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Have any guys failed to ' rise to the occasion ' if you don't mind me asking, whether it's nerves, hung over or whatever. Would it put you off trying again or do you just put it down to one of those things ?

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It's happened to me a couple of times. The first time was my first parlour visit, gorgeous young EE girl but she seemed a bit cold and I was always very aware of the clock ticking down which put me under such pressure. It was a shame as she was gorgeous and I really wanted to fuck her but she was a bit cold, kept telling me no kissing, no OWO etc. and it just killed my erection, ended up coming via a handjob.

The second time was my last punt and again it was the pressure of the clock ticking that put me off. The girl was lovely but again no kissing etc. and then it got into my head 'Oh shit, time must be running out, need to get hard etc.' and it just wasn't happening.

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yeh, that has happened before.

I find that if the WG is not as good looking as I would have liked or has a bad attitude then it puts me off and I dont "rise to the occasion"

I once even left without shooting my load because I was that put off.

It doesnt stop me from trying again - i just blame the WG! Not too her face, but I just dont go and see her again as there are plenty out there who will and have showed me a good time....

In fact, if I dont "rise to the occasion" I am even more determined to find another one who will and try again

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On one of my early punts, whilst I got a good erection I couldn't bring myself over the edge. Two hours of sex but for some reason couldn't cum, until right at the very end I managed to wank myself off.

Many years ago the late Mrs Biggus & I went through an 'open marriage' phase and I used to find it difficult to maintain an erection the first time with another woman.

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I'm guessing this is exactly the sort of opportunity that sorts the good WGs out from th not so good. And I'm not talking about their looks

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I'm guessing this is exactly the sort of opportunity that sorts the good WGs out from th not so good. And I'm not talking about their looks

I feel this comment is slightly unfair.I understand that if the girl is no where near as attractive as in her pictures or has a bad attitude then this is going to affect some guys down there.On the other hand though i had a guy get rather grumpy with me when he failed (after much sucking,exactly how he asked me to do it)to get even a hint of an erection. The guy left and i felt really shit about it.I mentioned to the maid that the guy might give me a bad report only to be told by another girl who had recognised him leaving that he never ever ever manages to get it up.This guy had no right to blame me and to make me feel that i had not put enough effort into it,especially as my jaw was aching afterwards.:)

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There are however some guys who come along and say straight away that they hardly ever manage an erection let alone come,but they are determined to have fun trying anyway,which is a lot healthier attitude i think,and half the time they manage to score the goal they werent expecting.:)

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I feel this comment is slightly unfair.I understand that if the girl is no where near as attractive as in her pictures or has a bad attitude then this is going to affect some guys down there.On the other hand though i had a guy get rather grumpy with me when he failed (after much sucking,exactly how he asked me to do it)to get even a hint of an erection. The guy left and i felt really shit about it.I mentioned to the maid that the guy might give me a bad report only to be told by another girl who had recognised him leaving that he never ever ever manages to get it up.This guy had no right to blame me and to make me feel that i had not put enough effort into it,especially as my jaw was aching afterwards.:D

That's exactly right, I've failed to get it up a few times and this was absolutely zero to do with the girl I was with at the time. Some brands of medication, such as statins for cholesterol, can "blunt your sword" or you might be stressed out for some reason. Whatever, it's very unfair to blame the girl.

Thankfully for me this (touches wood (no pun intendede :):o)) is not a problem any more. The last thing you should do is let it prey on your mind or the pressure to perform will only increase and the problem may get worse.

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It happened to me twice in succession two years ago. I got hard then lost it after about 10 minutes. I knew that there was nothing wrong with my equipment as I can maintain an erection for an hour or more when I am on my own- so I decided it must be a mental thing. I failed once and then thought it might happen the next time -and so it did. I tried Viagra and they did the trick. There are lots of posts on here about the drug but I find half a pill avoids the side effects. It's definitely all in the mind.

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I did see a poor guy not so long ago who was lovely.We had lots of fun but things were just not happening down below.It was only about 3 minutes from the end of the appointment that he enquired what effect bromide would have on him.Turned out he was on anti-depressants and this was one of the ingredients of his happy pills.His own words "they are meant to stop me feeling down yet they make it impossible to do the one thing that makes me happy".We did have a giggle though when the penny dropped but i did feel for him.:)

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It has happened to a couple of my regulars on occasion and I know I am not an oil painting, but they never blamed me and have returned and been successful

Sometmes things go well for a few bookings then suddenly "nothing" on the next. On return everything is as normal

Perhaps being tired, stressed etc could add to the problem...:)

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It has happened with me and a regular WG. I found her attitude a bit complacent after a while. When there was not an instant erection, she would say "what's the matter?" which made things worse. She would then rush to get me up and finished quickly. I left feeling confused/short-changed/blaming myself. This happened 3 time over 8 appointments. I realised it was time to move on. Since then, everything is great with other WGs.

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With Mrs Lurcio, never a problem, up it comes, stays up for ages. With WG, rarely comes up with direct stimulation, feel nervous and conscious of time limits.

BUT - with proper massage it works very nicely, no doubt its the lack of pressure (psychological not hydraulic!)

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Some interesting replies - the reason I was curious was I was involved in the most amazing titwank that I didn't want to shoot too soon and spoil the enjoyment. However it sort of 'backfired' on me so to speak and I couldn't shoot my load after that. So unlike some of the comments the girl actually was too good ! I suppose after that I felt under pressure and maybe that got to me.

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Its taken a lot of punts to get to that stage of even coming with a girl. so far not through penetration but through oral/cim I haave had to help get myslef nearer the edge though. I dont view it as a waste of time, but just one of those things. Im getting "something" from most bookings. even if its not something tangible ;)

Good fun practising though :rolleyes:

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I'm guessing this is exactly the sort of opportunity that sorts the good WGs out from th not so good. And I'm not talking about their looks

Your not talking sense either. Im wondering if you even took the time to read the OP

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It's definitely all in the mind with me. I see a working girl on a regular basis who's fantastic. I usually see her for 90 mins & can last for ages because I'm really enjoying it & that she is as well, however with her in doors I find it a real chore & although I manage an erection it's very weak & I find I'm firing off in a couple of minutes which really pisses her off but it's all because I'm not enjoyong myself. Time to move on methinks.:rolleyes:

Pearl Diver

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