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Sorry Babe I'm Busy Today

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If you want to meet one of your favorite Escort and got the reply like that, how does it sound to you? For me I don't see her at all if I get such reply.

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If she was a favourite escort then she would be very good at making me happy. If she was that good then I would expect her to be popular. So if I contacted her at short notice then I wouldn't be surprised if she said she was busy. No problem. Next time get in touch sooner.

p.s. as I said to Pamela Anderson when she tried to chat me up "don't call me babe".

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Um, are you suggesting that women clear their diary if you call them?! I'm trying to work out why a woman being busy that day would make you not want to see ehr ever again.

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So how would you like them to reply? Yes ok come see me but you might have to wait outside until I've finished with the guy who happened to book before you? Personally I would reply with what time do you have in mind? But if she is indeed busy at the time you want well that's life. Wgs do get other bookings ,doesn't matter how regular you are, you will not be the only guy that she sees.

It sounds like she is er busy and can't see you at that time...and?

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I'd like to claim to be surprised that ladies lewishamguy has met before suddenly decide they are "busy" when he calls to see them again but, having read some of his posts over the last few days, I sadly can't.

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If you want to meet one of your favorite Escort and got the reply like that, how does it sound to you? For me I don't see her at all if I get such reply.

A pity i would think then ring someone else, it wouldnt put me off ringing her if a favourite WG of mine in the future.

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Just sounds exactly what the obvious answer should be,"sorry but I'm busy today",it's what people say when they're fully booked...I can't see anything rude or off putting about it.

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Apart from anything she might be busy with other stuff, you know like have a life, family,partner, friends, study, hobbies, shopping to do, chores, sleep, etc etc.

Funnily enough we are not always free and when we're not it's not because we've squeezed in 98 clients into our day.

That or he's on her do not see list. If I tell annoying clients often enough I'm 'busy' they eventually go away.

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If you want to meet one of your favorite Escort and got the reply like that, how does it sound to you? For me I don't see her at all if I get such reply.

If I were you I think I'd fall on my sword before the ladies in particular use it to chop your naughty bits off.

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If she says like that ''Sorry I'm not feeling well today, can u call me back later'' it's reasonable & appropriate rather than ''Sorry Babe I'm busy today'' :) .

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If she says like that ''Sorry I'm not feeling well today, can u call me back later'' it's reasonable & appropriate rather than ''Sorry Babe I'm busy today'' :) .

That's a very odd distinction, if you don't mind my saying.

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I don't understand either - why would you rather a lady lied and said she was ill if she wasn't? :confused:

I can understand the objection to the 'babe' (which I share), but I don't see what's wrong with her being busy and politely saying so?

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I think what lewishamguy expected was a more personal reply . As she is his fav. escort he may think he is her fav. punter , but it doesn't work that way , I don't think . I have had similar feelings when not getting a booking I expected to get . It's better to move on when the thinking gets like this , as he says he wont see her again , but then if she is his fav. escort he would have to wouldn't he ?

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If you want to meet one of your favorite Escort and got the reply like that, how does it sound to you? For me I don't see her at all if I get such reply.

You must be mounted on the tallest horse in the World. You need to dismount.

She starts with "sorry" That's an apology it equates to being polite.

She calls you "babe" I like it when girlies do this WGs or otherwise, often gives me a semi...

She explains in a nondescript fashion, she doesn't have to but it is polite to do so.

So, unless you're the type of person who thinks people should be at your 'beck and call' without consideration that they are people with lives and with a job where they sell their time. What she said seems pretty reasonable.

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If you want to meet one of your favorite Escort and got the reply like that, how does it sound to you? For me I don't see her at all if I get such reply.

Was that by e-mail or by a text. or spoken to you over a phone call?

It sounds like it must of been a typed message or text to me.

As some have already said, she must of been busy so it was a no can do for meeting you when you asked her to.

Yes she was straight forward and did not fluff her answer up then, but that could be for many reasons.......like she was to busy too!

If she is a favourite of yours and you enjoy her company, maybe it would be best not to take offence at her brief way of saying no.

I am sure she never meant to offend you anyway and would be gutted to think you have taking it this way.

All the best.

Lucy :)

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Another punter who thinks he owns a girl because he paid for her time at some point... I think she's lucky to have put you off over such a triviality, you sound a bit unbalanced.

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If she says like that ''Sorry I'm not feeling well today, can u call me back later'' it's reasonable & appropriate rather than ''Sorry Babe I'm busy today'' :) .

Mate.

She's.

Just.

Busy.

As has been said above, perhaps she's going to the pictures or getting pissed with her mates. Same as you do.

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I've been there with my favourite lady and continue to see her. Would be spiting myself if I didn't.

Once she told me she was busy, I assumed that meant booked but busy can apply to literally anything. Another time she said she had real life plans - fine, WG's wouldn't have the will to live if they didn't have a real life too.

One thing we must accept is not to expect any more information/explanation than this unless proffered by the lady.

This topic reminds me a little of a question in Lara Brooks' FAQ's:

"I know you’re already booked, but if I pay extra will you cancel that client and see me instead?

Absolutely not. How would you like it if you were the client I cancelled to see someone else? "

Sorry, I can't do italic, bold or quote box on the iPhone.

I know you didn't mention paying more money as per Lara's question but first is first whether that's a punter or (as Southern man said) out with her mates or doing anything else in her real life.

DG

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I think shes being fair mate if shes busy shes busy right ?. If a mate of mine called me last minute for a drink and I already had something planned I would tell him, not going to drop my plans for him unless it was an emergency.

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If she doesn't have time available to give you an appointment, which could be for any reason it's just one of those things and this will be the situation at someone with anyone. It's a sign she has a life outside of seeing you, be it work, play or whatever. If you want someone who is always available at the time you request, well you are probably going to be changing your regular fairly regularly.

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There must be some really awful girls who are always available. Any recommendations? :unsure:

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I think shes being fair mate if shes busy shes busy right ?. If a mate of mine called me last minute for a drink and I already had something planned I would tell him, not going to drop my plans for him unless it was an emergency.

what if he was paying you 150 pounds an hour ?

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what if he was paying you 150 pounds an hour ?

Good shot, however you still need life-work balance dropping things, rushing home for a client when you have other things arranged, or bumping someone else can end in tears and frustration for both sides. He can't make it, she is constantly not able to relax or commit to other things. Not a good situation. Where possible it does make sense to give priority for regular clients, but there's a limit and we don't know what that other 'busy' thing is either. For all we know she could be hundreds of miles away, or be seeing another regular.

It's not always about the money and I'm sure he'd not like her to bump his appointment for another regular.

Edited by Strawberry

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Sometimes sorry is not enough, she should have shut out the rest of the world and gone running to see him, thats what escorts are there for right... :blink:

Get real sometime and see the world for what it is, the escort said Sorry, what can you expect at times, other people live lives that are away from the paid for sex world, and have family commitments that must come first.

Its suppossed to be about a fun time and making you happy, if it does not work out for whatever reason, try to see for what it really is.

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If she says like that ''Sorry I'm not feeling well today, can u call me back later'' it's reasonable & appropriate rather than ''Sorry Babe I'm busy today'' :) .

*Scratches head in confusion*!.

Sorry sweetie but I'm confused here. Would you want to her to lie and say she is ill if she isn't? Perhaps she is busy, maybe she had an appointment in her private life or had other clients. I know the message is short and sweet but then if she is really busy then thats the reason why. At least she responded, many don't. Would you want her to stop what she is doing especially for you as she is a favorite or is it the word Babe that upsets?

Edited by Holly Maddison

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