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Do you ever wish your client had booked for longer, not a money thing more of you are enjoying yourself and his company?

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Yes erm and yes nowt else to say really lol.

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Do you ever wish your client had booked for longer, not a money thing more of you are enjoying yourself and his company?

Sorry but this is a daft question :)

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Do you ever wish your client had booked for longer, not a money thing more of you are enjoying yourself and his company?

Yes I met a lovely man from here today (i wont say his name) and he was with me nearly 2 hours at no extra charge as I enjoyed his company. I only have a small amount of appointments slots per day, I try to space them out as much as poss so I can spend the hour or longer with them if we need it and obviously dont charge any extra x

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Yes I met a lovely man from here today (i wont say his name) and he was with me nearly 2 hours at no extra charge as I enjoyed his company. I only have a small amount of appointments slots per day, I try to space them out as much as poss so I can spend the hour or longer with them if we need it and obviously dont charge any extra x

i will have to book you

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i will have to book you

Your at the winde up clearly as on the other thread you basically called me a money grabbing whor* lol but whatevs!!

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kendra stop biting, i love a wind up, but your making it to easy!

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i will have to book you

Mmmmmmm why not book me instead. Sometimes I'd be happy to come out of retirement to refresh my DOMME skills..... You wind up merchant you...... :eek:

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Do you ever wish your client had booked for longer, not a money thing more of you are enjoying yourself and his company?

No I never have wished that.....

If I enjoy his company and want more personal time with him, I just say so and have the extra time, very few would say no, so no point wishing about it.

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kendra stop biting, i love a wind up, but your making it to easy!

Stop it, winde someone else up, I dont like it :(

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Yes I met a lovely man from here today (i wont say his name) and he was with me nearly 2 hours at no extra charge as I enjoyed his company. I only have a small amount of appointments slots per day, I try to space them out as much as poss so I can spend the hour or longer with them if we need it and obviously dont charge any extra x

Oh Sheesh........... Kendra, consider yourself told off. If I said something like this (which I would not anyway)... I would have been shot down in flames for touting. I am sure you are a lovely thing, but do you realise if you post along these lines you are more or less telling everyone they can have extra time? Do you have an hourly rate> You just made a mockery of it. I know you are new on here. Take care x x

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Mmmmmmm why not book me instead. Sometimes I'd be happy to come out of retirement to refresh my DOMME skills..... You wind up merchant you...... :eek:

Aghh success, cancel that online petition - just form an orderly queue (behind me!) lol x :D

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Oh Sheesh........... Kendra, consider yourself told off. If I said something like this (which I would not anyway)... I would have been shot down in flames for touting. I am sure you are a lovely thing, but do you realise if you post along these lines you are more or less telling everyone they can have extra time? Do you have an hourly rate> You just made a mockery of it. I know you are new on here. Take care x x

I never thought about that Sarah. Kendra are you on Saafe? If not it may be a good idea to get on there and talk to the other girls about how to deal with the forums. The girls have to be careful how they put things (especially here) because touting in particular is frowned on. Other girls don't like it either. I can get away with it because I'm not working, but couldn't do it when I was for a couple of reasons.

My friends and I always worked closely together to ensure that we helped each other stay safe, we would try and ensure that we toured at different times etc so that we were maximising our bookings and not affecting each other that way. But once one of the girls got wind of the fact that I would often go the extra mile for a client I enjoyed and keep him behind for my own pleasure. This did not sit well with her and she went mad about it, quite rightly pointing out that she did not do that, she had different work ethics to mine and by me doing it her clients were expecting the same from her. Of course I still carried on working they way that was best for me but somethings are best kept between your clients and yourself. Sarah is also right when she says that if you make something like public you all your clients will think they are going to get that.

I remember years back when first posting here there was a long thread about overnights. At that time I was doing roughly three overnights a week, sometimes more. I was working within a then niche market, but it was perfectly do-able. I made the mistake of coming on here and saying as much, boy did I get some flack for that. Girls that were not within the niche market saw it as boasting and went for me, their clients and supporters took it even further and really gave me flack. At the time I couldn't understand why because I wasn't boasting I was just being truthfull but in hindsight I can understand that it could have been taken as touting and rubbing their faces in it. Stupid politics I know but you have to careful.

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And I must add, its also bad for the clients to stay much longer with the escorts, as it taking advantage of a situation, if you want to see the escort for a brew thats okay, but drink it and go, dont expect or try to outstay your welcome, if you want to spend time in the ladies company, then ask her if she will offer you a special rate for socialising and no sexual expectations.

When someone hears about this, we all want to have the same treatment, and it can breed contempt when its not available.

A brew and then go is the best policy.

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And I must add, its also bad for the clients to stay much longer with the escorts, as it taking advantage of a situation, if you want to see the escort for a brew thats okay, but drink it and go, dont expect or try to outstay your welcome, if you want to spend time in the ladies company, then ask her if she will offer you a special rate for socialising and no sexual expectations.

When someone hears about this, we all want to have the same treatment, and it can breed contempt when its not available.

A brew and then go is the best policy.

..or say nowt.

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Oh Sheesh........... Kendra, consider yourself told off. If I said something like this (which I would not anyway)... I would have been shot down in flames for touting. I am sure you are a lovely thing, but do you realise if you post along these lines you are more or less telling everyone they can have extra time? Do you have an hourly rate> You just made a mockery of it. I know you are new on here. Take care x x

I know I'm quite new here but I don't see anything wrong with this. Just because one lady does something 'special' with a particular punter doesn't mean anyone else should expect the same treatment.

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It's a really tricky balance to do actually. Sometimes I might go over by a few minutes if the chap is close to coming for example and sometimes if the sex is really good and I have nothing on then I might be a bit more generous with my time! However, I rarely give much extra time because it sets a precedent that I don't want, even if he's a really nice guy and we're just chatting. It's sort of how lines get blurred. In my new days when I was way too generous I realised some men took advantage of this and instead of booking an hour booked half knowing full well I wouldn't clock watch.

Saying that, a lot of men are really respectful and make sure they keep within their time and it seems like they are very conscious of not being labelled as someone who takes the piss. Ironic thing is, it's usually these guys who I would happily run over with!

Then there are the men who drive me wild with lust and I think in another time and another place I would so see you as a potential lover/boyfriend!

Oh and then there are the ones who REALLY take the piss and eek out every second, demand a shower after time is up, take forever getting dressed and then hang about chatting so you have to practically usher them out the door like a sheep dog!

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I know I'm quite new here but I don't see anything wrong with this. Just because one lady does something 'special' with a particular punter doesn't mean anyone else should expect the same treatment.

Sadly, lots of people's minds don't work like that, especially when it comes to timings. Just because it shouldn't happen, doesn't mean it won't!

I don't mind staying a little bit over and don't set a timer to jump up and throw my clothes on but it's a balance....

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If someone does tend to overrun the booking with me, I always ask them if I owe then something extra for the extra time, and ive never yet been told yes, but if I do over run and spend some time at the end chatting and drinking coffee, or in some other type of engagement, then it means I have really enjoyed myself and will return to see them.

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I know I'm quite new here but I don't see anything wrong with this. Just because one lady does something 'special' with a particular punter doesn't mean anyone else should expect the same treatment.

Sadly not all have your standards, there are those out there that think we are there solely for them and will almost definately think that if we offer one we should offer all.

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Oh Sheesh........... Kendra, consider yourself told off. If I said something like this (which I would not anyway)... I would have been shot down in flames for touting. I am sure you are a lovely thing, but do you realise if you post along these lines you are more or less telling everyone they can have extra time? Do you have an hourly rate> You just made a mockery of it. I know you are new on here. Take care x x

I have just returned from a long weekend off work!

Thanks for your comment but really? I understand touting is frownd apon but really? Instead of picking up what I wrote and twisting it maybe refere back to the original topic. I was simply answering a question that's all. Yes I am new on here and I should think before I speak incase I offend someone which is never my intention but if i'm having to walk on egg shells I'd rather have nothing to do with this forum as this is really getting out of hand now as literally everything I say is wrong.

Kendra x

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Can I just make it clear to all I do not offer free appointmtments ever, just meant I dont rush people. Every appointment is different, every client is different.

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Yes I met a lovely man from here today (i wont say his name) and he was with me nearly 2 hours at no extra charge as I enjoyed his company. I only have a small amount of appointments slots per day, I try to space them out as much as poss so I can spend the hour or longer with them if we need it and obviously dont charge any extra x

Ah, touting and what are you going to do when everybody arrives at your door expecting another 2 hours free on top of what they have paid for.

Oh Sheesh........... Kendra, consider yourself told off. If I said something like this (which I would not anyway)... I would have been shot down in flames for touting. I am sure you are a lovely thing, but do you realise if you post along these lines you are more or less telling everyone they can have extra time? Do you have an hourly rate> You just made a mockery of it. I know you are new on here. Take care x x

Absolutely Sarah :)

I have just returned from a long weekend off work!

Thanks for your comment but really? I understand touting is frownd apon but really? Instead of picking up what I wrote and twisting it maybe refere back to the original topic. I was simply answering a question that's all. Yes I am new on here and I should think before I speak incase I offend someone which is never my intention but if i'm having to walk on egg shells I'd rather have nothing to do with this forum as this is really getting out of hand now as literally everything I say is wrong.

Kendra x

Yes really Kendra.

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Well Danish Pia do me a favour will ya and have me taken off this site, I feel like I have to wear a muzzle over my face like hannible lector incase I say something that aint right, Its boring me to tears, Thanks!

P.S I dont need to tout for clients, nor would I want to on this site, no offense to the nice people!

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