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Do You Text Or Call The Wg When Making A Booking?

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I use to text when I was on the bus and stuff because I dont want to make an obvious phone call on the bus. I remember once I mass texted 7 WGs at once to see which one would reply, and none of them did apart from one which is my worse punt to date.

The other one I met I called, but the phone calls always tend to be short, cold and awkward. And I'm always worried they wont pick up (hasnt happened yet)

What do you guys do?

I've tried the booking request on purple site but they never text or call me when I make one...

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Generally its a good idea on the purple site to email them first, wait for an answer and then book them through the request system. The amount of guys who have put in a booking request for say an hours time and I've missed it due to not being sat at my pc or by my android phone all day...as for texting I always say this...you are making a booking for some personal, intimate time with a lady not ordering a pizza. I don't mind texts from guys I have met before but not to make initial bookings. You are also banking on the fact that the lady will have oodles of credit to text back and forth.

It usually says on most profiles on the purple site withheld numbers and texts will be ignored if you look.

In my experience when a guy texts I answer politely and ask them to ring to make enquiries, I think it is courteous to hear each others voice, also for all I know it could be a kid messing around, its hard to tell from text speak. Quite often this is not respected and the guy then tries to enter into some sort of text sex with me. So in summary the best thing to do is if its in advance, email them if its more urgent give them a ring and then use the booking system.

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I don't mind text messages so long as they are succinct and to the point. If I've to go back and forth extracting each little bit of info I'm probably not going to bother, or as in the case of this morning I may actually become booked by someone who phones or who can put all the information into short exchange.

Any ambiguous texts such as "Are u avail?", "Hi", " RU free?" "Wots ur prices" almost always go unanswered these days. I've also had exchanges where appointment time is mentioned but then right at the end it becomes obvious the guy requires an outcall and I've been working out timings as if it's incall, not a 1 or 2 hour drive away, and more often than not it's not possible(due to the timing or booking length they've asked for, or because they can't meet my outcall screening criteria). Most annoying, sometimes wonder if guys don't think it's important to state where or that you'll be travelling!

I have plenty of regular clients who arrange bookings via a couple of quick, simple text messages and that works great.

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I have never sent a text enquiring about a booking. If there is a phone number for the lady I always phone. If not I will e-mail with a specific enquiry regarding date and time I am looking for and asking whether this is convenient. Sadly you don't necessarily get a response saying that she's unavailable. If she is available I ask for a telephone number and what would be a convenient time to call her to discuss the details. In a conversation I find you can get a pretty good idea of what the other person is like and if necessary, politely, say that you have changed your mind. I'm sure that, if after talking to you, she decides that she doesn't like the sound of you she will have no hesitation in refusing the booking.

Another advantage to a conversation is that you discover whether the lady's command of english is good enough for you. I like to be able to talk with the lady. Sometimes, I admit too much, and ladies have had to take drastic ( but pleasurable ) action.

I have only ever texted on the day, as requested, to confirm departure - directions - arrival. With ladies I would like to see again I sometimes give them my private e-mail details.

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I absolutely hate texts mainly because my nails get in the way while trying to do it, but also because most of the TWs seemed to come from texts and whilst I appreciated that a lot of guys were at work so phoning could be difficult for them I much prefered a call, so unless it was a regular, texts quite often got ignored.

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Also texts that I suspect have been sent out to several other women or impersonal ones put me off as well as the sort Strawberry mentions! I want to see men who he want to see *me* not because he just wants any old hole that day!

The best advice I can give is make a phone call- you say that the calls you have made have been personal and cold- well doesn't that warn you of how she may be and how the punt may go? A phone call is the best way for us escorts to judge whether we want to see a man but also for YOU as a client to work out whether this is the kind of woman you will have a good time with?

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I sent a book request to a lady yesterday afternoon saying if she can please call or text me when she sees the request. (Its for Sunday).

Shes logged on today and she hasnt rung or text me yet... I think ill call her after work.

Man, I seem to have the worse luck with WGs. I hope this one doesnt have attitude like the other one in my other thread :(.

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I sent a book request to a lady yesterday afternoon saying if she can please call or text me when she sees the request. (Its for Sunday).

Shes logged on today and she hasnt rung or text me yet... I think ill call her after work.

Man, I seem to have the worse luck with WGs. I hope this one doesnt have attitude like the other one in my other thread :(.

Oh dear, I feel I need to sit you down and go through sensible punting with you...maybe I should offer lessons to newbies as a service!

A booking request out of nowhere is really really irritating to most women. It smacks of assumption that you are assuming they will be free and waiting for you! I know you have good intentions, but most clients don't book via the ** booking system so even if it looks like she is free she may not be. What you need to do is message or call them first, agree the time and date and then offer to book through the ** system. Also asking them to call isn't the right protocol! You need to make the call! If we had to call every man who wanted to contact us our phone bills would be through the roof! That and as a cynical bunch we don't know that the number you give isn't a mates you are winding up!

Get brave boy and phone them!

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Lydia's right. I would never in a million years have phoned a client, so you'll be waiting a long time for that to happen methinks. Have you got any idea how many cheapskates (not meaning you by the way) that used to text saying stuff like 'got no credit so plz ring me, want to book you'. Ha don't be daft if you can't afford credit then you can't afford to book. Ring her hunni, thats the right way to do it..

Good luck xx

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I use to text when I was on the bus and stuff because I dont want to make an obvious phone call on the bus. I remember once I mass texted 7 WGs at once to see which one would reply, and none of them did apart from one which is my worse punt to date.

The other one I met I called, but the phone calls always tend to be short, cold and awkward. And I'm always worried they wont pick up (hasnt happened yet)

What do you guys do?

I've tried the booking request on purple site but they never text or call me when I make one...

I only ever call newbie WGs to me, if they dont accept calls i go elsewhere. Its absolutely essential to me to have a chat on the phone, i need to hear the WGs voice and tone and seek confirmation that what i require is definitely still on offer. Any hint of coldness or a monotone response and i rarely preceed any further, i look for at least the act of being friendly and warm. If a regular i am happy to text if that suits her better.

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I sent a book request to a lady yesterday afternoon saying if she can please call or text me when she sees the request. (Its for Sunday).

Shes logged on today and she hasnt rung or text me yet... I think ill call her after work.

Man, I seem to have the worse luck with WGs. I hope this one doesnt have attitude like the other one in my other thread :(.

You do seem to have problems. Other posts, including my previous one, have perhaps been a little too subtle so I'll try the sledgehammer approach.

1. Stop sending texts.

2. Stop sending booking requests out of the blue.

3. Stop asking ladies to phone you.

4. Read the lady's profile thoroughly. Then read it again. And again.

5. Follow her instructions.

6. Consider whether your telephone manner is what it should be. If someone is not very friendly to me then I can be quite " cold " with them whether on the phone or in person.

By the way I don't consider myself to be perfect. The only perfect person is an idiot because only an idiot would believe they are perfect. I an not an idiot. Compare it with writing a letter and put yourself in the position of the person receiving the letter and ask yourself how it would come across to you?

My advice is well meant. I enjoy my punting and I'd like you to enjoy it too. But like a lot of things in life you have to put in the effort to get the enjoyment. Best wishes and good luck.

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I sent a book request to a lady yesterday afternoon saying if she can please call or text me when she sees the request. (Its for Sunday).

Shes logged on today and she hasnt rung or text me yet... I think ill call her after work.

Man, I seem to have the worse luck with WGs. I hope this one doesnt have attitude like the other one in my other thread :(.

I don't call any number sent to me by email or text or left on VM(unless in the latter two it originates from that number), partly because it's led to cat and mouse and partly because the number of people who mistype, or purposely include a number which isn't theirs sometimes as a 'surprise' for their mate is actually quite high - even genuine clients have done it accidentally. Same goes for people sending me email addresses by other means.

Client sending a number to call is a turn off for a lot of girls full stop.

Edited by Strawberry

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Bit of a minefield this one. For the initial contact I recommend you scrutinise the lady's site/profile for her contact preferences.

Generally call or email first, and make emails very brief - two lines max. Texting is usually for when she wants to send the address or for subsequent visits when you have established a rapport.

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Very informative,

This subject has been on my mind recently. It's helpful hearing that the girls prefer a more personal approach, that said being new without meeting yet my first call is nonetheless a little daunting :unsure:

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I always prefer to call initially. I'm generally not in a position to arrange things via e -mail with certainty I won't be found out and am the proud owner of a phone that doesn't do e mail. I have possibly missed out on some good ones on the purple site who don't show phone numbers, but I ain't complaining as I met a new lady yesterday who did have her number up on the page. Happy days.

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Oh dear, I feel I need to sit you down and go through sensible punting with you...maybe I should offer lessons to newbies as a service!

A booking request out of nowhere is really really irritating to most women. It smacks of assumption that you are assuming they will be free and waiting for you! I know you have good intentions, but most clients don't book via the ** booking system so even if it looks like she is free she may not be. What you need to do is message or call them first, agree the time and date and then offer to book through the ** system. Also asking them to call isn't the right protocol! You need to make the call! If we had to call every man who wanted to contact us our phone bills would be through the roof! That and as a cynical bunch we don't know that the number you give isn't a mates you are winding up!

Get brave boy and phone them!

Excellent advice Lydia. :)

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Very informative,

This subject has been on my mind recently. It's helpful hearing that the girls prefer a more personal approach, that said being new without meeting yet my first call is nonetheless a little daunting :unsure:

Its always daunting for the client but for a girl its a must. Most girls have to rely on their gut instinct when trying to stay safe and often that comes into play when your talking to a guy. When you've been doing it a while you can more often than not tell what kind of guy they are going to be just by talking to them, thats not possible with a text or email.

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its a minefield

there are girls with no phone no who want you to email.

there are girls with phone number want you to call

there are gorls with no phone no want you to call... WTF?

Then they dont answer. or read the email and dont reply. or whatever. Each WG is different, you have to guess how they work, i'm afraid.

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same here - and those that do the back and bloody forth thing get a text saying please call for more info if they don't then i assume that they were never going to book anyway

Polite and to the point texts are always going to get a quick reply those that are rude or written that i scant understand get deleted

I don't mind text messages so long as they are succinct and to the point. If I've to go back and forth extracting each little bit of info I'm probably not going to bother, or as in the case of this morning I may actually become booked by someone who phones or who can put all the information into short exchange.

Any ambiguous texts such as "Are u avail?", "Hi", " RU free?" "Wots ur prices" almost always go unanswered these days. I've also had exchanges where appointment time is mentioned but then right at the end it becomes obvious the guy requires an outcall and I've been working out timings as if it's incall, not a 1 or 2 hour drive away, and more often than not it's not possible(due to the timing or booking length they've asked for, or because they can't meet my outcall screening criteria). Most annoying, sometimes wonder if guys don't think it's important to state where or that you'll be travelling!

I have plenty of regular clients who arrange bookings via a couple of quick, simple text messages and that works great.

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If its a first time visit to a new girl then CALL.

If you have seen a lady numerous times before to the point where she has your name/number saved then its ok to book by text as she knows who you are and that you are not a timewaster.

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OK GUYS, THANKS FOR THE ADVICE.

Heres the

UPDATE:

I called the lady from purple site I liked the look of and the conversation was rather odd. Heres how it went:

*ring ring ring ring*

WG: Hello?

NewbPunt: Hello, is that Suzie from purple site?

WG: Yeah, of course.

NewbPunt: Hi, I just saw your profile and wanted to make a booking. Do you do advance bookings?

WG: Yeah, up to 3 days in advance.

NewbPunt: Great, do you work on Sundays?

WG: Yes, suzie works on sundays

*Now im confused as to whether im talking to some sort of maid or the WG. I assumed it was a maid...*

NewbPunt: Great, can I book suzie for 7:30?

WG: Yes ok...

*awkward silence for 2-3 seconds

NewbPunt: Do you want me to call on the day to confirm too?

WG: Yeah ok

*I was thinking of making my heels request but I think I was talking to the maid and not Suzie...

NewbPunt: Great ill ring you on Sunday

WG: Ok, bye...

*click*

The phonecall lasted 40 seconds and it was abit weird because I didnt know if it was the maid or Suzie... (The WGs name)... I should of asked but for whatever reason I didnt want to make it awkward by saying "Wait,... Are you the girl in the profile or someone else?"

Anyway, it didnt sound official at all and she didnt even ask for my name so she could write it down in a diary... So who knows if she actually booked me in. Was rather confusing but atleast she was pretty friendly whoever it was...

Thoughts?

Thanks for the advice guys, I am realtivley new to operating proplery on purple site and with WGs directly. Normally I go to Soho, HOD or Sandys in Manchester... Or parlours.

Edited by NewbPunt

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OK GUYS, THANKS FOR THE ADVICE.

Heres the

UPDATE:

I called the lady from purple site I liked the look of and the conversation was rather odd. Heres how it went:

*ring ring ring ring*

WG: Hello?

NewbPunt: Hello, is that Suzie from purple site?

WG: Yeah, of course.

NewbPunt: Hi, I just saw your profile and wanted to make a booking. Do you do advance bookings?

WG: Yeah, up to 3 days in advance.

NewbPunt: Great, do you work on Sundays?

WG: Yes, suzie works on sundays

*Now im confused as to whether im talking to some sort of maid or the WG. I assumed it was a maid...*

NewbPunt: Great, can I book suzie for 7:30?

WG: Yes ok...

*awkward silence for 2-3 seconds

NewbPunt: Do you want me to call on the day to confirm too?

WG: Yeah ok

*I was thinking of making my heels request but I think I was talking to the maid and not Suzie...

NewbPunt: Great ill ring you on Sunday

WG: Ok, bye...

*click*

The phonecall lasted 40 seconds and it was abit weird because I didnt know if it was the maid or Suzie... (The WGs name)... I should of asked but for whatever reason I didnt want to make it awkward by saying "Wait,... Are you the girl in the profile or someone else?"

Anyway, it didnt sound official at all and she didnt even ask for my name so she could write it down in a diary... So who knows if she actually booked me in. Was rather confusing but atleast she was pretty friendly whoever it was...

Thoughts?

Thanks for the advice guys, I am realtivley new to operating proplery on purple site and with WGs directly. Normally I go to Soho, HOD or Sandys in Manchester... Or parlours.

Some guys do actually ask that question so don't see why you shouldn't.

Did you agree a time for confirmation?If not I'd start to think this arrangement is a little loose(otherwise what's the point(unless they really would sit around right up until the appointment and not bother)).

Not asking for a name?They may simply use phone numbers, rather than a long list of Johns, Daves and Steves.

Edited by Strawberry

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OK GUYS, THANKS FOR THE ADVICE.

Heres the

UPDATE:

I called the lady from purple site I liked the look of and the conversation was rather odd. Heres how it went:

*ring ring ring ring*

WG: Hello?

NewbPunt: Hello, is that Suzie from purple site?

WG: Yeah, of course.

NewbPunt: Hi, I just saw your profile and wanted to make a booking. Do you do advance bookings?

WG: Yeah, up to 3 days in advance.

NewbPunt: Great, do you work on Sundays?

WG: Yes, suzie works on sundays

*Now im confused as to whether im talking to some sort of maid or the WG. I assumed it was a maid...*

NewbPunt: Great, can I book suzie for 7:30?

WG: Yes ok...

*awkward silence for 2-3 seconds

NewbPunt: Do you want me to call on the day to confirm too?

WG: Yeah ok

*I was thinking of making my heels request but I think I was talking to the maid and not Suzie...

NewbPunt: Great ill ring you on Sunday

WG: Ok, bye...

*click*

The phonecall lasted 40 seconds and it was abit weird because I didnt know if it was the maid or Suzie... (The WGs name)... I should of asked but for whatever reason I didnt want to make it awkward by saying "Wait,... Are you the girl in the profile or someone else?"

Anyway, it didnt sound official at all and she didnt even ask for my name so she could write it down in a diary... So who knows if she actually booked me in. Was rather confusing but atleast she was pretty friendly whoever it was...

Thoughts?

Thanks for the advice guys, I am realtivley new to operating proplery on purple site and with WGs directly. Normally I go to Soho, HOD or Sandys in Manchester... Or parlours.

Awkward and confusing arent words that inspire me with confidence to punt with a WG. Clear communication and asking the questions i require an answer to are though. The worst that will happen is the WG doesnt wish to answer a straight question, thats up to her, i just go elsewhere. Its your money your spending so i advise you to ensure you get the answers you require when enquiring.

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Maybe she just refers to herself in the third person?

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