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Regulars, Finding One.

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There have been a few threads on regulars over the last few weeks, so I thought I would throw my two pennyworth in.

I started punting in Dec 08 and I never gave a thought about how things would pan out, I thought my first girl would be my one and only punt. I would stick my toe in the water, probably not like it and leave it at that.

I was both lucky and unlucky with my first choice, the girl was very understanding about me being a nervous newbie and I ended up having a great time. I was hooked, I wanted to see her again. Unluckily that was the only time I saw her, by the time I wanted to see her again she had gone back home to Germany.

As I said, I was hooked, I saw several girls over the next few months, some two or three times, but none I wanted to make a regular.

Then in March 09 I found my regular, something just clicked with me, I cant say the same for her but we got on. I see her on a monthly basis and its not just sex, we chat, put the world to rights and just treat each other like old mates, we exchange emails, she tolerates me and I've managed to do her a couple of favours over the last few years.

I do see other girls and from finding my regular girl over 3 years ago, I have seen only one girl I wanted to make a regular. She was Sarah Jones, a very popular girl, sadly she has gone back home, greatly missed.

So in nearly 4 years I have found only 3 girls, if you count my first girl, I wanted to see on a regular basis. Am I being too picky, am I about average or have I been lucky.

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There have been a few threads on regulars over the last few weeks, so I thought I would throw my two pennyworth in.

I started punting in Dec 08 and I never gave a thought about how things would pan out, I thought my first girl would be my one and only punt. I would stick my toe in the water, probably not like it and leave it at that.

I was both lucky and unlucky with my first choice, the girl was very understanding about me being a nervous newbie and I ended up having a great time. I was hooked, I wanted to see her again. Unluckily that was the only time I saw her, by the time I wanted to see her again she had gone back home to Germany.

As I said, I was hooked, I saw several girls over the next few months, some two or three times, but none I wanted to make a regular.

Then in March 09 I found my regular, something just clicked with me, I cant say the same for her but we got on. I see her on a monthly basis and its not just sex, we chat, put the world to rights and just treat each other like old mates, we exchange emails, she tolerates me and I've managed to do her a couple of favours over the last few years.

I do see other girls and from finding my regular girl over 3 years ago, I have seen only one girl I wanted to make a regular. She was Sarah Jones, a very popular girl, sadly she has gone back home, greatly missed.

So in nearly 4 years I have found only 3 girls, if you count my first girl, I wanted to see on a regular basis. Am I being too picky, am I about average or have I been lucky.

The more you punt the more chance of finding a WG you click with so to compare with others you need to be punting in a like for like manner and frequency in my view. In 4 years 121 i have punted with 12 or so WGs that became regulars at least for a while. Its not that often i have punted with a WG i have clicked with in comparison to my overall punting in the same period but my punting in that time has been scewed by parties where i have punted with the same WGs numerous times so both the party and WGs became regulars, if i hadnt been doing them i would of punted more 121s.

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I dont set out with the intention of 'finding a regular', it just happens, or it doesnt, over time

In 15 years I've had about 10 regulars, which includes 3 current ones.

Out of these 10 regulars in 15 years of punting, I'd say that 4 were, everything considered, 'all time greats' (speaking subjectively of course), and only 1 of these 'all time greats' is currently active........if youre reading this, as you seem to have only recently discovered this site,....... you know who you are :P:wub::P

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My story. Started punting in 1987 saw as many different girls as I could afford. One blew me away a year later and I committed a punter's #1 mistake -went and fell for her. Had to walk away and didn't see her for 12 months, in between back to playing the field. When I saw her again it wasn't as intense, I behaved, but something had gone and yes, I learned from it. Fast forward to 3 years ago, I met a lady who had got 2 excellent FRs and worked in a location which was very convenient for me work-wise, so I met her. We "clicked" straight away (her words). Apsrt from A she does everything with an enthusiasm that is frankly refreshing. I am not in love with her, I am very fond of her, but of course I have gone there asking her out for a meal, which she has diplomatically declined as she wishes to keep work / private life totally separate.Which, of course I understand and respect.We know a lot about each other, families, history and chat like old mates in between the action.

For me,the benefit of seeing this lady every 7-10 days, is that I get to do a wide range of things with 1 lady who I know inside out(almost literally!)instead of seeing umpteen different ladies to get the same result. I know variety is the spice of life and why most of us started in the first place. But for the dive from the top board 24 years ago, I would say it could be an age thing - preferring what you you know and are comfortable with.

Having said this, I still experiment with other offerings from time to time - either for something a bit "special" or "different" or if away on business for a time. My god, though - they have to be good to meet the benchmark I have with my regular.

You just never know which lady might become a "regular" ( nor does a lady!) until it happens!!

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As an aside, do girls like having regular guys. As with the guys, somebody they know what they are getting, no unpleasant surprises, or do they prefer variety.

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There have been a few threads on regulars over the last few weeks, so I thought I would throw my two pennyworth in.

I started punting in Dec 08 and I never gave a thought about how things would pan out, I thought my first girl would be my one and only punt. I would stick my toe in the water, probably not like it and leave it at that.

That's got to be an unusual fetish!! :D Welcome aboard, and now for a more considered response in a few minutes

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One of my main reasons for punting is that I love the variety; therefore the concept of a "regular" is not something that I consciously search for. Having said that, I have had 3 or 4 regulars over the years who I have returned to steadily (but not to the exclusion of all others) for 5 or 6 months. Generally they have then moved on or my work has taken me to a different part of the world.

During the periods that I have visited the same lady regularly the meetings have tended to become more adventurous, since we both know what makes us click. There is something to be said for it if you find the right lady. In my experience that happens purely by chance.

I would advise against punting just to find a regular sex partner. I think some ladies might find that a bit obsessive. We'll see what the response to your second post is.

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What if you tried to find a whore of a girlfriend that on the side is getting knocked of by other guys so does not get attached to you but just wants sex (free)...... have you found one yet?

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What if you tried to find a whore of a girlfriend that on the side is getting knocked of by other guys so does not get attached to you but just wants sex (free)...... have you found one yet?

Well if she just wants sex (free) then doesnt that automatically disqualify her from being, in your words, 'a whore' ?

Whores cost money !!

£150/hr is standard in London

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As an aside, do girls like having regular guys. As with the guys, somebody they know what they are getting, no unpleasant surprises, or do they prefer variety.

I mainly only see regulars nowadays as a rule.

I like seeing chaps on a regular basis but you have to be very on the ball to make sure that you do not get complacent with them and be at the top of your game on each meeting.

Meeting a new guy does not happen to me so much as I get booked up quickly due to being so part time, but I do enjoy seeing a new person quite a lot.

If they then see me again and then another time they then become another regular.....

I would not want to see loads of different one off guys though, I know that.

Lucy :)

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Having read through the various threads, the most regulars I have had is 2 ladies :unsure::P

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I personally like the variety of one off bookings and regulars. It's lovely to have regulars you really like and it's much more relaxing opening the door to someone you know and trust. As long as the chap doesn't do anything stupid, like fall on love or get overly needy outside the booking its all good.

I also think there is something erotic about having an amazing intense time with someone you never see again! I do have a bit of a thing about stranger sex (one of the reasons I do this probably!), so often that first booking is the one that rocks me the most!

Variety is the spice all round it seems!

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Some of my regulars I have been seeing longer than most of my relationships have lasted!!!! And we still like each other!!!! It's great!

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Dont go out with the intention of finding a regular.

Just keep seeing girls that take your fancy.

After, when looking for the next punt you feel drawn to see the same girl again so see her. If it happens again, and see her again, then shes becoming a regular.

Things get better as you become more familar and relaxed with each other.

I first met my regular way back in early 2009. I liked long bookings but no one seemed quite right so I was going for quick, no-sex, 30 minutes "test runs" with numerous girls. Sally at MK was one, and then after booked a two hour a couple of weeks later. (she didnt show on that one, nor the next booking but finally got to see her a month later) Did a FR and I then saw her a 6 months later.

Since then Id seen her pretty much fornightly since.... lunchtime 1hrs, 2 or 3 hour evening bookings, birthday punts, xmas punts, etc..

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One of my main reasons for punting is that I love the variety; therefore the concept of a "regular" is not something that I consciously search for.

This.

I love the variety of sleeping with different women. Its my personal rule to sleep with each escort only once.

Rarely though, some escorts are so mind blowingly exceptional that she ticks all of my boxes that i will continue seeing her again and again. I just wish i could find one that lives close to home instead of either of us doing round trips of 200+ miles.

Leggy Karen of London

Hannah from Preston, works in Manchester.

I would marry either of those girls now if i could! best sex ever, great kissers, stunning beauties, genuine dirty slutty personalities yet sweet and tasty on the inside.

Wish i could find one in Birmingham where i live, all my spare money would go on her.

But such escorts are rare. Until then variety is the spice of life.

Im sure its the same for many escorts, though lucky they can get paid for it.

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If I get back on the punting bandwagon next month, I would like to find a regular lady.

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Have any of you guys ever contacted a new lady saying that you are looking for a new regular and if it goes well you would see a lot more of her?

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Have any of you guys ever contacted a new lady saying that you are looking for a new regular and if it goes well you would see a lot more of her?

Thats an old classic in the hope the WG will offer a good service, i daresay some punters are genuine with this and some not. ;)

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Have any of you guys ever contacted a new lady saying that you are looking for a new regular and if it goes well you would see a lot more of her?

I wouldnt do this.

I'd imagine it would create an atmosphere of tension on both sides, what with expectations, pressure to perform and a too predetermined notion of what should happen, and how it should feel.

At least thats how I'd feel, going in to a punt with this mindset.

Within the bounds of services agreed upon beforehand and with a well researched SP, leaving ample room for spontaneity, individuality and natural 'sparks' is a far better tactic in my opinion.

Edited by BillGoldberg

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I usually have two regulars at any time, although they both think they are the only regular. You can't just rely on only having one as there are times when she's not availible or stops working. Inbetween the two regulars I'm checking out other girls so that can take the place of Regular 1 or 2 should they drop out.

It's not difficult to find regulars but it depends on your criteria I guess.

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Have any of you guys ever contacted a new lady saying that you are looking for a new regular and if it goes well you would see a lot more of her?

Urgh really Kate? I hate it when they say this, I don't think it's actually true and usually accompanies a suggestion that I reduce my rates or have a special deal because they 'have a lot of money to spend'. I find it sleazy and it puts me off a man. It's also insulting implying that I should be extra nice to them.

Surely an escort would give the same service to anew customer regardless of whether he is a potential regular or someone just passing through?

i think like any relationship it just happens naturally.

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Urgh really Kate? I hate it when they say this, I don't think it's actually true and usually accompanies a suggestion that I reduce my rates or have a special deal because they 'have a lot of money to spend'. I find it sleazy and it puts me off a man. It's also insulting implying that I should be extra nice to them.

Surely an escort would give the same service to anew customer regardless of whether he is a potential regular or someone just passing through?

i think like any relationship it just happens naturally.

Yes that is how I feel too, it just makes me roll my eyes and think 'chancer!'. I'm glad the guys on here feel the same way.

I agree with you on your last point too. If it is going to happen, then it will happen naturally, you can't force it.

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My current regular is a lovely Lady whom I first visited in January of this year & saw for the 9th time yesterday. From day one we seemed to get on well & I like to think that we are now good friends. I always bring along a bottle of her favourite wine which she opens and we spend the first 5 minutes having a glass and a general chat. I like to think that we both pay the other respect and that we enjoy each others company as well as the sex (which is brilliant!). I tend to forget that I am with an escort particularly as she refuses to count her money which I always hand over on my arrival. I like to think that we both know what the other likes (or dislikes). I consider myself very fortunate in having this lovely Lady as my regular. My visitsd to her invariably conclude by finishing the bottle of wine & having a final warm & loveing embrace before I reluctantly leave having overstayed my time by at least 15 minutes. I have told her that she doesn't charge enough money for her services but she has declined to increase her fees. My only dread is that one day she will announce that she is retiring (this has happened to me before). Until then I realise what a lucky old blighter I am :D

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Have any of you guys ever contacted a new lady saying that you are looking for a new regular and if it goes well you would see a lot more of her?

No, because its increasing the chance that she will do an even better job of pretending to like me just to get me going back to her as a regular. Id like someone who i can tell genuinely likes me as then i know she will have a nice/better time with me instead of being the typical professional escort acting it out.

Typically, clients dont need to pleasure the escort because the client is paying the money and thats all she is there to do to take his money and pleasure him. I cant do that, if she is not into me then i cant be into her its just impossible, Worst case scenario - ive turned up to some escorts paid her over £100 and all we've done is talk (not even any proper touching, oral or anything) because i couldnt get it up as i could sense she was there doing it for only the money and not for any/much enjoyment. I couldn't even commit rape even if it was legal and someone paid me all the money in the world to do it, seriously.

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No, because its increasing the chance that she will do an even better job of pretending to like me just to get me going back to her as a regular. Id like someone who i can tell genuinely likes me as then i know she will have a nice/better time with me instead of being the typical professional escort acting it out.

Typically, clients dont need to pleasure the escort because the client is paying the money and thats all she is there to do to take his money and pleasure him. I cant do that, if she is not into me then i cant be into her its just impossible, Worst case scenario - ive turned up to some escorts paid her over £100 and all we've done is talk (not even any proper touching, oral or anything) because i couldnt get it up as i could sense she was there doing it for only the money and not for any/much enjoyment. I couldn't even commit rape even if it was legal and someone paid me all the money in the world to do it, seriously.

My clients do, it's in the contract! I specify in my profile that I'm looking to cater for men who want mutual fun.

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