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How much research do you guys do before making the first contact with a new lady?

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sometimes lots sometimes less - it is more the quality than quantity of research- a few of the right signs and I may take a chance. Any worrying sign and I move on. Plenty of fish in the sea.

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Personally I have never done too much research - hardly any - in my punting career :o:P .

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How much research do you guys do before making the first contact with a new lady?

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Same as Griffon really, it depends. If i dont get a personal recommendation i check Adultwork and see if i can cross-reference on here and elsewhere, if still nothing i will call the WG and judge from there. Any hint of coldness or a negative tone and i go elsewhere. Sadly its not infallible but my bullshit meter has improved over time.

I am also prepared to take a risk in search of a gem knowing there are WGs who are new or only work off their phones out there which explains their lack of feedback. I always have a plan B option and NEVER think with my dick nowadays, if i am not totally happy i will walk.

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If I see a photo of a girl at an agency that gets me going then I'll initially read the onsite reviews (if any).

Then I'll search for FRs on punternet.

Then I'll either search the forum for any discussion of her and/or send PMs to trusted fellow punters for 1st hand advice/recommendations or otherwise.

A good number of positive FRs and reviews and personal recommendations from forum members is almost always (almost ....not a 100% iron clad guarantee) a sure sign that you'll have a very good punt with the lady in question.

These days however, I tend to stick with my regulars and so rarely go through this process, as theyre already tried and tested.

Although, before they became regulars and before that 1st punt with each of them, I wouldve generally followed the above outlined procedure.

When I havent done research beforehand it can be very hit n miss (usually more miss than hit)

Last minute 5AM plan B's when I've been really horny and simply had to punt, and were based only on some hurriedly viewed photos over the internet via iphone and a quick perusal of the few onsite reviews (generally less reliable than PNET FRs), have lead to the unearthing of some real gems: Mercedes & Andrea of 007, and some real duds: Joanne & Emily both 007, so I'd say it certainly benefits you to do plenty of research before making the trek and handing over the readies.

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Thorough. Of course, it's their appearance that initially attracts me. Then I read as many FRs as I can, particularly recent ones, taking their personality into account. A lot of visualisation goes on with their appearance and personality, and then I take the plunge. So, yeah, a lot of due diligence is done, I don't think I'll ever punt on impulse when I see a lady for the first time, a lot of preparation has to be done, and I want to minimise the chances of a 'loss'.

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Well if it's an indie then check reviews on adultwork and I check the feedback she has left them alarm bells when a lot of the feedback is off punters that have just one feedback and they only have one from her. If that seems ok and the emails are fast and friendly then I will go for it. If its a parlour then find a field report on here and just go fingers crossed.

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I used to undergo loads of research. It meant for a very high success rate as well. These days, like many, I have a cadre of regulars and semi-regulars and tend to confine myself to that. I do however browse Adultwork (that still feels odd saying it here :D) reasonably often, especially if I am away on business and I have been known to make snap decisions based on very little research indeed. With experience, you get a bit of a sixth sense about what might be good and what might not be. Still, if unsure, I always check the FRs here.

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I used to undergo loads of research. It meant for a very high success rate as well. These days, like many, I have a cadre of regulars and semi-regulars and tend to confine myself to that. I do however browse Adultwork (that still feels odd saying it here :D) reasonably often, especially if I am away on business and I have been known to make snap decisions based on very little research indeed. With experience, you get a bit of a sixth sense about what might be good and what might not be. Still, if unsure, I always check the FRs here.

I do agree with this about 'the spiderman senses' ;) . However, its ashame it never work with the lottery :huh: :huh:

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Usually i research as much as i can, particularly like what others have previously said.

I'll read her profile/website, every fine detail just in case there's something i think might cause us not to get on, or i'll know what or not to do or say when im with her. Among other things, such as comparing photos checking-wondering what she would actually look like in person compared to what she looks like in the photos as they can make her look her very best - some escorts don't put that much effort into looking that good for new clients, and i'm not talking about the glamorous exotic stunning beautiful model shots either.

Feedback is a bit of joke to be honest (even when cross-referencing different review sites), most escorts have mostly good feedback then you got some odd one or few who say she's not that good or she must have been having an off day. Even escorts with LOTS of feedback with ALL good ratings - you meet her to find she isn't that good. xxxAnnabellexxx for example, i was one of the first 20 of her ratings, id give her an overall 7/10, yet she has nothing but excellent feedback. Yet some escorts ive met have been mind blowing, then im surprised some clients have said she isn't that good - made me think are you serious?! she is absolutely awesome.

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Usually i research as much as i can, particularly like what others have previously said.

I'll read her profile/website, every fine detail just in case there's something i think might cause us not to get on, or i'll know what or not to do or say when im with her. Among other things, such as comparing photos checking-wondering what she would actually look like in person compared to what she looks like in the photos as they can make her look her very best - some escorts don't put that much effort into looking that good for new clients, and i'm not talking about the glamorous exotic stunning beautiful model shots either.

Feedback is a bit of joke to be honest (even when cross-referencing different review sites), most escorts have mostly good feedback then you got some odd one or few who say she's not that good or she must have been having an off day. Even escorts with LOTS of feedback with ALL good ratings - you meet her to find she isn't that good. xxxAnnabellexxx for example, i was one of the first 20 of her ratings, id give her an overall 7/10, yet she has nothing but excellent feedback. Yet some escorts ive met have been mind blowing, then im surprised some clients have said she isn't that good - made me think are you serious?! she is absolutely awesome.

Having read this post...Then I have done a lot of research too much!! I was not considering any of the above as research but just something natural to the superego mind :) .

I was merely linking research to reading feedbacks but like Sparkstar has pointed out it entails so much more - including the sixth sense off course ^_^

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If there are FR's from people whose opinions I can trust I may take them on board and save myself some time; if there are few FR's I dig a little deeper; if there are no FR's I will generally take my cash elsewhere. I know that everyone has to start with a blank record, and I may be the first customer, if there is enough other evidence to give me some peace of mind.

As many of us say "the research is half the fun of punting".

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Its part of the punt to do some homework of who is available, and what services they provide, as this does change from time to time, so I try to be aware without giving it 100% as acurate.

But as there is nothing else available like this cept word of mouth, or the field report database, then you really have to be aware.

been stung a couple of times recently, and have managed to pull one of them around, but you quickly learn and dont get scammed so easily again.

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I used to spend hours researching possible punts, but had a 'eureka' moment last Saturday when I realised all the careful planning does not guarantee a good punt. Obviously, when venturing into pastures new, some cross-reference checks on here (to make sure it's not a bait-and-switch operation) might be wise, but isn't the whole essence of punting to take a gamble, embracing the possibility of occasional disappointment which is always more than made up for when you get a really terrific experience ? That elusive 'chemistry' or 'spark' that a previous punter had with a lady may be totally absent when you and her are together. Conversely, a lady who seemed 'cold' and 'uninterested' to another punter might just 'click' with you.

Last weekend, I was away from home on business, and feeling horny. I did 10-15 mins of research on here and found a parlour that seemed legit, and just went for it, with my expectations limited as I just needed 'release'. The lady I picked could not have been lovelier; we hit it off straight away and the sex was amazing. One of the best punts I've had in over 20 years of this hobby, in fact.

So, to sum up: when I mentally calculate all the hours I spent doing 'research' which could have been spent having actual sex, I simply realised I've wasted a lot of time that could have been occupied with much more pleasurable activities !

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