wheelguy

Who Is Happy To See Disabled Clients And Accept Paypal/bank Transfer

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I have been having quite a few issues with finding an escort/wg who will accept my requirements. Basically I have a disability which causes muscle weakness nd has confined me to a wheelchair therefore its easier for me to get outcalls. because im in a vulnerable situation i dont keep alot of money on me i would like to pay with paypal or bank transfer. Even though most escort agencies say they accept payment via paypal or bank transfer.but they dont.

I live in LONDON, So is there any women who are happy to meet a disabled guy and accept payment via paypal or bank transfer

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I have been having quite a few issues with finding an escort/wg who will accept my requirements. Basically I have a disability which causes muscle weakness nd has confined me to a wheelchair therefore its easier for me to get outcalls. because im in a vulnerable situation i dont keep alot of money on me i would like to pay with paypal or bank transfer. Even though most escort agencies say they accept payment via paypal or bank transfer.but they dont.

I live in LONDON, So is there any women who are happy to meet a disabled guy and accept payment via paypal or bank transfer

think you will struggle with this because of tracability, and also paypal transactions can be reversed, leaving the girl with no money. Fraid you will probably have to go with cash. Sorry to be negative.

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think you will struggle with this because of tracability, and also paypal transactions can be reversed, leaving the girl with no money. Fraid you will probably have to go with cash. Sorry to be negative.

Paypal will shut down accounts it suspects are involved with any transaction for sex, seizing all monies. Bank transfer depends on how you go about it, some ladies have had bad experiences with guys paying in this way, they get home afterwards and the money doesn't show up. Can an online bank transfer be reversed?

This is going to make your life a bit difficult, some ladies may accept payment in Amazon vouchers which can be sent online to an email address, and as far as I'm aware once they are sent they are set in stone.

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Could you not send a cheque and they then visit you once it's cleared? I know that requires trust on your part but it's not so different from handing over an envelope of cash. They could then just walk away.

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Far too risky IMO. Get someone to help you put money in an evelope before they arrive. Make sure there isnt any extra and you dont have to worry.

I work for a bank, and our money transfers are extremely hard and long-wounded to reverse so if its a tricky WG she could walk with the money.

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Can an online bank transfer be reversed?

It takes forever, and is very time consuming. Requires a lot of info, and generally isn't worth the hassle, unless you are talking about quite large sums. For £150 or so most banks wouldn't even answer the phone.

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unfortunately cheques and cash is not an option for me

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I have been having quite a few issues with finding an escort/wg who will accept my requirements. Basically I have a disability which causes muscle weakness nd has confined me to a wheelchair therefore its easier for me to get outcalls. because im in a vulnerable situation i dont keep alot of money on me i would like to pay with paypal or bank transfer. Even though most escort agencies say they accept payment via paypal or bank transfer.but they dont.

I live in LONDON, So is there any women who are happy to meet a disabled guy and accept payment via paypal or bank transfer

Hi Wheelguy, do you have any support?. Is there someone you could trust to get the money for you from the bank on the day of your booking?. I know it may seem embarrassing to discuss with someone but there are a lot of carers/support workers who are very empathetic of your type of situation.

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unfortunately cheques and cash is not an option for me

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I would be extremely reticent about paying in advance with cheques or any other method. Sorry if I offend any ladies but this is one thing about which I am not optimistic. Is it possible, without divulging any private information, to tell us why cash is not an option? It's possible that someone on this forum has useful knowledge of a similar situation and could, via pm's, help you solve the problem. If it's someone who doesn't want to put up a public post they could pm you direct and then hopefully you could enjoy the company of lovely ladies.

I can't resist saying "Tesco vouchers" but seriously folks let's see if we can help this guy please.

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I have been having quite a few issues with finding an escort/wg who will accept my requirements. Basically I have a disability which causes muscle weakness nd has confined me to a wheelchair therefore its easier for me to get outcalls. because im in a vulnerable situation i dont keep alot of money on me i would like to pay with paypal or bank transfer. Even though most escort agencies say they accept payment via paypal or bank transfer.but they dont.

I live in LONDON, So is there any women who are happy to meet a disabled guy and accept payment via paypal or bank transfer

No idea if this will help with this query but www.tlc-trust.org.uk/ has been mentioned on here as being helpful by Adorable Amy and Madam Becky, and Becky posted about having a disabled agency on here a while back, she hasnt been on here for a while but if you PMd her perhaps she may be able to offer advice. I hope the above is of help. :)

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This is such a hard one. Most of the girls I know would be more than happy to see you, but I'm afraid they would not accept anything but cash. In the past I've driven disabled clients to their cashpoints for them prior to the booking as its difficult for them to do it themselves, but this involves a lot of trust I'm afraid and not all ladies are trustworthy so be carefull if your considering that.

Check out TLC (link in post above) you may get more help there.

Good luck honey, hope you find what your looking for.

Holly x

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Cash only, it's the nature of the beast....

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There is a thread about disabled punters somewhere. I will try to find it later and come back with the info. There will be solution here somewhere.

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I would be extremely reticent about paying in advance with cheques or any other method. Sorry if I offend any ladies but this is one thing about which I am not optimistic. Is it possible, without divulging any private information, to tell us why cash is not an option? It's possible that someone on this forum has useful knowledge of a similar situation and could, via pm's, help you solve the problem. If it's someone who doesn't want to put up a public post they could pm you direct and then hopefully you could enjoy the company of lovely ladies.

I can't resist saying "Tesco vouchers" but seriously folks let's see if we can help this guy please.

I cant do cash simply because i have many carers and money has gone missing before so im very cautious now

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Never ever accept paypal, their payment protection is a laughable and if someone says their card was used fraudulently they will reverse no questions asked if a credit card company requests it. Had a problem with a parlor buying a large quantity of gel then putting in a reversal, got police involved and gel back.

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I don't see why a bank transfer wouldn't work for most women, I had a client once who did it over the phone (he wanted to extend the booking and didn't have any more cash on him) I could check my online account once he had done it to see it was there to be doubly sure. Obviously you would need to trust the lady in question was reputable first though.

I'm no use to wheelchair users being two floors up and no lift though!

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In the legalities section "Disabled access in Crewe........". Started by Madam Becky. A PM to her may prove instructive. I hope so.

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In the legalities section "Disabled access in Crewe........". Started by Madam Becky. A PM to her may prove instructive. I hope so.

I already advised that Paul. :)

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No idea if this will help with this query but www.tlc-trust.org.uk/ has been mentioned on here as being helpful by Adorable Amy and Madam Becky, and Becky posted about having a disabled agency on here a while back, she hasnt been on here for a while but if you PMd her perhaps she may be able to offer advice. I hope the above is of help. :)

I agree http://www.tlc-trust.org.uk/ is probably the way to go as you can be confident about the honesty of their recomendations

Also most of the regular ladies here have unimpeachable reputations regarding their honesty, I suggest a little research to satisfy yourself in this regard for cash transactions.

Edited by WykeTyke

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I don't see why a bank transfer wouldn't work for most women, I had a client once who did it over the phone (he wanted to extend the booking and didn't have any more cash on him) I could check my online account once he had done it to see it was there to be doubly sure. Obviously you would need to trust the lady in question was reputable first though.

I'm no use to wheelchair users being two floors up and no lift though!

This is the important bit.

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I cant do cash simply because i have many carers and money has gone missing before so im very cautious now

How about a small wallsafe with a combination lock? We have one bolted to the wall in a convenient accessible position. It's about 12" by 9" by 8" deep. We use it for passports and other documents etc and an envelope containing " emergency " money. Make sure only you know the combination and leave the cash in it until just before the lady arrives. They are easy to purchase, easy to use, and I'm sure you could find a tradesman to bolt it to the wall quite easily. From what you say you may be able to have it fitted for free and perhaps even supplied free.

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I cant do cash simply because i have many carers and money has gone missing before so im very cautious now

Just a thought. What type of lady are you looking for? I ask this because I know some ladies have paysites on the internet. It may cost a little more but I know a few of my friends have CCBill ect available to them. I'll PM you if thats ok.

Holly x

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