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I know, I know ...... this has cropped up before but I've just had the most lovely series of email and phone calls with a couple of ladies I've booked with (separately!) over the next two weeks (incidentally the result of the first aw reverse booking I've ever done). In both cases they left me absolutely fired up and horny in anticipation for the booking and I feel like I know these ladies already. This is so much better than those who will only exchange a brief text or email or maybe a rather dull phone call. One of the ladies is EE but still had a lovely conversational manner with good English

The first is tomorrow evening and it's going to be a job not having a wank tonight just thinking about her :-)

Luckily I've never been disappointed when this has happened before

By the way, when I say foreplay I don't mean that was the specific purpose, just some lovely straight talk about what I wanted the booking to be

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I got the following by e-mail from one of my Ladies, yes I thought of it as foreplay:

'I will leave the front door open, you come in, lock the door and come upstairs. I will be laid on the bed with my negligee on.

We do not talk, you hand me the money, whilst you are getting undressed, I spread my legs showing you my waiting pussy. You come

to the bed and lick my pussy. The first time I speak is to tell you to finger me, or lick my clit. If you are good, I will get

very vocal and squirt.

After I have come, I will suck you off and you can spunk on my face'.

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I know, I know ...... this has cropped up before but I've just had the most lovely series of email and phone calls with a couple of ladies I've booked with (separately!) over the next two weeks (incidentally the result of the first aw reverse booking I've ever done). In both cases they left me absolutely fired up and horny in anticipation for the booking and I feel like I know these ladies already. This is so much better than those who will only exchange a brief text or email or maybe a rather dull phone call. One of the ladies is EE but still had a lovely conversational manner with good English

The first is tomorrow evening and it's going to be a job not having a wank tonight just thinking about her :-)

Luckily I've never been disappointed when this has happened before

By the way, when I say foreplay I don't mean that was the specific purpose, just some lovely straight talk about what I wanted the booking to be

I hope they turn out to be great punts. :) I rarely know until i wake up whether i want to punt or not so there is usually little bulld-up which suits me but i know many punters on here find the build-up adds greatly to a punt.

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Depends.

Brief explanation about what you are looking for, clothing, setting, activities, few pleasantries, mention some potential common interests absolutely great and stimulates the feel good factor. Start ping-ponging one-line emails or texts, going into huge details, requests for photos or telling her how horny you are "wanna do you right now" and most would be writing you off, and writing in another appointment in your place.

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Something seems wrong with the time and date filtering, as I've already posted this, it says I have, but it doesn't appear!

THis was sent by e-mail to me from one of my Ladies, just before our first meeting. I considered it foreplay:

'I will leave the front door open, you come in, lock the door and come upstairs. I will be laid on the bed with my negligee on.

We do not talk, you hand me the money, whilst you are getting undressed, I spread my legs showing you my waiting pussy. You come

to the bed and lick my pussy. The first time I speak is to tell you to finger me, or lick my clit. If you are good, I will get

very vocal and squirt.

After I have come, I will suck you off and you can spunk on my face'.

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Strawb. It wasn't like that trust me. I know what you mean

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I've had that happen. I sent an email to a lady asking to meet, your basic email I guess, and we had a brief exchange of emails to confirm all the details and confirm the booking. It may have been because it was late at night and she was in a horny mood, but after everything was confirmed we then had a very hot email and phone pic exchange detailing what we would do to each other. Completely unexpected and instigated by her. When we did meet in person all the naughty exchanges made for a lot of anticipation. After a few minutes of exchanging pleasantries and trying to act normal we jumped on each other and had one very hot sexual encounter with multiple orgasms enjoyed by us both. We've met for more fun together since, and more filthy email exchanges too. I hope your meeting will be just as fun.

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I got this e-mail from one of my Ladies, just before our first meeting:

'I will leave the front door open, you come in, lock the door and come upstairs. I will be laid on the bed with my negligee on.

We do not talk, you hand me the money, whilst you are getting undressed, I spread my legs showing you my waiting pussy. You come

to the bed and lick my pussy. The first time I speak is to tell you to finger me, or lick my clit. If you are good, I will get

very vocal and squirt.

After I have come, I will suck you off and you can spunk on my face'.

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Polly. I think that you need to improve your technique. Particularly your fingering! Or are you blaming faulty equipment? This thing about doing something and then not being sure and then doing it again but discovering you had done ir after all but having a third go is confusing us as well as you. We can only wonder as to the effect on the lady. Are you sure that you remembered to lock the door behind you?

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Brief explanation about what you are looking for, clothing, setting, activities, few pleasantries, mention some potential common interests absolutely great and stimulates the feel good factor. Start ping-ponging one-line emails or texts, going into huge details, requests for photos or telling her how horny you are "wanna do you right now" and most would be writing you off, and writing in another appointment in your place.

Exactly how I feel. Polite e-mail enquiring about availability (having read profile thoroughly) and hopefully receive positive response. As Strawberry says you then follow up with exchange of e-mails so you both know what to expect on the day. Keep it civil. Keep it polite. Keep it lighthearted. Words that sound perfectly ok in the heat of the action don't necessarily have the same effect when being read. Call the lady once or maybe twice before you meet but not every day. Apart from annoying the hell out of her and tying up her phone and possibly doing her out if other business you may come across as a sad old bugger with nothing else to do.

I exchanged some e-mails with a lady last night and had a long telephone conversation this morning about a booking for next week. No mention of the naughty stuff at all. We have never met but we already had some idea of what the other person was like. Everything she said confirmed the impression I had of her. I hope it was the same the other way round. I look forward to speaking to her again and explaining how I want the visit to go. As there are two people involved I also want to know how she intends to have her evil way with me. Hopefully.

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I don't go in for much of this sort of thing. I do however have a regular who always texts me multiple times after a punt (she knows my number is safe and has my permission) telling me what she enjoyed and why. Maybe it's simply a technique to get me to rebook and she uses it with every client, who knows. It does help prolong the afterglow though :).

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I don't go in for much of this sort of thing. I do however have a regular who always texts me multiple times after a punt (she knows my number is safe and has my permission) telling me what she enjoyed and why. Maybe it's simply a technique to get me to rebook and she uses it with every client, who knows. It does help prolong the afterglow though :).

Yes thats always nice. :)

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I got the following by e-mail from one of my Ladies, yes I thought of it as foreplay:

'I will leave the front door open, you come in, lock the door and come upstairs. I will be laid on the bed with my negligee on.

We do not talk, you hand me the money, whilst you are getting undressed, I spread my legs showing you my waiting pussy. You come

to the bed and lick my pussy. The first time I speak is to tell you to finger me, or lick my clit. If you are good, I will get

very vocal and squirt.

After I have come, I will suck you off and you can spunk on my face'.

i like her style!

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I don't go in for much of this sort of thing. I do however have a regular who always texts me multiple times after a punt (she knows my number is safe and has my permission) telling me what she enjoyed and why. Maybe it's simply a technique to get me to rebook and she uses it with every client, who knows. It does help prolong the afterglow though :).

Yes thats always nice. :)

That would put me off. Maybe a quick "thanks that was crap/average/great" would be OK.

I would also be happy with an e-mail, a sort of reverse FR, if she wanted to tell me something specific. It would need to be within a few hours of the visit though.

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That would put me off. Maybe a quick "thanks that was crap/average/great" would be OK.

I must admit I was a bit taken aback the first time she did it. However, I was her first ever client, so I cut her some slack. Now I am glad I did. I quite enjoy the text afterplay now. It only goes on for a couple of hours after the booking and then goes quiet till the next one. All harmless fun as far as I am concerned.

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Exactly how I feel. Polite e-mail enquiring about availability (having read profile thoroughly) and hopefully receive positive response. As Strawberry says you then follow up with exchange of e-mails so you both know what to expect on the day. Keep it civil. Keep it polite. Keep it lighthearted. Words that sound perfectly ok in the heat of the action don't necessarily have the same effect when being read. Call the lady once or maybe twice before you meet but not every day. Apart from annoying the hell out of her and tying up her phone and possibly doing her out if other business you may come across as a sad old bugger with nothing else to do.

I exchanged some e-mails with a lady last night and had a long telephone conversation this morning about a booking for next week. No mention of the naughty stuff at all. We have never met but we already had some idea of what the other person was like. Everything she said confirmed the impression I had of her. I hope it was the same the other way round. I look forward to speaking to her again and explaining how I want the visit to go. As there are two people involved I also want to know how she intends to have her evil way with me. Hopefully.

that's kind of what I was referring to except that if there is something you specifically want then i thinks it's best to be clear and if she's ok to discuss it sensibly and professionally then that's a good sign imo

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As Strawberry says you then follow up with exchange of e-mails so you both know what to expect on the day. I look forward to speaking to her again and explaining how I want the visit to go. As there are two people involved I also want to know how she intends to have her evil way with me. Hopefully.

that's kind of what I was referring to except that if there is something you specifically want then i thinks it's best to be clear and if she's ok to discuss it sensibly and professionally then that's a good sign imo

I think we are both on the same wavelength here. You just have to be careful, as Strawberry says, exactly what you put in writing because it can easily be misunderstood. Essential that you also discuss it on the phone to avoid any misunderstanding. Obviously it needs both people to be sensible and professional.

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Not my scene at all. i won't do pre-punt warm ups by text or owt else. I find it tacky and it makes me uncomfortable. I confine all the filth to what goes on the minute he enters and it stops when he leaves. Boring maybe, but discreet yes.

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Polly. I think that you need to improve your technique. Particularly your fingering! Or are you blaming faulty equipment? This thing about doing something and then not being sure and then doing it again but discovering you had done ir after all but having a third go is confusing us as well as you. We can only wonder as to the effect on the lady. Are you sure that you remembered to lock the door behind you?

:unsure: Bugger!

In my defence, there was something strange going on earlier. Honestly.

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Not my scene at all. i won't do pre-punt warm ups by text or owt else. I find it tacky and it makes me uncomfortable. I confine all the filth to what goes on the minute he enters and it stops when he leaves. Boring maybe, but discreet yes.

I am exactly the same and often after all these texts the client does not show up...Polite and respectful is the way for me.

When I first started escorting I saw a client regularly visiting him at his workplace, he had a thing of doing the sexy texts 'what are you going to do to me? etc.. when I was on my way in the car.. The result was I drove off the road and slashed my tire!

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:unsure: Bugger!

In my defence, there was something strange going on earlier. Honestly.

Chelsea getting stuffed!

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I am exactly the same and often after all these texts the client does not show up...Polite and respectful is the way for me.

When I first started escorting I saw a client regularly visiting him at his workplace, he had a thing of doing the sexy texts 'what are you going to do to me? etc.. when I was on my way in the car.. The result was I drove off the road and slashed my tire!

there's nothing in my posts suggesting this was the sort of content hence 'foreplay' in quotes - perhaps it's been lost in the thread but I was referring to the rapport built up by interacting at some length and having a friendly but open discussion about what was required of the booking, with a hint of intimacy and excitement of what's to come, but of course peoples' take on other avenues of thought are always interesting

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there's nothing in my posts suggesting this was the sort of content hence 'foreplay' in quotes - perhaps it's been lost in the thread but I was referring to the rapport built up by interacting at some length and having a friendly but open discussion about what was required of the booking, with a hint of intimacy and excitement of what's to come, but of course peoples' take on other avenues of thought are always interesting

There ican be a fine line between the sort of contact you are referring to, and those who want to monopolise or waste your time - some of whom will claim "just want to get to know you before we meet, I need to make sure it goes the way I want it to". I would suspect a few reading this were trying to make it clear that the unacceptable level of contact is just that.

Luckily most people are just fine and experienced SPs can spot someone trying to push too far pretty early on.

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E-mail ping pong just makes you realise how sad some peoples lives really are.... :(

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When I first started escorting I saw a client regularly visiting him at his workplace, he had a thing of doing the sexy texts 'what are you going to do to me? etc.. when I was on my way in the car.. The result was I drove off the road and slashed my tire!

This does raise some questions about Pia's mental state. What kind of person drives off the road and deliberately slashes her tyre? What type of knife did she use? Does she usually carry a knife? Why does she think it necessary? Does she have one hidden in the bedroom? I'm really concerned about the tie and tease we have planned for when I see her tomorrow.

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