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Wgs Falling For Punters?

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From what I have observed, a punter falling for a WG, developing unrequited feelings for her/getting jealous is usually frowned upon.

But has a WG ever fallen for, developed feelings for or gotten jealous over a punter?

Is that frowned upon?

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I think this has been discussed before, there is a thread on it somewhere. I believe one of the ladies admitted to having fallen for a client.

I've had a two separate situations where I have been asked by ladies if I would like to meet up outside of 'work' as it were. At the time I frowned upon it but looking back, I don't know why I didn't just do it. I guess I was afraid of other people finding out how/why we met.

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If the escort is captivated to the punter to the point of given them a great deal in terms of a next booking, then of course its not going to be frowned upon.

But if the punter is in a steady relationship, or married, then its the same as a punter developing a cruch on an escort, and if its not recipricated, then its best to avoid.

As for developing feelings, I think that to perform an act as intimate as sex on someone often, you cant help but develop some sort of feeling for them...be it good indiferant or bad, the feeling might not be enough to cause concern or worry, but the feeling will be there.

I have known many an escort or parlour worker who has met up with a client and go on to form a relationship, some times they last, other times they are very short lived.

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Wgs Falling For Punters?

It's the punting equivalent of a lottery win, and equally as rare.

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Wgs Falling For Punters?

It's the punting equivalent of a lottery win, and equally as rare.

I think its very far from being as rare as you claim

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There are ladies I have met who I liked so much that I want to or have returned. There are ladies I liked so much because of their personality and ability to converse that I would like to take them out for a meal or to the theatre. No sex. Just for the pleasure of being with someone I would enjoy being with. If I wasn't married or in a relationship I would, if the opportunity arose, do it without any further consideration. I know one should never say never but I, like many others, have been thousands of miles away from home and unexpectedly met someone who knew me. It's not playing with fire. It's playing with disaster.

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Wgs Falling For Punters?

It's the punting equivalent of a lottery win, and equally as rare.

I'd also add, that as far as a not insignificant portion of foreign wgs in this country are concerned, the 'lottery win' analogy is perfectly apt for their situation if the punter object of their 'true' affections happens to be comparatively well off, her feelings (real or not) are reciprocated genuinely, they end up dating, it gets 'serious', and eventually the whole affair culminates, for whatever requisite factors, in her garnering that British passport/long term UK residency visa that she's long been hankering for.

BINGO !!

JACKPOT !!!

:lol: :lol:

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Bill, it was an arch observation based upon a ghastly personal experience. I'm jaded, me.

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Over the years, I have met 2 ladies who made a big impression on me with their personalities and, yes, I would have liked to take it further, even if only for a drink, meal etc. They must have made a big impression elsewhere too, because both ended up marrying clients.

So, yes, it happens. I think timing and obviously the right person/ circumstances makes it possible.

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Bill, it was an arch observation based upon a ghastly personal experience. I'm jaded, me.

:(

you have my sympathies sir !

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Hi there,

Ohh that happens often. :) Only if the punt is not married than why not to have a naughty fantasy.

xxx

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Hi there,

Ohh that happens often. :) Only if the punt is not married than why not to have a naughty fantasy.

xxx

Now, don't you go falling for me, Nataly, I like our relationship just as it is...

:rolleyes:

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I've not fallen in love but have definately fallen in lust with more than a few.....

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I don't see anything wrong at all with this unless the guy is married and then it is a no no no situation.

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It happens all the time. It's difficult because as a provider you're aware that the client may have good reasons for having a 'professional' part-time girlfriend instead of a girlfriend proper, and it's not your place to mess around with that. But it can be navigated.*

*(almost a confession, but not quite!)

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I've not fallen in love but have definately fallen in lust with more than a few.....

The same for me... sometimes the chemistry is there, but you have to consider that work is work, and in the real world the benefits wouldn't be the same.

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Everyone falls for me, because i am such a charmer :P:lol:

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i have had wg\s fall for me quite a few times. if you all recall zara love, for example, who no longer advertises on the purple site she was calling me and texting straight after the first booking. she invited me out with her friends, she would come over to my house to shag me for free for a few weeks but she was a mental nut job, i couldnt walk with her in public bc she was too unpolished in her mannerisms.

but being in some of the FKK houses in central europe, i have girls asking me for my number all the time or facebook. of if they dont ask me for my number, i could see the genuine interest that the wg had me in at the time but mentally had to stop themselves from crossing the boundary. i have even dated a wg from maxes. i have heard stories from many other wg's during my booking of how they dated punters.

so i think it happens more than you think.

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From what I have observed, a punter falling for a WG, developing unrequited feelings for her/getting jealous is usually frowned upon.

But has a WG ever fallen for, developed feelings for or gotten jealous over a punter?

Is that frowned upon?

It happens and has to me but i told the truth and said i would never be faithful and wasnt a good bet on the relationship front. If people have a strong connection go for it and see what develops but be cautious because who knows what motives could be at play.

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i have had wg\s fall for me quite a few times. if you all recall zara love, for example, who no longer advertises on the purple site she was calling me and texting straight after the first booking. she invited me out with her friends, she would come over to my house to shag me for free for a few weeks but she was a mental nut job, i couldnt walk with her in public bc she was too unpolished in her mannerisms.

but being in some of the FKK houses in central europe, i have girls asking me for my number all the time or facebook. of if they dont ask me for my number, i could see the genuine interest that the wg had me in at the time but mentally had to stop themselves from crossing the boundary. i have even dated a wg from maxes. i have heard stories from many other wg's during my booking of how they dated punters.

so i think it happens more than you think.

Just an observation here you must be the first punter - well the firs I have seen in thread like these - admit that WGs (plural let alone singular) have fancied them.

I feel a bit envious ;) ...No seriously this has not happened to me.............................................................................yet.

I do not think I would want the attention tbh - even though at some level it would obviously be a compliment

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It happens all the time. It's difficult because as a provider you're aware that the client may have good reasons for having a 'professional' part-time girlfriend instead of a girlfriend proper, and it's not your place to mess around with that. But it can be navigated.*

*(almost a confession, but not quite!)

Ohhh Im honoured and flattered... But... I dont think it would work between us..Its not you, its me.... I know, I know..Im sexy and the ideal man....but your pain will pass in time and your feelings for me will die away....... there there.... you may find someone better... doubt it but you may.... :D

At the end of the day , we are still boys and girls... so why should it make a difference... but yes as a punter, its her call so I would never "make a move" which would make things awkward...

But Ive never been asked out or anything from a WG in all my years of punting...hmmm in a way thats a little depressing....

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Just an observation here you must be the first punter - well the firs I have seen in thread like these - admit that WGs (plural let alone singular) have fancied them.

I feel a bit envious ;) ...No seriously this has not happened to me.............................................................................yet.

I do not think I would want the attention tbh - even though at some level it would obviously be a compliment

well maybe i exxaggerated a bit. in terms of percentage of the many wg's i have seen, you are talking less than 1% success rate.

but i am just doing a cout in my head and i already hit 10x when i had the wg willing to cross the line, and there might be more, sexy rebecca from the purple site, the romainian from wembley was texting me for weeks to come see her again, but i never went back.. the absolute number is high for a punter, but relatively LOW considering how many girls i have punted.

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Its very common.I had an affair with a wg ,which she started - not me.And I am friends with two wgs whos boyfriends were once clients.

Wgs have the same emotions as any girl - and one of the most common places for any of us to find a new relationship is at work.

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the romainian from wembley was texting me for weeks to come see her again

It's called marketing, I believe.

Texts are the 21st Century's version of junk-mail.

You are a potential source of income. A 10p text that may bring in £££'s is good business practice, and nothing more, I'm afraid.

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but i am just doing a cout in my head and i already hit 10x when i had the wg willing to cross the line, and there might be more, sexy rebecca from the purple site, the romainian from wembley was texting me for weeks to come see her again, but i never went back.. the absolute number is high for a punter, but relatively LOW considering how many girls i have punted.

I shouldn't burst your bubble but that girl and the girls working with her represent everything wrong with punting. She's rude, she clock watches, ends the punt early, she offers bareback - wasn't advertised when I saw her or I wouldn't have seen her. There was one stage where she had to ban access to her AW feedback because it was mostly all negative. The place they worked at was a conveyer belt of men and they exerted no discretion. Her hygiene is questionable.

I'll go as far as to say she wanted money from you and that was it.

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