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I've always had a bath before setting off to visit a lady. Even though I've sometimes arrived hot (and a bit sticky), my deodorant has always served me well, and I've never been asked to have a shower before the meeting starts.

Trouble is, I hate showers, and I've always been a 'bath person'. Admittedly a bath takes time to run but, that aside, I can be in and out of a bath just as quickly as anyone using a shower. My question is, do the majority of ladies only offer a shower, or would the asking of a bath not go down well, or seem as an inconvenience?

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I've always had a bath before setting off to visit a lady. Even though I've sometimes arrived hot (and a bit sticky), my deodorant has always served me well, and I've never been asked to have a shower before the meeting starts.

Trouble is, I hate showers, and I've always been a 'bath person'. Admittedly a bath takes time to run but, that aside, I can be in and out of a bath just as quickly as anyone using a shower. My question is, do the majority of ladies only offer a shower, or would the asking of a bath not go down well, or seem as an inconvenience?

All you have to do is ask. Some ladies of course won't have a bath available, but if they have I'm sure they would be happy to oblige. Why not get her to assist you or even better join you?

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I've always had a bath before setting off to visit a lady. Even though I've sometimes arrived hot (and a bit sticky), my deodorant has always served me well, and I've never been asked to have a shower before the meeting starts.

Trouble is, I hate showers, and I've always been a 'bath person'. Admittedly a bath takes time to run but, that aside, I can be in and out of a bath just as quickly as anyone using a shower. My question is, do the majority of ladies only offer a shower, or would the asking of a bath not go down well, or seem as an inconvenience?

I doubt it. I can start the shower running, get in, wash all over, get out and be dried in less than 5 mins. In most places it takes more than 5 mins to fill the bath.

I love a bath, but for speed and efficiency the shower wins every time.

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I doubt it. I can start the shower running, get in, wash all over, get out and be dried in less than 5 mins. In most places it takes more than 5 mins to fill the bath.

I love a bath, but for speed and efficiency the shower wins every time.

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Drip....drip...plop

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I'd be slightly surprised, but likely not miss a beat, if a gentleman asked to take a bath instead of a shower. You'd be more than welcome. Never hurts to ask. :)

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I prefer a shower at home rather than a shower and 5 minutes does cover it including cleaning everything. The bath does take longer and I usually only have a bath when I want to use the jacuzzi facility.

On the occasions when I will need to get rid of the "evidence" before returning home I akways enquire about this before confirming the booking. Up to now I have always been able to gave a shower either in a seperate shower or one were I have to stand in the bath.

I personally would always have a shower out of courtesy to the lady unless she made it clear that time was not a problem. If bath was the only option then in and out faster than Usaain Bolt.

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I always have a shower before I leave home and when I arrive at the girl's place. I noticed that the last lady I saw had a jacuzzi function on her bath and I asked if she ever joins any of her clients in it. She said she did and suggested we could try it the next time I came to see her.

I think I'll take her up on her offer and ask her to have it ready when I arrive the next time if possible. I always take so long to get showered and dried, which is all time I could be spending with her. If we both hop into the bath together at the start of the booking, instead of me taking a shower, I'll make the most of my time with her :D

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I tend not to do short meetings with my fave Lady, so very often a bath is the order of the day - before, during and at the end of our meetings. Occasionally solo, usually together, but always a big part of the entertainment. I arrived straight from work a couple of days ago, to find the bath run, ready for me to jump in - after a little welcome smooch of course.With a glass of Champagne and the Lady in question sitting chatting to me, looking a million dollars and being ever more suggestive, it made for a great prelude to a brilliant meeting.

Just remembering what happened next - i need to go take a shower :D

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One of the many happy lasting memories I have is of the occasion when I had to have a bath because, at the end of the session, the lady had unexpectedly treated me to my first experience of watersports. Being in the bath with her shampooing my hair etc was very pleasant. :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

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I rarely find I feel I have time for such a luxury as a bath ( particularly with the lady)so I max the time alloted with her and dive into the shower for a quick sluice and remove the evidence for the prosecution.

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I doubt it. I can start the shower running, get in, wash all over, get out and be dried in less than 5 mins. In most places it takes more than 5 mins to fill the bath.

I love a bath, but for speed and efficiency the shower wins every time.

Agreed, but that is why I included "That aside", meaning that I can be in and out in 5 mins once the bath is run.

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I haven't had a bath for the best part of 30 years, it just makes me cringe.

I have a long shower before leaving home then a freshen up at the lady's place.

I've only done less than a handful of parlour visits and find showering in parlours more awkward considering the synchronised door dancing to and from the room sometimes. Also was encouraged to just start a punt once because another guy was already in the shower. Expect a parlour bath would usually be right out of the question.

I like to be fresh for my own confidence as well as for the lady I'm with. Would certainly kill my passion if I even thought I had a whiff about me so I've started to always check I can shower when I book.

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Just remembering what happened next - i need to go take a shower :D

I trust you set the tap to COLD!

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I've only done less than a handful of parlour visits and find showering in parlours more awkward considering the synchronised door dancing to and from the room sometimes. Also was encouraged to just start a punt once because another guy was already in the shower.

A few moths ago, not long after I had started this hobby, I thought about trying a parlour but instead decided to experience the personal touch for a while. Since then I've read a lot of comments in these pages about parlours as a result of which it's slipping down my bucket list.

I've probably got it completely wrong and people will point out the advantages to me but it does seem to be a soulless conveyor belt system . This is not a comment on the actual service that is received from the lady once proceedings commence but the system itself.

Walk in. Pay receptionist. Sit in waiting room. Enter exercise room. Check price (with extras). Pay lady. I thought it was shower in each room? Enjoy the time. Next please.

Having said all that I can see myself visiting a parlour within the next few months because I'm curious. How do you know whether you like the food if you haven't tried it?

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I've always had a bath before setting off to visit a lady. Even though I've sometimes arrived hot (and a bit sticky), my deodorant has always served me well, and I've never been asked to have a shower before the meeting starts.

Trouble is, I hate showers, and I've always been a 'bath person'. Admittedly a bath takes time to run but, that aside, I can be in and out of a bath just as quickly as anyone using a shower. My question is, do the majority of ladies only offer a shower, or would the asking of a bath not go down well, or seem as an inconvenience?

A shower is more usual than a bath simply because its instant to have one rather than running a bath. Of no interest to me but some WGs offer a soap and suds service where its part of the whole service they offer to run a bath and join the punter in it.

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A few moths ago, not long after I had started this hobby, I thought about trying a parlour but instead decided to experience the personal touch for a while. Since then I've read a lot of comments in these pages about parlours as a result of which it's slipping down my bucket list.

I've probably got it completely wrong and people will point out the advantages to me but it does seem to be a soulless conveyor belt system . This is not a comment on the actual service that is received from the lady once proceedings commence but the system itself.

Walk in. Pay receptionist. Sit in waiting room. Enter exercise room. Check price (with extras). Pay lady. I thought it was shower in each room? Enjoy the time. Next please.

Having said all that I can see myself visiting a parlour within the next few months because I'm curious. How do you know whether you like the food if you haven't tried it?

You make some sweeping assumptions, for someone who has not yet tried a parlour.

If you believe the parlour experience to be like a production line, does it not occur to you that the 'personal touch' you refer to is an illusion ? Or do you believe that the lady/ladies you visit have you as their ONLY client of the day ? In a sense, you are just one punter on their 'production line' on that day. Their skill is in making you feel special, and I've met women in parlours who have that knack too.

Going to an independent lady may also have it's own mundane routine to carry out before you get to the naughty stuff, e.g.

Pay for internet access. Log on to punternet. Sit in front of PC / Laptop. Check FR'S for inspiration. Check price (with extras). Travel to service provider. Pay lady.

Enjoy the time etc

She might make you feel like you're her only client. But once you're out the door, she'll have other clients that day.

Try not to be a punting 'snob' and don't knock parlours before you've even tried 'em !

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A few moths ago, not long after I had started this hobby, I thought about trying a parlour but instead decided to experience the personal touch for a while. Since then I've read a lot of comments in these pages about parlours as a result of which it's slipping down my bucket list.

I've probably got it completely wrong and people will point out the advantages to me but it does seem to be a soulless conveyor belt system . This is not a comment on the actual service that is received from the lady once proceedings commence but the system itself.

Walk in. Pay receptionist. Sit in waiting room. Enter exercise room. Check price (with extras). Pay lady. I thought it was shower in each room? Enjoy the time. Next please.

Having said all that I can see myself visiting a parlour within the next few months because I'm curious. How do you know whether you like the food if you haven't tried it?

A good Parlour WG like Alex ex of the Bunny Lounge now Indie as Chelsea of St Albans or was recently offered me as good a service as most Indies, its all about attitude not necessarily where they work. The set-up was only one WG working per day so no meeting other punters not that that bothers me as i like the party scene, but all my bookings started late, anything from 10-30 minutes late which doesnt happen as much with Indies in my experience. Also many good or better Indies i have punted with started out in parlours.

The cost put me off the Bunny Lounge as it was £180 an hour including kissing and OWO, in no way competitive with Indies in the area offering like for like services. As a punter i have no idea how many punters any WG really punts with so all a parlour does is make it more likely the WGs working at them punt as much as they can on the day/s they work their to make a good amount that includes agreeing to paying the parlour at least a third of their fees, so they want to make at least some of that back by getting punters in. As i couldnt care less if a WG punts with 3 or 33 punters before me as long as i get a good service i happily punt at parlours if the price and location are convenient. A Parlour used to offer a basic service at low cost, in and out and on to the next punter and only those wanting what were then classed as extras like kissing or OWO paid the extras so it was fair enough then, the thing is now at least in my area even their basic cost is too high so if you add in the extras is far too much for me to consider. The thing is HODs 1 and 2 right slap bang in Central London offer an all in rate including all the services the WG offers as advertised on her profile excluding anal for £130 an hour so an incredible £50 an hour cheaper than TBL and i assume they make a decent profit. Just illustrates the greed of TBL and many London Agencies who lowest prices are £150 an hour. :)

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It alwatys suprises me the cost of a parlour in London.

Here in the North west, good parlours are £50 for 30 minutes with owo and kissing included,

Its cheaper to see 2 ladies for 30 minutes each, than it is for a booking with an escort.

So if you want a booking with a gfe and another with a pse style, then their is no choice really.

As for the conveyour belt style mentioned, yes it is more who visit the parlour than the escort, but if you join in the parlour experiance of mingling with the girls and punters, its a great way to realise the girls are there to entertain, whereas with the escortat £150an hour its more intimate and 1-1 feeling, but when you walk out of the door you know that its business done same as when visiting a parlour, nothing personal but its a business.

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I'll have a bath at home before setting off and then a quick shower when I get there if needed.

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Some years ago I was visiting an Oriental lady in London.

On arrival I was shown to a bathroom and a prepared bath full of clean warm water.

I was then introduced to the pleasures of being bathed by a beautiful girl.

While I was recovering from this pampering, she drained the bath, washed it and refilled it.

Off to bed, after sex I was led back to the bath, this time bubble bath scented of Jasmine had been added and I was requested to enter the warm water. This time she joined me and asked that I wash her, while she washed me!!!!!!

More clean warm towels and then we were back in bed :D

It's been a while since I've managed a second round, no problems this time, and then...

...Off for a shower together :D

So if the OP wants a shower, why not ask in advance and the water can be ready.

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Well, Corus Boy, if any post was designed to make me, and I am sure others, envious of you then this was the one.

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It alwatys suprises me the cost of a parlour in London.

Here in the North west, good parlours are £50 for 30 minutes with owo and kissing included,

Its cheaper to see 2 ladies for 30 minutes each, than it is for a booking with an escort.

So if you want a booking with a gfe and another with a pse style, then their is no choice really.

As for the conveyour belt style mentioned, yes it is more who visit the parlour than the escort, but if you join in the parlour experiance of mingling with the girls and punters, its a great way to realise the girls are there to entertain, whereas with the escortat £150an hour its more intimate and 1-1 feeling, but when you walk out of the door you know that its business done same as when visiting a parlour, nothing personal but it is a business.

Thank you Spklors for your response. As you say it's a business and I have mentioned in previous posts that I know it's a business. When the door opens you are transported (hopefully) to a wonderful world for an hour or two but when the door closes behind you and you come back to reality you have to accept that it is only business. Very dangerous to think otherwise for many reasons. The lady is doing a job. It's a very pleasurable job as far as we men are concerned but it is only a job and nothing more. Friendly but not friends. I'm happy with that.

As i said in my post "I can see myself visiting a parlour within the next few months because i'm curious. How do you know whether you like the food if you haven't tried it? As we are both in the north and it would therefore seem sensible to visit a parlour in this area perhaps I might pm you in the new year to pick your brains and experience?

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A good Parlour WG like Alex ex of the Bunny Lounge now Indie as Chelsea of St Albans or was recently offered me as good a service as most Indies, its all about attitude not necessarily where they work. The set-up was only one WG working per day so no meeting other punters not that that bothers me as i like the party scene, but all my bookings started late, anything from 10-30 minutes late which doesnt happen as much with Indies in my experience. Also many good or better Indies i have punted with started out in parlours.

The cost put me off the Bunny Lounge as it was £180 an hour including kissing and OWO, in no way competitive with Indies in the area offering like for like services. As a punter i have no idea how many punters any WG really punts with so all a parlour does is make it more likely the WGs working at them punt as much as they can on the day/s they work their to make a good amount that includes agreeing to paying the parlour at least a third of their fees, so they want to make at least some of that back by getting punters in. As I couldn't care less if a WG punts with 3 or 33 punters before me as long as I get good a service i happily punt at parlours if the price and location are convenient. A Parlour used to offer a basic service at low cost, in and out and on to the next punter and only those wanting what were then classed as extras like kissing or OWO paid the extras so it was fair enough then, the thing is now at least in my area even their basic cost is too high so if you add in the extras is far too much for me to consider. The thing is HODs 1 and 2 right slap bang in Central London offer an all in rate including all the services the WG offers as advertised on her profile excluding anal for £130 an hour so an incredible £50 an hour cheaper than TBL and i assume they make a decent profit. Just illustrates the greed of TBL and many London Agencies who lowest prices are £150 an hour. :)

Thanks for the information Smiths. Some very good comments with which I'm sure a lot of people will agree.

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Off to bed, after sex I was led back to the bath, this time bubble bath scented of Jasmine had been added and I was requested to enter the warm water. This time she joined me and asked that I wash her, while she washed me!!!!!!

My fear would be arriving home still carrying the "scent of Jasmine". How would I explain it?

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You make some sweeping assumptions, for someone who has not yet tried a parlour. :huh:I did say, quite clearly, in my post "I've probably got it completely wrong and people will point out the advantages to me".

If you believe the parlour experience to be like a production line "it does SEEM to be a soulless conveyor belt system"., does it not occur to you that the 'personal touch' you refer to is an illusion ? Of course it's an illusion. :D One of the reasons I, and others, punt is to get away from reality for a while Or do you believe that the lady/ladies you visit have you as their ONLY client of the day ? Is that a serious comment? If I was they would have to charge a hell of a lot more than they do in order to pay the bills ! :confused: In a sense, youI are just one punter on their 'production line' on that day. Their skill is in making you feel special,"I want to feel special. I want to feel AS IF I'm the only man in the world that they want to be with. " and I've met women in parlours who have that knack too. I'm sure you have.

Going to an independent lady may also have it's own mundane routine to carry out before you get to the naughty stuff, e.g.

Pay for internet access. Log on to punternet. Sit in front of PC / Laptop. Check FR'S for inspiration. Check price (with extras). Travel to service provider. Pay lady.

Enjoy the time etc You don't look on the internet to check who is working and where?; you don't pay for your internet? (you've got it because you are using it on here); you don't log on to punternet?you stand in front of your pc?; you don't check the details of the ladies in the parlour?; Price is not a consideration? You don't have to travel to the parlour? is it next door?; You don't pay the lady?; You presumably do enjoy the time? On most occasions anyway?

She might make you feel like you're her only client. But once you're out the door, she'll have other clients that day. Of course she has. Please refer to the above.

Try not to be a punting 'snob' and don't knock parlours before you've even tried 'em ! I can assure you, quite seriously, that the word "snob" has never been used in respect of me. Going back to my post "Having said all that I can see myself visiting a parlour within the next few months because I'm curious.How do you know whether you like the food if you haven't tried it".

I read your post about 4 hours ago originally and have then looked at it again another couple of times whilst considering my response. I obviously felt a little annoyance as you can tell but I don't (usually) do knee jerk reactions to things like this and haven't done so in this instance. My posts, as you may know, do range from being very serious to downright silly. But before posting I consider what I have written for the appropriate time necessary. Some more than others.

From the timestamp on your post (00.55 this morning) and that my post was timed 12.47 yesterday it may be that you spent many hours considering your response and then waited until after midnight before doing so. I may be completely wrong but my assumption is that you came home, read the post, and composed an immediate response. One of the many reasons why I generally don't respond immediately is that after I have composed the post I like to read it as the other person will read it. In doing this I have quite often changed or omitted text from my original. I don't like or want to inadvertently anger or annoy anyone. This is a forum for exchanging thoughts and opinions and not for insulting other members. Because someone doesn't agree with me doesn't mean that they are wrong or that I am right. I can't remember ever changing my opinion completely after listening to someone else (I probably have but can't remember. That's age for you and for another topic) but I have on many occasions altered and amended my view because someone else has thought of a point that I hadn't considered.

I know that it's highly unlikely that punters on here will meet each other but we should, in my opinion, treat it as we have already met and therefore use the courtesy and respect that we normally use to a good friend with whose opinions we might occasionally disagree. The same thing applies with regard to the ladies of course. Respect and courtesy both ways.

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