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Cim - Backing Out At The Last Second

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Had an odd experience today and was wondering if anyone else has had the same and indeed how common it is. I booked a lady who offered CIM but when it got to the ‘moment’, after a few mini-spurts I felt quite a load coming on – but the second I shot a big one (with more on its way) the lady backed out! She immediately pulled her head off my cock and squeezed the end of it so, although my balls continued pumping, no more spunk came out. God knows what happened to it, it could be swilling round in my system for all I know :eek:

Anyway, is this sort of thing common with WGs? I don’t exactly blame this lady as I admit I did cum pretty hard and she would have got a hell of a mouthful if she hadn’t pulled her little ‘trick’, but on the other hand she offered CIM (I even double checked as I got close – I find it quite a turn on to ask if it’s ok and hear her muffled assent as she continues to work her magic ;) ) and I did feel a bit let down by her backing out when I was past the point of no return. A deal’s a deal, surely? :(

Bad luck, bad service, or just one of those things?

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Great fan of the CIM finish, and I've had all sorts from the sublime swallowing of my load to the ridiculous girl with mouth full of saliva opens it at moment of orgasm to make it appear I'm coming buckets whilst not really taking sperm in her at all.

I think what happened to you was the height of bad manners from your WG and I'm pleased to say I've never had that happen to me. I would have no problem with a girl deciding that she didn't want a mouthful at the last moment providing she finished the deed by hand - once upon a time the lovely Amy of MK brought me to the very edge in her mouth but didn't do CIM so her hand was certainly my friend...

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You say you had a after a few mini-spurts, maybe she just didn't like the taste of your cum. I assume it does taste different from man to man? Maybe she felt that taking your load may make her gag and she panicked.

Squeezing your end does seem a little extreme, but she may have just reacted quickly to avoid it going somewhere she didn't want it. I would have though most girls would have just pulled away, apologised and taken it on the tits, but maybe she had a reason not to do that.

I have never had CIM with a WG and I have to say, your encounter has put me off trying it!

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Its not the most pleasant taste/experience, nor natural thing to do?

In my none punting life, I have had two ladies (out of eight) who really enjoyed it, or, at least they said that they did.

If the act was considered just part of OWO. BBBJ, with the ultimate conclusion being CIM as part of this act, then it wouldn't be listed as a like?

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Had an odd experience today and was wondering if anyone else has had the same and indeed how common it is. I booked a lady who offered CIM but when it got to the ‘moment’, after a few mini-spurts I felt quite a load coming on – but the second I shot a big one (with more on its way) the lady backed out! She immediately pulled her head off my cock and squeezed the end of it so, although my balls continued pumping, no more spunk came out. God knows what happened to it, it could be swilling round in my system for all I know :eek:

Anyway, is this sort of thing common with WGs? I don’t exactly blame this lady as I admit I did cum pretty hard and she would have got a hell of a mouthful if she hadn’t pulled her little ‘trick’, but on the other hand she offered CIM (I even double checked as I got close – I find it quite a turn on to ask if it’s ok and hear her muffled assent as she continues to work her magic ;) ) and I did feel a bit let down by her backing out when I was past the point of no return. A deal’s a deal, surely? :(

Bad luck, bad service, or just one of those things?

I am not liking the sound of stopping you spurting your spunk. If she didnt want it on her face or in her mouth she should of directed you to spurt it somewhere else in my view. If it was agreed clearly as something she offers i would certainly be disappointed but ultimately its her choice, i wouldnt be returning though. I would view it as bad service.

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If she offers CIM she should take CIM. Anything else is false advertising. If you feel she's advertised her services falsely report her to your local trading standars office.

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Had you had any pineapple before hand? It's supposed to sweeten the taste. Some foods have the opposite effect.

I saw a lovely young girl 2-3 weeks ago and she took everything offered in her mouth, before discretely disposing in a tissue. Needless to say, I'll be seeing her again. Think you've just been unlucky.

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The immediate impression I got from her reaction was it wasn't the taste that caused it but the power of the spurt. As soon as that first big one hit she sharply pulled her head off, it was almost (but not quite) a flinch. But surely she couldn't have been taken by surprise - she must have encountered that loads of times.

As a few of you guys have said, I feel she should have at least let me finish properly rather than effectively plugging the end of my cock so nothing else shot out.

I'll chalk it up to poor service.

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Had you had any pineapple before hand? It's supposed to sweeten the taste. Some foods have the opposite effect.

I saw a lovely young girl 2-3 weeks ago and she took everything offered in her mouth, before discretely disposing in a tissue. Needless to say, I'll be seeing her again. Think you've just been unlucky.

Pineapple Juice makes my spunk taste better as i know from snowballing it.

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If she offers CIM she should take CIM. Anything else is false advertising. If you feel she's advertised her services falsely report her to your local trading standars office.

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Thankfully I dont offer any of these services as I'm one of the very few genuinely CLEAN escorts, OWO isnt even on the menu so I dont ever have issues with people being disappointed with me as my clients know whats on offer before we even meet but putting all that aside reading this sort of this upsets me for other escorts cause escort or no escort she's only human. I dont beleive in false advertising but her advert would say to her discretion and in this case obviously she decided NO!!!

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If she offers CIM she should take CIM. Anything else is false advertising. If you feel she's advertised her services falsely report her to your local trading standars office.

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No, I do not agree with that. Seeing an escort does not infer any right to have sex with her. Just because she offers a service does not mean she has to offer it to you, there are many reasons why a girl may choose not to do something she as on here like list. Remember, you only pay for her time. If she was to say no to anything and you were to continue that would be rape, simple as that. And I am pretty sure trading standards would be of no help whatsoever.

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No, I do not agree with that. Seeing an escort does not infer any right to have sex with her. Just because she offers a service does not mean she has to offer it to you, there are many reasons why a girl may choose not to do something she as on here like list. Remember, you only pay for her time. If she was to say no to anything and you were to continue that would be rape, simple as that. And I am pretty sure trading standards would be of no help whatsoever.

This is quite intresting what you say, and I tend to agree with you, but if the escort had agreed to the booking and everything was okay, then the agreement was for CIM ending, and sadly he did not get what he was expecting, for whatever reason, though it sounds as if he did have a bit of CIM from the escort, and made sure she did not take the rest that way.

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... putting all that aside reading this sort of this upsets me for other escorts cause escort or no escort she's only human. I dont beleive in false advertising but her advert would say to her discretion and in this case obviously she decided NO!!!

But as the OP described it discretion wasn't the issue. Even at the point of coming he checked once again that he could come in her mouth and she agreed but she then not only backed out of allowing him to CIM but even stopped him shooting at all. I'd say that wasn't just false advertising, it's an uncomfortable/disappointing end and therefore unprofessional service.

And I am pretty sure trading standards would be of no help whatsoever.

I think that was a joke...

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I think that was a joke...

I'm glad someone can appreciate irony. I thought the inclusion of the <_< made it pretty clear.

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This is absolutely true so going to share this story with you.

I did a duo with a close friend, we both offered CIM, I swallow she doesn't, no problems there. What this guy wanted was to be tied to the chair naked while we posed and played with ourselves on the bed in front of him (not each other) in thigh length boots and his favorite porn in the background. It was a three hour booking and went really well. We kept him tied for most of that time, climbing on and off him and all over the bed, playing with our toys etc etc. At no time did we touch his genitals during all this until he was rock hard whimpering and c**k dribbling in obvious discomfort.

Within seconds of letting him go, he was on me and going for it hard until he exploded, then almost instantly my friend gave him a BJ and he came again and flopped back onto the bed. At this point we assumed he was spent and the three of us just lay there chatting, my freind was gently and absent mindedly stroking his c**k with her head on his thigh when he suddenly yelled and got rock hard again. To this day we don't have a clue what happened next and why, but it was a bloody good job she moved her head quickly because he exploded in a way I've never seen before. It was that explosive it hit the ceiling and then came down again all over her head. I have never seen so much and am convinced that she would have drowned or it would have come out of her ears if she had taken all that in her mouth. He collapsed and started whimpering like a baby, which worried us more than a bit, and seemed to be in a lot of pain, so we stayed until we were sure he had recovered properly. Afterwards he told us that this had happened to him a few times, he'd been checked out and nothing was wrong, it was just him and the way he was.

So you see there are times you have to draw back during CIM, this was certainly one of those times.

I've also done it myself on a couple of occasions because the taste was that bitter it burnt my tongue, this sometimes happens with guys that are taking certain medications, like for example I could always tell if a guy was on meds for Diabetes just by the taste of his cum. I would never pinch the end though unless he asked me too which some did by the way.

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I dont beleive in false advertising but her advert would say to her discretion and in this case obviously she decided NO!!!

if the escort had agreed to the booking and everything was okay, then the agreement was for CIM ending, and sadly he did not get what he was expecting

But as the OP described it discretion wasn't the issue. Even at the point of coming he checked once again that he could come in her mouth and she agreed but she then not only backed out of allowing him to CIM but even stopped him shooting at all. I'd say that wasn't just false advertising, it's an uncomfortable/disappointing end and therefore unprofessional

I agree with Kendra regarding her comments about the service being "at her discretion" and surely all services are at the lady's discretion. If a certain service is important to you and you regard it as essential to the visit and you turn up without clarifying it and then find it's not on the menu today then you are a very silly person. That was apparently not the case here. She agreed it was on the menu, started the course, and then decided (for some reason) she didn't like it. Very unprofessional and wrong.

I arranged to visit a lady and e-mailed her to say that a certain service was important and essential to me as part of the visit and she agreed that it would be on the menu and how much she enjoyed the service herself. On the day, after handing over the cash of course, and the action commencing she told me that she didn't do it on the first meeting. I do not intend seeing her again.

On another occasion similar experience but a different service. The second lady actually asked me to e-mail her with a list of the activities that I did and did not like and this was before I had the opportunity to do so myself. When I got there we spent quite some time discussing the "list" because she had forgotten what I had put (quite understandable - busy lady - other clients - two weeks since my e-mail) and couldn't be bothered to go to her e-mails and refresh her memory. The appointment was 10.00 am and I was her first visitor that day. She told me that one of the services I had requested (and which she had agreed to) was not available because she only did it when she felt like it and she didn't feel like it that day. The time we had spent in discussion at the beginning (and it wasn't just 4 or 5 minutes) was included in my visit and I was shown the door exactly at the allotted time. Will I be returning?

If a specific request has been made and the lady has agreed to it then she should honour that agreement.

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I do think what she did is a bit off, could at least have let you come on her boobies! :D

Thankfully I dont offer any of these services as I'm one of the very few genuinely CLEAN escorts, OWO isnt even on the menu so I dont ever have issues with people being disappointed with me as my clients know whats on offer before we even meet but putting all that aside reading this sort of this upsets me for other escorts cause escort or no escort she's only human. I dont beleive in false advertising but her advert would say to her discretion and in this case obviously she decided NO!!!

What makes you think it would say 'at discretion' :unsure: ? Bit off badmouthing other girls and calling them unclean as well, we're all in this together remember? :)

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Thankfully I dont offer any of these services as I'm one of the very few genuinely CLEAN escorts, OWO isnt even on the menu so I dont ever have issues with people being disappointed with me as my clients know whats on offer before we even meet but putting all that aside reading this sort of this upsets me for other escorts cause escort or no escort she's only human. I dont beleive in false advertising but her advert would say to her discretion and in this case obviously she decided NO!!!

How on earth do you know as fact you are one of the very few genuinely clean WGs? Personally i only know about people i know and what i read on here, and even that isnt a fact, it relies on me taking their words for what they say or post. Very many WGs dont post on here of course so how do you know how clean they are or arent.

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I think that was a joke...

I'm glad someone can appreciate irony. I thought the inclusion of the <_< made it pretty clear.

It did to me. ;)

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I've had that and it was sure a trick, "Oh sorry I did not know you were ready to cum". WG's know all the signs probably before we do.

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I do think what she did is a bit off, could at least have let you come on her boobies! :D

What makes you think it would say 'at discretion' :unsure: ? Bit off badmouthing other girls and calling them unclean as well, we're all in this together remember? :)

This is a forum based on our opinions I was expressing mine, I did not actually say you were all unclean I simply said I was one of the very few genuinelly clean escorts out there, I chose my words carefully but since you took it that way here goes.......No matter how much you argue with me and no matter how many people disagree with me which I imagine will be loads but you cannot tell me that someone who suck's bare c***'s all day, CIM and Swallowing and whatever else several times a day, every day is clean! I've already had this convo on another forum and as I said on that there would be an epidemic if you could catch AIDS through OWO, CIM etc etc so I am not saying that I just think with the bacteria etc it CAN NOT be healthy for the girl or the client but each to there own what you do with your life is up to you, nobody else but for me I make a fortune providing a safe, clean service without putting myself or my clients at any risk and my clients are more than happy with me as I make these things up to them in other ways with a great service. I have the feedback to prove it!!

This will probably cause an outrage now with every escort on here that does offer these services and for every client who seeks these services so really from the bottom of my heart there was no offense intended as each to there own, I'm not the STD police!!

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I also meant to say with it being the girls discretion she obviously did agree to do it so no problems there, she went for it then for some reason she withdrew that either being the shock or the taste, we'll never know unless he asks her so as far as I'm concerned she did do the job but with her only being "human" something made her react HOWEVER I've no idea why she squeezed the tip, that is weird and I can understand your frustration on that point.

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Well, seeing as I am obviously not a clean escort (unlike the pious Kendra) because I do OWO but I don't advertise CIM because I just don't do it. (does that make me half clean half dirty?) I don't mainly because I'm not really very good at it and because some men's spunk is less then yummy. Also, spitting it out seems dreadfully rude and I'm a lady!

The way I look at the services I offer, and what I would advise other women when deciding what to offer is to really consider how much she enjoys it. Therefore if a woman doesn't mind CIM then she needs to think if she mind if it's a huge massive load or if it's a bit noxious. I know people cover themselves by saying 'at discretion' but I really don't think it's fair to let a man go to the effort of booking you and finding the time and money for you to not follow through what you've promised. Also, you never know how a man might react when you refuse. I don't want to do anything that might piss someone off, both from a service point of view and for my own safety. It's the same with anal, we're always reading about providers who have said no to anal or made the man stop after 30 seconds after he has paid for the service.

I just don't understand women that provide bad service on the basis that clients will make bad reports, complain on a forum, not come back and at worst get angry.

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Totally agree with tjnic, I think any WG is at liberty to decide at any point that she doesn't like something, whether advertised or not, and whether agreed verbally or not. Sure, it will be disappointing if something was expected or even promised and didn't happen, but at the end of the day a guy can't force his cock or come down someone's throat if she doesn't want it. That might not make her a very good WG, but remember she is a human being as well and no one should feel they have to continue with something that is distressing them, even if they entered into it with the best of intentions.

At the end of the day everything you get in a punt is at discretion. Obviously, WGs that repeatedly don't provide what is expected will be reviewed and people will make up their own mind about using their service. But that's something for afterwards. If at the time she doesn't give you something you were expecting, just be polite, write your review and put it down to experience.

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Well, seeing as I am obviously not a clean escort (unlike the pious Kendra) because I do OWO but I don't advertise CIM because I just don't do it. (does that make me half clean half dirty?) I don't mainly because I'm not really very good at it and because some men's spunk is less then yummy. Also, spitting it out seems dreadfully rude and I'm a lady!

The way I look at the services I offer, and what I would advise other women when deciding what to offer is to really consider how much she enjoys it. Therefore if a woman doesn't mind CIM then she needs to think if she mind if it's a huge massive load or if it's a bit noxious. I know people cover themselves by saying 'at discretion' but I really don't think it's fair to let a man go to the effort of booking you and finding the time and money for you to not follow through what you've promised. Also, you never know how a man might react when you refuse. I don't want to do anything that might piss someone off, both from a service point of view and for my own safety. It's the same with anal, we're always reading about providers who have said no to anal or made the man stop after 30 seconds after he has paid for the service.

I just don't understand women that provide bad service on the basis that clients will make bad reports, complain on a forum, not come back and at worst get angry.

I agree with all you just said there, but I did say each to there own. And as for the sarky comment at the top Pious Kendra I wasnt personally attacking anyone I was only giving my views and pointing out I probably make same or more money than you doing things in a safe way so I can never get my head round why you girls do it when you dont have to.

As for the clients I completely understand why they want services such as OWO, CIM, Swallow, WS or whatever else cause there men (no offense guys) and I do understand it feels much much better and they want to get the most out of there appointment but the escort has always got the upper hand here or should have, your putting yourself at risk and your clients when you really dont have to.

This time of year with people having colds, flu's and generally feeling a bit run down you should be extra careful if an escort has a coldsore or has one starting which takes days to become visible then gives you OWO thats you got genetal herpes for the rest of your life - try explaining that one to your wife or gf!

I actually do sound like the STD police now - I give up! I've put my point across, most of you disagree so thats up to you.

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