post and thank you sarah summers.

also Sarah Summers I never knew woman could lose there Mojo very interesting.

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wow thank you nemesis for your post and thank you sarah summers.

also Sarah Summers I never knew woman could lose there Mojo very interesting.

It's what keeps us in work :)

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Changes in libido could indicate a medical condition. Stress, lowered testosterone and cardio vascular disease could be an underlying cause. So get checked out.

Or mebbe you are just bored with the same old, and need a break or do something new. Perhaps a party, a 2 girl or whatever. Or just have a break and do something else for a while and come back fresh and raring to go!

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Well I have just worked out that so far this year I have already had about 58 Punts

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I'll bet your problems are purely psychological rather than physical, and totally reversible.

If you've had 1-2 punts/week plus porn and masturbation, perhaps a total break for a few weeks would sort you out, like others have suggested.

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Hunni you have to realise first and foremost that IT HAPPENS TO ALL OF US male and female alike from time to time.

First step.. Go to the doctors and make sure its nothing medical like Diabetes. When you have done that and made sure that there is no medical reason why its playing up then 'and I know this is easier said than done', try not to even think about it. Stop putting pressure on yourself, if you can maintain an erection when pleasuring yourself then try doing that with your lady, if not then refrain altogether for a while and take things very slowly.

I can guarantee that every single woman on this board will have come across loads of people having the same problem and lots younger than you too, it will get better promise, but go see your doctor just to rule medical problems out.

Hope things improve soon.

hugs.

Holly xx

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I never knew woman could lose there Mojo very interesting.

You my friend, have clearly never been married :D :D.

FWIW, I think the advice you have had on this thread about cutting down on porn and taking a break from punting is spot on. 58 punts in 9 months seems like a lot to me. Surely it's all become a bit routine? Even the mighty smiths confesses to needing a six month break a while back !! Perhaps seeing a Doc is also a good step. Best of luck. KK

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