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Shower In The Hour ?

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I rang a lady recently and, as usual, wished to confirm that I would be able to have a shower before I left for the usual reasons. I also said that, although I showered every day at home, there was the possibility, on this occasion, that I might need a shower before we got down to business. She then surprised me by saying that the showers would have to be taken within my hour. I was taken aback by this because, in my limited experience I've had the shower after my time has run out. I've never needed to have a shower in arrival but always want to make sure it's available.

As I say my experience is limited and I wondered if my experience of showering after time was out of the ordinary or whether " shower in the hour " was the norm.

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Alone = Outside time

Together = In time

IMO

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In high turnover places I would expect it to be included in the hour if before but possibly not afterwards, depending on facilities.

Difficult if girl or parlour is taking back to back 1/2 hour or one hour bookings and is busy. I've experienced both included and excluded at the same place, it just depends on bookings - you could always try to get there 5 mins early and ask for a shower before the fun starts?

I noticed on the other site a few days ago that a girl states she wants guys to shower upon arrival and that the hour doesn't start until after you have showered.

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Alone = Outside time

Together = In time

IMO

Good Point ! If it's together it's all part of the fun and should be include in the time IMO too.

At the risk of upsetting the "establishments", I find it's less likely to be an issue when visiting, or being visited by, an independent :)

Edited by Big Bad John

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A shower should only take a couple of minutes and a relaxed appointment which may end +/- 5 minutes either way should be able to accomodate this.

You say you require a shower at the start, but then say in your experience you've always had one after the end of the appointment. Can't see any problem with you nipping into the shower right at the start and it not affecting either the the girl's timekeeping or your booking length. Only time it may become a problem is if you arrive, start chatting/kissing after 5-10 minutes say you wanted a shower then expect the time to start.

I often start with kiss and cuddle welcome, shower comes after we've become acquainted but once again only taking a few minutes(unless I'm in the shower room chatting and teasing ;) !), and having a few minutes lee-way at the end it doesn't become an issue of who's time it's taking up.

Have heard tales of some guys taking 20 minutes in the shower, or over running then expecting a long shower.

Edited by Strawberry

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You say you require a shower at the start, but then say in your experience you've always had one after the end of the appointment.

Sorry for not making myself clear. I have never had a shower at the start but thought that in this instance it might be necessary. So I thought it only right to check with the lady beforehand. As regards afterwards I prefer to go home taking the scent of the lady home with me. Obviously this is not always possible. I do always try not to hang about in the shower afterwards because it's offered as a courtesy.

The idea of a few minutes kiss and cuddle followed by a joint shower before getting down to business sounds very inviting. I agree that it should be after the lady has got to know her visitor. My options are limited in that respect but I do have a lady in mind. I'll have to ask her the next time I visit.

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How long can it take to have a shower, especially if there is a lady waiting for you once you have finished. I would have thought that 2 minutes is well over the required time. I bet I can soap myself all over (and I mean all over) , rinse it all off and be out in the boudoir inside 90 seconds.

As for a shower at the end, to ensure that I don't carry any unwanted traces back home, another minute is enough.

I can't see what the lady in the OP is on about.

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It varies on many things really.

If an hour is booked, that is what is booked in an escort's schedule.. A few minutes on each side does not matter but if a client wants 10 minutes beforehand and another 10 minutes after for showers, this now takes up 1 hour and 20 mins. I personally leave 30 minutes minimum between clients and if the above scenario happened I would now be in a really tight spot to get ready for the next client which is unfair both on the next client and on me. Of course if there is no client after it does not matter so much but it should not be expected that the girl has unlimited time.

I had a client a couple of weeks ago who insisted near the end as we were going over time and I nudged him a little, that the clock had not started until the hello chat/kissing/undressing had been done (took 15 minutes) so he wanted the full hour of sex and then again free time at the end to dress again etc. It was unreasonable and I will not see him again.

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It all depends on the lady and her client. Most guys take a few minutes in the shower, but you do get the odd one who takes ages. I have had guys take a shower at the beginning while I have gone into the kitchen to pour drinks etc and I don't know what they are doing in there but I do not hear the shower being turned on at all... wait a bit, sip my wine.. and then go and ask if everything is alright. I think they must be doing other things such as using the toilet, which is fine, but sometimes you wonder what planet they are on when time is kind of - of the essence.

Then afterwards they want another shower and take an absolute age again. I do not clock watch but if I had another client coming I would be getting very uncomfortable by now.

Luckily these guys are very few and far between, but I think this might be why the lady said this.

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I hadn't considered men who would take 10 minutes etc. perhaps this lady had had one or two experiences of that thoughtless behaviour and if so I can understand her attitude. If that was the case then it's a pity she didn't seek clarification from me because otherwise she sounded very nice. Possibly a communication problem both ways. As I say it has only occurred once but if it happens again, with another lady, then I'll try a different approach and politely enquire as to why. but as you can see from my last post it's unlikely that I will ever need two showers let alone one.

As regards your gentleman caller he was no gentleman. I have on more than one occasion benefitted from the generosity of a lady in overrunning the time. It's very nice to think that she enjoys my company so much that she wants to spend more time with me. But I am only due what I have paid for so it's wrong to try and take advantage of someone's good nature.

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I almost always make a point of having a long lingering shared shower as part of a booking

Its one of my favourite parts of the punt and is often the place where my first orgasm of the session takes place

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It all depends on the lady and her client. Most guys take a few minutes in the shower, but you do get the odd one who takes ages. I have had guys take a shower at the beginning while I have gone into the kitchen to pour drinks etc and I don't know what they are doing in there but I do not hear the shower being turned on at all... wait a bit, sip my wine.. and then go and ask if everything is alright. I think they must be doing other things such as using the toilet, which is fine, but sometimes you wonder what planet they are on when time is kind of - of the essence.

Then afterwards they want another shower and take an absolute age again. I do not clock watch but if I had another client coming I would be getting very uncomfortable by now.

Luckily these guys are very few and far between, but I think this might be why the lady said this.

I'll be honest I have intended to take only a few minutes in the shower but as you gets into it, and find the rubber ducky it can become a long drawn out event - and a pleasant one too :) .

So it can happen sometimes and nor would I expect time to be added on as a result.

Edited by Superego

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Having to use up as much as 5 minutes in an hour for showering (though I'd expect to be showered and dried much quicker) wouldn't bother me. To expect the lady to devote exactly 60 minutes to you is as bad as a WG with a mechanical attitude kicking you out on the dot. With the right lady and the right attitude on both sides an hour should be able to give of take a few minutes IMHO - swings and roundabouts ( the swings are more fun of course! )

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In high turnover places I would expect it to be included in the hour if before but possibly not afterwards, depending on facilities.

Difficult if girl or parlour is taking back to back 1/2 hour or one hour bookings and is busy. I've experienced both included and excluded at the same place, it just depends on bookings - you could always try to get there 5 mins early and ask for a shower before the fun starts?

I noticed on the other site a few days ago that a girl states she wants guys to shower upon arrival and that the hour doesn't start until after you have showered.

That's effectively how I work, although I do think that anything more than five or ten minutes is taking advantage. I definitely schedule extra time around an appointment to account for these things -- I really don't get any joy out of having to rush someone out the door if we've just finished having a nice time together, it feels mean and a bit abrupt. Getting dressed together and having a chat can be quite fun.

Edited by Curious Rose

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I saw a lady recently and the booking was nearing the end-time. I try to check the time before the lady does, out of respect, so I asked her how long she had before her next client was due.

She replied "Ten minutes". I asked if I had time for a quick shower: "Of course". "Would you care to join me?" I asked. "Wonderful" was the reply. I thought that this was both an enjoyable way to end the visit and helped her in her preparation for the followig client.

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I saw a lady recently and the booking was nearing the end-time. I try to check the time before the lady does, out of respect, so I asked her how long she had before her next client was due.

She replied "Ten minutes". I asked if I had time for a quick shower: "Of course". "Would you care to join me?" I asked. "Wonderful" was the reply. I thought that this was both an enjoyable way to end the visit and helped her in her preparation for the followig client.

Sounds like a win-win situation to me.

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if you saw her through an agency or a flat the girl will get in to trouble for letting you shower not in the hour they will be hunting for more money off her and you, of course if she is indie and wants to work a lot that is what she wants to do and entirely up to her and so you just picked the wrong person. Pick someone next time who doesn't mind you staying an extra 15 mins afterwards who doesn't do back to back clients as their choice so it wont matter. Best to ask first x

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I rang a lady recently and, as usual, wished to confirm that I would be able to have a shower before I left for the usual reasons. I also said that, although I showered every day at home, there was the possibility, on this occasion, that I might need a shower before we got down to business. She then surprised me by saying that the showers would have to be taken within my hour. I was taken aback by this because, in my limited experience I've had the shower after my time has run out. I've never needed to have a shower in arrival but always want to make sure it's available.

As I say my experience is limited and I wondered if my experience of showering after time was out of the ordinary or whether " shower in the hour " was the norm.

Depends on the SP in my experience but as i am clean i can have a shower at the WGs in a couple of minutes ideally with her outside the cubicle naked revving my engine so its not an issue for me to worry about. I dont like sharing a bath or shower myself but i know many punters do.

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I dont like sharing a bath or shower myself but i know many punters do.

I can understand not wishing to share a bath (who gets the tap end?) but sharing a shower, in a decent sized affair is very erotic.

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I think if prior to the first booking you get into a whose time is the initial chat in, whose time is the shower in, whose time is the dressing up in what i want you to wear in etc etc alarm bells will start ringing and some girls will say you booked me for an hour that's what you get, if you want to spend 40 minutes in the shower cleaning your bits and then washing me off you then that's great!! Others will give you more freedom, but they won't know until they have met you if they want to give you that freedom or not.

First time date simple rules, ask if the services advertised are on offer if I am clean and tidy and I would like to book from 15.00 to 16.00, get there at 15.00 and assume you are leaving at 16.00 unless advised differently.

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I think if prior to the first booking you get into a whose time is the initial chat in, whose time is the shower in, whose time is the dressing up in what i want you to wear in etc etc alarm bells will start ringing and some girls will say you booked me for an hour that's what you get, if you want to spend 40 minutes in the shower cleaning your bits and then washing me off you then that's great!! Others will give you more freedom, but they won't know until they have met you if they want to give you that freedom or not.

First time date simple rules, ask if the services advertised are on offer if I am clean and tidy and I would like to book from 15.00 to 16.00, get there at 15.00 and assume you are leaving at 16.00 unless advised differently.

To paraphrase the Prime Minister at Question Time " I refer you to my earlier posts on this subject " and should be obliged to receive your considered response to the points raised therein.

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Apologies for my previous post. I was in a narky mood.

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Apologies for my previous post. I was in a narky mood.

Accepted

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In reply to Heather. I wouldn't dream of taking more from a girl just because a guy dallied overly in the shower, it's not the girls fault is it

Edited by Chloe MKEscorts

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I had a client every week, saw him for well over a year, booked only half hour on old rates, took the piss something cronic, alwAys turned up nearly 10 mins early, no kidding once took 24 mins in shower was never less than 15, came out and timed his sex so.he came bang on 30 mins of sex, then would lie 'recovering' for 10/15 mins, shower again another 15 mins, get dressed so s l o w l y put one sock on, stop talk put the other stop talk.

A 30 min apt took no kidding well over an hour sometimes hour and half, after so long I got totally fed up and cut him loose, I liked him and was good to talk to but just took the piss, even would tell him I have another client due, he just said they will wait!

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