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Just this week I've had three escorts I have seen before text/mail me telling me they're still available/in my area/offering deals. Not in my wildest dreams do I think it's all about me, so is this normal modus operandi or just a really quiet time or something? Genuine question. Thanks.

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I've know I've emailed a few of the guys I really got on with before to say I'm available on certain days or offering a "special offer". So my guess is that the girls have all got on with you, although it is something that girls usually do when it is a quiet period or a slow week.

Although I must admit I found the run up to Christmas to be a rather busy time.

I suppose it just varies from girl to girl.

Cara

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I never did that. I did run a mailing list which the guys could opt out of at any time and would use that, but unsolicited emails in my mind is bad mannered.

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I have never, and don't imagine I would ever tout for work like that. Smacks of desperation imo, and that's one thing I'm definitely not! :D

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Nope, unsolicited emails, calls and texts are a no no in terms of discretion and it also looks really desperate and tacky.

When I'm quiet I cry into my pillow willing the phone to ring instead!

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It happens. I can recall 2 occasions where I received unsolicited texts from ladies I had previously seen. Both ladies were semi-retired - one I think only seeing previous clients and the other only working rarely - so that may have been an influence on their making such an approach. In both cases I had only visited the lady once and in neither had I felt the meeting had been anything special so I think it very unlikely that either of them singled me out for particular attention. I have received one unsolicited email from a lady I had seen before just pointing me back in her direction. Again I would guess that she just sent the same message to everyone in her address book. I was also a recipient of the text from 121 Asians stating that Leila was back that I know from this forum was sent to pretty much anyone who had previously booked her through that agency.

I don't think it is very discreet. Fortunately I have no one at home to worry about coming across such a text.

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Nope, unsolicited emails, calls and texts are a no no in terms of discretion and it also looks really desperate and tacky.

I'm with Lydia here. If I get any unsolicited stuff I vow never to meet the girl again. It's bad manners as well as indiscreet and downright dangerous.

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Just this week I've had three escorts I have seen before text/mail me telling me they're still available/in my area/offering deals. Not in my wildest dreams do I think it's all about me, so is this normal modus operandi or just a really quiet time or something? Genuine question. Thanks.

To me unsolicited cold contacting is very unprofessional and indiscreet, a big no no in my view.

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Just this week I've had three escorts I have seen before text/mail me telling me they're still available/in my area/offering deals. Not in my wildest dreams do I think it's all about me, so is this normal modus operandi or just a really quiet time or something? Genuine question. Thanks.

This is something lots of ladies do and the reason they do it is because it works for them. I used to work for an agency who would cold call previous clients to let them know if we had new girls on the books. It's par for the course. Not all girls will do this - I certainly do not and never have because it breaks the rules of discretion x

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I used to have a 'Newsletter' thingy but you had to actively subscribe and I only sent it out once or thrice a year. I shy away from guys who phone asking me to contact them should I ever be in their area, on one occasion when I did make a note and sent someone a message I got a "Who?What?" reply.

You never know how someone's situation is going to turn, so prefer clients to make the first move.

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Hmmmm might well be a quiet time for them but most ladies I know myself included would not dream of sending unsolicited texts or emails touting for business.

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i have no issues if I get a PM on here, or a mail on AW or C69, saying hi span, how's things going, thought I would catch up, blah blah

I know it is often a tout but so what, all good businesses market themselves in some form.

Just don't text me !!

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i have no issues if I get a PM on here, or a mail on AW or C69, saying hi span, how's things going, thought I would catch up, blah blah

I know it is often a tout but so what, all good businesses market themselves in some form.

Just don't text me !!

I agree. A PM here is pretty discreet as nobody else will see it.

A text out of the blue cold be very dangerous. That's why a lot of us separate punting phones.

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If I received a text or "real" email I'd tell them never to contact me again. However, a PM or a message via awank is no problem.

I too had a girl I've not seen for a few months message me last week saying she'd love to see me again. I just read it as "I'd love you to give me some money again soon", times must be slow. I think it's a slow time in a slow year with more competition than ever out there. The girl in question also had a December reduction offer. I may ask her if she'll bring this forward for me as she was OK, just not the type of girl I really lust after.

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I once got 3 "reminders" from a escort via e-mail who once answered a reverse booking, I told her I had chosen someone and that I might be intrested in seeing her if for any reason the first person had to pull out.

I didnt mind the first reminder, as i thought it was only fair that she should said she was still available on that date, the other two e-mails were over a month later and again reminded me of her existance, i tried to put her off by sending a short reply "thanks but no thanks", only for her to send another reminder a month later, I did not reply to that and since then she appears to have got the message.

If it was a chatty e-mail then okay I would respond, but a blatent I am available, smacks of lack of discretion really.

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