nitram78

Purple Site Timewasters

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I have come to the conclusion that it has to be me, but I'm growing tired of never getting a reply from the purple site, even though i can see my emails have been read.

Over the last 6 months I have spent hours researching, filtering down and checking out reviews (due diligence) from sites, such as punternet, before making contact. I've then spent a good period of time crafting a unique email to each escort, but never to get a reply....or on the rare occasion an automatic reply, such as "call me"....blah.

I don't know how some of you do it. I've even attempted to make contact with ones that others here recommend...same result.

I'm yet to make any formal booking via the purple site, but i'm come to conclusion I must be a marked man or that until I manage to make a booking/create some feedback, other escorts simply won't entertain a request.

Maybe I should stick to agencies?

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I have come to the conclusion that it has to be me, but I'm growing tired of never getting a reply from the purple site, even though i can see my emails have been read.

Over the last 6 months I have spent hours researching, filtering down and checking out reviews (due diligence) from sites, such as punternet, before making contact. I've then spent a good period of time crafting a unique email to each escort, but never to get a reply....or on the rare occasion an automatic reply, such as "call me"....blah.

I don't know how some of you do it. I've even attempted to make contact with ones that others here recommend...same result.

I'm yet to make any formal booking via the purple site, but i'm come to conclusion I must be a marked man or that until I manage to make a booking/create some feedback, other escorts simply won't entertain a request.

Maybe I should stick to agencies?

Sorry you aren't having any luck, don't know what to suggest really since it sounds as if you are doing everything right.

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Why not try the ladies who only allow a message as initial form of contact with her?

Those type of ladies should reply surely.

Try ones with a few good feedbacks as well, maybe not the ones without any even though I know all of us have to start somewhere on that site.

All the best.

Lucy :)

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I am sure we have all had emails unanswered. But I would estimate that the number of ladies who have replied to my email enquiries outnumbers those who never did by 2 or 3 to 1. So I don't know what you are doing wrong. Perhaps you are, in fact, spending too much effort on your messages: a short email is quicker to read and easier to respond to and therefore more likely to generate a prompt response; too many questions or requirements might make you sound like the TW. Of course, a lady's own instructions should be followed as far as possible and there is little point emailing a provider who states she prefers calls or calling one who asks for initial contact by text, etc.

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Totally agree nitram - you work hard at your research, mentally plot your movements so as to see the lady, and the miserable so-and-so cant be arsed to reply. Been there, had that many times. At the end of the day, it's her loss.

I suspect the ladies will say how some guys persistently email or text but dont book; ask for a specific date/time then cancel with a few hours notice; or dont turn up at all.It's a no-win on both sides as regards wasting time.

Still, cant be as bad as a punt I had in June, where the girl replied promptly and politely to emails, agreed to all manner of things, wanted me to take photos of her sucking me off for her purple gallery which I did, went away seemingly happy and £140 richer, but then cant be arsed to even reply thanks to my text message thanking her for her time, or even leave me some feedback after I left some for her.

A girl with a serious gratitude problem? Wish I'd said what a fat ugly bitch she was now. meow!

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Call them!

When they don't provide a number that is not possible.

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Could I suggest that you give us an idea as to what part of the country you are in? I'n sure you would get some helpful suggestions as to ladies you could visit.

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I'm yet to make any formal booking via the purple site, but i'm come to conclusion I must be a marked man or that until I manage to make a booking/create some feedback, other escorts simply won't entertain a request.

You don't say where you are hoping to punt! I guess that in just the same way that the polis have different approaches to the sex trade in different places, WGs are going to have different approaches too!

You've already worked out that you need feedback - probably a minimum of three. I think you need to look for ladies who give a telephone number, ring, and charm a couple off their 6" heels, and, each time, having made the date by telephone, confirm it with a formal booking via the site. While it is generally thought that WGs shouldn't specifically ask for Field Reports, I don't see any reason why WG or punter shouldn't ask for feedback.

Try, try and try again!

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I have come to the conclusion that it has to be me, but I'm growing tired of never getting a reply from the purple site, even though i can see my emails have been read.

Over the last 6 months I have spent hours researching, filtering down and checking out reviews (due diligence) from sites, such as punternet, before making contact. I've then spent a good period of time crafting a unique email to each escort, but never to get a reply....or on the rare occasion an automatic reply, such as "call me"....blah.

I don't know how some of you do it. I've even attempted to make contact with ones that others here recommend...same result.

I'm yet to make any formal booking via the purple site, but i'm come to conclusion I must be a marked man or that until I manage to make a booking/create some feedback, other escorts simply won't entertain a request.

Maybe I should stick to agencies?

I have come to the conclusion that it has to be me, but I'm growing tired of never getting a reply from the purple site, even though i can see my emails have been read.

Over the last 6 months I have spent hours researching, filtering down and checking out reviews (due diligence) from sites, such as punternet, before making contact. I've then spent a good period of time crafting a unique email to each escort, but never to get a reply....or on the rare occasion an automatic reply, such as "call me"....blah.

I don't know how some of you do it. I've even attempted to make contact with ones that others here recommend...same result.

I'm yet to make any formal booking via the purple site, but i'm come to conclusion I must be a marked man or that until I manage to make a booking/create some feedback, other escorts simply won't entertain a request.

Maybe I should stick to agencies?

I dont waste my time with sending emails, no phone number i go elsewhere. Works for me and if i miss out on a gem, my bad luck, plenty more gems to be found.

Its also the case in my experience of using that site to locate WGs that many i have punted with worked off their phones only, its why they didnt have much or any feedback even months after i first punted with some. I dont believe the FB on their anyway unless i know, trust and/or respect the punter anyway, i view it as Jackanory time with the WG to convince me otherwise.

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Could I suggest that you give us an idea as to what part of the country you are in? I'n sure you would get some helpful suggestions as to ladies you could visit.

I'm West Midlands based (about 20 miles from Birmingham where I normally visit).

The last one i emailed was PasssionateBlonde after reading some recent good reviews, here and on another site.

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When they don't provide a number that is not possible.

A polite email requesting their number to discuss a booking will be answered the majority of the time. Stop emailing and find girls with numbers, then call them. It's not hard, you're making it hard.

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Mind if I ask what I you putting in the email?

I usually send an email initially on the other site but just saying politly hi , whats your availabilty for (a couple of days away), Im hoping for an incall for an xxxx around xx am/pm?.... many thanks in advance

Only a few lines and just a few seconds to send

I usually email on the other site as it helps me determine whether shes a scammer or timewaster or just not actually working..... If no reply then I know shes one of them... and I havent spent money on a phone call and they dont get my number..

After I usually phone, text, etc after.. just so theres another communication path once Ive left my PC. i.e. Stitting in my car..

I only search for girls on the other site who have logged in in the past week too. In my experience I get a reply in about 90% of the times I email...

But in the end, if you cant book then you cant book, so their loss and try someone else...

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You say yo've been trying for 6 months and no response. From that I am guessing your own 'ratings' is 0. The ladies you are emailing via the purple site might not be resonding because they see your rating has been zero for 6 months and may wonder why you are not getting any feedback . As a punter looks for a WG with feedback and ratings, a WG usually decides on accepting a booking by judging the punters feedback / ratings.

Take advice from others above find who books via the phone, then when you meet tell them you'll put in a booking request when you get home and leave feedback. Hopefully they leave you feedback and give you a positive reading. Once you've got some points you should hopefully find yourself getting responses from emails/bookings.

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Coventry was and still is well known for lots of European bait and switches. Over the last two weeks or so Birmingham has about 5/6 new profiles a day of EE girls as well. So if that’s the market audience you are aiming for then I can understand your problem.

However lots of English girls seem to be on the purple site that are so arsy as can not be bothered to reply I have had the same issues myself a few times.

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I have come to the conclusion that it has to be me, but I'm growing tired of never getting a reply from the purple site, even though i can see my emails have been read.

Over the last 6 months I have spent hours researching, filtering down and checking out reviews (due diligence) from sites, such as punternet, before making contact. I've then spent a good period of time crafting a unique email to each escort, but never to get a reply....or on the rare occasion an automatic reply, such as "call me"....blah.

I don't know how some of you do it. I've even attempted to make contact with ones that others here recommend...same result.

I'm yet to make any formal booking via the purple site, but i'm come to conclusion I must be a marked man or that until I manage to make a booking/create some feedback, other escorts simply won't entertain a request.

Maybe I should stick to agencies?

Perhaps a safer bet - the agencies

Forgive me here is this yet another record 6 months research and no reply :o:(

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Could I suggest that you give us an idea as to what part of the country you are in? I'n sure you would get some helpful suggestions as to ladies you could visit.

Beat me to it! I'll cover 15 miles from Swindon SN1 and I'm sure that there are others on here who could send recommendations!

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You say yo've been trying for 6 months and no response. From that I am guessing your own 'ratings' is 0. The ladies you are emailing via the purple site might not be resonding because they see your rating has been zero for 6 months and may wonder why you are not getting any feedback . As a punter looks for a WG with feedback and ratings, a WG usually decides on accepting a booking by judging the punters feedback / ratings.

Take advice from others above find who books via the phone, then when you meet tell them you'll put in a booking request when you get home and leave feedback. Hopefully they leave you feedback and give you a positive reading. Once you've got some points you should hopefully find yourself getting responses from emails/bookings.

In your e-mail, why not explain why you have no feedback?

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WRT to feedback (theirs), set yourself up a search and save it. Sort the seach by number of feedback (for escorting, assuming that's what you want).

I find the postcode search more useful than the town as a lady might list multiple towns, some of which could be some dictance from you.

Set all your criteria up and then search.

Read the ratings, and e-mail those who take your fancy.

I start with an introduction saying hello, this is me, this is what I am like, I am looking for...

I ask if I may (not can) ring the lady and if so, when.

If the e-mail is deleted and not read, I add them to my blacklist. If read and then deleted, I might give them another go. Ditto auto replies.

Any replies, then off you go...

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Reading this brings back my recurring criticsm of the purple site - are some of the girls on it looking for "work" ( the clue is in the name!) or is it a wannabe dating agency?. FFF - I want sex there's a lady out there who I fancy selling it - let's boogie. I don't want to have to update a CV or attend an interview!! How complicated can we make this????????

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Reading this brings back my recurring criticsm of the purple site - are some of the girls on it looking for "work" ( the clue is in the name!) or is it a wannabe dating agency?. FFF - I want sex there's a lady out there who I fancy selling it - let's boogie. I don't want to have to update a CV or attend an interview!! How complicated can we make this????????

Its not complex, but its like applying for a job these days: one rarely hears back even to say one won't be asked to interview.

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Reading this brings back my recurring criticsm of the purple site - are some of the girls on it looking for "work" ( the clue is in the name!) or is it a wannabe dating agency?. FFF - I want sex there's a lady out there who I fancy selling it - let's boogie. I don't want to have to update a CV or attend an interview!! How complicated can we make this????????

Its as easy or complicated as a punter makes it for himself in my view. I take the simplest option, only punt with those with phone numbers, enquire, book, confirm, turn-up, punt and go often sameday having done my research on the WG previously or just take an out and out punt being ready to walk if necessary and go to my plan B option.

As a punter who punts in the Greater London area i dont require feedback to locate suitable WGs, the whole system has more holes in it than a string vest in my eyes anyway and can be too easily manipulated for me to take it seriously. It all stems from the sites owners not having any interest in helping punters, as proved to me over many years. In fact i believe its worse than that but thats just my theory.

What i have read on here many times is a punter wont give bad FB in case the WG gives him some back thus possibly meaning a future WG would turn him down, what kind of system is that, the mickey mouse kind to me. ;)

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I prefer people to call me first. That way we both get a better idea of how we are with each other rather than through an email or text. Once I have spoken with someone, if they wish to send an email giving me more detail into what they would like during our time togther then thats not a problem. As others have said the purple site can be full of TW's ( that includes providers as well), which spoils it for the rest of us.

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Mind if I ask what I you putting in the email?

I usually send an email initially on the other site but just saying politly hi , whats your availabilty for (a couple of days away), Im hoping for an incall for an xxxx around xx am/pm?.... many thanks in advance

Only a few lines and just a few seconds to send

I think this is where I am going wrong. I've come from the mistress scene originally, where putting a fair bit of detail is normally part of the requirement. One liners tend to get ignored, whereas setting the scene is much preferred.

Now flipping to the escort scene, supplying too much information seems to be going against the short tempers of many WGs (I agree with a few of the comments above, some WGs simply don't have time/manners IMHO, especially in Midlands), however, i've always felt one liners or short sentences to be bad manners :(

Reflecting on my opening post, it sounds like it could well be me after all.

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"Hello there (insert ladies name)

I have been lookng at your profile and really like the look of you.

I would very much like to arrange a meeting with you at some time.

The day and rough time I would like to make an appointment is (insert information), if that is not convenient with you I hope we can fix up a mutually convenient day and time between us.

I do realise that I do not have a feedback/rating yet on here as of yet, but please feel assured that I am a genuine gentleman who has met ladies before and that I am relaible.

Perhaps you would be kind enough to me leave my first ever feedback if we get to meet?!

Anyway I do hope to hear back from you soon (insert name)

Kind regards,

Nitram."

I rough idea of what to say.

Short and sweet.

Respectful.

Use of ladies name is always good, as we get so many copy and pasted messages that are just sent out to dozens of ladies, so individualising it will make it read so much better.

All the best and good luck at getting a reply.

Lucy :)

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