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How To Become A Better Kisser?

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After an awkward short pecking like kissing moment during a punt by someone who advertised GFE , DFK I wondered if I was going wrong somewhere , maybe we didn't click for it to happen , I do make sure I brush my teeth, don't eat strong smelling food earlier and bring my mouthwash.

Anyhow I subsequently went on to saafe and did search with the word kissing , the results really worried me with a lot of women talking about their horrible experiences with bad kissers the washing machine tongue prodding clients , slobbers , horrible breath etc.

Maybe I am still clueless on how to properly kiss and it does not help that I usually keep my punting to Soho were FK / DFK are not usually on offer. So my question is how to improve or get guidance with it as I really want to make sure I am at least decent and do not become a poor woman's horror story , I have been thinking of making booking just for this purpose. Would that be an awkward request if so how would I go about doing it ;do you know a great kisser who would provide such a service?

Also what makes a great kisser in your experience ?

Thanks in advance !

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After an awkward short pecking like kissing moment during a punt by someone who advertised GFE , DFK I wondered if I was going wrong somewhere , maybe we didn't click for it to happen , I do make sure I brush my teeth, don't eat strong smelling food earlier and bring my mouthwash.

Anyhow I subsequently went on to saafe and did search with the word kissing , the results really worried me with a lot of women talking about their horrible experiences with bad kissers the washing machine tongue prodding clients , slobbers , horrible breath etc.

Maybe I am still clueless on how to properly kiss and it does not help that I usually keep my punting to Soho were FK / DFK are not usually on offer. So my question is how to improve or get guidance with it as I really want to make sure I am at least decent and do not become a poor woman's horror story , I have been thinking of making booking just for this purpose. Would that be an awkward request if so how would I go about doing it ;do you know a great kisser who would provide such a service?

Also what makes a great kisser in your experience ?

Thanks in advance !

People like being kissed in their own preferred way so only by asking the WG you punt with will you know her preference if she has one. I always clearly ask is FK or ideally DFK on offer and if so i initially let the WG guide me and take it from there. If i dont like her technique i will say so politely and ask if we can try what i like.

For me a great kisser is a woman who throws her all and the kitchen sink into her kissing, the more passionate the better for me, vigorous and as deep as she likes. If that good sex goes out the window and i just lap the kissing up as its my favourite service and activity.

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For me a great kisser is a woman who throws her all and the kitchen sink into her kissing, the more passionate the better for me, vigorous and as deep as she likes. If that good sex goes out the window and i just lap the kissing up as its my favourite service and activity.

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Me as well, but in my experience its quite rare. Lip sucking and teeth licking I like too. But it can be seen as a bit too intimate

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As others have said, matters of hygiene etc. aside, it's so much a matter of taste. What one person loves, another will loathe. What is "better" for one person will be worse for another, so you need to find out what their preferences are.

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People like being kissed in their own preferred way so only by asking the WG you punt with will you know her preference if she has one. I always clearly ask is FK or ideally DFK on offer and if so i initially let the WG guide me and take it from there. If i dont like her technique i will say so politely and ask if we can try what i like.

For me a great kisser is a woman who throws her all and the kitchen sink into her kissing, the more passionate the better for me, vigorous and as deep as she likes. If that good sex goes out the window and i just lap the kissing up as its my favourite service and activity.

This also applies to men too which is one reason I don't usually go in with the kitchen sink. I've also met guys who actually don't like DFK or won't consider it, so I usually start off very gently until we establish the comfort zone.

That said there are also men who just dive right in and who's kisses present physical danger to the face, teeth and tongue, or who seem to think a woman's mouth is wider than it actually is. The sensitive bits are the lips, not the skin around.

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go to google

type in: cruel intentions kissing scene

try not to get too distracted by the fact its selma blair and sarah michelle gellar

now you know

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And don't forget there are distinctions between FK, DFK and snogging!

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if you feel your snogging is not quite up to it, go and see Izabel at HOD. She will give you a few new tricks. :D

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Maybe me being submissive, but I generally alter my technique to suit the lady

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I like this thread. Some good tips for me too!

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As others have said, matters of hygiene etc. aside, it's so much a matter of taste. What one person loves, another will loathe. What is "better" for one person will be worse for another, so you need to find out what their preferences are.

Totally agree

Although I completely share Smith's opinion of what makes a good kisser (for my taste).

I've only ever met 2 wgs who kiss deeply, passionately and uninhibitedly with the wanton abandon that, for me, elevates a booking to stratospheric heights.

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With DFK you do have to take it slow if youve never met and dont know what the FK actually means.

Obviously, trying to stick your tongue down her throat and tickling her stomach in the first few seconds of meeting isnt gunna work. (well unless she does it to you ;) )

Just start with slow long gentle peck kiss to start, then progress it to moving your head side ways and open your mouth more.

Then progress to when your mouths open, just pop the tip of your tongue out, then if shes comfortable she reciprocate and may lick it back.

take it slowly and slowly progress to DFK. If shes not keen then stop and now you know the level. If shes comfortbale with deeper its usually her who does so rather than you in my experience.. ;)

Usually works for me... and obviously with girls who advertise FK. Sometimes even girl who dont have surprised me...

Just remember, it supposed to be licking her tongue, not try to stick your tongue down her throat...

Mind you there have been girls who advertise FK and at the slow tip of tongue out moment, thought it would be funny to bite it...... :mad: Just tell me no, dont hurt me to tell me so...

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Variety for me. Gentle kisses on the lips. A little probing. Teasing. I don't like to initiate a deep FK unless I feel like we've both got to the point where we're gagging for it. DFK foreplay, so to speak. Then once the tongues are engaged, I prefer not to make the DFK last too long. Leave the girl wanting more rather than less! A good kissing session for me is when you both tease each other with lips and tongue but always know when to give in and go with the lust but never so you get too much of a good thing. The one I particularly get pleasure from is when your lips move in for the kiss but just before your lips meet, you pull back so she keeps leaning forward, trying to reach you with her lips but you're just out of reach. Then as she eases away disappointed, you go in for the kill, catching her off guard. Don't want to overdo that one though or it'd just become annoying. So my turn-ons: variety & teasing.

The escort I saw today was a worthy opponent in the art of the kissing tease and by God it was one of the most intense kissing sessions I've had in ages.

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As others have said its a very personal, individual thing and can make or break a punt. I try not to go in with any preconceptions of how it might progress, just respond in kind at first, then let instinct and passion do the rest.

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This also applies to men too which is one reason I don't usually go in with the kitchen sink. I've also met guys who actually don't like DFK or won't consider it, so I usually start off very gently until we establish the comfort zone.

I actually prefer sensuous " ordinary " kissing to FK or DFK but with two exceptions I've found that most ladies launch into FK apparently checking whether your tonsils are still there. The two ladies in question were seperated by 15 years and a lot of experience but it was very enjoyable kissing both of them. Sometimes less is more !!!

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Good foreplay? Always remember - the most sensitive part of the mouth is the lips, not the tonsils!

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I'm sure you can learn to kiss better with a bit of mutual consideration, but there's nothing to beat kissing when it just happens that you kiss great together naturally.

I met a Lady for the first time about 15 months ago. She came to meet me in the lift lobby of her apartment block to take me back up. We got in the lift, fortunately alone. As soon as the doors close we locked lips and it was pure heaven for - well her apartment is quite high up!!!!! When we broke to get out of the lift, we both looked at each other completely amazed i think - what a welcome. Still love it these days when occasionally she will come down to meet me rather than telling me just to come up

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I'm sure you can learn to kiss better with a bit of mutual consideration, but there's nothing to beat kissing when it just happens that you kiss great together naturally.

I met a Lady for the first time about 15 months ago. She came to meet me in the lift lobby of her apartment block to take me back up. We got in the lift, fortunately alone. As soon as the doors close we locked lips and it was pure heaven for - well her apartment is quite high up!!!!! When we broke to get out of the lift, we both looked at each other completely amazed i think - what a welcome. Still love it these days when occasionally she will come down to meet me rather than telling me just to come up

You make a good point. When i just click with a WG out of the blue its always a good or better punt, the best of punts in my experience. I met such a WG kissing wise a few years back, she was particularly good and she immediately tuned into how i liked it, i extended the booking from an hour to two and it was mainly kissing the whole time, great stuff. Doesnt happen all the time of course sadly but when it does it really enhances my punts.

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Of all the things that a prostitute does I would imagine that kissing some random bloke must be the most unpleasant. Years ago they wouldn't kiss as it was too personal and I can't see why that sentiment would have changed.They only do it as it is an expected service nowadays. Of course they will come on now saying how much they enjoy it but frankly I don't believe it, I mean, they would say that wouldn't they?

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Of all the things that a prostitute does I would imagine that kissing some random bloke must be the most unpleasant. Years ago they wouldn't kiss as it was too personal and I can't see why that sentiment would have changed.They only do it as it is an expected service nowadays. Of course they will come on now saying how much they enjoy it but frankly I don't believe it, I mean, they would say that wouldn't they?

Well i have to say i would not like to kiss some random bird passionately either. Regardless of whether or not i am paying for that priveledge, doesn't to me make it any easier. I could kiss a Lady on meeting but would know pretty quickly, if she wasn't kissing me with any sort of conviction or enjoyment for herself, in which case i would refrain from persuing the meeting much further. Kissing, real kissing in a meeting is important to me. It sets the tone, for what i want from a meet. Kissing and kissing passionately, is something which comes across very naturally, and can, in my opinion, in no way be faked. As for the Lady mentioned in my earlier post, I am absolutely in no doubt whatsoever that she enjoys it as much as i do.

Believe me Fatbloke, there are Ladies out there who are not just saying it!!

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I'm just looking from the other side of the fence. Go down to Asda and look at the women. Would you want to kiss most of them, have them sticking their tongue down your throat and slobbering on you? Just as there will be a few you'd want to kiss, an awful lot would make you cringe at the thought!

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Of all the things that a prostitute does I would imagine that kissing some random bloke must be the most unpleasant. Years ago they wouldn't kiss as it was too personal and I can't see why that sentiment would have changed.They only do it as it is an expected service nowadays. Of course they will come on now saying how much they enjoy it but frankly I don't believe it, I mean, they would say that wouldn't they?

Um, excuse me, please don't lump every working girl into one! What 'they' do and don't like varies as much as people on any other subject!

What's the point of reading a forum if you don't believe anything 'they' say?! Good escorts are good because they don't look at people and judge them purely on looks as you might women in Asda.

Personally I enjoy kissing, I think it's a great ice breaker and the first step of foreplay and getting into the moment. Yes, of course some men don't kiss to my taste, but as unless they've asked me specifically to teach them it's not my place to correct them and what I like may not be what other women prefer, If the chap is enjoying it and the session then that's all good with me! (if he's really hideous at kissing then I may not see him again though!)

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Ok,well I apologise for the generalisation but as I said, I still don't see how something that was once too personal can now be what every girl wants. "They" may put on a good act but I really don't believe that a woman of say 22 wants to kiss an old bloke who is old enough to be her grandad!

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Ok,well I apologise for the generalisation but as I said, I still don't see how something that was once too personal can now be what every girl wants. "They" may put on a good act but I really don't believe that a woman of say 22 wants to kiss an old bloke who is old enough to be her grandad!

I like kissing. I regard it as an essential part of the meeting. No kissing no booking. I recently met a 22 year old young lady who didn't object to kissing her grandad. She was very good at it and very enthusiastic. Much better than 2 or 3 older ladies I have met.

I will accept ladies who say no kissing. That's their choice. I just don't book them. I will not accept those who say they do, take your money, and then refuse giving a crap reason.

I now also make the point that the lady is generally more experienced than myself and that I am quite happy to receive constructive criticism. Anything to help make it a more enjoyable meeting for both of us.

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