Dreamweaverman

Need advice on keeping rock hard and staying longer :-)

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I am having problem of keeping my private member rock hard and keeping it that way for long.

I am fine with OWO and other activities and I can go for hours riding the waves up and down to keep the pleasurable experience going for long without coming soon.

However, when I put the condom and try to have sex then all goes wrong. Especially anal sex is so difficult to keep going. I come very quick

All advice welcome.. What is the best solution to sort out this problem (food, medicine etc)

Many thanks

D

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I am having problem of keeping my private member rock hard and keeping it that way for long.

I am fine with OWO and other activities and I can go for hours riding the waves up and down to keep the pleasurable experience going for long without coming soon.

However, when I put the condom and try to have sex then all goes wrong. Especially anal sex is so difficult to keep going. I come very quick

All advice welcome.. What is the best solution to sort out this problem (food, medicine etc)

Many thanks

D

ONe poster here gave us a very good tip Durex Performa .condoms

Hope you are using them ??

www.kamagrafast.co.uk ,have the pills you are looking for .

There is a thread here about delay spray ointments etc

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ONe poster here gave us a very good tip Durex Performa .condoms

Hope you are using them ??

www.kamagrafast.co.uk ,have the pills you are looking for .

There is a thread here about delay spray ointments etc

I have tried Performa - know how it feels? Recall having an injection for a filling? - so numb and your dick feels like rubber. Orrible exerience.

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"dead puppies dead puppies dead puppies"

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I am having problem of keeping my private member rock hard and keeping it that way for long.

I am fine with OWO and other activities and I can go for hours riding the waves up and down to keep the pleasurable experience going for long without coming soon.

However, when I put the condom and try to have sex then all goes wrong. Especially anal sex is so difficult to keep going. I come very quick

All advice welcome.. What is the best solution to sort out this problem (food, medicine etc)

Many thanks

D

Condoms too tight. I used to get the same thing using Mates. Switched to durex which seemed "looser"

And makes sure its full "unravelled" otherwise the ravelled thick bit can stop the blood flow.

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The combination that works for me is a cialis tab and Durex extra safe condoms.

I commented on a previous thread how during one three hour session with a very lovely WG as part of a dinner date, this combo proved so effective that I could not cum at all. But I was rock hard the whole time and still enjoyed myself.

On advice (I think from SASfan), I will now back off to half a tab.

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i always wank at least 1hour before i leave home and take a kamagra pill straight away . Keeps me hard all though the hour and im able to fuck with a rock hard dick and not have to worry about cumming straight away

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Try Super Kamagra, it is a combination of Viagra and Dapoxetine which is a new drug not approved in the UK yet for treatment of Premature Ejaculation. I have tried it and despite the side effects which include head-ache, congestion and a bit of heart-burn it works. You take it a couple of hours before sex and you can control your orgasm - it's not the same as the desensitizers in that it works from the inside out.

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If you want to get something which you know to be 100% safe and legit - order it online via the lloydspharmacy website. There is an online consultation with their Dr., but just make it seem as if you really need it...

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Thank you for all the advice.

First I am going see the consultant before embarking on any medicine

I will try different Types/Size condoms

Keep fit and healthy by eating healthy foods and regular Gym and other activities

Many Thanks

D

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Going by what you said in the first post, you don't have a physical problem at all, it's either mental (sex is too exciting, makes you cum quickly) or technique.

I had / have a similar problem by the way - I regularly have great foreplay with WGs, but cum within a couple of minutes once the sex starts, when I'd like to go on for 20 or 30 minutes ideally!

Technique wise: there's an internal muscle (dunno its name, and I'm not sure it's the same as that PC muscle that controls ejaculation, but closely related) that feels like you can tighten it to make your erection harder, lift your dick up a bit if you have a full erection already. For me, tightening this muscle heightens sensations - for example if I'm masturbating, I usually need to tighten this muscle to cum.

Quite often when I'm actually fucking, I am sub-consciously tightening this muscle - maybe to make my erection harder. This is a big mistake though as it makes it all too exciting. The only time I last a long time is if this muscle is very very relaxed, the erection is fractionally softer like 95% instead of 100%.

More generally, to overcome the mental excitement, I find thinking about dead cats / dead puppies / Ann Widdecombe are all unhelpful, again the best technique is just to relax, not make a big deal about it, enjoy the ride, focus on the physical sensations.

It's easier for me to achieve both types of relaxation if I already had sex that day, so quite often now, I see two different WGs on the same day - last much longer with the second one. Though doggy position will still usually make me cum almost immediately, as it's my favourite :eek:

Hope that helps someone.

Read more about PC muscle and Kegel exercises:

http://uk.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html

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