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Has anyone ever made a booking and ended up just a having a great conversation for the full time? Or made an appointment simply to get to know the girl and then made another appointment to go the next step?

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Yeah, kind of half-did this, met a lovely girl, but to be honest, she wasn't my type, but we had a bit 15 minutes of sucking etc & spent the next half hour yapping, she eventually finished me off in no time with her Magic Wand (WOW!) so it was a v.happy ending to that particular story.

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I'd say that would be pretty unusual, however, if that is something that you are considering doing, there is nothing to stop you. It would probably be worth mentioning your limited expectations beforehand im, so as not to cause any misunderstandings or confusion.

I have met up WGs on a social basis, usually for a meal, but that has been after we already know each other ;)

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I've ended up just chatting a few times and walked away regretting it. You build a connection with that person... but that connection means very little to me and realise you spent alot of money and you didn't get what you went for. That WG will never be your friend or anything more. Most keep a mental distance from their real life and punting life. All you have done is had an expensive chat. I kick myself as I don't have ability to say lets have less talk and more of everything else. Angie George is a good example. She spent the whole time just talking about her porn career and all I got was a BJ. I didn't have the heart to say please stop talking as I have always wanted to fck your brains out. I really like it when a wg says at the start of the meeting "what are you looking for".

I don't mind building a mental connection, but you shouldn't have to pay to chat to someone. I know many wg's will disagree as you are paying for their time. If I am lonely and I want to talk, then that is the service I am paying for and fair enough. If I want to have amazing sex, then that is the service I am paying for and that's what I hope to get.

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If you want to just chat, why dont you pop over to the old people home or something where some of them will be glad for a bit of company.... its free.

Had paid for an escort just for a 30 minute just to see how things would go for a longer booking and not had sex or even came.

But didnt sit their chatting..but kissing, cuddling, massage, RO, etc......(then got back for a longer booking ;) )

Puntings a little too expensive just to chat in my opinion... but then its your time and money...

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Has anyone ever made a booking and ended up just a having a great conversation for the full time? Or made an appointment simply to get to know the girl and then made another appointment to go the next step?

I remember a funny story where a lady explained to me she could not understand why men do this with her - especially when she had a very limited and basic command of the English language :P .

Now that I think about it there is something about her personality/aura or whatever term you may choose to use that makes this possible.

I think it shows how complex the male human mind can be sometimes and perhaps that companionship (in the form of intimacy albeit it is not genuine but intimacy nonetheless) can be more important than the sex at a given particular moment.

This was my initial reflections to her question.

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I've ended up just chatting a few times and walked away regretting it. You build a connection with that person... but that connection means very little to me and realise you spent alot of money and you didn't get what you went for. That WG will never be your friend or anything more. Most keep a mental distance from their real life and punting life. All you have done is had an expensive chat. I kick myself as I don't have ability to say lets have less talk and more of everything else. Angie George is a good example. She spent the whole time just talking about her porn career and all I got was a BJ. I didn't have the heart to say please stop talking as I have always wanted to fck your brains out. I really like it when a wg says at the start of the meeting "what are you looking for".

I don't mind building a mental connection, but you shouldn't have to pay to chat to someone. I know many wg's will disagree as you are paying for their time. If I am lonely and I want to talk, then that is the service I am paying for and fair enough. If I want to have amazing sex, then that is the service I am paying for and that's what I hope to get.

Sorry to hear my friend

Thanks nonetheless for the valuable information that is one more of the list - Angie George (you will have to leave us) :P

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Has anyone ever made a booking and ended up just a having a great conversation for the full time? Or made an appointment simply to get to know the girl and then made another appointment to go the next step?

I dont pay £150/hour just to talk

:huh: :huh:

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I've ended up just chatting a few times and walked away regretting it. You build a connection with that person... but that connection means very little to me and realise you spent alot of money and you didn't get what you went for. That WG will never be your friend or anything more. Most keep a mental distance from their real life and punting life. All you have done is had an expensive chat. I kick myself as I don't have ability to say lets have less talk and more of everything else. Angie George is a good example. She spent the whole time just talking about her porn career and all I got was a BJ. I didn't have the heart to say please stop talking as I have always wanted to fck your brains out. I really like it when a wg says at the start of the meeting "what are you looking for".

I don't mind building a mental connection, but you shouldn't have to pay to chat to someone. I know many wg's will disagree as you are paying for their time. If I am lonely and I want to talk, then that is the service I am paying for and fair enough. If I want to have amazing sex, then that is the service I am paying for and that's what I hope to get.

It may seem funny but I do tend to spend a lot of time talking to ladies at the first meeting. In my first encounter with Angie George (out of four, now) we did talk for quite a while before she announced that it was time we got up to some stuff. Now, I only have to suggest that I seek out more of her erogenous zones and we tend to kick off quite quickly. I think that Angie meets quite a few clients who like to talk, so if you do not, then you should let her know that.

I talked to Veronica Carso for an hour before I even laid a finger on her and was close to that length of time with Valery.

Knowing of this tendency of mine to chat, I took one lady to lunch before we made a booking. We got on well. The subsequent booking has been rescheduled twice (at her request) but we have a new date in our diaries.

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I had a lunch date with someone a few years back and then he returned to London on the train. End of :)

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Or what about if you just masturbate while you look at her and talk a little to each other, but without her touching you at all, or you her? I wonder if anyone has done that? I had thought of it a while back to assuage the guilt and feel I could honestly say I hadn't really had any sex with another woman. But I think I've got over that.

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Hi,

I had that few times. The chat was so interesting and educated. :)

xxx

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Its not as uncommon as people think, I've had loads of dinner dates with nothing more attached, even been abroad on holiday without sexual favours, just booked as a companion. I've met up with guys that are looking for a shoulder to cry on, others that want to get things off their chest and knew I wouldn't judge them, others that simply cannot have sex be it for physical or mental reasons but still want female company, been to works parties, pretended to be the girlfriend or wife, and then there are those that are genuinely shy of women and need time before it gets physical. We are escorts after all, so it doesn't all have to be sexual straight away does it?

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Hi,

I had that few times. The chat was so interesting and educated. :)

xxx

I second that with you, Nataly....

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I've had bookings like this, as well as bookings where the sexual activity only takes up a small proportion of the time. The men that do this have their reasons, and so long as both parties are agreeable and know where they stand I can't see any problem with it.

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I've had bookings like this, as well as bookings where the sexual activity only takes up a small proportion of the time. The men that do this have their reasons, and so long as both parties are agreeable and know where they stand I can't see any problem with it.

Maybe I am stupid: however, despite the fact that I know full well that the basis of the relationship is commercial, I am too inhibited to take the stance of "Here's an envelope, you are mine, now." I still feel that I have to somehow earn the right to the ladies' favours and I actually quite like it that way. When you meet a lady on follow-up visits, then I find that you reap the benefits of what has been sown, which can help to relax both parties.

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Maybe I am stupid: however, despite the fact that I know full well that the basis of the relationship is commercial, I am too inhibited to take the stance of "Here's an envelope, you are mine, now." I still feel that I have to somehow earn the right to the ladies' favours and I actually quite like it that way. When you meet a lady on follow-up visits, then I find that you reap the benefits of what has been sown, which can help to relax both parties.

I'm a bit confused, do you classify spending time chatting instead of rumpy pumpy as a 'favour'?

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Has anyone ever made a booking and ended up just a having a great conversation for the full time? Or made an appointment simply to get to know the girl and then made another appointment to go the next step?

If you only want to chat I am happy to take your cash.

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I'm a bit confused, do you classify spending time chatting instead of rumpy pumpy as a 'favour'?

If a lovely girl is willing to sit close by you in private and chat and be nice to you, and you're nothng, well, she IS doing you a favour, Strawberry.

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I'm a bit confused, do you classify spending time chatting instead of rumpy pumpy as a 'favour'?

No, dear Strawberry, the rumpy-pumpy bit(s) as a favour...

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I got to know my regular at her parlour (and her cracking working partner, who has now moved away and retired) and cheekily asked for a two-girl at a hotel for a more personal booking. It was wonderful.

I made an 2hr booking with my regular after losing some work and frankly just wanted company. She spent 2hrs with me and we did much kissing and she was quickly undressed, but that's as far as we went. What's memorable about the meet was lying there with her in my arms and she cuddling me back.

Clearly it's a long-term GF and wife that I'm actually looking for.

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Has anyone ever made a booking and ended up just a having a great conversation for the full time? Or made an appointment simply to get to know the girl and then made another appointment to go the next step?

Never, i punt for sex but am happy to have a chat off the clock afterwards.

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Its not as uncommon as people think, I've had loads of dinner dates with nothing more attached, even been abroad on holiday without sexual favours, just booked as a companion. I've met up with guys that are looking for a shoulder to cry on, others that want to get things off their chest and knew I wouldn't judge them, others that simply cannot have sex be it for physical or mental reasons but still want female company, been to works parties, pretended to be the girlfriend or wife, and then there are those that are genuinely shy of women and need time before it gets physical. We are escorts after all, so it doesn't all have to be sexual straight away does it?

No it doesnt have to be, it depends on what the guy is looking for of course.

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Has anyone ever made a booking and ended up just a having a great conversation for the full time? Or made an appointment simply to get to know the girl and then made another appointment to go the next step?

No and i never would. I'm certainly not going to pay a hefty sum for a chat. You however, do what you want.

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