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How Do You Find Girls With A Very Specific Fetish/activity?

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As my username states, I'm still fairly new to the game.

How do you gentleman go about finding WGs for a very specific fetish such as Femdom, Domination, face fucking, deepthroats, rim jobs etc.

Do you find a specific indie girl or do you call an esablishment such as House of divine and ask which girl would do it?

I tried emailing House of divine asking them, but they said that wanted me to call. Which would be super awkward, I dont really want to talk to a maid + stranger about my fetishes.

Thanks.

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In a word - research. Here;FRs; profiles on purple site but be careful they dont always do what they say)

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As my username states, I'm still fairly new to the game.

How do you gentleman go about finding WGs for a very specific fetish such as Femdom, Domination, face fucking, deepthroats, rim jobs etc.

Do you find a specific indie girl or do you call an esablishment such as House of divine and ask which girl would do it?

I tried emailing House of divine asking them, but they said that wanted me to call. Which would be super awkward, I dont really want to talk to a maid + stranger about my fetishes.

Thanks.

I agree with Willbred, but also punting isnt a vicars tea party, or not to me anyway, so i seek confirmation of what i require on the phone before punting with any newbie to me, it avoids "mis-communications" i have found. If they dont wish to discuss it which is rare with an Indie no problem i just go elsewhere to someone who will. I need to know exactly whats on offer before the punt, at the punt might and has been too late on occassion, and just relying on what a SPs site/profile states has resulted in being told they "forgot" to update it and dont offer say OWO anymore, thats no good to me. So getting confirmation is the best i can do, if they are a liar, my bad luck ultimately but i never think with my dick nowadays so that tactic wont work on me.

So my advice is ask clearly and concisely, and research, you can post a thread up asking for recommedations of WGs that offer the services you require as well of course.

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User the search function on the purple site, and tick the boxes in the preferences likes/dislikes section. Most of what you've just asked for is listed there as an option. as Willbred says, once you've made a shortlist, follow it up with a ring to doublecheck that the listed services are actually on offer.

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Your requests aren't too outlandish, I'm sure they've heard much odder fetishes. The more you talk about it the more normal it will feel and you'll be able to relax a bit.

Another way is finding a girl you like the look of and asking. We don't bite, unless asked. ;)

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You could try the reverse booking facility on the other site, stating exactly what you'd like, then the ladies who enjoy the same activities that you are looking for can approach you directly.

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Your requests aren't too outlandish, I'm sure they've heard much odder fetishes. The more you talk about it the more normal it will feel and you'll be able to relax a bit.

Another way is finding a girl you like the look of and asking. We don't bite, unless asked. ;)

This can work well ime, even better if you meet for a vanilla meet, it then gives you the chance to chat in a relaxed environment. Quite a few WGs are happy to do stuff that they are not comfortable about advertising openly. The explanation offered to me for this apparent anomaly is that they are not comfortable about advertising that they will be offering/promising certain services to every visitor. If however the vibe is of mutual respect (imo), then more can be on offer. Of course you still have to ask, and can never make assumptions.

It has worked for me, and made for some excellent meets.

Hope that helps.

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HOD said they dont have anyone to cater for my femdom needs :(

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HOD said they dont have anyone to cater for my femdom needs :(

There are plenty of us indies about who do it. Have a look on the purple site :)

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One year after your first post / question you still feel the need to draw out answers to the most basic questions!

You must be either

1. A journalist

2. A fantasist

3. A pork pie short of a picnic

Can we start a poll?

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There are plenty of us indies about who do it. Have a look on the purple site :)

Just done a search and most girls just tick BDSM to get more views. None of them seem to specialise in it... :(

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Just search on BDSM escorts or BDSM and a location

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Just search on BDSM escorts or BDSM and a location

Yeah, thats what I did. But when looking at their profiles I cant seem to find anything to suggest they avidly like BDSM and presumably just "ticked" the box to get potential punters.

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That surprises me newbpunt, I've always found the girls I've seen at HoD to be very accommodating with femdom requests.

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As my username states, I'm still fairly new to the game.

How do you gentleman go about finding WGs for a very specific fetish such as Femdom, Domination, face fucking, deepthroats, rim jobs etc.

Do you find a specific indie girl or do you call an esablishment such as House of divine and ask which girl would do it?

I tried emailing House of divine asking them, but they said that wanted me to call. Which would be super awkward, I dont really want to talk to a maid + stranger about my fetishes.

Thanks.

Have you looked at www.seriousmistresses.com ? They are a good starting place.

There is also www.informedconsent.co.uk.

If you are serious I suggest that you read a few profiles there before you go any further.

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Have you looked at www.seriousmistresses.com ? They are a good starting place.

There is also www.informedconsent.co.uk.

If you are serious I suggest that you read a few profiles there before you go any further.

Great site, thanks for the recommendation!

Is there a reverse to seriousmistresses where they are submissive girls instead? I would have a preference for giving rather then recieving on the domination front (Although I want to try both in my lifetime)

Thanks!

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Great site, thanks for the recommendation!

Is there a reverse to seriousmistresses where they are submissive girls instead? I would have a preference for giving rather then recieving on the domination front (Although I want to try both in my lifetime)

Thanks!

Not aware of one.

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As my username states, I'm still fairly new to the game.

How do you gentleman go about finding WGs for a very specific fetish such as Femdom, Domination, face fucking, deepthroats, rim jobs etc.

Do you find a specific indie girl or do you call an esablishment such as House of divine and ask which girl would do it?

I tried emailing House of divine asking them, but they said that wanted me to call. Which would be super awkward, I dont really want to talk to a maid + stranger about my fetishes.

Thanks.

put spankeefinder into a search engine

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Not enough escorts on spakeefinder, didnt find any I liked :(

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Try Googling!

Also, there will be far less sub women offering services, it's not especially safe for a women to be tied down or whipped etc by a strange man. I know several WGs who have sub streaks but they don't advertise because they don't want to attract nutters or idiots who don't know what they are doing. Most of them would only sub with a client they have seen a few times, have proved themselves to know what they are doing and who they trust. It's really not just a matter of saying Ooh I want to dom a woman, there is an art to doing it properly and safely.

Not helpful I know, but I thought it might help you understand why you're having trouble.

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Try Googling!

Also, there will be far less sub women offering services, it's not especially safe for a women to be tied down or whipped etc by a strange man. I know several WGs who have sub streaks but they don't advertise because they don't want to attract nutters or idiots who don't know what they are doing. Most of them would only sub with a client they have seen a few times, have proved themselves to know what they are doing and who they trust. It's really not just a matter of saying Ooh I want to dom a woman, there is an art to doing it properly and safely.

Not helpful I know, but I thought it might help you understand why you're having trouble.

Yup, I've been googling around for the last hour and found shit all. Its abit frustrating because I only want it to be very light but totally understand that its majorly risky for a girl. :(.

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Yup, I've been googling around for the last hour and found shit all. Its abit frustrating because I only want it to be very light but totally understand that its majorly risky for a girl. :(.

I suggest you search for a Domme who offers Switching services.

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Try Googling!

Also, there will be far less sub women offering services, it's not especially safe for a women to be tied down or whipped etc by a strange man. I know several WGs who have sub streaks but they don't advertise because they don't want to attract nutters or idiots who don't know what they are doing. Most of them would only sub with a client they have seen a few times, have proved themselves to know what they are doing and who they trust. It's really not just a matter of saying Ooh I want to dom a woman, there is an art to doing it properly and safely.

Not helpful I know, but I thought it might help you understand why you're having trouble.

Lydia, you are spot on imo.

I have indulged with WGs who do not advertise this service, and the reason they do not advertise it is precisely, and understandably for the reasons you say. A good rapport, and indeed trust need to be established before this kind of thing can work successfully imo. When that rapport is established, it is an unbeatable experience ;):D :D

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Lydia, you are spot on imo.

I have indulged with WGs who do not advertise this service, and the reason they do not advertise it is precisely, and understandably for the reasons you say. A good rapport, and indeed trust need to be established before this kind of thing can work successfully imo. When that rapport is established, it is an unbeatable experience ;):D :D

Deliberate pun? I think so. Well done :D

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