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My Perfect Ending

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Something so nice happened to me that I have to share it. I have written before on these pages that I consider the perfect ending to my meeting with a lady is when she says to me "if you're not in a rush to get away would you like to stay for a coffee and a chat?"

That would be the perfect ending. I couldn't imagine it being any better than that. Today I had THE perfect perfect ending. :)

I saw a lady for the second time yesterday afternoon the first time being four months ago. On each occasion I had booked for one hour and on each occasion had spent nearly three hours with the lady. On neither occasion did I expect or ask for this generosity and on each occasion the pleasure, for me at least, was immense. :) :) As on the first occasion I had to leave because I was going to the theatre (alone). :( Yesterday I had driven myself to the lady's home so I drove myself back to my hotel. On the first occasion I had gone to her home in a taxi so she drove me back to the hotel. :) I'm sure that you are getting the idea of how nice this lady is and also how well we got on.

I enjoyed my afternoon indulgence and also enjoyed the theatre so I went to my bed contented. This morning I arose, showered and dressed and then saw that there was a text on my phone. It was from the lady. "would you like to join me for breakfast?" For a millisecond I thought about it before texting my acceptance. The lady only lives a couple of miles from the hotel.

When I arrived I discovered that she had prepared a full english breakfast for us. All the trimmings that you would expect at a hotel but more so. Well cooked and very tasty. After enjoying the food we relaxed together on her settee (no naughty stuff) and chatted away. :)

We shared a very enjoyable hour before once again, at my instigation, having to take my leave for the long drive home. :( Even the inclement weather and hour long delay because of an accident on the motorway could not dampen my good humour.

It was such an unexpected surprise all the more so because she didn't have to do it. I knew and she knew that I would be seeing her again in a few months time. :) There was no suggestion either by her or me that it was anything other than breakfast and conversation. She isn't familiar with this site so she doesn't even know what the signature on my posts is. I have no illusions about it progressing to anything further. Business is still business. But when it seems that some people are put on this earth to make the lives of others a misery :angry: sometimes the clouds do part and the sunshine comes through to warm everything. :) I'll have to stop now because otherwise I'll ramble on and on.

I know that every one is different in what they are looking for from this business but surely everbody, whether man or woman, has an image in their mind of the perfect ending for them. My best wishes to everyone.

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You've had a delightful experience, but, IMHO, actually one that is not terribly unusual. The majority (if one excludes the EE "here for a month" girls, and the trafficked) of WGs working in the UK, actually like relating to other human beings, and seem to think that it is a good thing that they earn their livings by giving pleasure to others.

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Something so nice happened to me that I have to share it. I have written before on these pages that I consider the perfect ending to my meeting with a lady is when she says to me "if you're not in a rush to get away would you like to stay for a coffee and a chat?"

That would be the perfect ending. I couldn't imagine it being any better than that. Today I had THE perfect perfect ending. :)

I saw a lady for the second time yesterday afternoon the first time being four months ago. On each occasion I had booked for one hour and on each occasion had spent nearly three hours with the lady. On neither occasion did I expect or ask for this generosity and on each occasion the pleasure, for me at least, was immense. :) :) As on the first occasion I had to leave because I was going to the theatre (alone). :( Yesterday I had driven myself to the lady's home so I drove myself back to my hotel. On the first occasion I had gone to her home in a taxi so she drove me back to the hotel. :) I'm sure that you are getting the idea of how nice this lady is and also how well we got on.

I enjoyed my afternoon indulgence and also enjoyed the theatre so I went to my bed contented. This morning I arose, showered and dressed and then saw that there was a text on my phone. It was from the lady. "would you like to join me for breakfast?" For a millisecond I thought about it before texting my acceptance. The lady only lives a couple of miles from the hotel.

When I arrived I discovered that she had prepared a full english breakfast for us. All the trimmings that you would expect at a hotel but more so. Well cooked and very tasty. After enjoying the food we relaxed together on her settee (no naughty stuff) and chatted away. :)

We shared a very enjoyable hour before once again, at my instigation, having to take my leave for the long drive home. :( Even the inclement weather and hour long delay because of an accident on the motorway could not dampen my good humour.

It was such an unexpected surprise all the more so because she didn't have to do it. I knew and she knew that I would be seeing her again in a few months time. :) There was no suggestion either by her or me that it was anything other than breakfast and conversation. She isn't familiar with this site so she doesn't even know what the signature on my posts is. I have no illusions about it progressing to anything further. Business is still business. But when it seems that some people are put on this earth to make the lives of others a misery :angry: sometimes the clouds do part and the sunshine comes through to warm everything. :) I'll have to stop now because otherwise I'll ramble on and on.

I know that every one is different in what they are looking for from this business but surely everbody, whether man or woman, has an image in their mind of the perfect ending for them. My best wishes to everyone.

Good to read of such a great experience, i have been lucky enough to meet WGs who were really lovely myself. I tried to include a smiley but you exceeded the limit apparently.

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Good to read of such a great experience, i have been lucky enough to meet WGs who were really lovely myself. I tried to include a smiley but you exceeded the limit apparently.

Thank you Smiths. You should have seen the number of smileys I put on originally. Took me longer to remove them than to write the post. Non as big as the smile on my face.

As you know I've only been indulging for six months and I fully expected that much more experienced guys have also had similar experiences. But I just had to write about it not just for me to express my pleasure but because I know that the lady herself will read it. I know she won't acknowledge it's her but as long as she and I know that's all that matters.

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Thank you Smiths. You should have seen the number of smileys I put on originally. Took me longer to remove them than to write the post. Non as big as the smile on my face.

As you know I've only been indulging for six months and I fully expected that much more experienced guys have also had similar experiences. But I just had to write about it not just for me to express my pleasure but because I know that the lady herself will read it. I know she won't acknowledge it's her but as long as she and I know that's all that matters.

I remember doing my own thank you thread about Chloe and Natasha on here in 2009 after a fantastic 3some punt, what a great couple of gals. ;)

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Really happy for you and that things like this happen to nice people, like has been said before it does happen sometimes, that people appear to get on well and they strike up some sort of friendship.

It happens a bit more than we think, and some folk dont mention anything for fear of saying it, and others wanting to experiance the same, when at times its not appropriate.

But yes it can certainly put more than a step in your stride when it happens, and like you say it does not matter if nothing of a sexual nature takes place, you just feel so happy that someone thinks you are worth knowing.

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Just a point...you said in the first post she isn't aware of this site.....but then said she will read this thread :wacko:

So...are we to assume you actually made her aware...and she does indeed now know what your signature says?? :P

The big question really is though....did you skip the hotel breakfast or did you make it a "double breakfast" day??? :lol:

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I think a Field report is an absolute must here so that the lady concerned can bask in her well earned recognition.

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I decided to make a spreadsheet of (paid for) conquests. I am at around 115 now over the past 10 years. That sounds like not too many but that is only for the full monty or somethng close to it, not countless happy endings in between (in a number of foreign climes). I am currently in muppet love with two ladies, both gorgeous black girls.

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A very nice report. I was going to write story but it didn't look right. There are lots of lovely women out there as actually being a working girl is a caring profession and many do care for their clients.

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It really must be a hard one for the escorts to do, because on one hand they want to encourage and keep the clients they like, and yet not give away too much as it is a non friendship based industry that why we pay so much, to keep it on a business footing (most of the time) and yet to have someone round for breakfast as has happened with nothing sexual taking place is surely a bit risky, as it could easily ruin the relationship if either tries something that is not welcomed.

well done Gibbs, as some punters would see this as a sign that something else other than breakfast could be on offer, and also to the escort who risked losing a client, if her intentions were not read properly.

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Nice one Gibbs, proves there are some rare gems out there. In 27 years of punting the only breakfasts I have enjoyed are the ones at the DATY cafe - very tasty though, and low in calories!!!

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Just a point...you said in the first post she isn't aware of this site.....but then said she will read this thread :wacko:

She is now aware of this site. I think she will fit in well and like many of the ladies who frequent this site will make useful, interesting and entertaining contributions to this forum. She is not entirely convinced and is not a new member so it's no use searching to try and find her. Sorry to disappoint :P She doesn't, of course, have to be a site member to read this thread just to comment on it. so don't look for a lady to comment and try and work it out. :P

So...are we to assume you actually made her aware...and she does indeed now know what your signature says?? :PShe will know what my signature tagline is when she reads my post. I think it will please her to see that she gave me a nice surprise without having known my signature in advance. She already knows that i consider her desirable.

The big question really is though....did you skip the hotel breakfast or did you make it a "double breakfast" day??? :lol: You must have a mind like mine to come up with that one. I thought about telling you a lie but then decided that honesty is the best policy. As you are aware this was not my first visit to this locality and previously I had stayed in a hotel chosen for its proximity to the theatre rather than price or cuisine. On this occasion I spent the same amount but for two nights in a very superior guest house. First class in every way (and I've stayed in a wide variety of hotels and guest houses over the years) and family run. I usually only go for continental breakfast but on this occasion had advised the lady of the establishment the previous evening that I would definitely be having the full english breakfast. I didn't like to tell her I had changed my mind. So I ate it. When I arrived at the lady's home the full english breakfast she had cooked was even bigger. So I started eating. I managed to get almost all the way through it before having to concede defeat. It was only then that I saw realisation dawning on her face. "you've already had breakfast " she said in an incredulous voice. But with a big grin on her face. "Why did you not tell me. Why did you you eat two breakfasts?"

Because I didn't want to offend either you or the other lady. Her response was the shake of the head that all ladies give you when they are thinking "men!! what the hell do you do with them?"

I can hear the laughter from both the men and the ladies !!! :ph34r:

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I think a Field report is an absolute must here so that the lady concerned can bask in her well earned recognition.

Don't kid me. You're not interested in the FR. You just want the breakfast !!! :)

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Don't kid me. You're not interested in the FR. You just want the breakfast !!! :)

So long as it is vegetarian!

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It is a lovely story Gibbs but I can't help wondering if your initial perfect ending of being asked to stay for a coffee and a chat is expecting too much and you are blurring the lines between a service and a friend. Yes, friendship happens but usually over time and if anything, once the coffee/chat happens this will be expected on subsequent visits as well. All well and good if the lady has two hours for every one hour booking she gets but not all have this time available.

As for the breakfast, a lovely gesture no doubt but your kind lady sets herself up for clients believing there is more to it than there is. Because surely you would only get breakfast for free if she really really likes you. I know you personally said that you have no illusions about it progressing to anything further. Business is still business, but this is not necessarily so with some clients.

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You got the two breakfasts :cool:

Way to go!!! NOW i am VERY jealous :lol:

I would have done exactly the same. ^_^

I always remember when i was in my late teens living at home still, i had dinner before driving to my best mates house. His mum was kinda sexy and she always offered me a dinner. When she asked this time, and the dinner sounded very tasty, i just couldn't say no and kept my guilty secret :lol: I gotta say though....2 big dinners was tough going but i couldn't disappoint her ^_^

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It is a lovely story Gibbs but I can't help wondering if your initial perfect ending of being asked to stay for a coffee and a chat is expecting too much and you are blurring the lines between a service and a friend. Yes, friendship happens but usually over time and if anything, once the coffee/chat happens this will be expected on subsequent visits as well. All well and good if the lady has two hours for every one hour booking she gets but not all have this time available.

As for the breakfast, a lovely gesture no doubt but your kind lady sets herself up for clients believing there is more to it than there is. Because surely you would only get breakfast for free if she really really likes you. I know you personally said that you have no illusions about it progressing to anything further. Business is still business, but this is not necessarily so with some clients.

Gibbs does state that all this extra time wasn't expected. The trouble can come when or if the lady sticks to the booked time in future. Ladies often get on very well with the majority if not most of their clients, and although it's our job to make each client feel special, this can become difficult if we have several regulars who are asking us out for lunch, coffee, have a bit of social time off the clock or overrun consistently. It all just becomes a bit much and of course we see so many complaints about ladies not answering their phones, not being able to contact them - if they are socialising in their time between bookings they may not be able to take phone enquiries. A lady may worry about losing her client if she puts her foot down, and of course the client can experience feelings of confusion, rejection when she does.

I'd guess the lady in Gibbs story knows what she is doing and probably doesn't have an awful lot on at the moment.

That said I did meet with client-friend this week for coffee, he was at a loose end and I had an hour or two spare in which accepting a booking from a new client wasn't possible. He made it clear he wasn't after a punt and I just turned up like any old friend and cleared off when I had to. I did have other things to do but thought I can do those things later. I have known this person for a number of years however, have met at socials and there's a high element of trust based on this so we know the score.

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It is a lovely story Gibbs but I can't help wondering if your initial perfect ending of being asked to stay for a coffee and a chat is expecting too much and you are blurring the lines between a service and a friend. I'm sorry to say Pia that you have confused the words "expect" and "wish". I "wish" that at the end of the visit, if it is convenient, a lady would invite me to remain for a few minutes for coffee and a chat. But it's not an expectation even if it has occurred on a previous occasion. Depending on the lady I might not want to stay !!! :) Yes, friendship happens but usually over time and if anything, once the coffee/chat happens this will be expected on subsequent visits as well. Friendship does take time but I think you would agree that you can take an instant liking to someone. All well and good if the lady has two hours for every one hour booking she gets but not all have this time available. As long as I get the amount of time I have booked, however long that might be, then that is all I ask of a lady.

As for the breakfast, a lovely gesture no doubt but your kind lady sets herself up for clients believing there is more to it than there is. Other clients who may have been or will be as fortunate as myself may very well look at it differently from me. I would like breakfast next time as well. At the end of an overnight. Because surely you would only get breakfast for free if she really really likes you. I would have thought so. As I said previously there was no obligation on her part to do anything. I would still have gone to see her the next time I was in that locality. I know you personally said that you have no illusions about it progressing to anything further. Business is still business, but this is not necessarily so with some clients. You are absolutely correct in that I have personally no illusions. I have stated that fact in previous posts and also that I am realistic enough to know that business is business even when it's a very pleasurable business. Other clients may not think so but I cannot speak or be responsible for them. As a very nice lady once said to me "it's up to me to police the situation" and she is exactly right.

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Gibbs does state that all this extra time wasn't expected. Precisely.The trouble can come when or if the lady sticks to the booked time in future. As long as I get the time I have booked and paid for and also that the lady has provided the service we agreed on then how could I possibly have any complaint. Ladies often get on very well with the majority if not most of their clients, and although it's our job to make each client feel special, this can become difficult if we have several regulars who are asking us out for lunch, coffee, have a bit of social time off the clock or overrun consistently. It all just becomes a bit much and of course we see so many complaints about ladies not answering their phones, not being able to contact them - if they are socialising in their time between bookings they may not be able to take phone enquiries. A lady may worry about losing her client if she puts her foot down, and of course the client can experience feelings of confusion, rejection when she does. I remember a lady, very early in my indulging, who put her foot down, not too firmly, but it wasn't a problem because she did it so well that, to quote Arnold Schwarzenneger, "I'll be back".

I'd guess the lady in Gibbs story knows what she is doing and probably doesn't have an awful lot on at the moment. My booking was for 3.30pm. She had had someone in for an overnight and then another client in for an hour late morning. No bookings after me. The following morning she obviously had her phone on and a regular called whilst we were having breakfast She told him that she already had a two hour and a one hour session booked in for that day and that as he was aware she only normally had two clients a day but if he would call in the evening that would be fine. If I was a regular then that is the type of treatment I would appreciate.

That said I did meet with client-friend this week for coffee, he was at a loose end and I had an hour or two spare in which accepting a booking from a new client wasn't possible. He made it clear he wasn't after a punt and I just turned up like any old friend and cleared off when I had to. I did have other things to do but thought I can do those things later. I have known this person for a number of years however, have met at socials and there's a high element of trust based on this so we know the score. If I was a long way from home, which is quite often the case, I might take a chance on coffee or even a meal. There is a lady i would like to meet for a coffee and a cake but unfortunately she is too close to home unless it was by pure chance.

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I think this thread illustrates a couple of dilemmas concerning the sharing of information.

When writing an FR it is fine imo to indicate that an appointment overran a bit, as a way of indicating that the WG had a good attitude and approach etc. However, I have deliberately held back from disclosing the extent of overruns as I feel that can put the FR recipient (or person discussed in a thread on the forum) in a very difficult position. It would be all too easy for others to read of Gibbs' experience for example, and just think, "I'll have some of that" expecting all the extras that he was lucky enough to have received.

I would suggest that while it is a great story to share, and to learn about, that it is incumbent on Gibbs not to disclose her identity, however much others might like to know it.

P.S. I think you found a gem :)

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When writing an FR it is fine imo to indicate that an appointment overran a bit, as a way of indicating that the WG had a good attitude and approach etc. However, I have deliberately held back from disclosing the extent of overruns as I feel that can put the FR recipient (or person discussed in a thread on the forum) in a very difficult position. It would be all too easy for others to read of Gibbs' experience for example, and just think, "I'll have some of that" expecting all the extras that he was lucky enough to have received

I agree entirely. If I do mention in an FR that the encounter has over run I do try and keep it pretty vague for exactly the reasons you mention.

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I would suggest that while it is a great story to share, and to learn about, that it is incumbent on Gibbs not to disclose her identity, however much others might like to know it.

I can state quite categorically that there will never be an FR on this particular meeting. I don't punt as Gibbs. I only use the name Gibbs on this forum and have two identities for my own devious nefarious reasons. But in any event I will never reveal the lady's identity because I would not want to inflict on such a lovely lady the inevitable consequences.

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P.S. I think you found a gem :)

Just in case anyone is under the mistaken impression that I found a diamond I would have to say no. More like an emerald.

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I can state quite categorically that there will never be an FR on this particular meeting. I don't punt as Gibbs. I only use the name Gibbs on this forum and have two identities for my own devious nefarious reasons. But in any event I will never reveal the lady's identity because I would not want to inflict on such a lovely lady the inevitable consequences.

Oh, spoilsport...the queue would only stop the traffic for a few hours every day!!

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