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I thought i would post about The Site and the huge waste of time that it is. I contacted a lady via text and arranged a dinner date arrangement for an evening 5 days ahead. Or so i thought anyway. I had planned everything and was ready....on the day itself i sent 3 texts asking for the final arrangements and time/place to meet etc. But no response and i was left high and dry on the evening. This has now happened three times in 3 weeks with different ladies from the site. So i am sitting here with enough money for 3 dates and no responses. And to think the ladies on AW are concerned with time wasting clients when i am nothing of the sort. Sometimes you have to wonder why we bother.....

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I thought i would post about The Site and the huge waste of time that it is. I contacted a lady via text and arranged a dinner date arrangement for an evening 5 days ahead. Or so i thought anyway. I had planned everything and was ready....on the day itself i sent 3 texts asking for the final arrangements and time/place to meet etc. But no response and i was left high and dry on the evening. This has now happened three times in 3 weeks with different ladies from the site. So i am sitting here with enough money for 3 dates and no responses. And to think the ladies on AW are concerned with time wasting clients when i am nothing of the sort. Sometimes you have to wonder why we bother.....

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I am sorry to hear that but please don't tarnish us all with the same brush as I advertise on AW and I am anything but a time waster, as an escort its not in my best interest to waste someone's time. Occasionally i've had to cancel but only with a good reason.

I suspect your not doing your homework properly as its unusual to happen so many times. Maybe your going for girls with not alot of feedback/reviews. Did you speak to them on the phone? As for me I need a phone call to make arrangements as its far more personal than a txt or email. A txt or email is fine to keep in touch up until our booking once we've spoken though. Or have you booked thes ladies then at the last minute made a strange request that would maybe put them off?

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A mention of who these ladies are on Adultwork Dare81 might help prevent other users of this site falling into the same situation. I am pretty tolerant of cancellations where some kind of comms occurs. Its one of those things and have done it myself on occasion. However, simply no showing and leaving someone high and dry (punter or prostitute) is a very poor show.

Its worth bearing in mind that most ladies regard a booking as provisional only, until firm confirmation on the day is exchanged.I know you attempted to confirm, but without the equivalent response from her, there is no way I would have showed up for the booking. Of course if you had booked the hotel and were there anyway ...

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This doesn't sound like decent behaviour at all. Did you agree a definite time and a confirmation call?Did you not discuss the time the dinner date would start and agree one of you would reserve a table for two when making the booking?If not that doesn't sound very organised at all. That way both parties know what's going on - quite a few don't understand why there is a need to phone to confirm but in this world where folk are unreliable and discretion a must it's essential. I always say verbal contact makes everything more likely to happen, it's much easier to decline a line of text than a real person.

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This doesn't sound like decent behaviour at all. Did you agree a definite time and a confirmation call?That way both parties know what's going on - quite a few don't understand why this is important but in this world where folk are unreliable and discretion a must it's essential. I always say verbal contact makes everything more likely to happen, it's easy to decline a line of text than a real person.

Exactly what I was trying to say, I'm so shit whith words lol x

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Exactly what I was trying to say, I'm so shit whith words lol x

Thanks, by the way sorry the OP is feeling so let down. There are ladies out there who will accept your booking and be organised with it.

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I have been seeing a young lady over the last five years, who I first met via AW. Back then she had a phone number listed. Not long after meeting her she came off the site. She has recently started advertising with them again. But, she has nothing to do to get clients. The only way to contact her is through their email system. She does not answer any emails sent to her, that is done by the site. Apparently, they have a number of women employed to deal with the emails. If she gets a booking she then pays them a percentage to cover the cost of someone else doing all the pre booking work for her. Perhaps this is the reason why you got no response. It may be that the lady you wished to see couldn't make the booking and their 'office worker' just left it at that. Or, the girl you wished to see didn't exist in the first place. Which wouldn't suprise me.

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Hey

I am sorry to hear that but please don't tarnish us all with the same brush as I advertise on AW and I am anything but a time waster, as an escort its not in my best interest to waste someone's time. Occasionally i've had to cancel but only with a good reason.

I suspect your not doing your homework properly as its unusual to happen so many times. Maybe your going for girls with not alot of feedback/reviews. Did you speak to them on the phone? As for me I need a phone call to make arrangements as its far more personal than a txt or email. A txt or email is fine to keep in touch up until our booking once we've spoken though. Or have you booked thes ladies then at the last minute made a strange request that would maybe put them off?

xx

It was just a normal dinner/date arrangement arranged via Text message. On each occasion i attempted to phone the person on the day several times and just reached voicemail, so i left yet another message on that and again no response. They are offering a service, i am always polite, and i have (an ever growing) the money to pay for the service. And guess what? Tonight it has just happened again!!!

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I would always talk to lady on the phone before making a booking. My only exception is for repeat visits, of which there have only been a dozen or so in the last 8 years.

I think it must be almost impossible to arrange via text alone.

You can tell so much more from chat, even if it only last a minute or so.

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It was just a normal dinner/date arrangement arranged via Text message. On each occasion i attempted to phone the person on the day several times and just reached voicemail, so i left yet another message on that and again no response. They are offering a service, i am always polite, and i have (an ever growing) the money to pay for the service. And guess what? Tonight it has just happened again!!!

I would suggest to never make a bookings by the text message.Professional/genuine escort will always communitacte over the phone .( I would never arrange a meeting without speaking over the phone).This is the basic way and the first way of screening the people ( for the client or for the escort)

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Yeah definately always speak to someone first before taking it seriously. My phone number is on the internet so can you imagine how many txt's a day I get? LOADS let me tell you, thats why I ignore each and every one of them unless its someone i've met before cause I think a genuine person will call and speak to me, texts are rarely or never genuine. I imagine it would be the same for a client so I would say in future maybe dont book someone you've not spoken to personally and make sure you do your homework properly on the girl aswell then hopefully that wouldnt happen again. x

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I would always talk to lady on the phone before making a booking. My only exception is for repeat visits, of which there have only been a dozen or so in the last 8 years.

I think it must be almost impossible to arrange via text alone.

You can tell so much more from chat, even if it only last a minute or so.

The lady tonight exists because i saw her a few weeks back for an hour in-call appointment and it went well.

She just never responded to the AW booking at all and never answered a phone call.

Another evening wasted.

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Yeah definately always speak to someone first before taking it seriously. My phone number is on the internet so can you imagine how many txt's a day I get? LOADS let me tell you, thats why I ignore each and every one of them unless its someone i've met before cause I think a genuine person will call and speak to me, texts are rarely or never genuine. I imagine it would be the same for a client so I would say in future maybe dont book someone you've not spoken to personally and make sure you do your homework properly on the girl aswell then hopefully that wouldnt happen again. x

I have seen the one i was supposed to be seeing tonight on a date. She exists and the in-call went well a month ago. Of course i'm new to all this but good service and responses are the least i expect.

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The lady tonight exists because i saw her a few weeks back for an hour in-call appointment and it went well.

She just never responded to the AW booking at all and never answered a phone call.

Another evening wasted.

In that case its her loss, Search for someone else who you think is more reliable and at least you still have all your cash x

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I have seen the one i was supposed to be seeing tonight on a date. She exists and the in-call went well a month ago. Of course i'm new to all this but good service and responses are the least i expect.

I agree with you, a response even to let you know she couldnt make it would have went a long way. You've maybe chosen a wacky one who doesnt take her work too seriously. There are lots of girls who work, make enough money to go partying for a week and so can be unreliable, maybe she's one of them, who knows? x

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I have been seeing a young lady over the last five years, who I first met via AW. Back then she had a phone number listed. Not long after meeting her she came off the site. She has recently started advertising with them again. But, she has nothing to do to get clients. The only way to contact her is through their email system. She does not answer any emails sent to her, that is done by the site. Apparently, they have a number of women employed to deal with the emails. If she gets a booking she then pays them a percentage to cover the cost of someone else doing all the pre booking work for her. Perhaps this is the reason why you got no response. It may be that the lady you wished to see couldn't make the booking and their 'office worker' just left it at that. Or, the girl you wished to see didn't exist in the first place. Which wouldn't suprise me.

I was not aware AW offered an email answering service, more like some ladies work together in groups and have someone answering for them. This isn't the norm for many independents and I certainly don't have an 'office worker' reading my emails.

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I was not aware AW offered an email answering service, more like some ladies work together in groups and have someone answering for them. This isn't the norm for many independents and I certainly don't have an 'office worker' reading my emails.

I'll second that x

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I agree with you, a response even to let you know she couldnt make it would have went a long way. You've maybe chosen a wacky one who doesnt take her work too seriously. There are lots of girls who work, make enough money to go partying for a week and so can be unreliable, maybe she's one of them, who knows? x

You may be correct on that. But the frustration is immense...building up to a date (i have never been on one) and then nothing.

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I was not aware AW offered an email answering service, more like some ladies work together in groups and have someone answering for them. This isn't the norm for many independents and I certainly don't have an 'office worker' reading my emails.

I'll second that x

I never suggested that all girls on AW have the same work ethics, and I apologise if any of you thought I did. I have met a few girls on AW and all have been good, but I have also experienced the same problems Dare81 has. I hope you have better luck in the future. But I think we all know the perils of using that site. It can be very hit and miss at times.

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I completely understand your frustration and your bad luck seems worrying. You do say you are new to this but there appears nothing in your process that would suggest you were missing a trick towards getting success though, with respect, we don't know absolutely all the details.

But what I would say from knowing some girls on aw that the rubbish they get all too often from punters has to be seen/told to you to be believed.

That does not excuse the girls' behaviour in your case but considering the increased vulnerability wgs must feel it is worth mentioning the other side. I would never have believed what went on until I heard the tales these friends told me about.

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Yeah definately always speak to someone first before taking it seriously. My phone number is on the internet so can you imagine how many txt's a day I get? LOADS let me tell you, thats why I ignore each and every one of them unless its someone i've met before cause I think a genuine person will call and speak to me, texts are rarely or never genuine. I imagine it would be the same for a client so I would say in future maybe dont book someone you've not spoken to personally and make sure you do your homework properly on the girl aswell then hopefully that wouldnt happen again. x

Occasionally there might be a reason for a genuine client to text rather than phone. Personally one of my particular social anxieties / phobias is using the phone. I get anxious I'll sound like an idiot, stutter, etc. I dislike making phone calls in general for this reason. I know it's quite common for socially anxious people to have this (irrational) fear. So if a profile states bookings can be made by text I've done this, and had a few successful meetings doing so. Obviously I still check feedback first and confirm nearer the time. I know it seems silly since meeting would logically be far more anxiety provoking than calling, but for me that's not the case!

Obviously I understand there are very good reasons an escort might prefer/require a call, and in that case I just bite the bullet and do so. Certainly wouldn't text if the profile clearly states a call is required. But just pointing out not every texting client is necessarily a time waster (though I'm sure many are).

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I never suggested that all girls on AW have the same work ethics, and I apologise if any of you thought I did. I have met a few girls on AW and all have been good, but I have also experienced the same problems Dare81 has. I hope you have better luck in the future. But I think we all know the perils of using that site. It can be very hit and miss at times.

The way your post was worded made it sound as if AW themselves had 'staff' who answered emails on behalf of SPs, which as far as I'm aware doesn't happen.

If the OP has already met one of these ladies then this changes things a little, quite a few will arrange bookings via text once they've met someone but to ignore a returning client is a bit off and very short-sighted.

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The way your post was worded made it sound as if AW themselves had 'staff' who answered emails on behalf of SPs, which as far as I'm aware doesn't happen.

I can only pass on information that has been told to me.

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I can only pass on information that has been told to me.

Sounds to me as if she has someone to answer her emails for her, they probably look after her profile too but is more likely to be one of the many 'groups' which get set up by individuals offering such services on that site.

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said it so many times always phone phone phone phone all girls I know in this biz are not sat on a computer 24 hours a day and will prb look at email hours later.

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