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It is well known that WGs have a security buddy for when they do outcalls etc,

Do any guys have a similar system that someone else knows you got a "visitor" comming for a while?

Guys: do you discuss your punting exploits with any one else (not P/N linked) or do you keep it totaly to yourself?

SP

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It is well known that WGs have a security buddy for when they do outcalls etc,

Do any guys have a similar system that someone else knows you got a "visitor" comming for a while?

Guys: do you discuss your punting exploits with any one else (not P/N linked) or do you keep it totaly to yourself?

SP

I only do Incalls and would never book an Outcall to my home as it would break my security. I discuss my punting with a number of punters i know. I would strongly advise punters to be very very careful who they tell though.

I punted in complete isolation and secrecy from the 80s into the noughties.

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I only do Incalls and would never book an Outcall to my home as it would break my security. I discuss my punting with a number of punters i know. I would strongly advise punters to be very very careful who they tell though.

I punted in complete isolation and secrecy from the 80s into the noughties.

I have one simple rule.

1. Never tell anyone -ever

2. if in doubt rule 1 applies.

what I get up to has nothing to do with anyone IMHO. Except here where its anonymous.

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I enjoy overnighters and have a friend who is always willing to cover for me and say I am at his.

He has a little hobby that takes him away at times that his partner is not okay with, and I return the favour at times, in proving an alibi should the need occur.

It has never been called into practice, but I know where about he is and he knows where I am in need of an emergancy.

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I have one simple rule.

1. Never tell anyone -ever

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I've read a lot of posts on this board where experienced punters say you should never tell anyone, but surely it's all down to your own circumstances? As a still relatively-newbie, I've already told one friend of mine. In fact I told him about it over a few beers a couple of days after my first punt. I told him because he's the only person I know who would not judge me, and I trust him not to tell a single soul (at least, not anyone that matters to me). Plus it was a damn funny story and I knew it would give him a good laugh :D

I have no problem with this particular friend knowing. I'm single and with little family left, most of whom live abroad anyway - therefore have very little fear of exposure, should we ever have a major falling out and he decided to tell all our mutual friends. I'd just deny it anyway :wacko:

He has a little hobby that takes him away at times that his partner is not okay with

Ok, I'm curious - what's his hobby? Something his wife knows about but doesn't approve. Trainspotting? :lol:

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Yeh, and some punters don't even tell their wives! :D

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Yeh, and some punters don't even tell their wives! :D

Certainly not! She might put 2 and 2 together and realise her reduced housekeeping has nothing to do with austerity measures :)

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I've read a lot of posts on this board where experienced punters say you should never tell anyone, but surely it's all down to your own circumstances? As a still relatively-newbie, I've already told one friend of mine. I told him because he's the only person I know who would not judge me, and I trust him not to tell a single soul

Exactly. Depends on the circumstances. My best friend and I have been friends since before a lot of the ladies that I have seen were born. We were very young. He knows for the same reasons you state. He doesn't indulge although we did share a foursome a few months ago. If you are going to share the knowledge it's got to be with someone like that otherwise keep your mouth shut and make do with your memories. Risk assessment.

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It is well known that WGs have a security buddy for when they do outcalls etc,

Do any guys have a similar system that someone else knows you got a "visitor" comming for a while?

Guys: do you discuss your punting exploits with any one else (not P/N linked) or do you keep it totaly to yourself?

SP

I would not dream of entertaining even the ugliest escort at home. I quite like the look of my scrotum complete with a full complement of balls.

The only people who know of my punting are you lot; only about 1 of you know any more about me than that. And that's how it will stay.

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One strange upside of LMP is the conversations with the guys...I *can* tell them about punting!

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It is well known that WGs have a security buddy for when they do outcalls etc,

Do any guys have a similar system that someone else knows you got a "visitor" comming for a while?

Not a chance that a lady will ever visit my home. It would be the first step towards self destruction.

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Some sex acts attract groups, others are seriously solo. The fetish scene have parties and raves. We punters are solitary fellows. I doubt anyone would go to a punters ball similar to the Erotica crowd at Olympia this month(if any punters\working girls are going to Erotic I could be persuaded to buy them a sausage sandwich)

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A secret that I hope will go to my grave with me. Only me and the girls will ever know

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It seems most men don't tell anyone except maybe a very close friend (who you also have dirt on!) and that is what I have found in my experience chatting to clients (Not that I specifically ask this question, only know if they somehow bring it up).

However, I have had a couple of clients who work at the same place and one of them was telling me there's a crowd of about 15 of them who all punt and share experiences and that's how he came to find out about me! They all work together, some are closer than others and know each others wives from works functions. Pretty rare situation I'd guess! Although I gather soldiers tend to be pretty open to each other about punting.

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It depends on your circumstances, and your personality, I have told two mates, who are interested as most blokes would be. Other than that I keep it too myself.

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I never told or will tell anyone ever. The most I may have tweeted or posted that Im off on a punt but thats under my "overworked" moniker, but rarely say who it actually is anyway..

I want to keep my personal life, my punting life and even my forum "life" separate. (never met any punter posters and try not to punt with forum SPs, even when I have its when I didnt know they were on here. I just feel its too close for comfort.)

I know its risky as if I end up getting duped, stabbed and end up in a ditch...no one will ever know or come to help me.. Id just disappear... but then I also want my punting as separated from my personal life, my friends and family, my career as I can possibly make it.

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Although I gather soldiers tend to be pretty open to each other about punting.

You are right here, I think. <Would Gen David Petraeous have been OK if instead of having it away with his biographer under his desk, he'd gone punting?> If your life is/might be on the line, there is a rather basic urge to leave a sample of your genetic code somewhere warm & wet (even if in a condom) and I rather think to share that urge with mates.

I was asked by e-mail a couple of days ago if I still had any photographs taken on a leave visit to a far country long ago where we all happily shared time with local lassies. I'll send the scans off without any fear that they'll appear on Newsnight!

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Its a secret I intend to take with me to my grave. I just dont trust human beings with secrets.

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I personally would not tell anyone. Aside from the danger of a friend having a sudden and inexplicable falling-out with me (which has happened, because he wrongly thought something was going on between me and his wife) and dishing the dirt, I rather like having this naughty little secret.

Several married colleagues of mine are among the most grumpy gits you could ever meet, and I often wonder if the fact they are getting sex only 'on ration' at home has something to do with that. Regular and varied sex is the spice of life and I am not going to jeopardise that by telling people what fun I'm having !

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A secret that I hope will go to my grave with me. Only me and the girls will ever know

Plus the rest of us on here :ph34r: :ph34r:

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I never tell anyone, siituations can change, friends can fall out. No outcalls to home. If you were found out as a punter it's one of those delicious scandles that everyone will talk about and it will stick to you. You know how the media depicts the paid sex for scene, that will be what people think even though it's not the case.

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Once you tell somebody something - just one person, in the whole world - it's not a secret anymore.

My punting life is my dark secret, which I enjoy keeping.

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What's punting?

Since you subscribe to a Forum called "Punternet", I assume that this is a rhetorical question? Or even a philosophical/existential one -

"What is punting, but some dark, delicious secret...?"

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