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Appropriate Subjects For Discussion On A Punt

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I am always conscious when visiting a lady for pleasure of what are appropriate subjects for discussion. This assumes, of course, that occasional rest periods are required and that although silence may be golden it's not always desirable. It also assumes that the lady you are with has the necessary command of the english language to do so. Not all ladies are as articulate as those that frequent this forum.

I have no wish to offend any lady by asking her about something that she might consider embarrassing or indeed none of my business. I am happy to divulge certain information about myself and have indeed done so to a few ladies to varying degrees. Too others I have divulged nothing.

I have learned some very personal details about the private lives of several ladies. Everything totally unsolicited by me and respected as being personal as I have assumed they have felt about any information about me.

So, assuming that you have the time, energy and inclination to talk what questions, if any, do the men think appropriate for the lady to ask and what do the ladies think appropriate for them to answer. Also, apart from the state of the world economy at present and whether there is life on Mars, what would the combatants like to discuss when in the recovery position?

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There are a couple of areas that I consider strictly off-limits and would never ask a wg about, where even if she volunteered information initially I would not pursue it, namely personal relationships (are you married? do you have a boyfriend? do you have kids?) and work (how many men do you see in an average day? etc). Beyond that I find most things are open for discussion. One lady did refuse to answer, in the interests of discretion, when I asked her what she did for a living beside escorting but, generally, I find asking what a lady does outside escorting (whether that might be a mainstream job, study or hobbies) is a good jumping off point for a conversation. Books, music (most ladies seem to have music playing during a punt so that is an easily available conversational spark), TV and what's in the news are usually safely neutral areas for discussion. Things like politics and religion are probably a little risky as topics but I wouldn't consider them off-limits if the conversation drifted in that direction.

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I am always conscious when visiting a lady for pleasure of what are appropriate subjects for discussion. This assumes, of course, that occasional rest periods are required and that although silence may be golden it's not always desirable. It also assumes that the lady you are with has the necessary command of the english language to do so. Not all ladies are as articulate as those that frequent this forum.

I have no wish to offend any lady by asking her about something that she might consider embarrassing or indeed none of my business. I am happy to divulge certain information about myself and have indeed done so to a few ladies to varying degrees. Too others I have divulged nothing.

I have learned some very personal details about the private lives of several ladies. Everything totally unsolicited by me and respected as being personal as I have assumed they have felt about any information about me.

So, assuming that you have the time, energy and inclination to talk what questions, if any, do the men think appropriate for the lady to ask and what do the ladies think appropriate for them to answer. Also, apart from the state of the world economy at present and whether there is life on Mars, what would the combatants like to discuss when in the recovery position?

I keep it chit chat usually and let the WG if she wishes to bring subjects up, and it is many many times they have discussed themselves and their situation, i put the onus on them to discuss more personal things if they decide to, i dont initiate such conversations.

Once a WG becomes a regular various subjects might come up including the meaning of life and is the bible a good read all in the breaks i need and i try above all to have a laugh and fun.

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Hi there,

The topics can be so different. I prefer politics, economy and lifestyle choices. I stay away from asking private questions because at the end of the day we having fun time. :)

xxx

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My advice is to start with compliments. No woman can resist being complimented especially on their appearance, it could be something as simple as telling her you find her nails a turn on or eyes or even the way she does her makeup, but it will help break the ice, warm her towards you and ease into that conversation. Make sure you say a turn on though and not use the word attractive because that would infer a deeper meaning and she'll backing off in a punting setting. That works both ways mind, men like being complimented too, I could always find something attractive about my men, it could be twinkling eyes, a cute butt, well manicured nails etc, and if they were older then I respected and complimented their wisdom, intelligence and told them so, it didn't matter what it was I would always compliment them on it and break the post punt uneasiness that way.

If they were sporting a nice tan then obviously holidays were a good subject to bring up, the decor in the room is another good one, tastes in music another good one, food men like food so thats a good one. Obviously unless the lady brings it up you stay well clear of personal stuff and vice versa but I did chat in a general sense about kids, mortgages, lifestyle etc. You can always find something.

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My advice is to start with compliments. No woman can resist being complimented especially on their appearance, it could be something as simple as telling her you find her nails a turn on or eyes or even the way she does her makeup, but it will help break the ice, warm her towards you and ease into that conversation. Make sure you say a turn on though and not use the word attractive because that would infer a deeper meaning and she'll backing off in a punting setting. That works both ways mind, men like being complimented too, I could always find something attractive about my men, it could be twinkling eyes, a cute butt, well manicured nails etc, and if they were older then I respected and complimented their wisdom, intelligence and told them so, it didn't matter what it was I would always compliment them on it and break the post punt uneasiness that way.

If they were sporting a nice tan then obviously holidays were a good subject to bring up, the decor in the room is another good one, tastes in music another good one, food men like food so thats a good one. Obviously unless the lady brings it up you stay well clear of personal stuff and vice versa but I did chat in a general sense about kids, mortgages, lifestyle etc. You can always find something.

Spot on, compliments do it!

And compliment her on her nice website, interensting blogtopics, and witty responses on messageboards.

One lady once told me I have to be careful with the "subtle adoration" I display for the visiting girls, as she wouldnt want them to fall for me - Her way of returning the compliments, Bless her!

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There was an occasion when one lady, who was a very nice 40 plus, led me into the bedroom and, before money had changed hands or I had had the oppportunity to make any complimentary remarks, gave me a twirl and said " don't you think I have a fantastic figure for my age?".

I'm not normally stuck for words but on that occasion I could only stuttter "yes".

I was taken by surprise because she had actually asked for a compliment. By that time I had already seen several ladies and they had all allowed me the pleasure of complimenting them on their appearance, their premises, their manner etc.

I wonder what her reaction would have been if I had responded " Yes. You do have a fantastic figure for your age!!"

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There was an occasion when one lady, who was a very nice 40 plus, led me into the bedroom and, before money had changed hands or I had had the oppportunity to make any complimentary remarks, gave me a twirl and said " don't you think I have a fantastic figure for my age?".

I'm not normally stuck for words but on that occasion I could only stuttter "yes".

I was taken by surprise because she had actually asked for a compliment. By that time I had already seen several ladies and they had all allowed me the pleasure of complimenting them on their appearance, their premises, their manner etc.

I wonder what her reaction would have been if I had responded " Yes. You do have a fantastic figure for your age!!"

Oh dear, if I saw a woman do that even if she did look great, the first thought that would pop into my head is, 'yes but your either up yourself love or have a major lack of confidence and fishing for compliments'. Surely the whole idea of a compliment is that it comes from the other person and is heartfelt and sincere.

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Oh dear, if I saw a woman do that even if she did look great, the first thought that would pop into my head is, 'yes but your either up yourself love or have a major lack of confidence and fishing for compliments'. Surely the whole idea of a compliment is that it comes from the other person and is heartfelt and sincere.

It was ego as subsequent events revealed. Not the most enjoyable experience of my life, although she was never aware of that even now, despite the fact that she was an attractive lady. She disappointed in other areas as well. What I can't understand, and I have just checked her profile, is that in just nine months on the purple site she has amassed almost 150 very glowing positive reviews and only 2 negative?

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It was ego as subsequent events revealed. Not the most enjoyable experience of my life, although she was never aware of that even now, despite the fact that she was an attractive lady. She disappointed in other areas as well. What I can't understand, and I have just checked her profile, is that in just nine months on the purple site she has amassed almost 150 very glowing positive reviews and only 2 negative?

Shows the feedback on the purple site cant be trusted in my view as i well know from years of using it. The FB system has more holes in it than a string vest.

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There was an occasion when one lady, who was a very nice 40 plus, led me into the bedroom and, before money had changed hands or I had had the oppportunity to make any complimentary remarks, gave me a twirl and said " don't you think I have a fantastic figure for my age?".

I'm not normally stuck for words but on that occasion I could only stuttter "yes".

I was taken by surprise because she had actually asked for a compliment. By that time I had already seen several ladies and they had all allowed me the pleasure of complimenting them on their appearance, their premises, their manner etc.

I wonder what her reaction would have been if I had responded " Yes. You do have a fantastic figure for your age!!"

Oh dear, if I saw a woman do that even if she did look great, the first thought that would pop into my head is, 'yes but your either up yourself love or have a major lack of confidence and fishing for compliments'. Surely the whole idea of a compliment is that it comes from the other person and is heartfelt and sincere.

Personally, I wouldn't be phased by the question :o:P

Probably would view it as a sign of confidence and also view it as one of those tricky question that we men need to know the answer to when we are dealing with the opposite sex.

Almost like the question when your partner ask: 'Does my bum look big in this....?'

Come on guys we can't keep letting the side down like this with our responses :P;)

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Never share your passion for fishing. I've found that girls universally, are simply not interested. Likewise flashlights. I have never met a girl who could give a fuck one way or the other about how many out-the-front lumens this little jobby could throw, nor how many square yards of illumination could be achieved.

Stick with the weather.

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I just pick a topic at random from the "off topic" forum.. That gets the conversation going just fine.

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Never share your passion for fishing. I've found that girls universally, are simply not interested. Likewise flashlights. I have never met a girl who could give a fuck one way or the other about how many out-the-front lumens this little jobby could throw, nor how many square yards of illumination could be achieved.

Stick with the weather.

Yes, i have only ever met one woman interested in Fishing and it wasnt the Fishing that really interested her as it turned out luckily for me. ;)

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One recent bloke who I saw asked me about how to care for his elderly parent who was getting hard to cope with.

Lucy :)

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I would rather we talked briefly about anything and everything barring other working ladies thank you.

*shudders at the thought*

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One recent bloke who I saw asked me about how to care for his elderly parent who was getting hard to cope with.

Lucy :)

I didn't realise my son was a punter! I will have to have a chat with him, if I can remember where he lives! :lol:

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Never share your passion for fishing. I've found that girls universally, are simply not interested.

Not sure why reading this reminded me off...Presumably starring WhilstNeroplays:

Edited by Superego

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I expect lots of punters, just like me, have really enjoyed those long post-coitical discussions about AW technical support.

Cheers!

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I don't like talking about other women or about what I do with other clients. Neither of these topics interest me, as they have nothing to do with who I am with and what we are doing. Anything that is relevant to who I am with at the time is pretty much fine to talk about. Finding common ground can make someone so much more likeable and fun to be with.

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I don't like talking about other women or about what I do with other clients.

Couldn't agree more with that comment Kate! Boot on the other foot. The lady compares the man with other punters. "the guy earlier ate pussy better than you". "pity you're not taller. most clients don't have to stand on the box". Although there's always the egotist who would believe the lady if she said "you're the best I've ever had in all my 83 years in this business".

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Finding common ground can make someone so much more likeable and fun to be with.

Exactly. Although even here there can be problems. If you use the car how far do you drive? How much petrol? Wear and tear on the tyres? When you get there will the ground be smooth and soft enough? Did you remember the blanket? How about the sandwiches and something to drink? So many things to consider. Let's just use the garden or maybe the carpark.

Places like the village green are usually classed as common ground and it might be convenient but would it really be suitable?

Think carefully Kate. Much as you would like to share common ground with a client it might not be advisable.

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All depends on the girl you are seeing as well as yourself. I sometime find it hard to initiate the chit-chat (dan shyness) and some girls would be great and realise this help move things along. Everyone has different boundaries as to what they are willing to discuss. If you really click then most things are okay to discuss but some don't want to discuss anything.

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I don't like talking about other women or about what I do with other clients. Neither of these topics interest me, as they have nothing to do with who I am with and what we are doing. Anything that is relevant to who I am with at the time is pretty much fine to talk about. Finding common ground can make someone so much more likeable and fun to be with.

Thats somewhere I would never go. Yes I'd talk about some of my daft exploits but always in a vague way and never mention names unless I knew for sure the other girls were ok with it, but then it was common knowledge that us girlies in our area are a close bunch so I would get asked about them a lot which did at times make things a little uncomfortable. I never minded giving a recommendation for another lady when asked for one though.

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Thats somewhere I would never go. Yes I'd talk about some of my daft exploits but always in a vague way and never mention names unless I knew for sure the other girls were ok with it, but then it was common knowledge that us girlies in our area are a close bunch so I would get asked about them a lot which did at times make things a little uncomfortable. I never minded giving a recommendation for another lady when asked for one though.

But surely you knew the lady Holly? You would not recommend someone you had never met would you?

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