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Jealous Again

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Hi everyone I know I should now better having been punting for 8 years now but I some times feel a bit jealous when I see read feedback from other punters of my regular lady. Does anyone else ever get the green eyed monster or is it just me getting all soppy?

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Hi everyone I know I should now better having been punting for 8 years now but I some times feel a bit jealous when I see read feedback from other punters of my regular lady. Does anyone else ever get the green eyed monster or is it just me getting all soppy?

Fraid its how it works. There is a solution, however. See her more often!

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There is a solution, however. See her more often!

Or just don't read her FRs!

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I have a client who tells me he really enjoys reading my reports............

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I guess your just a jealous guy Madman666 ....

Edited by Ace ventura punt detective

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Hi everyone I know I should now better having been punting for 8 years now but I some times feel a bit jealous when I see read feedback from other punters of my regular lady. Does anyone else ever get the green eyed monster or is it just me getting all soppy?

I actually like and admire the lady (as well as lust after her body) and therefore wish her success in her chosen profession. Accordingly I rejoice when I see evidence that she is doing well, and, no, the green-eyed monster doesn't trouble me.

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I am glad that she is doing so well just can't help reading feedback and thinking I wish that was me!.

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I am glad that she is doing so well just can't help reading feedback and thinking I wish that was me!.

A lot of men won't leave feedback for their favorite girls for this very reason. She must be good, your lucky to have found her, but you have to keep telling yoruself she is just doing her job albeit very well and at the end of the day is a SP and nothing more.

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Hi everyone I know I should now better having been punting for 8 years now but I some times feel a bit jealous when I see read feedback from other punters of my regular lady. Does anyone else ever get the green eyed monster or is it just me getting all soppy?

I don't suppose many here will admit to feeling the same as you...

You are not the first to feel this way, nor will you be the last. Jealousy is a very difficult emotion to get round. Hopefully you will find a way to deal with it, or at the least, keep it under control

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I am glad that she is doing so well just can't help reading feedback and thinking I wish that was me!.

...Sounds more like the word you were looking for was 'greed' :P

Reading the above it sounds like the adjective you were seeking was 'envious'. As in I am envious of all the other punters...but I still feel jealous'....

No let me start again... As in envious of all other punters [full stop]. :)

Edited by Superego

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I don't suppose many here will admit to feeling the same as you...

You are not the first to feel this way, nor will you be the last. Jealousy is a very difficult emotion to get round. Hopefully you will find a way to deal with it, or at the least, keep it under control

I think if you really like the wg concerned then these odd thoughts or feelings might appear (and this is why some of us gents are reluctant to give out WGs details

to fellow punters) . I think the other side of the coin is when one is in a relationship and seeks and desires wholeheartedly their partner's attention exclusively.

Both sides of the coin is about individuality and possessing.

Did I hear a penny (coin) drop? :blink:

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You should ask her to marry you....jk.

Its her job and that job is to spend time with men. What happens during that time is between her and that man. Part of the transaction is a promise of discretion.

I can never understand people who don't get that a WG has likely had sex with her partner/pimp/handler and probably another paying customer before she has seen you.

I have no issue with it, much like its common place to expect a girlfriend to have slept with other men before she ever met you...

Probably why I see no issue with my infamous "how many" question.

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You should ask her to marry you....jk.

Its her job and that job is to spend time with men. What happens during that time is between her and that man. Part of the transaction is a promise of discretion.

I can never understand people who don't get that a WG has likely had sex with her partner/pimp/handler and probably another paying customer before she has seen you.

I have no issue with it, much like its common place to expect a girlfriend to have slept with other men before she ever met you...

Probably why I see no issue with my infamous "how many" question.

:D

...As for

'I can never understand people who don't get that a WG has likely had sex with her partner/pimp/handler and probably another paying customer before she has seen you.'

I think guys who are jealous do realise this hence there jealously ie the other ;) . More accurately I think it reflects something very deep-seated about the individual concerned.

Obviously guys in relationships may have these deep-seated feelings too but obviously cannot express it for fear of it impacting

on their partners.

Like they say when we feel love for somebody ultimately it is us doing all the feeling independently of the other personwho that desire is attached to - at a fundamental level off course.

Edited by Superego

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I just wish that I was wealthy enough to become a fulltime punter. Not every day of course. I'd have to have time off for the necesary hospital care.

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Hi everyone I know I should now better having been punting for 8 years now but I some times feel a bit jealous when I see read feedback from other punters of my regular lady. Does anyone else ever get the green eyed monster or is it just me getting all soppy?

Not I.

I revolve a bit to avoid becoming too attached and recommend them to others without a hint of jealousy.

If somewone else can make them happy, then good luck to all.

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Hi everyone I know I should now better having been punting for 8 years now but I some times feel a bit jealous when I see read feedback from other punters of my regular lady. Does anyone else ever get the green eyed monster or is it just me getting all soppy?

Nope as she is not my wife or girlfriend.

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Confessional Time.

I am a jealous guy by nature. It was at it's worst when I was younger and I worked out that insecurity (or feelings thereof) heightened my jealosy. I have come to terms with it, although it's not 100% gone.

A while ago, a regular was on AW (she no longer is)and every time I read new feedback ( which was also consistently full of praise) I actually felt good - for her and for me (like " atta girl" sort of feeling). She also gave me a couple of very positive feedbacks, which added to the feelgood feeling about the whole thing.

I am a critic of some elements of the AW feedback system e.g some girls won't see you unless youv'e got so many and good etc. However, having posted an FR on PN, you don't get mutual feedback.

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Only once did I feel jealous. I'd formed an inappropriate fondness for a girl and reading about how some swinging dick had banged her up the arse was unpalatable.

But otherwise, no. I want to see them all get good reviews.

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A fascinating thread and a problem I reckon is fairly widespread if not widely talked about. Several girls of my acquaintance have told me stories of clients becoming hugely over-possessive to the extent of stalking etc. Not everyone knows where the line is drawn.

Turning the thread around slightly, do WG's get jealous/possessive of their punters when they see other girls? I have had this happen on a couple of occasions. I saw my regular girl through an agency some years ago but when she was unavailable I booked one of her colleagues. The next time I saw my regular girl she said she had seen evidence of the booking & made it clear in no uncertain terms of her disappointment - dismissing the girl I had seen in the most coruscating terms. I was genuinely taken aback.

The second occasion was again via an agency. I had literally seen a girl just twice and rang to book her again. She was ill and hence unavailable. The guy at the agency offered me a choice of several other ladies and assured me "I won't breathe a word to Miss X". Finding the statement quite bizarre I asked him what he meant - only to be told that the girl in question had made him promise he would not allow me to see anyone but her. On this occasion I have to admit to being flattered as she was a really nice young girl, very attractive & great fun to be with. Flattered but still surprised.

So - is it only punters who get attached or jealous or is it the girls as well?

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I would say that in most cases its possable for us to get a bit jealous, either way, that way its best to play the field and not only have one parlour we go too, or escort that we see, thers are many wonderfull escorts out there, and to search and find others is a great way of keeping things fresh and not getting too attached.

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I can understand why you would get a bit jealous but personally i don't allow myself to be attached and that's probably why i could care less. I rely on punters feedback to help me with my choice so rather then get jealous i use these reviews to my own advantage. I like helping out girls with feedback and will always leave some if i feel they deserve it. I don't mind if they return the feedback but in general they usually do. About girls getting jealous/possesive, i had this once with a wg in amsterdam who said i'd been cheating on her but i'm pretty sure it was in jest. If she was serious she was deluded.

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Up until a few months ago, I would have thought anyone getting jealous about a WG was just plain stupid. But I did recently find myself getting overly fond of a girl, so I'm much more sympathetic now.

It's a potentially dangerous combination when you have great sex and you find you really like her as a person as well.

I found myself thinking about her far too much when not on a punt with her, our post-coital chats were starting to get a bit too personal, she told me her real name and gave me her private mobile number etc. Fortunately she moved away and the temptation was removed. I gave myself a slap and fucked a couple of other ladies, and I'm much better now......

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Hi everyone I know I should now better having been punting for 8 years now but I some times feel a bit jealous when I see read feedback from other punters of my regular lady. Does anyone else ever get the green eyed monster or is it just me getting all soppy?

Occupation Hazard. It happens, it hurts. I live with it coz I know he was a wanker!

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I don't think there is anything wrong with getting a bit jealous - it's a basic human trait albeit not a very nice one. Just as long as you don't do anything about it. We all get a little jealous at times but hey we are human aren't we? We might not be responsible for our feelings but we can recognise them.

Edited by Sarah Summers

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Hi all glad I'm not on my own and yeah should move on but like Bendy said I was finding the post match chat was where the attraction was really building up and I think that was where the jealousy comes from. But I guess you live and learn.

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