bigcheese101

Can't Stop Punting!

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Hi there,

I'm 39, married and been punting on and off for the last 6 years. Trouble is I feel bad but not bad enough to stop. I punt a few times a year sometimes more.

Why can't I stop???

Argh!!!

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sames for me Ive had over 50 punts so far this year and still counting

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Because of the excitement before, during and the buzz after, it can be addictive.

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Hi there,

I'm 39, married and been punting on and off for the last 6 years. Trouble is I feel bad but not bad enough to stop. I punt a few times a year sometimes more.

Why can't I stop???

Argh!!!

Welcome to the forum Bigcheese. :) Its mainly great fun is why i dont stop, if you wish to stop only you can do it of course.

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I keep saying to myself after each punt "that's it, I'm stopping now"

The trouble is, I still have not had my perfect punt. Don't get me wrong, I have had some great times and many of my fantasies fulfilled, but as yet, I have not found an escort that has the face and body of my dream woman AND performs all the services I like.

When I find that person, I WILL stop. Or at least book exclusively her.... until I want to do something that she doesn't !!

Feck, when can I get off this ride?????

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Get a low paid job....that kills it off effectively <_< Can't do it if you can't afford it :lol:

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Alternatively....confess your punting to the wife. I am sure she will make sure it stops :lol:

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I have not found an escort that has the face and body of my dream woman AND performs all the services I like.

Because you never will. Stop treating it like an alcohol or gambling addiction.

And what is this with paying for sex while being married? I don't get it.

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Hi there,

I'm 39, married and been punting on and off for the last 6 years. Trouble is I feel bad but not bad enough to stop. I punt a few times a year sometimes more.

Why can't I stop???

Argh!!!

Because you don't want to?

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I keep saying to myself after each punt "that's it, I'm stopping now"

The trouble is, I still have not had my perfect punt. Don't get me wrong, I have had some great times and many of my fantasies fulfilled, but as yet, I have not found an escort that has the face and body of my dream woman AND performs all the services I like.

When I find that person, I WILL stop. Or at least book exclusively her.... until I want to do something that she doesn't !!

Feck, when can I get off this ride?????

This sounds like the OP sentiment...Well may be not quite

As for stopping - its very difficult and without stating the obvious there needs to be some of sexual release (ie a function of biology).

Some suggest counselling is the remedy. However, since you are married that may require two of you seeking this help, which could prove to be another difficult hurdle to get over.

Its a difficult one...Good luck nonetheless though to the OP :) and not forgetting you too Munchy ;)

Edited by Superego

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there a few girls you could see that might make you want to stop

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And now you've discovered this forum and will read posts about lovely women and exciting sexual practices as well as good advice and there's no hope for you!

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And what is this with paying for sex while being married? I don't get it.

You really don't know the answer to this?!

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Why, when you have water, tea, coffee and fruit juice available, would you ever want wine? Oh yes...

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Because you never will. Stop treating it like an alcohol or gambling addiction.

And what is this with paying for sex while being married? I don't get it.

Er...what planet are you on?????

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And what is this with paying for sex while being married? I don't get it.

Obviously someone who is not married. This assumption that if you're married it's sex on tap.

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Obviously someone who is not married. This assumption that if you're married it's sex on tap.

Its not always that though is it? I know guys that are married to very attractive overtly sexual women that still punt. Its the excitement for some, the forbidden fruit thing for others (doing something they shouldn't) etc etc...

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Its not always that though is it? I know guys that are married to very attractive overtly sexual women that still punt. Its the excitement for some, the forbidden fruit thing for others (doing something they shouldn't) etc etc...

Its also variety for some of us, one woman not being enough so we selfishly lie and cheat.

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Its also variety for some of us, one woman not being enough so we selfishly lie and cheat.

This is exactly why I punt coupled with the fact that there are things I can do with a WG that the wife or a girlfriend would never allow me to do.

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Its meeting a need that isn't met in your life otherwise. The main thing is that can you afford the hobby, because its a problem if you can't, but the actual sex, I should just enjoy it. Many many men are in a similar position

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Because you never will. Stop treating it like an alcohol or gambling addiction.

And what is this with paying for sex while being married? I don't get it.

Er...what planet are you on?????

Obviously someone who is not married. This assumption that if you're married it's sex on tap.

Or if you are married then you are meant to remain faithful to that partner for life

For better or for worse

Is there anyone who objects that this couple should be made man and wife? :P

...Unfortunately time does :(

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Because you never will. Stop treating it like an alcohol or gambling addiction.

This a very interesting point and after much thought. I think you are probably right Scubadiver007.

Anyone looking for the next 'fix' in punting is analogous to alcohol or gambling addiction and therefore would find it very difficult to stop (Scubadiver007 point)

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Its not always that though is it? I know guys that are married to very attractive overtly sexual women that still punt. Its the excitement for some, the forbidden fruit thing for others (doing something they shouldn't) etc etc...

Yes, just under 26.5% of the married punters, if the etc etc includes all the other reasons of the same general kind mentioned in the posts after the one where the quote came from.

The reason why the other 73.54% or so of married punters punt is Mum's sex rationing at home. That includes rations of 0.

These are good PN numbers. They come from a big poll about it on this board about 2 years ago.

Add the two groups and you get all the reasons for "can't stop punting".

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And what is this with paying for sex while being married? I don't get it.

No, we don't get it either - that's why we have to pay for it.

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No, we don't get it either - that's why we have to pay for it.

I get it once in a while and that is just not enough.

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