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I went to a parlour about two weeks ago. I really wanted to have sex with the woman I chose, but she said I was too big and didn't want to get hurt.

is this common? lol.. As every punter has a different size, then I'd have thought WGs get used to it. then again, as with non-WGs, preferences exist, and some non-WGs don't like big uns lulz...

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I went to a parlour about two weeks ago. I really wanted to have sex with the woman I chose, but she said I was too big and didn't want to get hurt.

is this common? lol.. As every punter has a different size, then I'd have thought WGs get used to it. then again, as with non-WGs, preferences exist, and some non-WGs don't like big uns lulz...

It varies, sometimes difficult to gauge without trying it out(some big ones feel small and some small big).

You'd be surprised how many men think girls prefer big ones.

Never had a problem with anyone who's simply turned up without feeling the need to send the "can you take x inches" email or text message.

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I went to a parlour about two weeks ago. I really wanted to have sex with the woman I chose, but she said I was too big and didn't want to get hurt.

is this common? lol.. As every punter has a different size, then I'd have thought WGs get used to it. then again, as with non-WGs, preferences exist, and some non-WGs don't like big uns lulz...

Its been discussed on here many times which indicates it happens a fair amount in my view. I have been told the same myself and i have punted with WGs who simply had small vaginas and my cock wouldnt fit, and i am no johnny big cock. If it doesnt fit a WG cant get used to it as it would cause her pain. I assume you either got your money back or did something else with her, you shouldnt be penalised for your cock length just as a WG shouldnt be for not being able to take it.

IMO having a big cock in punting can be a disadvantage and more so if you want anal, thank god mine isnt a whopper.

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I have been turned down once, early in my career. I am more comfortable in XL condoms than the normal ones I am often squeezed into. I am more often been asked to be gentle which is not a problem for me but have often wondered whether it is why my wife went off sex (she won't discuss the subject).

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This might be unpopular, but surely if you can't take a cock a bit above the average you're in the wrong job?!

I know that actual fucking isn't the be all and end all to what clients want and to being a good escort, but isn't having penetrative sex a basic requirement you should be able to offer? Obviously I exclude those providers who don't offer it full stop.

If I'm sore and don't feel like penetrative sex then I simply take the day off. It's unfair to let a man take the time and effort to come and see you if you then withhold a service he specifically wants.

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Unless its a absolutely off the scale gianornmous like one I saw at a party once then I'm not sure it should be such a problem. I guess your aware it may be painful for a sexual partner when its large so are more careful. If I think back to the most painful experience I have had it was with one of the smaller guys who was thrusting that hard it killed 'think he was trying too hard to make up for the lack of length' which made his technique awful but I found the bigger guys tended to be more careful so it was ok.

Smiths your right about it being a problem for some guys though, that guy at that party had one as long and as thick as my forearm with the end as big as my clenched fist. I pointed him in the direction of the shower after giving him a towel and hadn't seen it at that point but within minutes all the other guys came running down the stairs flabbergasted and shocked at what they saw, not sure whether they were jealous at first but it soon became obvious that he could do nothing with it other than have a two handed wank or a boob job of the more blessed ladies, we certainly could not get our mouths round it that was for sure. One of the newer girls did try but had tears streaming down her face so gave up, poor guy.

The lovely Omar seems to be able to find enough escorts that enjoy playing with him and he certainly is nicely well blessed :P

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If I see a guy with a big one I will say so.. why shouldn't I? I have seen some whoppers big enough to put a girl's eye out :D and the owners of those whoppers never said a thing in their emails to me.

It's the guy who writes and asks me if I don't mind taking eleven inches down my throat that gets a 'No' from her...........

*gulps and strokes throat gently*

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I generally find the guys that text and email banging on about their huge willies are either deluded or just get off on writing about it and never actually book.

Can't say I've had problems with the big Knobbed brigade,there are generally positions you can do to make things comfortable and lube too.

It is a problem with deep throat though...deep throat up to ab extent but am not a sword swallower lol.

I sometimes think girls use this as an excuse because they feel sore perhaps.In which case you don't work.Simple.

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if it doesnt fit then you havent aroused the girl enough with fingers or tongue.

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Some of us dream of being rejected for these reasons! :D

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Some of us dream of being rejected for these reasons! :D

Here you go then.... just for you

Fuck off with your big knob

:)

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Some of us dream of being rejected for these reasons! :D

Can't understand why.

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I really wanted to have sex with the woman I chose, but she said I was too big and didn't want to get hurt.

Some of us dream of being rejected for these reasons! :D

Fuck off with your big knob

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I went to a parlour about two weeks ago. I really wanted to have sex with the woman I chose, but she said I was too big and didn't want to get hurt.

is this common? lol.. As every punter has a different size, then I'd have thought WGs get used to it. then again, as with non-WGs, preferences exist, and some non-WGs don't like big uns lulz...

Forgive me how did she know that you would be too big?

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Forgive me how did she know that you would be too big?

I expect she saw it poking out the bottom of his trouser leg...

or maybe he had all got it out at the point she told him it was too big? *rolls eyes*

Edited by LondonLydia

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I expect she saw it poking out the bottom of his trouser leg...

or maybe he had all got it out at the point she told him it was too big? *rolls eyes*

Thanks for clarifying - and it poking out of his trouser leg (like an octopus)!... Off course! Why didn't I think of that?? ;)

Forgive me I was still in Inspector Columbo mode - - - - 0 0 0 and had MrUU still on my mind (ie can't see a Black person even before he has taken down his trouser because they are too big) when I posed my question. I remember also - though I may well be wrong - Bethom suggesting he was Black.

So this was the reasoning behind the apparently innocuous question.

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I expect she saw it poking out the bottom of his trouser leg...

Lydia!!! You have a disgusting perverted mind. I'll be in touch this week to make a booking.

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This might be unpopular, but surely if you can't take a cock a bit above the average you're in the wrong job?!

Looks like I am in the wrong job then and I am still here ;) Really struggle with big ones and if I do come across any, there will be instructions to be gentle..

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As the saying goes, everyone is different.

My regular call girl works at sandys superstars, she admits to liking big cocks as she has mentioned her boyfriend having a big one. When asked whats the biggest she has ever had she raised her forearm trying to compare it to most of that. She works at the parlour two times a week and it gets very busy in there, like easily over 10 men per day i think.

Another escort i used to see, Im about 6" and quite often i thought to myself she's a really nice snug fit... and she said herself that i was a really perfect fit for her.

My ex who's an escort, she told me she hates really big cocks, some nights after coming back from seeing certain clients she just wasnt in the mood she was too sensitive below when i penetrated her fully and im only average size. I drove for her sometimes when she had outcalls, my first drive for her was for some client at his home for 3 hours, when they finished i picked her up she looked like she was a bit drunk due to her walking a little slower than usual and wasnt properly walking straight, she said he has a big one but knows how to use it so i just assumed she had a good time. Until we got back home - no sex for me she wouldnt even let me touch her clit, she just wanted a hug in bed.

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This might be unpopular, but surely if you can't take a cock a bit above the average you're in the wrong job?!

I am, but with all respect, a bit surprised by your view as it does sound a bit harsh.

He may have been more than a bit above average? She may have already been a little sensitive from previous clients and just being sensible if she thought she could see average sizes but not this one?

Not in a position to know the full anatomical details as girls are but I could appreciate that girls will know their own bodies well enough and when she see his (nothing in the original post to say her comment didn't come in the room once she saw him naked).

Not a direct comparison at all but well known surely that some people can take cocks in their bum and some can't; bodies differ.

I do think WGs are in a business that is so personal there can be more latitude in their preferences - gosh builders/plumbers etc will say no to any job that doesn't seem worth their while or too big to cope with. Those bedsitter progs show how individual they all are in what they consider acceptable standards.

Girls regularly insist on cleanliness, sweet breath, manners, pay in envelope on first meeting, no withheld texts, no blocked numbers, no emails, no one a old as VLM etc. Not agreeing to taking a cock she is fearful about possibly hurting /damaging her seems fair enough to me.

Am I right comments used to be come across occasionally of girls feeling cocks against their cervix and obviously that being sore and causing bruising? I don't seem to have come across it in recent years but no anatomical changes to suggest it doesn't still happen and that sounds unwelcome.

Edited by vivluvsme

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This might be unpopular, but surely if you can't take a cock a bit above the average you're in the wrong job?!

I know that actual fucking isn't the be all and end all to what clients want and to being a good escort, but isn't having penetrative sex a basic requirement you should be able to offer? Obviously I exclude those providers who don't offer it full stop.

If I'm sore and don't feel like penetrative sex then I simply take the day off. It's unfair to let a man take the time and effort to come and see you if you then withhold a service he specifically wants.

I'll be perfectly honest here. i do not like big cocks. I don't like sucking them off because my jaw aches and why is t they always seem to want it to go right down? I do not like being fucked by a big cock in doggy style. It fecking hurts. It feels like my insides are going to come out. Give me your average sized guy and day 'cos I'm and average sized girl.

Having said that I do see men with big cocks who are nice to be with and do not use their cock like it is some sort of punishing tool.

Depends upon the owner of said cock as to whether he is a cock or not.

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Only been turned down once for this reason. It was by a vyoung Portugese girl in a flat in Frith Street, Croydon - long gone now. I remember it vividly. Said I was "too big" and wouldn't do more than wank me. I was really surprised, and not pleasantly so, as really wanted full sex. Never happened before or since. I think it all depends on the girl in question. Everyone's different

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I've been flat out turned down once (the funny thing was I wasn't even hard at the time, I took my trouser and pants off, she had a look and immediately said I'm too big. When I pointed out I wasn't even hard she said she could tell I was going to be big. She offered me a refund so I pulled my pants and trousers back on, took my money back and left).

Several times I have been told I'm too big for certain positions. As Sarah Summers said, normally it's I'm not allowed to do doggy, or no deep penetration positions like the ladies legs over my shoulders etc. At first it made me feel good to know I had a big one, but now being told you can't do this position or that position is a massive mood killer, it destroys any natural flow to the time together, at least for me. Therefore, I tend to now let the lady know I'm above average before meeting (sorry Bibi, but it's not because I get off on it, it's to ensure that she's comfortable with it. I'd rather get rejected before the meeting than during it).

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Thats fair enough Peterbry.I can only post on my experiences and I generally mean the guys that go on and on about it via text or email i.e not politely enquiring but sort of like 'Hey baby,I've got such a big cock its 14 inches can you take it all sexy?I'll send you a pic..'

Now and then I have had something along the lines of 'Not to sound like I'm bragging but I'm bigger than average hoping this isn't an issue'.

Generally a bigger than average guy will know to warm a lady up first and go gentle.An average sized willy can be painful if the guy is rough to be honest.

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And i thought size didnt matter, it was how you used it.

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