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New here, just wanted to ask a few questions really.

Just wondering what people usually do and which is safer, if they prefer outcalls or incalls? I live on my own in an apartment block, if that helps, I don't have a family or anything like that. So would outcalls or incalls be better? If anyone has some stories about as to why which is better that would be good.

And I have heard of people mention the Adultwork website. But I also saw a website called UKAdultZone just wondering if anyone has used that or is that a scam?

And i'm not too confident, because of past stuff so looking for someone quite forward really (under 30), in the Nottingham area if anyone can recommend?

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Wlcome to the forum newuser.

I would say that visiting an escort is always best, id certainly say dont play at home, as you never know what could happen, always best to play at the escorts place of work.

Yes there are some escorts on Adultwork who are honest and giver a great deal, despite a few dodgy folk on there, so choose someone with a bit of good feedback, but as for reccomendations, simple put the details into the search you like, and specify under 30, if thats your wish, and when you chose the escort, inform them that you are not so confident and want them to lead.

Maybe some in the midlands can give you a few names otherwise.

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UKadultzone is a directory where many genuine Independents advertise.

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I would definitely advise starting with an incall. One less thing to worry about and you may well be nervous on your first time. If you go to the right girls they will have a lovely room set up for you with atmospheric lighting and comfortable surroundings. Some girls won't see you on an outcall first time anyway. Good luck and welcome to the forum!

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New here, just wanted to ask a few questions really.

Just wondering what people usually do and which is safer, if they prefer outcalls or incalls? I live on my own in an apartment block, if that helps, I don't have a family or anything like that. So would outcalls or incalls be better? If anyone has some stories about as to why which is better that would be good.

And I have heard of people mention the Adultwork website. But I also saw a website called UKAdultZone just wondering if anyone has used that or is that a scam?

And i'm not too confident, because of past stuff so looking for someone quite forward really (under 30), in the Nottingham area if anyone can recommend?

I used to do outcalls only and loved it. Now I do mainly incalls and love that too........... just realised this sounds like an advert for ALDI !

It's what you personally feel comfortable with. My place is my domain and I have all of my things there. I like getting ready for my client and providing a nice environment for him to walk into.

I would say try it both ways and then decide :)

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One tip for you NewUser83.

When you arrive at an incall, within a few minutes the WG is going to ask you if you want to take a shower.

You may have scrubbed down to the last layer of skin before you set off to see her, but the right answer is nearly always 'yes'. A WG will nearly always be more generous with her services if she knows you have just stepped out from the shower.

If you feel uncomfortable stripping off for a shower straight away, the answer is still yes, but just let her know that you'd like to spend a few minutes 'getting to know her' first.

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Hi and welcome,

I would go with an independent incall lady. You'll perhaps enjoy parlours once you've dipped your toe (and anything else you want to dip) in the punting pool but if you choose the right indie lady she will carefully guide you through the punt. Many ladies are known to be very good with first timers.

Shower when you get there and treat her with respect, she's a lady not your sex toy (unless she happens to advertise that as a service).

If you plan on hanging around this forum I'd also ask Galahad to change your moniker, you don't always want to be a newbie.

DG

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Welcome New User. I would read the field reports for all the punts that have happened in your chosen area. My guess is that one or two ladies will stand out as having very good reports.

Decide to either entertain or visit (depending on their Modus Operandi) and you will have a ball.

Having broken your duck you will feel more confident on your next foray into our world.

I hope whoever you choose turns out well for you.

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I would also go for incalls to start with but avoid incalls that are hotel based - an unwanted extra concern for a newcomer.

I would tend to be prepared to travel early on so there is no added concern on being recognised. My recollection is of Nottingham being a great area for this hobby so perhaps that's another reason.

I would look on the Punternet field reports for locations still convenient to you such as Loughborough, Leicester, Derby, Birmingham, and research not only ladies who get great reviews but also parlours that are clearly well run and have a good staff.

You might then choose between booking ahead a particular girl or giving yourself the chance some punters like, others less so, of having a line up of girls to choose from to have sex with.

I wouldn't start by paying lots of money. i would suggest half hour early on (others wouldn't) and a price of £60/70 for that time.

then you can see how things work, establish what you like and go on from there.

best wishes - I wish I had had this resource to ask questions 40+ years ago but also stepping into the unknown can be a real buzz of an adventure.

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Thanks for all the feedback. I'm taking the consensus as being go for an incall first. So do most people go for an hour? or half an hour? I'm tempted to go for an hour, just half an hour doesn't seem long enough lol. I suppose talking might be quite essential at first on my first time.

Also yeah I wasn't really going for a long lasting user name or anything it was the first thing that popped into my head.

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I would suggest you book in for the hour, and spend a lest 5 mins chatting with the escort teling her what you want and that you are new to this, and if she is anything like a profesional, she will take it easy and get you into this at your pace, let her lead you and see where you want it to go, you are free to make a request to her for anything you may want during the time, talking does make it so much better.

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Definitely an hour so that you can get the full Girlfriend Experience (GFE). The lady concerned will give you as much or as little time as you need to get into the swing of things before things get too steamy.

Good quality agencies and good independents should be reliable in giving you get a decent GFE.

Agencies promoting themselves as offering 'cheap' escorts may not be so reliable, and with independents it's going to depend on the quality of your research.

Be warned however, you may not be able to wipe the grin off your face for the rest of the day, once you've made your first visit.

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I would also advise investing your time and cash for an hour. In addition tell the lady, at the time of booking, that you are new to this and would like to chat for 5 mins at the start. If she is any good she will let you dictate the speed of events.

Good Luck.

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When you have decided make sure you talk to her on the phone (another advantage of an indie as opposed to to agency or parlour) You'll get a really good feel for her attitude and command of English by talking and not just by text or email.

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If you decide which area you would like to visit tell us on here and you will receive advice regarding suitable ladies. I would also recommend an incall with an independent lady for an hour so you don't feel rushed. Communication is going to be important so make sure that can converse easily. Be completely honest with the lady. She won't be embarrassed by anything you say but she does need to know enough so that she knows the best way for the visit to go.

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Don't overthink it honey. Just decide what you want and go for it, go fill your boots!

An hour is good with an indie and if you want a little extra time to ease into it, but if your looking to just get in there and have fun from the off, then 1/2 hour with either and indie or parlour girl is fine.

You must have some idea as to the age, size, body shape and area of the lady that gets you going, just outline that here and I'm sure these lovely men will give you reccomendations. Remember the choosing is all part of the fun and don't be worried about the girl knowing your new to this, we have that almost every day and are well used to putting our men at ease....

P.S I'm not working so can't accomodate, am here just to wind the boys up.... :D

Holly xx

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One tip for you NewUser83.

When you arrive at an incall, within a few minutes the WG is going to ask you if you want to take a shower.

You may have scrubbed down to the last layer of skin before you set off to see her, but the right answer is nearly always 'yes'. A WG will nearly always be more generous with her services if she knows you have just stepped out from the shower.

If you feel uncomfortable stripping off for a shower straight away, the answer is still yes,but just let her know that you'd like to spend a few minutes 'getting to know her' first.

hehe, so true.

it doesnt matter how much YOU scrubbed,

you have to spend time in HER shower.

just do it.

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Even though I would shower before I'm sure I would be sweating buckets by the time I got there so would probably need to use her shower lol.

Thanks again.

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Even though I would shower before I'm sure I would be sweating buckets by the time I got there so would probably need to use her shower lol.

Thanks again.

Nerves would make you do this quite easily, so it would be best to pop in to the shower to freshen up.

I do not insist that a bloke has a shower personally if he tells me he is good to go.

If I do smell a bit of body odour going on though I will lead him to the bathroom and wash the offending area myself!

I get away with doing that as I do it in a very light hearted way and tell them they can do the same to me if needed.......

That old saying in this scene stands........"the cleaner you are the dirtier we will be".............or words to that affect.

Lucy :)

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The consensus is usually incalls but personally I feel comfortable in my own surroundings. No travel time either

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You may start with incalls, just to get into the swing of it, but nothing beats an outcall for me. More relaxing with your own bed, tunes, et cetera and there's a lot to be said for just chilling out after a session instead of having to drive home.

Although Adultwork has its problems, it can be a great tool. I now see girls (independents) from the site, without the need for it - texts and such.

Just a caveat on outcalls though. I will not have drivers (agency girls usually) sat outside of my house or in my street, but try saying that to a lady and you may come over as a mentalist. Luckily now I have enough good feedback.

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