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Fingering a working girl, yay or nay?

What are the risks? Is it a norm like giving oral (to the punter) or a little rarer?

How should it be done? Should the punter ask first or probe and slip in?

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Don't know about the risks but if i'm doing BB then a finger in & quick sniff is a must for me, even if i'm going in protected I still like to get a finger or two in & feel the wetness, its such a turn on for me & I always ask first, a WG I visited a couple of weeks ago said she didn't mind me playing with her clit but fingering was a no no!

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if i'm doing BB then a finger in & quick sniff is a must for me

Because, of course, that'll protect you.

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Because, of course, that'll protect you.

Duh :rolleyes: I know it won't, nowt worse than going home from a punt with the wedding tackle smelling like a kipper.

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Duh :rolleyes: I know it won't, nowt worse than going home from a punt with the wedding tackle smelling like a kipper.

But you don't mind it starting to ooze a few days later? Or rotting off?

The mind boggles

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Trim your nails, be scrupulously clean, be gentle you are not making a porn film. one lady I see has always declined finger until recently, now shudders with pleasure.

"nowt worse than going home from a punt with the wedding tackle smelling like a kipper". Understand this too, though only experienced this once with a WG. which was a non runner as it put me right off.

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This has been variously debated in many other threads, but I'd say it's rather impolite to just go in. After all, it's the lady's choice whether she wants to allow what is essentially one of the dirtiest parts of the body (even after washing) into one of the most delicate parts of her own. Add in fingernails and the possibility of being nicked internally, and you'll see why many turn it down, even if it feels very nice.

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As fingering a very wet fanny was probably for most of us (way back in the day for us old uns anyway) our first regular sexual experiences, often with a girl you'd only just been snogging at a party for a few minutes, this is a tremendous turn on for me and I really appreciate it if the lady is ok with it. I do understand now the hygiene thing but it just didn't seem the issue in our youth. But certainly you should make sure it's a yes before just sticking a finger in, and as ever follow the lady's lead. Oh and sniffing that finger for hours after ....... takes me back all those years!

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Agree with Frank that fingering a pussy recalls early sexual encounters.

I normally find that if (when) my hand strays that way a lady will make it very obvious she's accommodating to fingering. Also, have been told "only one finger" before now but never had a lady who said no fingers. Obviously trimmed nails and pre punt hygiene are paramount.

Maybe I should ask verbally but I believe it's possible to "ask" with your hands without just diving in.

Also had a punt once where a lady didn't have a cervix, far too polite (and way off limits) to say anything but quite obvious what she'd had done. Later, as dressing, she dashed to the loo and said she needed to pee more as she'd had a hysterectomy. Again far to polite to say/do anything other than nod head. Felt it was one of those mind my own business moments but afterwards though as it was the lady that mentioned it maybe it was a cue for me to comment. Being brought up with whispered conversations when Mum and her lady friends talked about lady problems and who'd had it "all took away" I always knew there was no place for a man in these conversations.

DG

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It really ought to be renamed as something less harsh, and it ought to be on both the AW likes and the all new, proposed PN database! :)

Suggestions for a term for it?

Personally I love it, me laying alongside the lady, my two fingers playing with her G spot,possibly my thumb on her clit.

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How do you not have a cervix? I know its a muscle and reduces in size when in labour.... but.... exaun please.

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How do you not have a cervix? I know its a muscle and reduces in size when in labour.... but.... exaun please.

She'd had a full hysterectomy which removed her cervix.

DG

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Fingering is something I very much enjoy when it is done by a man who either is skilled or is open to listening to how I like it done. It can be both one of the best or the worst parts of a sexual encounter. Clean finger nails that are well manicured are essential.

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She'd had a full hysterectomy which removed her cervix.

DG

I don't have a cervix either following a full hysterectomy. Its one hell of an asset in this job I can tell you. Meant I could take it a lot deeper without struggling or pain and no monthlys to worry about either. With regards to fingering be careful with those nails. I got my eurethra sliced once with a finger nail, he had latex gloves on too and didn't even spilt the glove, but as I was very aroused at the time there was blood everywhere and two weeks off work for me while it healed.

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I don't have a cervix either following a full hysterectomy. Its one hell of an asset in this job I can tell you. Meant I could take it a lot deeper without struggling or pain and no monthlys to worry about either. With regards to fingering be careful with those nails. I got my eurethra sliced once with a finger nail, he had latex gloves on too and didn't even spilt the glove, but as I was very aroused at the time there was blood everywhere and two weeks off work for me while it healed.

Holly

I know you didn't imply otherwise but just to be clear: it didn't bother me at all that the lady didn't have a cervix, why should it? I just felt a little awkward when she mentioned her hysterectomy and didn't feel I could say "yes, I noticed" or such.

I can well imagine there are some +ve's for a WG, hadn't thought about it like that but obvious really.

DG

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Slow and careful wins the day, no 3/4-finger full frontal attacks

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Slow and careful wins the day, no 3/4-finger full frontal attacks

Pinky first!

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I haven't tried this on any of my punts so far, but I would like to give it a go. The problem is I have a horrible habit of biting my nails and the skin around them. So although my nails are always short, they can be a bit rough/raggy and I don't want to hurt the girl!

I pointed them out to the last lady I saw and she suggested I should get a manicure - smooth everything down, get rid of all the rough skin etc. Can't really picture myself getting a manicure :D But I'll need to make an effort in the weeks leading up to my next punt to leave my fingers alone. Might even have to get some of that foul tasting stuff you put on kids nails to stop them biting them!

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My favourite is with the lady still wearing her knickers, sliding my hand into her knickers and then inserting first one and then two into her (lubricated) pussy.

I suppose it reminds me of the first fumbles I had with various girlfriends.

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Don't know about the risks but if i'm doing BB

why even bother lol

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But you don't mind it starting to ooze a few days later? Or rotting off?

The mind boggles

mine is also in full boggle now this morning x

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Please do ask first! And try not to be too put off if a lady says no thank you--vaginas are such delicate places that having new organisms introduced via your fingers or nails can be far more unpleasant than you might think.

I have no hard and fast rules on fingers or no. I prefer to be asked first, and from there the decision is actually based on how my insides are coping with life at that moment. During different parts of a woman's cycle, she might be more sensitive to an upset of her floral balance. You wouldn't want to leave her with itching or burning as a reminder of your visit, now would you? The tiny critters under your fingernails love that warm wetness just as much as you do, unfortunately, and will take any chance they get to move in and set up shop.

It's unbelievable how delicate and intricate one's lady bits are. It's a fascinating part of the body, but one we definitely want to keep happy!

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Omg! I had a client yesterday who after seconds of hitting the bed tried to put his full hand inside me!!!!! When I asked him how many fingers he was trying to insert he just laughed.

I'm glad to say I don't get many like this, but it can be really annoying when you have to stop precedings every 5 minutes to tell them that they are hurting you and no where near an erogenous zone.

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Omg! I had a client yesterday who after seconds of hitting the bed tried to put his full hand inside me!!!!! When I asked him how many fingers he was trying to insert he just laughed.

I'm glad to say I don't get many like this, but it can be really annoying when you have to stop precedings every 5 minutes to tell them that they are hurting you and no where near an erogenous zone.

I've never done fisting and doubt I ever will considering the size of my hands. Not something I'm really interested in doing either.

DG

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Omg! I had a client yesterday who after seconds of hitting the bed tried to put his full hand inside me!!!!! When I asked him how many fingers he was trying to insert he just laughed.

I'm glad to say I don't get many like this, but it can be really annoying when you have to stop precedings every 5 minutes to tell them that they are hurting you and no where near an erogenous zone.

Yes you do seem to get the odd bloke that thinks trying to wear you like a glove puppet is sexy!

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