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Lessingham

Too Much Choice?

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I saved up my pennies and am booking again for a punt. but it is definately a case of my eyes being bigger than my belly (or whatever) I log online. I browse. I pick. I panic, what if there is someone prettier, better, value for money? It is definately a case of too much out there of too high a quality. I know it is all down to Photoshop and the number of stunners out there is probably a lot lower- except the women of this site who are all top grade stunners!!!)

So, I picked one woman and made a booking. It was really a desperate choice, she had great reviews. But as soon as I booked I thought "oh" and started wishing I'd booked someone else.

I'm sure she will be great, her service impeccible and her beauty camera shy.

I think when you punt infrequently the fear of picking a "wrong 'un" looms large

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I know it's a cliche but looks aren't everything (well, within reason). At the beginning of the year I went to see a girl whose pics I could see had been photo shopped but who was offering what I wanted and had been on my shortlist for a while. When I got there I could see that the photo shopping had been very heavy handed but actually I found her attractive as she was and she gave me an excellent time. I asked her about the photo shopping and she said that she had complained about the extent to which her pics had been altered but the agency/agencies had insisted.

So look on the bright side, you might end up having a lovely time! :)

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Thats the beauty of this hobby, you are spoilt for choice as you say, thats why it is important to be clear and what sort of booking you want, and what type of escort you are looking for.

Use the hotlist to put a few you fancy on, and think about if they will agree to what type of booking you are after,

After a few weeks you should be clearer in your head who the next escort you want to meet will be,

Some of us have pre-planned bookings made in our head about a month ahead, so there are all differant ways to select the escort. but yes I see what you mean about being spoilt for choice, just be honest with yourself and select an escort that appeals to you.

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There is no certainty in this game, many but not all would say. That is because it is about people, you and the lady.

I think you just have to hope you learn from any mistakes and it helps a lot not to risk spending more money than you are willing to risk on what might turn out to be a mediocre or even a bad punt.

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I know it's a cliche but looks aren't everything (well, within reason).

In my view it is far more about the chemistry.

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I have that problem in restaurants. Everybody elses meal seems to look better than mine when they arrive...

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One of the "problems" (albeit a self-inflicted "problem") we seem to face as modern consumers in today's Western Capitalism is too much choice everywhere. And we don't have the time or the money to enjoy it all.

At some point you have to accept you won't get to sleep with all the hot girls on AW and Punternet, just as I have to had accept I won't get to see every amazing landscape in the world before I die.

The trick to enjoying life as you get older is to appreciate all the things we do find time to do.

So enjoy your time with this girl you did decide to visit, and don't worry about the girls you did not choose just as when I'm in Canada next year driving through the gorgeous Rocky Mountains I have been to many times before I won't be regretting where I could have been instead.

Let the regrets go.

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I have decided to live forever, then the choices are less frentic.

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I have decided to live forever, then the choices are less frentic.

Live forever? Always the wise choice.

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In my view it is far more about the chemistry.

Except that you can't evaluate chemistry when deciding who to book for the first time. The chemistry factor comes into play once you've seen her for the first time and you know that you're gonna see her again.

But when making a booking from a choice of WGs you've not seen, then looks (on their profile) and FRs are the essential guide for determining who you're gonna book. :cool:

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Except that you can't evaluate chemistry when deciding who to book for the first time. The chemistry factor comes into play once you've seen her for the first time and you know that you're gonna see her again.

But when making a booking from a choice of WGs you've not seen, then looks (on their profile) and FRs are the essential guide for determining who you're gonna book. :cool:

Agreed. If only you could evaluate chemistry from a photo. But as you can't the only thing to do is take the plunge and hope for the best, rather than fear the worst.

Anyway, now that the OP has decided to live for ever he can work his way through the London Escort Guide or whatever and if he has a bad punt he knows he will live (and live, and live) to punt another day. :)

By the way,Lessingham, how do you plan to fund your immortality? :) :)

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I have decided to live forever, then the choices are less frentic.

The problem is not how long you have, it's how long the girls hang around. There are never enough opportunities to get around all the girls for as many times as we like before they disappear.

I thought for a while that cloning myself might help, but now realise that it is the bank account that needs cloning. :(

My own solution to your dilemma Lessingham, is to plan four, five or six punts ahead. Even if your plans never materialise in the way you put them on paper, at least you feel less like you have made a wrong choice as you still have the different punts to look forward to. If you think about it the other way round, if you had chosen another girl, your current pick would still be pencilled in for the future, so you win either way.

Er, actually, I just looked at my schedule and I realise I have pencilled in my next 15 punts, complete with names, dates, durations and excuses for why I am out of the house ;) ! Maybe that's a little bit over the top.

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